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Oldoinyolengai:
Your first sentence coined it all.
Some guys are being fooled by the presence of that hymen.
Girls can have that but they already swallowed liters of cums thru MouthAction etc. Is such a girl still virgin?

Dammytrager:
I don’t quite agree that women are not redpill aware, women understand hypergamy and they understand that the more beautiful they look, the more guys they will attract. That is why they invest a lot in the beauty which is their primary weapon in the sexual market place.

There is an industry dedicated to women beauty, cosmetics, hairs, surgeries, all this in a bid to make a woman more appealing and a lot, in fact majority of women are consumers in this industry. Also women try to flaunt their body or beauty on social media, to better advertise and position themselves to attract men.

Of course there can be blue pilled or beta women, but that is relative to the kind of man they are dealing with, if a woman meets an alpha that is red pill aware, there is high probability that she will submit and be beta to him. But with the man who doesn’t have a purpose in life and pedestalizing her, she will drop him and find the next available man above him (hypergamy).

Since women are working hard to position themselves in a favorable place in this market, we as men must also do the work to better our lives and put ourselves in a good position.

The red pill is a knowledge anyone can have, but it is the application and how you live your life that determines how well alpha or beta you can be. And as far as I am concerned women are doing very well in this domain.

WHAT IS REDPILL AWARENESS IN THE FIRSTPLACE

Oldoinyolengai:
All women were born virgins till when they test a dick for the first time.
Virginity symbolises a clean past but it doesn't guarantee a clean future.
Sometimes virgins end up becoming the worst version of a hoe immediately after the first dick.
Those cheating married women who even conceive outside their marital bed some of them were married virgins.
A guy deflowering a girl it only boost his ego but it doesn't give him sexual Monopoly over the girl.
What brings a man and a woman together is a temporal brains biochemistry that will one time fade away, so how long is a long term commitment?

Oldoinyolengai:
"TRP is all about controlling women by logic" Iol! Thanks.

Actually, I'm not opposing marrying virgins or proposing marrying hoes. Don't get me in that way, personally I've not come in terms with marriage. Relationship like other aspects of life is not like a mathematical problem where by following a certain set of procedures you will hit the right conclusion.

Modern virgins are not sexually pure as the previous virgins used to be. Today even underage girls are already exposed to the multitude of sex virtually. Most of them are losing their virginity far earlier before attaining marriageable age. If you want to deflower a girl you should take risk and go for those who are at least between 14-17 yrs old, yet can you marry any of them within that age?

Again the only time when testosterone levels correlated with success was when human life relied on the jungle economy. At present even women with their lower level of testosterone are becoming successful. In fact men who want to become successful need to be a society pleaser and a little bit sissified. Just see the way modern musicians, politicians and other business people are leaning towards blue pill world.
Man's Ego is like fire, it can cook food for you but if not handled properly it can turn your house into ashes.

Dammytrager:
It’s a pity this thread is becoming something else, approximately the last 5-7 pages is all about sex and women whoredom. Fine we all have little understanding about women nature and how hypergamy works.

Women primary weapon is their beauty, their body and their looks, the more beautiful a woman is the more men she attract, the more her ego and confidence is boosted, what she choose to do with this her choice, she can decide to LovePeddler around with it or choose to listen to her hypergamy call and find the best man she can get or find a man that she can be loyal to (this could be rare though) but the thing you as a man have no control over what a woman can do.

But the question is what does you as a man have to do? You want to become alpha correct, be the best version of yourself and attract women and even men ( who doesn’t want to associate with a successful person).

Just as women, men also have a primary weapon which is success (influence, fame, power, money), the more successful you are as a man the more attractive you become to a woman. Do you think the likes of Davido, Wizkid will actually really care about threads like this, hell no, they have women in abundance, so the success automatically makes them redpilled.

Why do you think it seems women are naturally red pilled, it is because they have options, when you have so many options, you don’t place too much importance on one of your options. When you have a lot of girls dying to have your attention or sleep with you, even if you haven’t heard of the red pill it will be difficult for you to simp, it is common sense.

The reason many of us are here is because are not at that level yet, most of us don’t have that abundance yet, that is why we are here to improve, become the best version of ourselves, if we keep talking about sex or women all day, it won’t make us alpha.

The red pill teaches us that women are hypergamous and will always go for the best men, also men are polygamous too, we will always want to taste and have different kind of women. You know what a woman’s weapon is and how she can use it, but you as a man also have your weapon. The only unfair advantage is that women’s weapon(beauty, looks, boobs, ass) comes by default, they don’t work for it, but you as a man have to work to be successful in life, you’ll fight your way to the top, and then you will have the abundance and your polygamous nature will kick in.

With the red pill knowledge, what we as men are left to do is to always strive to become better and try to be at the top because that is where the real deal is.
If you are the top already trust me, you will not be whining or being scornful about women whoredom or hypergamy on this thread, rather you understand the game, you’ll use it to your advantage.

Focus on your bettering your life in all aspect, women will chase you.

aribisala0:
That is your own perspective
You are not the only one with sense
Genuine maturity entails flexibility and acceptance of other people's choices
You do not know everything
No one does
If you do not walk in a person's shoes you cannot know what they feel

Men are the the Leaders, providers and protectors
Women are the followers and nurturers

How can a guy who's Still living with his mom(obviously shows he's struggling in life and wit life and his masculine burden of performance)lead another woman

He's a loser and shouldn't take a female seriously period!!!

cutecommend:
See the comments of Ladies there... Even if they want to advise the guy to take it easy and not to act harshly, can't they condemn the woman's act.... At least condemn the act.

Many ladies are hypocrites.. You may hear many ladies saying "men are cheats", but many of them are hypocrites...Many men show openly that they are sinners, but many ladies pretend to be good, but might be fornicating/cheating codedly and acting disciplined in public.. It is very possible that this woman caught committing adultery may be the one forcing her husband to go for church program or might be always telling him to be prayerful or might be persuading him to always be committed to God. Maybe she even bought her husband devotional or bible not long before committing that act.

Don't be deceived with the fact that says "Women only have sex with who they love"....Many women fornicate or commit adultery because of lust, that is why a woman can sleep with dirty igboo smoker that she can never date.

You think you will fornicate up and down in your youthful days and be a faithful wife just like that...Na magic?!! Marriage does not cure addiction...

Finally, we have many ladies that are sex slaves. The best thing to do is to go to God for repentance and deliverance, instead of hiding under any cover, such as "I only have sex because I have feelings for him or love him"... All these sexing up and down is it feelings or lust??

aribisala0:
That is you and your own situation
Just realize that not every one here is boy/girl some are men/women
grandpa/grandma still in the market

So what works for you at your stage might sound childish to others

Some people are on their 3rd or 4th wives.

So try and have a mature mindset

FERNANDEZISBACK:
See joke..
Runaway from momma's boy..most ain't matured..

The thing is it really depends on why he is living with his mom...If he is doing it for practical purposes like trying to prepare grounds for some time then he is likely to be considered...

But if he has such a close connection with his mom or he loves staying around her without planning on how to move his @ss out then it might never happen...

aribisala0:
OK I get you.
And you believe women living with their fathers don't do that?
You are not exposed

You still dey learn work

Calibrator:
Where is the stoicism being preached from page one?


I doubt most Redpillers here have ever been in the midst of true patriarchs (elderly folks) and seen them argue and state their arguments and counter arguments on sensitive issues, they argue like men, devoid of emotions and bitching.



Lastly, check out the bolded and live and let's live.

After all said and done, we will all log out of the forum and face our respective realities offline, out there lies the consequences of whatever route and ideology we choose to follow in life, redpillers, wannabe redpillers and bystanders whatever flag you align with.



Men shouldn't argue with emotions.

Shalom!

shantti:
A man should not marry a lady that still lives with her parents then. Cos she too is a momma's girl

aribisala0:
Can you make your point without cursing or swearing?

Does that give more meaning to what you say?
What is "hoe" . I ask because that word has different meanings to different people what did you mean by "hoe"?

Goldbw122:
It is not good it makes the man to be a boy to his mom, some decisions which the man will take the mom will disagree with the decision so it is good for the man to rent a house or build a house and be a man of his own family and of his own self.. that is why it is called man.

toujurs:
Why most girls won't agree to dating such a guy in the first place, is that they won't be able to compete with other girls, saying things like i will be spending the weekend in my boyfriend house . I see why black americans call ladies bitches . The poster went too far, you should have typed date or marriage. Ladies want comfort they can't provide for themselves.

aribisala0:
Should a man marry a lady living with her father?

TechspeciaIist:
If she isn't coming to my mama house then she should fucck the hell off.
What do these useless naija ladies have to offer in marriage sef

steveneche:
Candid opinion please

As a lady, do you think you can marry a guy who is still living with his mother?

oyetunjibaba:
Hello redpiller..
Good morning all, I have a question to ask,what ur thought about ladies who Pierce her nose and multiple earrings.

Recently noticed my girlfriend starts using nose earrings and multiple earrings.

Martinez39s:
My venerable patriarch, I agree with your post on the marriage stuff. I may add that marriage was never about romantic love from the very beginning, and for much of human history. It was usually about legacy, duty, allegiance and business.

I have no problem with people marrying for whatever reason. The objective of my lengthy post on women and cheating was to drop the red pill I know for the edification of others and for the purpose of rubbing minds (as we've always done). The discussions that have followed, and is still ongoing, may serve to provide clarifications and additions to my lengthy post. There is no intent to paint women in a negative light or portray them as evil beings incapable of good or without any understanding of morality.

Men who will put themselves in serious romantic/committed situations where they presume their women won't cheat, and they bank on their women not to cheat, should know that they stand a very high risk of being disappointed (if, to them, the situation isn't worth it or pointless to them if the woman cheats). These men would find my lengthy post helpful to reconsider things and reevaluate their expectations and priorities.

To be truthful, there are a lot of men who wouldn't bother with the idea of committed relationship if they somehow knew the particular woman that they are involved with would cheat; for them, the whole thing is worthless if the woman cheats. For these men my post is useful. If they read and then decide to consider eschewing committed relationships with expectations of fidelity, fine; if they decide to focus on other benefits of marriage, go on with committed relationships, and not care about their women cheating, that's their business (though i would never advise this or accept cheating).

Martinez39s:
Glad that you have read and you are taking red pill.

Have it in mind that a woman can present herself as an angelic nawalt to her spouse, run a happy family with him and be seriously involved in the relationship/marriage while being regularly piped down like a hòe in secret by other men, to the oblivion of her husband. She might even be religious and participate actively in her church or mosque. This infidelity doesn't impact her morality and conduct in other aspects: she might be kind to others and her children, she might show her husband respect, she might be a good homemaker, she might be the type that dresses decently etc.

So let people not make assumptions based on superficial impressions. Also know that most women are not daft in their manipulation and most women are good at hiding their shenanigans. I will say more in part b.

Any questions you would like to ask?

Angela62:
Chances are, you're a boy in his 20's, or a man child who has never had a healthy relationship with a woman before. Because how you confidently spew this rubbish deserves pity. I know you've made up your mind, and I'm not here to correct or prove your wrong, you're probably a lost cause, but I'll tell you that the poster is correct. A career woman can also be a good wife and a mother. I'm one.

Yes men and woman can have it all, but not at the same time. I got married right after university, had kids then enter the workforce after that. I own my business and work from home, so I could be a full time mom, and still contribute financially to our home. It's either you're blind, or you refuse to see couples like this that everywhere.

Be careful with this belief you have, it will deny you of joy and true relationship with a good woman. Life is not black and white, there are thousands of shades in between. There are bad women out there, and I mean a lot of its and I'm telling you this as a woman. But there are good one as well, and that's what the posters are talking about. If your mum is a good woman why do you think there is none like her out there? Someone around the world ?

DOESN'T NEGATE THE FACT THAT AVERAGE BETA MALES ARE THE ONES WHO CARE ABOUT THEIR WIVES CAREER AND MONEY.

THE THING I SAID IS A WOMAN CAN'T BE A SUCCESSFUL MOTHER AND A SUCCESSFUL CAREER MINDED OR BUSINESS MINDED WOMAN AT THE SAME FUCKING TIME..... CANT U READ?

pansophist:
I know lots of decent educated women, and I know lots of corrupt educated women as well. Just as money (and power) brings out the true character of a man, education does the same thing to a woman, and she can be worse than devil himself, while at the extreme end, a virtous educated woman is an asset to herself and her husband. Education is not the problem. But again, I question the motive of men going for an uneducated woman. What do you want exactly? Do you want obedience or submission? Or you are confusing obedience with submission?

Obedience can be described as the relationship between a servant and the owner, while submission can be described as the relationship between JayZ and Beyonce. The former (the servant) has no choice but to be obedient, lacks options, dependent, and effectively sacrificing prosperity for survival (food, shelter, care etc). While the latter (Beyonce) has choices but chooses to submit, she is independent, has options, not in the relationship due to her survival, and out of all her options and his shortcomings, she chooses to submit to him.

Dating an obedient woman has its downsides. You can't breathe and must take care of her for life. You'll also doubt her love because you're not sure if it's true, or coming from a hungry stomach. You'll doubt her faithfulness because you know deep down that it's only your money that keeps her. Furthermore, she will be an easy target for businessmen pastors to milk you through her, she is more likely to come from a poor background which tasks the man to lift her and her family from their financial predicament. Also there is a risk of raising dumb kids. Like mothers, like children.

Most importantly, I realise that educated women kind of mirrors out the insecurity and lack of self development in a man. Lots of men see just having money as the only tool that establishes them as a real man. But when a woman has her own money, even bigger money than him, then he feels powerless. And it's because his masculine strength is not internal. An internally secured man that thrives in his masculinity won't worry about the wealth, educational background or status of a woman, because what he will offer her is not what her money can give her.

Wealthy women are with broke men all the time. It's not news. And these men have qualities her money will never give her. For example, no amount of sophisticated sexual toys will satisify a woman sexually like the warmth of a hot blooded man that is attractive and can connect with her on a human to human level. intimacy gadgets don't talk, and won't tell her that she is beautiful and appreciated. Her kids need a good father, and she needs someone to go through the journey of life together. As a man, your value is not just money, it's far far far far more than that.

Why do you want a woman that will just follow you like a sheep even when you're going the wrong way ? She is a supporter, not a surbodinate. Why won't you want a woman that you can trust because she choosed you for something internal that can't be taken away from you (eg your character, intelligence, virtues etc)? Why don't you want a woman that chooses you because she deeply desires you and not just see you as a meal ticket to survive? That you can trust because it will be difficult for her to find your kind out there ?

Why don't you want a woman that will be an ally to proper even faster together, instead of dragging you back because she is uneducated? I honestly can't see an upside being with an uneducated woman. Please let me know if there is any. I see lots of men complaining bitterly about women, but personally I don't worry about them. Because my life is designed in such a way that corrupt women whether educated or not will never be able to penetrate in. And even though she is far richer than me, I practice contentment, and don't actually care about her money.

Lastly, why be with a woman that will not push you to be better? An uneducated obedient woman will likely just follow you even to hell, but an educated one will only follow your leadership if you're competent. She kinda balances you and acts like a feedback to when you're veering off the wrong path. A man needs the natural traits that come easily to women for him to lead well such as intuition, feelings, emotional discernment, detail oriented, and support. Something you may hardly get from an uneducated woman. Don't sacrifice the prosperity of your marriage by choosing an uneducated woman when you can face your insecurities and be with an educated one instead.

The higher a man goes in his development journey, it automatically sets the playing field to such a way that only eligible women can thrive in it, and to be specific, educated virtous women. And the standards you put yourself in sets the standards others have to meet, to fraternize with you. Boycotting educated women is not an optimal strategy to win, because you'll be boycotting the likes of Okonjo Iweala. Instead, work on yourself to the extent that only worthy women can be detected by your radar. The strategy to win in life is to play your path well, and as they say, charity begins at home. It's an inside job.

Be guided.

Realchairmann:
This is kinda confusing to me. I've been married to my beloveth wife for 11 years and counting. God has blessed us with three kids of ten, four and a year old. We are having a wonderful Union and time of our lifes.

For sometime now, I've been nurturing the idea of relocating abroad. My wife has BSc and MSc in Microbiology but has been jobless since she concluded her NYSC the year we got married. I'm ready to sponsor her for PHD to any country of her choice to pave way for I and the kids to follow later.

However, she has turned me down whenever I brought up the issue. Her response is always tied around the bond we share and that she can't just leave her kids and travel abroad.

I have a good paying job but I really want her to explore her potentials too. She's a very good wife and an excellent mother but I'm confused why she's skeptical about leaving this Country.

Or am I the one taking too much risk?

Meedon:
Okay. But I still maintain my stand. Pikin weh go spoil go still spoil even if he is trained by Jesus. The right thing to do is train the child the right way from childhood. Show him or her the right way and he or she will never depart from your good teachings. Or are you planning to raise a child without teaching the child the right way. You need woman to help you do that right?

Meedon:
Which degenerate children as if kids living with parent don't do worst things. Oga go sit down abeg. Pikin weh go spoil go spoil.

BigBashiru:
How exactly will the children become degenerate??