Susily:



I can see where you're missing the point

According to you, you must have a wife before you have a child, that's Bullshit

I can live life alone without a wife cos I don't need a wife to have a child

Mentholated:


No female is capable of loving any man for who he is. They all love opportunistically.

Mothers abort millions of their babies annually. Have we asked ourselves why?

Kids are just assest for companionship and security.

If your parents were 100% sure you won't provide that, they will find a way to make you disappear.

ALL relationships in life are TRANSACTIONAL.

Humans simply do not want to deal with the fact that we live in a cold world.

Calibrator:
Your sweet mother is the only NAWALT you know yet she is in the habit of making you sidestep your old man when it is time for you to send goodies home...... What is the difference between her and your wife who does same to make you spend more on her family than yours?







But we are not ready for this conversation.

CAPSLOCKED:


THERE'S NO SUCH THING AS A REAL MAN IN MY BOOKS. I ONLY KNOW MEN.

WHEN YOU START TO JOIN WOMEN TO CLASSIFY MEN INTO REAL MEN VS ORDINARY MEN, YOU'RE ENABLING THEIR IDIOCY IN EMPLOYING THE "REAL MAN" TAG AS AN EGO BOOST TO MILK MEN AND DEMAND THE MOST FROM MEN WHILE PUSHING SUCH REAL MEN TO THE BRINK OF DEATH IN MEN'S QUESTS TO DO THINGS BEYOND THEIR STRENGTHS FOR WOMEN JUST TO MAINTAIN THE REAL MAN CROWN.

REDPILLERS AND ENLIGHTENED MEN MUST KNOW THIS MILLENNIUM-OLD TRICK, AND SHOULD NEVER FALL FOR IT. IT'S EITHER YOU'RE A MAN OR YOU'RE NOT. IF WOMEN THINK YOU'RE A REAL MAN BEST BELIEVE YOU'RE THE ĮDIOT TO BE EXTORTED UNTIL INFINITY. THIS PERSON IS THE BETA SLAVE THAT BUCKS, WHILE AN ALPHA FUCS.

DON'T BE A REAL MAN. JUST BE A MAN WITH WISDOM, A-GAME, POTENTIAL, CAREER AND GOALS, AND THAT'S ALL YOU NEED.

Lightway:


I'm not trying to cause arguments, but some people said only your mother can love you truly. Are you also saying that a mother's love is opportunitistic and conditional?

dieavirgin:
U guys are just amazing here, everyone. I need a sincere opinion on this: is it appropriate to still use what your ex gave you as a gift, even after break-up?

CaveAdullam
Herbsworks
Martinez39s
Capslock
Demzee
Etcetera..

Emmynator:
On someone saying you have to have loved and be heartbroken to be red pilled, i definitely do not agree.
Most guys who were heartbroken before red pill stay too long in rage mode, which limits their growth red pill wise. So you cant just say those who loved and had their heart broken are better red pillers, nahhh.
Learning from our own experiences can be deeper than learning from the experience of others, true. But do you really need to have that big scar?? I rather come to the realization that something is dangerous, without having to experience the danger first hand.

Lightway:
No matter how hard you fight Nigerian women will continue to win.

Have you touched a woman's body, squeezed her breasts, or have her wrap her pussy walls around your dick. Every thing about a woman creates arousal and men are ready to die for that.

As long as men continue to see themselves as providers and are drawn to women's bodies, women will always win. Always and forever.

Men will always use money to try and win women because aside from money, what can really offer? Nothing.

This is why men simp because money is the only real value men can give to women.

The same way pussy is the only real value a woman can give to a man.

Unfortunately, men want a woman's pussy more than women want a man's money... That's why men spend so much to own a single woman and make her happy while the woman gives so little sex and doesn't care.

Simps will be here forever..

But I stand redpilled

Smartb0y:


You missed the part where I said for fun

That "fun to hang out with", might have to disagree with you on that bro

They're only submissive cuz they want your money or want to fool you into marrying them,marry them and see 1st class masculine trait .

ma373733:

DEMZEE the spitting cobra
You don't always get it


Which Nigeria girls are you talking about?

Tueh tueh on your ignorance

Smartb0y:


Bro, just like the dinosaurs,@ bolded has gone into extinction , we ain't in 1960 no more.
Are you sure you're in the dating market lol.

Nigerian girls are worse than their western counterpart.

White Ladies,they're straight forward,if they don't like you,they won't show any interest unlike Nigerian girls. You won't know what you're signing up for until it's too late plus they're so stuck up, cheap and boring as hell.

BTW,I like them whites for fun, not for wifing up

Smartb0y:


I'll take a western lady any day

Women are AWALT but you see those whites, they're sensitive asf unlike Nigerian girls

Aaron12:
That sending of your dick to online women is distasteful
how do men do that shit is what i don't get Simptoms of Simpmen

Hotspotbro:

Fun and games until We start seeing men sleeping at the verandah of their own houses...

DieRich5:
Africa can do useless things but dis ain't one of dem

Senomi:
There are no longer virgins in nigeria, the sooner men realize it the better for them anything u see manage am like that

bonetalk:

How will you know before relationship with her, if you ask her and she lie to you nko....
And what if you later know after you guys have really gone deep into each other... What will you then do?

ma373733:

Tueh !
You don't understand things at all

Let me use dressing as an example


In the 80s and early 90s women that wears skimpy or showy clothes are seen as immoral and floozy women
Fast forward to today women wear what they fvvcking like in Nigeria here especially southern parts . We all saw what happened during the president son's wedding up north her dressing code and all that . So relax

Women don't use to participate in games in the Arab world before what's happening now? They don't drive before there.what is happening now

Relax we're quickly creeping into genocentric society quickly than you think.

TheDarkGamer:


You still haven't changed. I see.

Well, believe in your delusion.

Gynocentrism has started growing firm roots in African culture. It doesn't matter if you believe it or not. Just look at the general state of affairs between the male and female genders now, and compare it to the past. Things are very different.

It's either you are ignorant, or you refuse to accept the truth before your eyes.

Things will still change drastically if the world heads in it's current direction.

Religion and culture will do nothing to stop that because the both have been altered to fit the global narrative.

You don't need to accept it. Facts don't care about feelings.

Junnior:

Your ignorance is alarming

Skepticus:


You still don't get it. It is a long process. The west didn't get gynocentric in a day or 10 years. Neither did they wait for their society to prosper before gynocentricism took roots. It was a long years of it slowly building up, even before the documented so-called FIRST WAVE FEMINISM.

Pictures like the one sajmark shared lay very slow but budding background for gynocentrism to trend in years to come unless Nigerian men fight it. Threads like this, despite its criticism as being filled with losers and misogynists, are doing a good job at pushing back against this slowly-growing but steady gynocentrism.

The Nigerian society as it is, presently is not fully gynocentric but the spread of globalism (and with its accompanying gynocentrism) is already taking roots in poor and developing countries than most folks, see nor care to observe. For instance, many years back, most of the women seated at that conference table, even in the wildest of their imaginations, would never think of it, to sit down at the same table "dragging" seats and positions with men, but, here we go.

By your simplistic logic, you'll have to hope that Nigeria becomes continually poor (which is silly to imagine as a budding patriarch), so that all that legacies you always talked about building and leaving behind as a strong patriarch won't end up in the hands of a vagina-worshipper in the not-too-distant future that would end your legacies and lay waste, all your patriarchal efforts. lol

Skepticus:


I love the way women are pushing their agendas "silently" and I'm expecting that they would make "gains" (even though it will come in bits) over time. DEMZEE, I hope you are observing the trend of your "patriarchal society". White knights with some level of societal "influence" like this guy below (they are littered everywhere) will make it happen faster than you can imagine. Don't say I didn't tell you. Lol

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.kemifilani.ng/life-style/women-should-take-70-of-their-husbands-property-in-divorce-joro-olumofin/amp

Andremalan731:

stanliwise:

Fact for who?
How do we differentiate your behavior from madness?

stanliwise:

Was this what the op asked?
Werey

Lordcassy:


I don't like the way you insult them....they are just ignorant and are using their blue pill reasoning to think...

Alot of half-baked people, who have not done the work but think they can break the redpill to fit their worldview and make themselves feel good are here....

Now I know why Rollo Tomassi calls out people who are drifters of the redpill...

Concerning that light statement about provider ko forefathers nii....
Guess they do not know about Alpha bleeps Beta bucks...if you are trying to be beta then listen to girl...lol...you have already failed before you begun...

Words of wisdoms..."You can never fill an already full cup"...

if you come into the redpill and think you can bend to your will and some knowledge you think have....then you are no better than the fools in west shouting "Gender is construct"....

Demzee take it easy on them...they know not what they do....

Lightway:


This is what you wrote


Exactly just like in the days of old, a man will provide shelter, food, and protection for his wife and children but that was not love. Our forefathers did not describe this as love. This was our natural order.

However, times have changed. We are not animals and we have evolved. Women are now becoming providers just like men. Women are even becoming smarter and they're using the fact that we, men are natural providers to collect money from us.

You see women saying " a real man will take care of his girlfriend or another man will"
A real man will make his girflriend happy.

In fact, no one is talking about marrying a virgin in media these days, because men have been fooled to believing that they love ideally. Men don't demand anything from women like our forefathers did. (Our forefathers demanded virginity and cursed single mothers).

Women are using the fact that in the days of old, they were seen as insignificant babies with fish brains, they are using this to outsmart men today. That's why you see them feign ignorance in some situations and hope that men come to their aid. Because men see women as soft creatures that don't think straight.

But women today are using this to their advantage. They are using the fact that men want to be providers to take their money. The problem is that men think that by giving a woman money is how you show love. What about forefathers that married 4 to 5 wives and took care of all of them. What about Ned Nwoko? Do you want to tell me Ned Nwoko loves Regina Daniels or he just wants a fresh, fair body and he became a provider to secure it. Regina Daniels on the other hand saw that he is a provider who will keep her rich till the end of her life and she accepted it. Both parties win.

The problem with today's men is that they are becoming providers for women all in the name of love without getting anything in return. if men stop providing for women, these ladies will either try to use SIGN langugage (Shame, Insults, Guilt and Need to be right) to bend the man to do their well. If all men stop being providers until they get something from women. Then you will see women returning back to their traditional status.

I mean, why should I be your provider if you're not giving me your virginity.

The problem with men today, is that men think they fall in love. There is no such thing as love. Nigerian men are so fooled by movies and their sex starvation that they think that providing for a woman is a way to show love.

When a man provides for a woman, he will hope that she falls in love with him too. That's what the man wants. If you provide and she doesn't fall in love with you, you will try harder to win her love and do more. This is what men thinks will keep a woman loyal . That's why you see them crying after they spent on a girl and she broke up with them. You will hear him crying that after all he has spent. This is the sunk cost fallacy that Ubunja talks about. When the man spends so much it is harder for him to pull out. Not because he is in love but because of how much he has given. He can't believe that he will lose everything. It is the same thing with businesses. When you invest so much in a business idea. Even though the ship starts sinking, you will want to hold on for as long as possible. Is it because you love the business? No. It is because you've invested so much and you don't want to accept reality just yet.

Many Nigerian men will have sleepless nights if a woman spends on them and they don't have enough money to spend on her. If she tells him that she is going to pay for the marriage. He will get scared that people will hear that she is the one paying for the relationship and he is not man enough to hustle. Does this sound like love?

There is a story on nairaland of a man that was worried that his girlfriend earned more than him. He even posted it on nairaland asking if he should double his hustle or end the relationship. Men see themselves as providers and when they're not providing for a girl, they feel worthless.

That's why you see men sacrificing for a girl. That's why you see them writing exam for their girlfriend. If he doesn't do it, it will look as if he can't help his girl in her time of need. He takes his problem solver position and helps her out. This is not love, but because he sees himself as the provider and if he doesn't do it, she might break up with him or go somewhere else. He is not doing it for love.

There is no love anywhere.

There is also the issue of low self esteem. A lot of blue-pilled men have low-self esteem.

When they look at a girl, they see pussy, breast and a soft voice of an angel. They calculate this as a woman's worth. That's why when they see a beautiful woman that doesn't ABC, they are ready to get on their knees and beg her. He is ready to be her provider to ensure that this beautiful woman he saw belongs to him. Is that love?

heartofcity12:
Female nature is already cruel on its own, our simp brothers still happily and successfully keep adding fuel to the furnace.