she has to create her own party?

OP, how many of them do you have currently? Which ones?

Spaxon:
Here Are The Different Types Of BoyFriends
Kept By Babes in higher institutions
1. Academic BoyFriend: This One Takes Them To
Night Classes, Help Them Do Assignment And
They Always Stay Together During Exams.
2. Financial BoyFriend: This Guy Is Usually In A
Different City ( PH, Lagos, Warri etc) He Takes
Care Of Their House Rent, School Fees, Text
Books, Feeding Allowance..
3. Asst Financial BoyFriend: This One Is Always
In Imsu And He Takes Care Of Their Hair,
Pedicure, Manicure And Makeup. He Buys Them
Yogurt, Jollof Rice, Pop Corn Or Shawama After
School.
4. Moral BoyFriend: This One Is The Religious
BoyFriend ( Church Mate ) They Come In The
Name Of Advice To Tap Current From The Babe.
They Give Moral Instructions From The Church
Premises To The Girls Bed.
5. NEPA BoyFriend: This One Is Neither Cold Nor
Hot, He Is Always called To Come And fix The
Bulb And Switch In The Room Then afterwards
He His Given A French Kiss Plus 360 Degree
Hug.
6. Party BoyFriend: This One Takes Them To
Fresher’s Night, Award’s Night, Orange Groove,
40 40 etc.
7. Security BoyFriend: This One Help Them Get
Back Their Phone When They Are Being Obtained
By Cultist.
8. SwagTutor BoyFriend: This One Tells Them
How To Combine Colours While Dressing For
School In The Morning.
9. Hostel BoyFriend: This One They Always
HangOut At The Balcony, At Evening Time. Then
She Always Sleeps Over In Guys Room And They
Consume A lot Of Food From The Girls.
10. Original BoyFriend: This One Is The Boss.
The Babe Visits Him Alot During Weekend. Cooks
For Him, Do House Chores And They Share
Emotional Feelings. Ceteris Paribus This
BoyFriend Is Constant…..so guys were do you fall
in…? Don’t lie oo

A man died. Granted after sex, but no autopsy has been done. Why are people quick to rush to the conclusion that the sex killed him?

Too many people

PunkyVeer:


Don't sleep or be with him then. If he doesn't deserve your time etc, he shouldn't deserve any part of you. Period. Only roll with deserving people. We aren't under a contract in this world. Let people agitate the gravel.

Exactly! A guy who doesn't deserve your all doesnt deserve your time in the first place.

pinkpebbles:
Exactly,d guy doesnt have to deserve it. It should be a mindset in evry relationship. Women shouldnt go into relationships wit d notion that wat lies btw dia legs is a solution to the world's problem

Relationships involve a lot of hardwork. Many people like to go the easy way - just provide sex, maybe cook and clean too, and hope that's enough for the guy.
A lady that can reach and satisfy a guy emotionally is more likely to keep the guy to herself.

misspicy:
If only he deserve it

It's not about the guy, its about what the lady brings to the table. Why any man would want to choose her above every other.

true, companionship and partnership are very important.

kerygalerie:

ZUBY77:



Its good that you own every empty land in Asokoro.
Atleast you can afford enough data to argue like a fool that you are.

What makes you think I wanna know who raised you up? Isn't that bragging as well? Mr Saint.

Why not mention that God himself raised you? Because you apparently believe that at the mention of 'Senator,' I would start giving you the respect that is due to God himself..
Here is a piece of news for your Senator, tell him or her that I, Zuby, Ozoigbondu 1 of Berlin, said that he or she is a criminal who depends on public funds to make retrogressive laws that holds you down at the bottom of civilization. Name one good project your Senator financed and I will name 20 of mine. You obviously bellied that sending you Havard is an achievement.
"The lizard would never know it is naked unless someone beats it with a stick"

. If he or she wants my name, I would gladly give it out.

I can see you are enjoying talking to a big boy.
I advice you to seize this very important opportunity because it may take you eternity to come across someone like me again.

You are quite right about something, I've enjoyed watching you make an asz of yourself.

AZeD1:


You are the one disrespecting the men folks. That you and your friends can't stick to one lady doesn't mean other guys can't.

Speak for yourself and not the men folk.

Well said

It's a choice

ZUBY77:



You are just like a very fat local woman who thinks she would make the best wife to any man because she is not slim and because she was raised with poverty.
Rich girls can make good wives too.
While at the same time, thinking that every slim girl won't make a good wife.

You think being rich means zero personality.

Yes I have money and at the same time, I have a bigger personality when compared to you.

.. You are the most foolish idiooot on earth if you think that all poor people have personality while all rich people have zero personality.

Actually based on your analogy, you'd be the local fat woman. You are the one that seems to think all rich men are gods and make good husbands automatically. As for me, I take people on an individual level, I do not believe in painting everyone with the same brush strokes based on stereotypes.
You are also the one that assumes quite wrongly that because of where I stand on issues, I must be a woman and/or poor with a mindset shaped by poverty. For your info, I'm a man and I was raised by a Nigerian senator / Real Estate mogul / business man. Best schools and upbringing. I have a good job, own properties and businesses and do very well for myself. But you do not see my bragging about it here.
I know too many rich folks that have personality and who know money for what it is...just money. You the one trying to impress me with pictures of wealth, probably stolen from the internet. Nice try...LMAO.

brightersms:


U r talking rubbish
Don't u think the 17year old will have better living in the arms of dangote son?
Good health
Good education if she wanna further?
Well respected
It will even make ur family known
As dangotes in-law
Ur life will even be changed too
Oluku
Think beyond ur nose
Age is all about number
If the girl finds love at 17 and wish to marry in future or at present if it's good one.
I will encourage her to do so

Now I see how myopic u think

In this post of yours, you have exhibited a lot of your immature thinking. I'll try to break it down for you as much as time permits me.
You actually think that having money makes you a better person. Think ZUBY77 for example. He seems like a guy with money and zero personality. You think because a woman has married a rich person, she is set for life. For all you know, she's just married into slavery. Money never guarantees happiness.

As for good education, good health etc, as a father to the 17 year old, thats a sacred responsibilty of mine. I don't have to sell her off to anybody under the pretense of providing that for her. Even if you did, whats the guarantee that the guy would provide those. Do you even know anything about the man you are giving your daughter to? Do you know if he believes in education for women? do you know if he believes in western medicine? Do you know if he believes in one wife vs four wives?

Do you know if he treats people around him nicely when no one is looking? Or is the fact that he is rich just good enough for you. I'm sure people like you worship money and rich people without even holding them responsible for their actions. You think having money makes someone a god? Have you for once thought about your future daughter's happiness? And what a future version of herself might want? What about her aspirations in life?

As for my family's lives changing forever, you just showed your parasitic nature. I will live by my hardwork in this life. I will provide for my family by the labours of my own hands and the brains God has provided me. Definitely not by selling off my daughter to the highest bidder. I'm sure you probably will like Dangote's azz if he came looking for your daughter. What a shame. You have sold off your dignity for money and fame. Ordinary money dude. The rich also cry.

What does a 17 year old know about love? She probably falls in love with a different person every week. What does she bring into a relationship? I can't see beyond my nose? You obviously are not mature enough to handle a relationship with a matured lady, one who contributes to your life positively and is a companion. I bet you think a wife's role is just to cook, clean and have sex. Grow up mate!

So pls tell...Who is immature and myopic now?

own / owned? interesting analogy

Low self esteem and principles

Funny I know two of those.
Secondary classmate with Oche
Same time in university with Dapo.

Weird.

sec sch classmate

I will give her 2

killjoy:
in as much as I condemn the act of rape, I don't get hw a woman will be raped to death. they don't do any work during sex , sorry rape. all they do is enjoy it, sorry suffer it. well I will never knw what having a vadjaina feels like. RIP to the dead

You probably trying to make a joke but I think its in bad taste.

harristo:



I can your have a point. What I don't see anything wrong with is a healthy relationship btw an 18 years old girl and an older man and I know that it's possible.
Of course a secret relationship btw them is a no no. A situation where the OP won't get the approval of the family will only get him killed .I know that I will attempt that if I were a member of the family, especially if I found out he has been with sleeping her. So no sleeping with her until she finish school.
If the OP is someone who can do these (and I know there are men who can) then their relationship would be a healthy one.

As for the family OP, just try to convince them that the relationship btw you and their daughter will be a decent one, even if you have to swear a no sex until her graduation from school oat.

This is a strange advice but
OP since you won't be sleeping with her until she finishes school, if you can, get the parents to let you sponsor her through school, as it would make her feel indebted to you and increase the chances of her staying with you till the end (although if I were the parent I won't let you do that).

Well OP all this is assuming you haven't slept with her already. And if you've slept with her already; just go and dig your grave if she happens to have a siscon brother like me.

no sex until graduation from what? secondary school or university? And you think the OP would go to the family? I just think the OP has issues.
why would you want any lady to be with you cos she is indebted to you? Even me I wouldn't advise that for any lady. You are better off being with someone who wants to be with you out of love and free will rather than pay a debt. Omo, that na modern day slavely. Over how much...School fees?
If you ever decide to pay someone's tuition, do it out of charity and not cos of you want to sleep with them or coerce them into marrying you.

harristo:


Stop assuming things. Stop assuming that the OP is incapable of having a decent relationship with the girl. And stop thinking that a man can't have a decent relationship with a girl 18 and 10 years younger.

Anyway I guess the OP should take it what you're worried about is the fact the he can't maintain a healthy relationship with the girl. And that if he can you have no problem with their relationship - yeah I know you believe that he can't.

You really are naive if you think someone who can't see that a relationship with a 17 year is wrong. You think that person will not sleep with her? Have you seen what 17 year olds look like these days? Dude wake up!!!! There is no healthy relationship btw a 17 year old and a 27 year old. What are they going to be talking about? What do they have in common apart from sex? What level of maturity and thinking does a 17 year old bring to the table. How long do you think the 27 year old will be able to stand her childishness before he dumbs her for another 17 year old?

And for those who keep saying husband, did the OP say he has approached the parents to marry? Here's hoping the parents believe in their daughter well enough to chase him away.

I also suspect you are capable of doing the same if you don't see anything wrong with it.

Your friend obviously has no problem sleeping with a married woman. Shame...

harristo:


I don't know why people don't know how to answer a simple question on the internet. I notice the trend on most question and anwer website on the internet.

The OP never said he was sleeping with the 17 years old girl. You just assume that he is, because it will make it easier for you to condemn him.
If your prefix is wrong how then will you succeed in giving the OP a proper answer to his question.

Dude, stop being naive.

What your point mister? So he loves a 17 year old, and you think he doesn't want to sleep with her? Stop fooling yourself mister. And for the record, he did not say in his post that he has no intention of sleeping with her.
And even if he doesn't plan to sleep with her for the next three years, he's going to have a huge influence on her that is just not fair. And I bet he won't be acting as a big brother to prevent her from making stupid teenage mistakes. More like teaching her sex positions.

Ngokafor:


....@deniyor you sound like a really responsible dude..I had hope in our men by your posts here..God bless you.


...as for the op,10yrs is not much but 17 and 27 is not appropriate.You are way too matured for her.I know you will not listen to reason now,but will heed the silly ones urging you to go on,but dont worry,you will only come back to nairaland to cry us a river on how Nigerian girls are bad...una no dey hear word

Thanks . God bless you too

ZUBY77:



No.. It is called money.
I told you poverty configured your mentality.
I only wanted you to know I don't need the money you said I needed.
Now you are smiling out tears.

Money takes care of everything block head.
Do you think Lara would have married oshiomole?
I am coming for your 17 year old sister soon.

Watch out. Let's see how you will reject my proposal with Lamboghini packed outside your mud house.

That was me laughing at your stupidity dude.

hahaha, please come to my house for my 17 year sis soon...I beg you....Pls come quick. It will be nice to feed your tiny dyck to the dog.

ZUBY77:



Now you are being African.
Relax.

I am Nigerian. Through and through. What's that got to do with anything?

ZUBY77:


No.. I won't need the money.
I don't know you but I am sure I am 500 times richer than you are...


Take a look at the image below, I took it one minute ago..
those Chincs are packing up that 40feeter with with MAN Diesel and DAF engines..
Each one is is worth over a million naira.
Now if you know maths very well, multiply whatever number of engines you think can fill up that box.. Then think about 10 boxes of such..

Now you see why I don't need that money.

Bro, you need to show pictures to show how rich you are? You think that's going to intimidate or impress me?
Like I said earlier, you are nothing but a lowlife with some change in his pocket. Money does not a man make.

ZUBY77:


No.. I won't need the money.
I don't know you but I am sure I am 500 times richer than you are...

I bet you are. You are just the poorest personality/character I've known. You have all the money in this world but you have nothing. Be sure to be buried with the money when your time comes.

ZUBY77:



I'm a society like Nigeria, I would prefer my 17 year old daughter to have sex with a 27 year old man who has a job (based on the op),
Than a fellow 17 year old boy who still lives with his parents

Do you know why, if that unwanted pregnancy comes up, we both know who can take care of it among the two.

You think having a job is enough excuse for pedophilia? Rather than raise your kid to be self sufficient, you sell off your kid for an old dude with a job?

In this life, tables turn. What happens if the 27 yr old was to lose his job and becomes poor for the rest of his life, while the 17 year was to be the next Bill gates based on his invention? Will you quickly change your preference for your daughter's love choice?
I think you are nothing more than a gold digger that is capable of selling his daughter in future. All for pennies you think the future son in law will throw your way. There are many important things in life than money.
The best things in life can't be bought with money.

ZUBY77:


Did you tell your parents when you had your first sex?
Did you get their approval?
Were they OK with it?
How old was the man then?
How much information did you give out to your parents about him?

Dude, couple of things....First you have not answered the question I asked. Stop evading it.
Second...Remember what I said about assumptions? You've made assumptions about me and it's making an ass of you already.

Incase you are a bit slow.....Let me give you a clue....I have never and will never have sex with a man.

ZUBY77:


I am sure I have saved more teenagers than you will ever dream of in this life time.
However what I don't support is for them to be Street prostitutes.
They can have genuine boyfriends or husbands.

This place is not America where social system can provide for a 40 year old single woman.
This place is called Africa where nobody, even your parents supports you at that age, they expect you to support them by then instead.

I am sure you have. In your deluded mind, you think by sleeping with them under the pretense of love or whatever your deluded mind comes up with it, and the change you give them is saving them. I hope you saved the male teenagers too. And for their sake, I hope you didn't save them same way as the girls. That'd be traumatic for them for life.
You want to save a teenager, make donations to the family/charities and pay tuition for them. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO SLEEP WITH THEM!!!!