LifestyleTonite:


Don't be fooled. Do you think a handsome man just sits his behind doing nothing meaningful for himself? Perhaps, all attractive men are destitutes and homeless

The truth is, when an attractive man and a not attractive man are on the same level financially and materially, a large amount of women will always go for the attractive man. He always has an edge due to his genes.

In your next life, which of these two men will you like to be? Don't lie.

aidameoryou:


Lol contradicting yourself even more.

Nothing is guaranteed except death, but you went ahead to guarantee that...

virgins makes the best wives....guaranteed
Non virgins make bad wives....guaranteed

Make it make sense to me too

There should always be room for meaningful and constructive criticisms, and not trolling and cursing.

If there ain't criticism, then you are talking to kids,
But I believe there are men here.

BTW, I have been on this thread for as long as I can remember, just always holding back to comment for certain reasons.
Thought I should just make my input.

PstDapo:




Na why some guys want non virgins and hoes after all their redpill awareness, very sad and pathetic, reducing standards for women but damn well women increase and don't compromise on their own standards, shaming their Innate sexual strategy to get unlimited sexual access and settle down with the best of women to birth and nurture their children and also give them peace of mind, may be it's lack of testerones, lack of balls, lack of options,low socio-economic status, low sexual market value, but mordern men are ready to settle for the worst when it comes to women both in attitude and also in sexual past, Kai, our generation of men are finished, soon we will be fully emasculated like western men

Dollywood:


Lmaoooooooo. I have a confession to make. Have I bleeped up? It goes like this..

I met this girl and we became friends, after a month of talking to each other everybody, I decided to like set up a meet up with her. This girl admittedly said she loves me, and she calls me everyday just to hear my voice. Tbh, this girl is very humble and doesn't like request or bill me in anyway. I do tell her that, girls that bill guys or something are a big turn off. (Yeah, I did chip that mentality in her head), and she even like said, "Boyfriend ain't suppose to be paying bills of any girl when he's not her father". That really impressed me to see a Nigerian girl with such mentality.
So we eventually meet up, and when we reached our destination, the bike man ain't got a change, so she willingly paid our bike money herself with her last card, I guess. So, we went inside and did our usual sexual blah blah stuff but we didn't have sex coz she on her period and she even showed me.
So, fast forward to when we're about to part ways, I noticed she ain't got like t-fare, yeah, coz she used her last change to pay for both out tfare so, I told her not to worry that I'll pay for it. Now, I stopped a bike, and she hopped in. So, I was kind of impressed by her personality, honesty and so on, that I handed her 2k and she even hesitated. But eventually I persuaded her to take it and she took it.
The next day she called and was like "if not that she doesn't wanna waste the bike man time she wouldn't have collected the money from me".


So, what do you guys think?

LifestyleTonite:


I prefer a lady to have genuine desire for me as a human that for me to use money to attract her.

If you are attractive, ladies will make excuses and lie to themselves that you are not broke. And if you eventually get rich, the more the merrier for them.

But if you are average looking or ugly, they can you be with you for the money. If the money should grow wings, they will dump you instantly or treat you like trash. But for the handsome guy, they will cut him some slack and love him the way he is.

Looks is King.

If you doubt me, look at the three people in the photo below. Check what their eyes are watching.

preacherdark:
Women have a mental laundry list of traits they want in a man. Unlike men, it is not so simple for them to see an attractive guy from across the room for a sum total of 1.5 seconds and immediately want to have sex with him, no questions asked. They throw out hoops to jump through and head games to separate the worthy from the pretenders. As sexual gatekeepers, women rely on this complex social interplay to assess a man’s rank and deny or grant him admission to her body.

A crucial part of seduction is role reversal. You want to turn the tables on women and use their psyops against them. A man can magnify his desirability simply by having standards beyond face, boobs, and bum. It is intoxicating to a woman to be pursued by a man who will judge her for more than her looks. That means sticking to a mental list of qualifications women must meet if they want to enjoy the pleasure of your company. The trick is to pay it more than lip service; having standards means nothing if you don’t actually believe in them.

I know from experience and scientifically-valid astrological textbooks that certain character traits and behaviors are like signal flares of a drama-prone incompatible relationship. If a girl jumps on top of a bar to dance for an appreciative audience on our first dateI know she will be a poor choice for a girlfriend but a great ride for a torrid fling.

To any girl I meet: when I strike up a conversation with you this is what is going through the back of my head:

Don’t be that girl…

… who thinks diamonds are a better best friend than a dog

… who lost touch with her femininity

… who has given up on love

… who pretends she can play like a boy

… who flakes

… who knows what she wants a little too surely

… who is an attention LovePeddler

… who is practiced in the art of aloofness and indifference (that’s my job)

… who cannot handle teasing

… who has sexual hangups

… who cannot take a sincere compliment

… who has lost her joie de vivre

… who doesn’t understand that men and women complement, not compete with, each other

… who re-applies her make-up every 10 minutes

… with daddy issues

… who doesn’t at least reach for the check

… who likes being a trophy a little too much

… who reads between every line

… who curses and flips the bird a lot

… who uses too much trendy slang

… who will accept flirting from other men while we are out on a date

… who mugs for invisible cameras

… who is externally validated

This may seem like an exhaustive, impossibly unrealistic list, and for most girls maybe it is, but compared to the list of demands I occasionally read on craigslist from the sorts of women who’d be happier in love if they paid for it, I don’t think I’m asking for much right?

ezeonline:
Fact

aidameoryou:


For real for real brother.
I have been going thru this whole thread for quite a while now, and not wanting to write shit.

But this whole notion of marrying a virgin is total bullshit to me.

A virgin doesn't equate or guarantee loyalty
A virgin doesn't equate or guarantee submissiveness.
A virgin doesn't automatically mean a traditional woman qualities from any so called virgin
A virgin doesn't even guarantee a calm headed girl.

Even some of the so called virgins could be worse than your average woman knowing fully well that they don't crave this D.

Many reasonable girls who were once virgins were also deceived by guys who never meant well,
so that automatically makes her bad because she ain't no virgin

I swear this virginity issue sound so MEANINGLESS to me

How can you even for sure determine that one is a virgin when virginity pills are being sold in the market

If you crave for a virgin then do so, and stop shoving it down others throats.
Talking as tho being a virgin is the next thing after virgin Mary, When some so-called virgins (females) have stinking attitudes just like any other person would.

As for me, I see nothing special in any virgin, and I ain't never planning on wifing any virgin.

VIRGINITY IS TOTALLY OVERRATED and that's my 2cents.

Some opinions here are straight jargon sha, but each man to his own and you take what works for you, and discard what doesn't tally.

cococandy:
believe that if it will help you sleep better.

Actual research shows otherwise.

Labadi69:


Hahaha this joker is a dreamer. Look around you and tell me how many guys in their 30s and 40s are as successful as you put it. In this Buhari era wey old boys dey find better jab to chop.

After enough suffering, at 40 you are bald or have white hair and beards with big belle and a bad back like mr ibu. Shey na that time you go come start to dey chase small small girls? Hahah you are a clown.

Rema, Davido, Wizkid and many very young boys are doing well in music, entertainment, start ups and other fields and nacking girls up and down , you dey here dey pray for life to start at 40. Hahaha

If you like no go pray for grace to make money and enjoy your life with enough babes now wey you young and agile. Dey there dey daydream say money go come at 40. Hopeless dreamer

Kobojunkiee:
That poster seems dead-set on convincing his mental that he has women all figured out even when it is apparent his delusions don't apply to a majority of women beyond his tiny delusion.

alphaNomega:


You have not met enough women. You posted this solely because you cannot stand the fact that a woman can have the liberty to birth multiple children from different men and decide which of the men she wants out of her sexual life when she can afford it.

alphaNomega:
There are women with children from different men. These women have money. Are you saying if any of her husbands cheat, it is not enough reason for her to divorce him?

EXCEPTIONS DONT MAKE THE RULE OR NORM

HOW MANY FEMALES ARE FINANCIALLY SUCCESSFUL?

MOST FEMALES ARE AVERAGE OR POOR

FEMALES ARE NOT BUILT TO LEAD AND PROVISION FOR MALES LONG TERM

MEN AND WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT

So according to you, a woman in her 40s who is single and childless is Miserable?

No wonder…

BigBashiru:


Men's sexual agency perishes too.... it just only lasts SLIGHTLY longer. Which girl wants to sleep with buhari His sexual agency don finish.....

Simran94:


Sorry to disappoint you but that was then, not anymore.
A lot of women are detaching from that useless African culture and believing they can be anything they want to be without being married. A lot women are no longer marriage freaks like before, you can work and have sources of income, you can get married IF YOU WANT TO and IF YOU DON’T WANT TO, you can move on with other great things in life like adopting a child or going for IVF and live happily ever after!!!

Simran94:


Sorry to disappoint you but that was then, not anymore.
A lot of women are detaching from that useless African culture and believing they can be anything they want to be without being married. A lot women are no longer marriage freaks like before, you can work and have sources of income, you can get married IF YOU WANT TO and IF YOU DON’T WANT TO, you can move on with other great things in life like adopting a child or going for IVF and live happily ever after!!!

olabrinks:
nothing can give you happiness in this world . Happiness is a very temporary emotion, one minute you’re happy then next your sad. But you can have peace of mind, and that truly comes with within. No man, no woman, no job can give that to you, because these things will always give you problems and stress.

Maryjane001:

Pls did you come from the Stone age?.
Things have evolved now, nowadays some women cheat as much as their male counterparts and still keep their r/ship or marriage intact without the other party noticing a thing.

I hope your spouse isn't doing so to you due to your ignorance.

Simran94:


Actually I don’t blame those women.
The African culture has a lot of faults in it, it sees women as “objects of satisfaction and reproduction” nothing else. It has always been this way in Africa. They believe a woman who doesn’t have a head(husband) is nothing to the society. So that has instilled fear into the minds of these women.

Kobojunkiee:
Again, enough of the meaningless ramblings abeg....

Survey after survey has shown that women cheat for the same reasons that men cheat, which is to satisfy that desire in them.

LIESSSS

FEMALES SHOW LOVE AND LOYALTY VIA SEX AND SEXUAL FIDELITY

IF FEMALES CHEAT ALL BECAUSE THEY WANT TO BE SATISFIED THEN WHY DO THEY MAKE SEX SCARCE AND HARD TO GET FOR MOST MALES

WHY DO FEMALES VIEW SEX AS A VALUE LOADED EXCHANGE NOT AN EQUAL VALUE EXCHANGE??

DUDE FVCKING THINK GEEEEZ!!!!

Kobojunkiee:
Precisely!

Many folks fail grasp this aspect of the whole in their attempts at normalizing cheating by men in marriage.

Kobojunkiee:
There is no truth to any of what you claim here.

Women can engage many men in marriage providing dem capable of "loving" more than one man too.

Kobojunkiee:
A goner how so? If you decide you have right to express your polygamous nature, she also has a right to express hers.

Kobojunkiee:
Stop rambling.... women cheat for the same reasons that men cheat, which is to satisfy that desire in them.

frozen70:


Yes thats why the matured ones do over look that side of them

When he is tired he will come back home but by then the love is gone to the kids

And he will remain lonely and probably irrelevant to the woman

Simran94:


If the reverse was the case, would you give this same advise to the husband? If the wife was the one sending her shirtless pictures to another man, would you tell the man that there’s something he’s not doing well and that he needs to talk his his wife to find out?
LOl

frozen70:


I am a married woman for over 20yrs

Uptill today I don't open my husband phone for just one reason

I don't want to see anything that will make life miserable for me

A man's phone is like Onion, the more you pill it the more your eyes will be teary

JESHAL:
CaveAdullam and Smartboy learn from Taliban, this world is to big to limit or adjust my mating strategy to concede to any woman, stay strict, stay rugged, stay dark triad,stay deadly, keep them in check and fear, they can't love you, but you can control them to respect you by serious dread only if you are high valued either directly or indirectly

ALLAHU AKBAR

Smartb0y:
Jeshal/demzee, this one's for you bro