A girl tells me she has a bf, that's the end of the date, and any potential for us.

Suigeneris93:



If I supported it,I wldnt be writing about it. The truth is that there are some reforms in our traditional practices but those reforms haven't completely eradicated such customs as this

Agreed.
It takes time and exposure.

Suigeneris93:



Yea true but customs r customs,nt so much has changed in some of our traditional societies today

Customs are also continually changed to keep up with the times. Would you support a custom such as this? Or killing of twins,abobaku, widows drinking late husbands bath water etc?

Exposure is indeed rare. People can be literate but still uneducated.

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Miggs:
this is what happens when u teach women how 2 read and write.they go haywire.a young woman bragging abt frequently having sex wit her boyfriend.this is d civilisation my grandfather gave his life for?this is why I believe d best place 4 a woman is d kitchen.I also believe women shld be seen and not heard.Thank God countries like saudi arabia,iran and afghanistan still exist.the men in those societies know d right way 2 control women wit an ironfist

Wow.... Speechless

This story is written in such a way to elicit overreaction from folks. Abegi

First of all, dude has no idea what his ASP brother has been going through over the years. Easy to judge and see the green grass on the other side.Having a job does not automatically mean suffering ends or dreams are realized immediately.

Also, the parents are the ones responsible for taking care of the family they created. If the sister dies of poisoning, neglect and rejection, or whatever the author thinks, he should look at his parents for that. It's their responsibility, not his or his brothers.

FYI...Next of kin means nothing when you die a pauper. So no one should assume the brother is coming back for money or land.
If the author doesn't want to forgive, that's his wahala and bitterness. I see nothing to it. But it seems he needs his brother more than he realizes. Not necessarily for the money, but emotional support.

That's disgraceful behaviour by Arik and the authorities. Its a shabby way to treat your passengers. Arik is probably saying nothing to avoid the bad publicity and the Authorities are too inept to do anything about it.

Illegal action. Hope the fuel stations sue.
We don't live in a dictatorship.

This is something that will benefit the family in the long run. What's there to think about?

This is sad to see

get a rich girlfriend.

I don't see anywhere in the article that refers to the sex of the victims. Could have been guys.
What's with the hateful comments?

ginawest:
you killed somebody because you caught him having sex with your wife?I wonder how some men reason

They reason like men. The ashawo should consider herself lucky to be alive.

naijaboiy:

A Lady who bought ice-cream for him and paid for it

I think that was the first moment he fell in love. The moment money was spent but came out of the lady's pocket instead. All the while, dude was probably calculating how much ice cream would cost him and how much more he will have left for the rest of the month. He even got free ice-cream. Chai! My brother, if na me, i go fall in love too!

Mrsixfeet:


LOL at stupidity at first sight. How more can you pay respect to the dead aside honoring them. A thread is a worthy honour and trust me she was cute and had a very nice behind

Must have been one hell of a yansh

drss:
wetin be ur problem Na must to comment for him thread? If u no like d topic vamuose comot.

Na by force for you to comment on my post? yeye

Eugenedimgba:
I think you are the father of stupidities.

Thanks dimwit.

stupidity:
it happens. Love at first sight ish#

don't exist...there is stupidity at first sight tho.

stupidity:
he's heart broken man, heart broken!!!

heartbroken by a lady he only met once in his lifetime? Stupidity

you dating a gigolo. not a real man. Nothing is wrong with asking your partner for a short term loan once in a while. Even rich folks get cash trapped once in a while. But the attitude on that guy, he is the one of the new age good for nothing, lazy dudes we have this days. The type that sits at home watching tv, chasing yahoo, and playing video games all day, instead of being out there hustling for a living.

You opened a thread for this? You could have posted on fb instead.

you keep picking the husband's calls? why? Is that part of your counselling strategy?

Husband no get time for his wife, but he has time to keep calling you. Who is fooling who?

espionagesavvy:
A top recruitment agency was recruiting for the bank at enugu. I arrived at the venue very early and sat in a small room with the few persons that had arrived, after a while people trickled in until the room was filled and the seats fully occupied, people had to stay outside, when the time for the interview was upon us, one of the officials of the recruitment agency came and addressed us about the importance of marketing to the bank, our careers, and to us as young people ( we didn't apply for marketing position, they didn't inform us on the role we would be interviewed for nor the name of the bank). The very funny stuff was that the job seekers were all in suit, sweating profusely, but none could muster the courage to put on the ceiling fan, when I asked the man closest to the switch to do so, he simply replied, "o boy u no get leg to waka go put am"

The interview.

This was my first interview, so I was a little nervous but excited, I had nothing to lose, they either accept me or reject me, I told myself people go to war and they don't shit their pants, I was just going to face a human not a tiger and have a constructive talk with the person. Names where been called, I didn't want to seat, I stood outside the room with some very nervous ladies and gents and they really appeared nerve wrecked, jittering and scared, I decided that I would not appear frightened, and that was the mistake I made..
It got to my turn, I walked into the office and faced my nemesis, my interviewer sparked

" MR Man who told you to enter in the first place, you are supposed to stand in the doorway until I give you permission to enter"

I apologized immediately and was asked to sit and then hand my cv over.

The first question, "mr man, what is your name" Sir my name is Ambrose ochuko

"Tell me about yourself"

I had practiced this question numerous times, so I was really eloquent. He laughed after I was done, and said " oboy you cram this thing". No sir I didn't, I had prepared myself for this question and the likes sir, I prepared myself for the interview Sir..

So you said you were the best in your class right? Yes sir I replied.

"What course?" International studies and diplomacy sir,

He laughed again, "you have entered my trap because I would ask you difficult questions and you are expected to give me the correct not near correct answers.

Tell me about the foreign policy of obasanjos government in 2000."

Sir, nigeria during the regime of general sani abacha from 1993 to 1998 was regarded as a pariah state, obasanjo tried to reintroduce nigeria as a responsible member of the global committee of nations and....

"stop there, you are speaking Grammer for me, what is pariah, eh..".

pariah sir is..."

shut up, I know it..

"You have failed that one" but sir I protested, "see i won't argue with you, continue speaking Grammer, I liked this, he said with a very ominous laughter, the lady sitting with him joined in the laughter, I felt weak..

"Your next question is tell me the origin of the igbos?"

No problem sir, I started, the igbos originate from the volta congo region in africa, they..

"wait there is that it, are you sure you did your african history well, university of Benin abi, are you sure you even graduated"...
Is that the only origin of the igbo race,

sir, there are traditions of origins which postulate that the igbos are from Israel and also another which say that the progenitor of the igbo people came from the sky, but these are just hemitic hypotesis and the latter is just untrue,

" who told you that the igbos are not from Israel eh, you don't have the right to say that, what do you think you know" I just tire..

Em, he turned to the lady and asked if she had any questions for me, to which the lady looked at me as if I was fart or even poo, a demeaning look with a laughter replied, Abegi no questions.


"Well what can someone who studied international studies and diplomacy do in a bank sef" Sir I began, international stu... "I have heard you, you can now go, we will get back to you..

I was disappointed not that I knew I had lost the job, but the total disregard of professionalism the recruiting office displayed. So if i may advise you, if you are seeking a job opportunity, don't appear confident, simply be downbeat and downtrodden. My first job interview was a total disaster but I learned valuable lessons from the episode.

That was hilarious. I hope you don't get the job though. You are more suited to better jobs/positions/things.

otakah101:
Its simple always make her to be close to you. If possible make sure she goes to her working place before u leave for work and while at work always make out time to call to know how she is doing and don't forget to go to her shop or office in d evening . just make her your best friend. Believe me she will definitely change. Her attitude is because u are not always with her so her former friends can influence her. Make her your hand bag. Don't chase her away. Runs girls always make a good wife. Am a living witness

you married a runs girl? Pls do tell

you are too dumb for advice. I refuse to waste my energy/time.

ChiSun27:
It all started sometimes early this year...it just happend and we connected. On my own part....I never knew she was a runs girl. She's jovial and caring.

I actually took her serious until I discovered her true identity and ever since that day....my emotional attachment to her reduced speedily.

I confronted her and she admitted living such a life but that she's willing to change if I'm ready to make her my 'one and only'. But to my utmost dismay, this girl no gree change. Her urge for money is on the high side and she believes that all those her runs yields faster income.

Wetin dey pain me be say, this girl get better handwork. But she doesn't want to manage her life with the income that comes from her handwork as she tags it 'not enough'.

I have tried my possible best to advise her on how she can improve on her hand work because the income is mouth watering yet she is not satisfied with it due to her extravagant life style.


As a matter of fact, I don pursue her on countless occasions, but she will still come back with her stylish way of begging, change kwanu...she won't change.

Peeps, I'm tired...I want to send this girl away from my life (but not the wicked way) because her life style is gradually tarnishing my good image and reputation especially amongst my friends.

Don't know if anyone in the house has been in this kind of crossroads before...if yes....how did you solve the problem?

The lady is so stupid walahi

Add your sec school and uni work experiences and you are fine.

Quit or look for something else if they think you are being underpaid. If they are being paid the amount that they agreed to when they signed their work contracts, then there is no problem. If they are being paid a different amount than what was agreed to, then they have a case. Else its business as usual

kiosk1:


The truth shall set you free
Conscience is an open wound, only truth can heal it.
Immorality thrives when the good do or say nothing. .......kapish?

Should I deduce from your post that she is immoral and you are good?

kiosk1:


Entitled to her own sense of dressing when she's fantasizing about becoming a serious public political figure
Bros, I no go take am easy o. If you like, you can rub lipstick on a pig. It will still remain a pig.
Is not matter of fashion police. What reasonable person in their right sense will vote for a mad hatter with this kiind of hair even as trade union delegate?is good to call a spade a spade.

Helen Mukoro or whatsername has not realized that the kind of dressing that is required for standing by roadside is different than the dressing suitable for any decent woman in the political space. Babe, go back to your night duty, but trash that your cockroach infested wig Jor.

Live and let live. If you don't like it, move on.

kiosk1:
DRESSED LIKE THAT?
no wonder she has to create her own party. No serious party can harbour an unserious lady who is dressing like club girl.
Even see her hair sef. The wig looks like cockroaches are nesting there. These are the type of ladies giving Edo girls a bad name in Europe.

Take am easy o. Who made you the fashion police? She's entitled to her own sense of dressing.