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privaldo:
No, this is not just a one time occurrence, it happens and we must acknowledge it.

What do you irresponsible sex, or you mean sex between two people of legal age is "irresponsible" because they are unmarried. People can choose to have sex as long as they are above the stipulated legal age, and if a pregnancy occurs the girl reserves the sole right to either give birth to the child or terminate foetus prematurely because nobody would bear the pre or post pregnancy complications with her.

I didn't say it a one time occurrence I said its an occurrence out of billions of occurrences please, get the difference ejor

I am in support of two responsible adults having consensual sex and having it responsibly.

There are so many way to prevent pregnancy and abortion should be an option only if she was raped, had incest and d pregnancy leads up to the death of the woman. Any other reason is irresponsible and stupid

If u can't Bleep responsibly then u shouldn't be fucking at all

That's why we teach sex education, use of contraceptives and sterilization to both genders

privaldo:
How is female rights liberalism and feminism progressivism? Can a liberal nation end at being liberal and choose not to progress further?

If you can give women equity why can't you make them your equals, is there anything wrong in it?

If you suggest that women should enforce the use of condoms, I hope you would also educate men who choose to have raw sex at all cost.

What do you call underage sex when the person is above the legal age of 18 and mind you not everybody is religious, after all the country gives freedom of worship and some religions practiced in the country put no ban on the so called pre-marital sex.

Women's rights movement in history has always been fighting for equity and never for equality.

3rd wave feminist are after equality

An example of a conservative nation turned liberal and turned progressive is France during the French revolution wen they removed every conservative value in the society as at that time.
U can do ur own research about it

We educate both genders on sex education, use of contraceptives, condoms, sterilization and even give them adoption policies

There's no place on earth that they legalize underage sex if u know pls tell me the name of the country

privaldo:
No, we can be all equals because we are an advanced race different from the animal kingdom. Women can do all men can do and vice verse, no human being regardless of gender greater or more entitled than another.

You talked of shits hitting the fan, when Covid-19 struck countries that handled it better like Finland, New Zealand and Germany are all being led by this same women who don't deserve to equals to men. Almost every country led by men are battling to control it and are still clueless on what to do.

New Zealand had an increase in suicide, child poverty and family domestic violence during the lockdown nd even after it sef

privaldo:
It's not any sort of cultural conservatism, let's look at Iran for example, before the Iranian Muslim revolution, Tehran was a free nation the laws were not stringent but when the Islamists took over they changed Tehran for the worse, suppressing people's right and their way of living. This is a modern era and such cultures/traditions/beliefs need to end for the society to progress further. Saudi Arabia, UAE, Jordan, and Qatar are already trying to amend their beliefs to suit the modern era, so why can't Iran and Iraq do it.

No, I am not being emotional in my reasoning, I am only being logical that one party can't suffer and the other roams free, it happens here in Nigeria a lot. I also am justifying the termination of foetus at a premature stage, rather I am taking about giving a woman her future and the right to choose.

U are just using an occurrence out of billions of occurrences that can b used to justify or not justify abortion.

Do u know majority of abortion cases in Europe and USA is because of irresponsible sex and not rape, incest and pregnancy leading to death of the woman uhn

PerfectlyPerfect:
I'm not in support of gay and lesbianism but I'm in support of the assistance the feminist movement aided to the protesters during the protests

Fool feminism comes wit LGBTQ

Even during the EndSars protest, on twitter #Queerlivesmatter once trended

Or u are not on twitter and you didn't see it

PerfectlyPerfect:
Just read what you typed and tell ask yourself this question; Do you have sense?

Get the Bleep out of here u bloody pig

Dullard

M very sure you don't know anything about feminism

SilverNorGold:
My brother, No EQUALITY ANYWHERE.. I challenge you to cite any instance of equality anywhere.. America equal to Nigeria? Or you are equal to President Buhari? True equality DOESN'T AND CAN NEVER EXIST, I CHALLENGE YOU.. Cite any case where we can have true equality at play.

The equality the law is trying to guarantee is equality in opportunity. Women were denied most opportunities due to their gender. White and black people, etc. Even this is extremely difficult to achieve.. The truth is that there are so many factors that will frustrate the equality utopia.. Limited resources, quest for power, evolution/nature.. etc.. For gender, evolution made men in charge in the human kingdom.. The same evolution made women superior in the Spotted Hyena territory.. It didn't make both equal.. Humans are different because we are far the most intelligent animals. We even have people fighting for animal rights.. Some don't even eat animals because they feel they are like humans.. If humans can do this for animals, why not our own kind, the women? Yet it doesn't make us equal..

When shit hits the fan, women will be relegated and men will take the lead.. It's how it is. THAT'S HOW NATURE MADE HUMANS..

I honestly do hope Male hyenas are also fighting for gender equality in their own world.

God bless you sir

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privaldo:
Arab women protest in Saudi Arabia, Jordan, Qatar and many other Arab nations including Iran, you can make use of Google to confirm.

There is no third wave of feminist or feminism, that is a conspiracy theory created by people who are jobless and don't mean well. The conspiracy is just like saying, the world will today because of 5G.

As for the abortion it is a very simple case, a young boy and a young girl engage in a sex romp, the girl gets pregnant in the process. After some weeks, she starts to deal with the pregnancy while the boy moves on with his life like nothing happened. This event shatters the girls life, while the boy continues on his life goals and the girl has to spend some years of her life to look after a kid that she had with the boy.

Now ask yourself after this scenario, I displayed is it fair to the girl child to suffer alone? I mean they both engaged in the affair, so why does one party have to suffer for it while the other party lives a carefree life? The abortion is only for early stage pregnancy, where the girl has seen she can't take care of the child.

Women's rights is different from feminism

Women's Rights is liberalism while Feminism is Progressivism



Human beings are not equal so I don't understand how male and female can be equal



Women's rights fought for equity and not equality, feminism is fighting for equality and not equity



Equity is giving people equal playing field to showcase their talents and competency amongst others



Equality is allowing affirmative actions and doesn't necessarily need competency

Abortion is only allowed in rape cases, incest and pregnancy leading to death of the woman. It's legalized in Nigeria and it is restrictive to this three cases

In ur case described we either recommend sex education, sterilization, condoms and adoption policies and not abortion

We don't encourage premarital sex and underage sex in Nigeria

Neddstark:
Una no dey shame. A bunch of feminists used you all as pawns in their chess game. They incited you to turn Endsars to disrupt the government while they were busy planning to put their people in power and encourage homosexuality.

Aswear u are very on point

But emotional people especially emotional idiats can't see this jeeezzz

Farki:
What is feminism?

Women's Rights is liberalism while Feminism is Progressivism



Human beings are not equal so I don't understand how male and female can be equal



Women's rights fought for equity and not equality, feminism is fighting for equality and not equity



Equity is giving people equal playing field to showcase their talents and competency amongst others



Equality is allowing affirmative actions and doesn't necessarily need competency

PerfectlyPerfect:
I've come to realize that no matter how tyrannical, stupid or silly a government is, there'll always be people demented enough to support it. It's a pity I share the same country with you and your type. Anyways, you all are entitled to your opinion, no matter how foolish the opinion may be. I wish you goodluck in your stupidity

U are very stupid and emotional that you are so myopic and you can't see that EndSars movement was a leftist progressive political agenda disguising under a genuine message that wanted to unseat buhari and cause Nigeria to enter anarchy and chaos. Also the foolish feminist coalition planned on passing progressive political ideologies like radicalized feminism, LGBTQ and abortion

But u can't see that cos you are so dumb and useless

Idiat!!!!

IamAngelica:
Exactly it comes naturally for her to want to do these things if she loves you but it doesn't mean that she's wrong if she chooses not to or that she should be taken for granted if she decides to.

Exactly and she should not fight her nature and accept it with her all

Venerealisles:
Yes, this is my first post on nairaland, and all I have to say is, I am a Feminist!!! A proud one at that, I know these little nairaland boys will come for me but I don't care!!
I have a message for y'all, we don't need your money to be happy, we don't need your d#ck to be satisfied, we can do without y'all.
Fellow ladies, lets keep up the movement, the more they realize they ain't shit, the better for them.

Thank God cause we know u ain't a wife material jeeeeezzzzz

IamAngelica:
Salient point noted

Now u don't confuse women's rights with feminism

They are both different ideologies entirely

IamAngelica:
She should do it because she WANTS to, not because he told her to

Yes she must not be shamed or belittled for wanting to but she should feel joyful in wanting to cos it is her feminine nature to want to

Very gooddddddd

This stupid people trying to pass leftist progressive political agendas under the guise of EndSars movement

They should be dealt with

Regex:
Emotional people wants the truth soaked in a vanilla strawberry dip..

Exactly brotherly jeez!

President Trump Pardons Michael Flynn..!!

He also deserves to get all the damages, including punitive ones, from Mueller and the other corrupted individuals.

I think it’s going to get better. The gag order is gone. I imagine Flynn can start talking and taking down the swamp. Sidney Powell is Gen. Flynn's attorney so maybe he will be a part of what she exposes.

Btw...
He told them nothing because there was nothing to tell. Plead guilty because he was trying to save his son. No telling what he was threatened with.

With that said...

The DOJ doesn’t decide innocence or guilt, the liberal judge, Sullivan in this case was hell bent on Flynn being charged. The DOJ filed for a dismissal and the Judge, in an unprecedented ruling denied it.

So again to be clear, DOJ told Judge Sullivan to drop it, and he wouldn’t! Sullivan needs disbarred!

Anyhow...

They used the Logan act on him. An obsolete law. Biden suggested it. Why wasn’t Obama charged with the Logan act when he told the Russia... we’ll talk after I’m in?

It criminalizes an unauthorized American from talking with foreign governments who have disputes with us. Flynn was on President Trump’s transition team and talked to the Russian ambassador, just like Biden who is not pres-elect has been talking to these foreign leaders. Hypocrisy! They used it anyway and then threatened him and his family if he did not plead guilty, so to protect his family, he fell on the sword so to speak.

To bad the people in the deep state couldn't be sued personally for this fiasco... I’ll never never never understand how the left can get away with so much destruct, personal vindictiveness and destruct to others and still walk among us unscathed without persecution!!! WHY?

I’ll tell you why, the corrupted investigating the corrupted. The corrupted protecting the corrupted. Plain and simple..!!

Only total exoneration will suffice! What was done to this man and his family was utterly disgraceful.

The only thing that I would add, may those that have done him wrong receive Karma quickly and frequently.

Apparently you lefties didn’t hear that a judge stopped PA from certifying.

In PA ...it’s the state legislature that was at the hearing and they are the ones who make the final certification of the election results. The irregularities and massive fraud trust and believe they will not certify that election. And if PA steps up to set an example, Michigan and Georgia could very likely follow suit.

I wish our so called news would report the whole truth to the people. The PA legislature is not going to certify or award its 20 electoral votes to Joe Biden and if all illegal ballots are thrown out ...President Trump is winning this state. That’s the truth and the whole truth!

PA is just one of so many issues, 1.8 million absentee ballots sent out, 2.5 million counted (that's a problem). Can we at least stop with the "there's no evidence" B.S. now! We were never supposed to find out!!!

In any case...

I watched every second! I believe they had amazing evidence. Lets just say the senators and representatives that were there were very upset about the election results and said this was not a mishap it ..was intentional! I’m positive PA goes to President Trump and Nevada just announced they to will be having a hearing due to many irregularities.

Let's be frank... we all know just like Rudy Guilliani said there is a little fraud in all of our elections, negligible, but the testimony from eye witnesses and experts was overwhelming. I have been grasping with the reality that our society seems so willing to give up their freedoms and to turn a blind eye to some things, but if PA doesn't do something after what they heard today... there is no hope for our Republic.

To be honest, makes you wonder about all the other states that weren't considered battle ground states, like New Jersey.

No one cannot possibly discredit hundreds of every day Americans’ testimonies, expert testimony and real numbers (ya know, like the 1.8 mil requested ballots mailed out and the 2.5 mil returned? How’s that work). Please. Even if you are not a Trump supporter ...how can you turn a blind eye to all of this and either pretend it’s ok OR worse yet be OK with a corrupt election?

Every American should want the truth regardless of who ultimately wins!

In closing...

So my eyes were opened a little bit as to why the Democrats can’t see the corruption and fraud that took place in this election!

I was with a Democrat friend and her daughter today and when I shared some facts about the fraud that took place in the election, they were shocked! All they listen to is the mainstream media. You are not going to hear about election corruption by them. All the mainstream media says is that Trump is a poor loser and the Republicans need to accept that.

For you Democrats out there that truly and genuinely want to know the truth… Explore and research other avenues besides the mainstream media! Watch the actual videos of the Pennsylvania hearing today and many many more past and coming videos of evidence of huge fraud. After being with my friends today, I believe many Democrats believe what they’re told by the mainstream media and don’t research any further.

Love or hate President Trump ...doesn’t matter, but TRUTH should matter to you!

Khd95:
why do guys ask their girls to wash their clothes for them


i dont feel comfortable with that, even tho i have had a girl that voluntarily wanted to do that, i vehemently rejected it

I feel as the man u don't need to ask them to wash your clothes for u. If she doesn't volunteer to help U in washing ur clothes then why are u in that relationship. It's our tradition for women to b the home caretakers and if she can't show that little aspect of helping u wash ur clothes while still dating,I wonder what she will say she won't do wen u marry her. As a man u are the HEAD OF THE RELATIONSHIP.

THE DECISION TO REJECT THE HELP OFFERED FROM HIS LADY IS UP TO THE MAN.
BUT THE LADY SHOULD AT LEAST OFFER THE HELP IT SHOWS AND PORTRAYS HER FEMININITY

A relationship is not 50/50

A relationship is a team sports that has a leader,THE MAN and a supporter,THE LADY

IF U DON'T UNDERSTAND THIS THEN MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR YOU SHEKINA

IamAngelica:
Wait let me get this straight..is your girlfriend your house girl? To wash your clothes and sweep your house? I don't even understand you men these days..i understand that you don't like that she's generally lazy and uses YOUR money to fund her lifestyle but bringing your house chores into the picture is completely wrong because she's not your WIFE! Ordinary girlfriend and you want to enslave her. Have you ever asked her why she behaves like that? Why she's lazy for even sex? Might be deeper than you think. When you're calm, have a sit down with her and trash things out..please if you want someone to do your chores, do them yourself or hire somebody.

Wats bad in a woman washing Clothes for her man and doing the house chores if she's working or not

IamAngelica:
Completely agree with you and in real life, i don't tolerate any bigot that denigrates or derides women..the general assumptions are sickening too,they don't believe that i can work my ass off and reward myself by buying expensive things for myself or driving that expensive car or living that luxurious life..they don't believe you can do all that without a man in the picture as if your happiness as a woman is tied to a man..they pressure women into marriage because they think marriage or being "wife material" is all a woman is good for..you could cure cancer, end poverty and world hunger, stop the depletion of the ozone layer and it still wouldn't matter unless you're married..they tell women not to be too ambitous so that they don't threaten the men,so that they get good husbands..tell women to stay virgins for their husbands but don't tell men to do the same and then shame women for exploring their sexuality but hail their male counterparts..d matter plenty..God will help us, i didn't choose to be a woman.

Even yes everything u just typed is to the extreme for women but everything is done to help the woman keep and cherish her FEMININE NATURE.

The solution isn't 4 women to b equal to or like men

The solution is for both men and women to cherish their MASCULINITY AND FEMINITY respectively

I for one believe if a man can marry, have kids and become a successful career man or business man same also a woman can marry, have kids and become a successful career woman or business woman

IamAngelica:
If you are all for women's rights, then you're a feminist..Feminism itself has evolved but this is what the earliest form of feminism was about; equality

You are right feminist has evolved into something so insensible and unrealistic. I'm strongly against 3rd wave feminist.

Women's Rights is liberalism while Feminism is Progressivism

Human beings are not equal so I don't understand how male and female can be equal

Women's rights fought for equity and not equality, feminism is fighting for equality and not equity

Equity is giving people equal playing field to showcase their talents and competency amongst others

Equality is allowing affirmative actions and doesn't necessarily need competency

Regex:
I just realized something, as tough as we show ourselves, we are still emotional.

You try to point one guy in the right direction and he gets emotional, how do we learn?

How do one learn when he views every correction as an attack on his personality and masculinity?

Really, anyone who wants TRP to transform him into a better being should do away with emotions.

U can't sugarcoat the truth

U can't tell the truth in a nice way

Redpill isn't for snowflakes

If u can't handle it's better u don't attempt to learn

Yes Reno give it to them hot hot

All this oloshos and hoe celebrities wey wan eat their cake and have it tuehhhhhhh

Black is beautiful anyday anytime

5th wave feminist I love them so much, they teach u body and skin positivity and distinctively tell u the differences between a real Woman and a LovePeddler

THANK GOD I M A MAN AND NOT A WOMAN SWEARS CHAI SEE ENJOYMENT ����

Midas01:
See them hypocrites, if na women you'll be seeing "olosho" everywhere.

Yes now if na woman we go call amh ashewo sef na so we b

Everybody is a mothafucking hypocrite bro don't politicize it abeg

Break up with the bitch jo, u are a man there will always be better options jeez better MAN UP

Prostitution is supported by 5th wave feminist and its a good thing cos they understand they are whores and hoes so if u are a guy and u fall in love with them then Watever u see is Wat u get.

At least it's better than 3rd wave feminist.

I don't understand the heading but if u have the money spend it as u like bro

IamAngelica:
I'm a feminist too but this is not what feminism is about. Your post depicts hatred for men, when what you should hate is the inequality between both genders, how you already feel disadvantaged just for having a hole between your legs. Feminism to men is like what racism is to whites; they don't just get it and they never might because they're not victims. But most people think it's all about hating men and trying to turn everything to favor women while it's not. Feminism is about trying to turn everything to favor everyone irrespective of GENDER, that is what feminism is about. If you say you're a feminist, then you sit still and look pretty and wait for a man to pay your bills or give you his hard earned money or give a hate speech about men on SM, then slide into their DMs to beg for urgent 2K, then you're not. You're just misguided.Work for yourselves,stop waiting on guys and start doing (doesn't have to be something big) and watch how these men will respect you without even knowing it.

Please don't sugar coat feminism abeg

Feminism can and will never b a norm as long as we have conservatives like me around

I am all for women's rights but strongly detest feminism with my all!!!!

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