₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
Now, I know you were just rambling earlier about family values in Nigeria being better than in western countries.

Emotionss:
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Unfortunately majority of Men (SIMPs) will disagree with you...

Emotionss:
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This "shit" test is for those men that believe their woman is different and will love and respect them no matter what.

It has been said that all women are the same but some men believe their woman is different from others. So if you think your woman is different from others I dire you to shit test her and see the outcome.

Emotionss:
How many men have the balls to pull this off ?

Kobojunkie:
What does the divorce rated which are rumored to be about the same at this point , got to do with this now? Divorce rate has nothing to do with family value abeg!

Again, the question was what family values do you refer to that are not observed in the western setting?

Kobojunkie:
Wrong! This is not about nature at all but about restrictive laws that shackle women to arrangements which onlu favor men.

In our patriarchal system, the laws are set against women engaging in polyandry however the law allows for men to engage in polygamy. Other than that, women have also been engaging in multiple relationships since the dawn of time,only they tend to do so in hiding because of laws set against their freedoms.

Zabiboy:
Bro...
You can say it shouldn't be called "lovemaking" but saying no difference between the two is "arguably" false....there is a big difference between two..and yes nothing is wrong with me...
I dont want to talk much about this, cz these fvcks and sex topics bore me

Spherical77:
Same as you marrying a Fool as a wife. She'd definitely bring forth foolish offspring [/b]

Kobojunkie:
Yes, they do when the law and conditions allow for polyandry.

In many cases however, particularly where the the laws are against such freedoms, women can and do resort to cheating just like their men folk.

Kobojunkie:
Again, the question was what family values do you refer to that are not observed in the western setting?

Patriarchy is not a family value neither is women occupying a second-class status in society a family value.

Toks2008:
Yes polygamy is a crime if you do court wedding but the Irony is that men still have secret wives so what is the point?

Spherical77:
Any woman who chose to marry you without a court marriage na fool

Just know you married a fool and not a wife

Kobojunkie:
Obviously women can hence the reason they also cheat in much the same way that men can.

Kobojunkie:
You are not answering the question at all. What family values are those you pretend are found in Nigeria but not the western world?

Sleekfingers:
Legally speaking , it is illegal......but still widely practice in nigeria......thats why a woman who got married in a court , got more legal access to her husband properties...after the man dies ...the second wife na just another decoration in the eyes of the law......

ityP:
Very wrong o. Except na under Sharia. Apart from that, if a man marries a woman customarily and attempts to marry another one, na jail dey call am. It is a crime. They sound it like alarm in marriage registries sef

descarado:
It is well.
There are some cultures where women marry more than one husband.
Have you heard of polyandry?
Some part of Northern Nigeria practice polyandry in the olden days. Tibet, small fraction of India etc still practice polyandry.

Internet is also a great teacher.

Yagami:
But common, instead of arguing over superiority of gender and adultery, why not take common sense from the info the OP point out especially for WOMEN
1. Traditional marriage though acceptable and approved is NOT LEGAL BINDING
2. Traditionally, women right are bought by the husband through bride price..
3. It is HIGHLY advised to NOT settle for only traditional marriage as a woman but go for a court wedding, so as to protect your rights

Like it or not, divorce favours the man in a traditional matrimony, while it tint towards the woman for a legal or court marriage..

Ladies LEARN!!!

Sleekfingers:
But he gonna have to file for a divorce , before he can marry another... legally speaking....

Kobojunkie:
Uphold what family values unlike the western societies?

Kobojunkie:
Precisely !

Kobojunkie:
The statement in bold is not at all true.

Sleekfingers:
I am from the southwest.... traditional wedding favours the men the most.....the man can marry a second wife or impregnate any woman.....and there is nothing the Ist wife can do about it.....na only begging go end am........

That's why I strongly advice women to insist on court wedding......if the man do anyhow, he go see anyhow........

buragidi:
Not entirely correct. Many of the men of old were farmers who required farmhands. The easiest way to do this is to marry as many wives and bear many children.

Kobojunkie:
True that Nigeria is a multicultural nation but when it comes to tradition and marriage, can you specify one cultural group that does not provide for polygamy as a patriarchal right

If location is what you want, I say you look in the South Easts and South West- I exclude the North where sharia has somewhat taken the place of traditional laws.

SkyFlint:
This was inevitable.

His books make it obvious that he idolizes his wife. It's always "Kim and I" this, "Kim and I" that. He pedestalizes her too much. Now, she thinks she's too good for him.

Plus, he seemed to have lost any sense of individual identity in their relationship. He's always attaching her to himself...in EVERYTHING. From his books, it seems even their businesses are completely intertwined.

Whenever I read his book, I always feared for his relationship. He's TOO proud of Kim. Plus, it looks like he doesn't hold anything back from her including all his business secrets.

I've not read any of Kim Kiyosaki's books but I'm certain there will be very few "Robert and I" in her books, if any.

I feel bad for Robert. The man is brilliant and he seems to genuinely love and respect his wife. Now, she's going to cart away half of his networth when they eventually finalize their divorce.

Trex4:
https://www.nairaland.com/6802791/think-took-redpill-too-far

This guy up here is sad he hasn't hugged a woman in eight months. As redpillers aren't we supposed to go our own way? As a true redpiller are you supposed to be looking for female validation?

Lenny22:
I am a final year student of a popular Federal University. I'm not rich, neither am I broke. Of course, my present financial strength is average. I have a nice physical appearance and I consider myself as good looking.
I don't have the courage to approach girls that look exotic or sophisticated. By this, I'm talking about ladies with nice outfits, dope nails, expensive phones and wear expensive Perfumes. I wouldn't like embarrass myself, I just admire from afar but deep down, I want to date one.

kenzysmith:
Met this beautiful girl at shoprite, I approached her and we exchanged numbers. After a week, I began asking her out she told me she had a serious boyfriend and she doesn't double date or run paro. I said no problem and I never disturb her.

3 days ago she called me that she needed to do one month sub that her sub has finish. I told her to tell her boyfriend na! She said she was too shy to ask him for cards. It look some how that it don't want to look like she was bothering him. I said OK no problem that I can't access my account at the moment that am at offshore in the middle of a sea that she should send me #200 naira mtn so I can call my bro to sub for her, she send me the card and I text her thank you very much for the card that she is a nice person.

After like 6hrs she called to tell me my bro has not send her the card. I told her I DONT have one kobo to send to her and cut the call.

Did I do wrong my fellow nairalanders

advanceDNA:
No body can bleep till they die ..we all get old and weak...that's biology...

Depending on how strong you are ..some men are weak by 60...while some are still okay at 70...same for women..

Many dirty old women have sugar boys at age 80...don't u see guys looking for greener pastures fvckimg old women for passport......

A promiscous man and a promiscous woma are both shameless and dirty ... U are just creating double standards that only existed years ago....

Women are bolder now and looking for sex everywhere the way men do....

Is Kim Kardashian sex tape not everywhere....go and look at the big guys dying for her...you can't even lace their shoes..... This is the 21st century....

There's no longer it's a man's world... It's everybody's world...