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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dependableGod(f): 4:14pm On Oct 31, 2017
Pweetiebabe:
He has done it for me o baby
What no man can do

BA! BA!! BA!!!

To the glory of God almighty, Jehovah overdo, mighty man in battle, I announce the arrival of my sunshine,the strength of my home, my joy, charming prince that made his grand entrance today @7:45pm weighing 3.1kg through VD and lil tear. Mom, baby and daddy alive.

cc
all mamas
Cravingchic


congrats congrats congrats!! Thank God for safe delivery!!! Welcome boo,may God bless u and ur parents!!
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dependableGod(f): 7:14pm On Oct 21, 2017
[quote author=sacredlily post=61639060]BA! BA!! BA!!!

My first strength, my joy, my heartbeat, my jewel, my life & my pride made her royal




congrats mmmm she is tomato JOS! Over cute!! Welcome boo, you are blest IJN name!

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dependableGod(f): 10:23pm On Oct 17, 2017
[quote author=ApotiEriOluwa1 post=61515182]My birth story: (sorry 4 keeping u waiting, nah vigilante tinz).


Congrats to u and urs!!
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dependableGod(f): 10:19pm On Oct 17, 2017
[quote author=SomebodysMum
congrats!!
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dependableGod(f): 10:40am On Oct 16, 2017
proudmom38:

Amen n Amen! I pray same for too ma'am.
U have a good heart!! weldone!!!

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dependableGod(f): 10:06am On Oct 16, 2017
kelizosuy:
Tears of joy are rolling down my eyes
The devil thought he had me but Jesus came and grabbed me...

Adele is finally out. She's so pretty I can't stop staring..
Mamas I'm a mum... I'm really a mum


Proper BA and BS coming soon

Thanks so much for your support


Congrats mummy Adele! Indeed GOD truly gat ur back, HE loves u soooooo much, yes GOD loves u!!!

welcome baby Adele, may d HAND of GOD protect u, may u continue to make ur mum proud!

Finally it ended in praise THANK GREATEST JESUS!!
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dependableGod(f): 11:03pm On Oct 15, 2017
mmmm Proudmum38 and Completey I don't just know what or how to thank u mothers! For your love and total concern for someone u knew through online?? Seriously I'm short of words! You mothers are rare GEM!!

May GOD bless u and ur families, when u need help and no one around OH my GOD will send u helpers! U will never b helpless as long as GOD liveth! Grace Grace will speak for u and always make ways where its seems there is none!

Thank u, thank u and thank u!!!!!

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dependableGod(f): 12:48pm On Oct 13, 2017
beyedew:
BS!

Starting from when the kpekus that resulted to this pregnancy, this preggy has been eventful. From threatened miscarriage, to me resigning from work, to experiencing heartbreaking weakness (someone that was very agile), to mood swings, to having malaria, upper respiratory tract infection, typhoid and hepatitis all at once, to wasting money going for scans all to know the sex of my yellow pawpaw and the boy no just wan respect em self, to having vericose veins, although my gynea said it was bad (em dey tell em self), to having correct boils everywhere for body,  even inside my trust bank, to having akpu behind, to being depressed, to developing hbp towards the end. My sisters, I saw it all. But in all, I give glory to God.
 After waiting and wasting money going for scans, I decided not to go again, during my 1st baby's time, my bag was already packed at 5months, but in this my bun, at 37 weeks and 4days, I just got essential things that wasn't dependent on the sex of lo. October 6th saw me going to the market to get essential things, after all my waka, I just decided to pity the bun and go check in another scan center to see if I can have a positive result about its sex. Can you believe that this dude was still hiding oo, I asked the sonographer how big em kini dey cos me no just understand, he said "madam, don't worry, he will perform well when the time comes". I use fear and faith together believe am. During the scan, the guy just gave me a heartbreaking news, my baby was heads down but facing up, that was all he said. I got scared, he also changed my edd to 18th instead of 24th. I took the result to my gynea and he asked me to go do a repeat scan downstairs, I rushed down, all the energy I didn't have before came flowing. After the scan, I took my result to my gynea and it was same. My amniotic fluid was reduced, baby's biophysical profile was 8 as against 10, baby was heads down but facing up. I got weak and started crying, called my dh, he ran down to the hospital, we both went in to see the Dr, he gave us till 10th of Oct, that if labour hadn't started by then, that we should come so that I would be induced. Choi, I called all the medical practioners in my home and they all encouraged me and told me to keep an open mind cos if induction fails, na cs pere! O Christ in heaven. I prayed and I prayed. I chatted mommy Zaynie up (God bless you a hundred fold), told her I needed items for baby boys and I told her how urgent it was. Unfortunately, new born baby boy stuffs weren't available (mamas una try, una no even say make una remain for me), she then offered to help me go to the market and get stuffs from the market for me, but unfortunately, my dh said no, I owe her a lot for even suggesting. Meanwhile, I was ordered to rest seeing as I was probably leaking fluid and my gynea suspected that maybe my placenta was older than it should be. 7th of Oct, I called my bestie, she came around, told her to get me few baby boy's stuffs, I planned using my 1st baby's stuff that I hadn't given out too. Thanks to God she got good stuffs too. I washed everything I needed, packed my bags and then 10th of October, I was off to the hospital with my dh. We got there and my bp was checked, I was in the clear, no real contraction yet, just all the kweke kweke ones. My Gynae asked a nurse to go check me (can't remember what he called it sef, cervical wtv), she did and I was asked to lie down for 30mins before wearing my trouser (yes ooo, I was determined to slay while in the labour room mbok even though I get plenty vericose vein, but na when you open the cloth you go see am na! Atleast I didn't paint my face ni, so I tried.), after all had been done, I was informed that a room had been set up for me. I went there and I slept for a long time, amidst contraction that wasn't really all that painful. Around 6pm, I rang for a nurse that I needed to poop and the nurse came and said she needed to check me, I told her that I was sure it was baby that was doing me but better shi.t, still she insisted, so I allowed her now, shebi na she I go blast with poop abi, after checking, I asked her how many cm I was and she said I just started that I was just 2cm gone, choi, I weak. I sha went and pooped my thing. By then my dh had gone cos he was called for something important, so I called him and informed him about what the nurse said, he came back and stayed with me, we were just gisting normal gist. Shortly after, a nurse was sent to come check on me and also to ask me to come down which I did. Na there problem start. They used one instrument like that to check for baby's heartbeat and they couldn't find it. Eh!!! 3nurses checked but couldnt find it, my Gynae was alerted and he got into the room, he used same thing to check, went round the delivery table checking for baby's heartbeat, nothing! Hieee, I popped on myself. My Gynae ran to his office and got one portable stuff like that (I don't know the name and it was the least of my problems), poured that liquid stuff that sonographers usually pour on someone's stomach before carrying out a scan, and he started searching for baby's heartbeat. After a while, it was found but it wasn't as strong as it should be. Once I start contracting, the heartbeat would reduce, then pick up after each contraction. Baby's heartbeat was reading 92 as against the normal 140 (+/- 20). He then told I and my dh that he needed to carry out cs and he needed to carry it out ASAP. Immediately I heard cs, my bp started rising. By then my mil don show. I started crying, when my dh saw that I was crying, him too started, imagine person wey suppose dey console me, I leave my own cry come dey console am, later him go dey form jagaban! My dh asked my gynea if we could discuss and he gave the go ahead and told us to come see him in his office after our discussion. By then, momsy was already calling all the pastors that she could. Unknown to us, baby's heartbeat was dropping more and more. After our village meeting, I and my dh went to see the Dr and he told me that really soo many things were wrong with the baby (God forbid), not me. My fil called him and he told him same thing that if we wanted a life baby that we needed to carry out cs and we needed it ASAP cos he said I was just 2cm gone and there was no guarantee that baby would stay put all through the period of labour. My dh looked at me and said "baby, make the decision", and I said to the "Dr, please bring out my baby". We got to the theater and when Dr checked baby's heartbeat, it had dropped further, O Christ, then the nightmare started. Dr said he wouldn't be able to give me general anesthesia or even that one that would know me off from my stomach below cos it might affect my baby. Then he asked me if he should go ahead and give me the general one or just local one while I bear the pain. My mil screamed and said Dr please give her the general one please, but I told my Dr that I had suffered too much on this preggy to not go home with my baby, dude bring it on, motherhood is divine. He started administering the local anesthesia, chooking me needles everywhere, I was given 40mls of the local anesthesia (and I fear needles like mad), my 2 hands and legs were bound and the procedure started. 1st layer, I didn't feel any pain, didn't even know when I was cut, then 2nd layer, the painful biatch started, O Jesus, it was hell. My dh who promised to be with me in sickness and in health ran away. My mil was holding my head and her tears were falling down my face while speaking in tongues (she sabi now, me no sabi speak kpam), my sisters, it was hell. When my gynea got to the 4th layer, I thought I was going to die, my only hope was the fact that I was going home with a living child mind you amidst all this, I was still feeling contractions. I started chanting "Overcame" by Ada. When he said he wanted to bring out my baby and he tried bringing it out, the kind shout wey I shout ehhh, he told a nurse to please knock me out, that I had tried. I was knocked out but made to understand that I was still chanting my "Overcame", I know I was chanting it while in ulala land but didn't know I was chanting it in real life. I also heard the cry of my baby while in ulala land, it was very weak. They said Baby had already pooped inside my stomach and had some poop on his mouth. He was quickly cleaned up and hooked to an oxygen tank although for few minutes (he weighed 3kg). After I was stitched, I was allowed to sleep in the theater for good 2hours before I was wheeled to my room with everyone still in attendance. My Gynae ordered that I should be given the best room in the hospital cos I deserved it. I really OVERCAME. We are still at the hospital and I'm recovering very fast. I OVERCAME. I don't know how long it will take but ima get my flat tummy back (yea, I'm vain like that). I don't and won't wish my enemy the experience I had. It wasn't easy at all.
May God make it easy for all of us. You too will overcome no matter the situation, just have faith. I keep on imagining what would have happened if I didn't go for that scan that day. I give glory to God cos I really Overcame in every angle.
Bs submitted.
Cc- Pweetiebabe.
Thanks mamas for all the likes and mentions, I can't reply all, the love is 10 much kiss kiss. One love kiss kiss.
Breastmilk was established around 2am on 11th, I Overcame still. Getting my yellow pawpaw to latch on wasn't easy but cos I'm an Overcomer, I still Overcame smiley.
Ehen, forgive all typos tongue.
Since depression or wtv didn't allow me participate in bumpy tues, here is me on the 10th, going to the hospital, I pray it shows sha!


OMG!!! mmmmm c. o. n. g. r. a. t. u. L. a. t. I. o. n! I'm truly short of words!! Indeed u OVERCAME mmmmmm u are a HERO!!!!

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dependableGod(f): 10:57am On Oct 12, 2017
proudmom38:
Team April mamas, please appoint another mama to take over from here! May you all carry to term and birth your los with ease....Mother alive, baby alive, father alive with plenty money!


Sorry I couldn't lead you guys to our destination! God knows best......

ONE LOVE, ALWAYS! (In nurse kaffy's voice)


PEACE!


It is well dear, get ready for a marvelous testimony!! GOD WILL DO IT again and again and again!!! Just relax!! My regards to your fam!!

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dependableGod(f): 3:03pm On Sep 29, 2017
proudmom38:
I really really appreciate you mamas for your prayers and love to my son Baby Wealth! GOD bless you abundantly and may His presence shine upon your household! May we never weep over our little ones in Jesus name.....Amen!

Thank you! Thank you!! Thank you!!!

Attached is proudy's pics in the hospital!

It can only b GOD!! thank u JESUS!
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dependableGod(f): 8:05pm On Sep 28, 2017
proudmom38:
Mamas please pray for lil Proudy. Took him to hospital this morning cos he was so weak last nite n pale, checked his pcv n its 12%.

They said he needs blood transfusion!

Everything happened so fast....

In the hospital now.


He is healed IN JESUS Mighty name Amen!!
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dependableGod(f): 1:41pm On Sep 27, 2017
kelizosuy:
I'm so vexed right now ehn...
My cousin that gave me assurance that she's coming to do omuguo for me just called to tell me she's sick so she can't make it.
After putting my hopes in her.
Well I get hand and leg and I'm going to do my omuguo myself, hopefully labour will be smooth and short.

It's not easy like dat.... mmmm u need help for a first time mum. Jor arrange for plan B, church member, street reliable elderly mothers or even neighbors too. Beg them in advance dat whenever u call for dem, they shd please answer u.

I pray u get good and God fearing ones! Don't worry u and ur princess will b fyn by God's grace! cheers!
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dependableGod(f): 1:22pm On Sep 27, 2017
Prettyhurts:


Postpartum depression is real dear, you can't do the ọmụgwọ alone. You'll do sitzbath, vigilante, cook, bath baby, cleaning, washing, going to market, bath yourself e.t.c. What if you've tear(perineal or episiotomy)? How will you sit down and do everything? Even if someone comes to bath baby, you still need help.

Your trusted friends nko, cousins, relations, what of going to your parents house or any good relations that will gladly accommodate you.


You said it all!

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Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by dependableGod(f): 6:17pm On Sep 24, 2017
nancyij:
good morning mothers,pls I need help,my one yr daughter av been stooling and vomiting since 3 dàys now,I av given her ORS but once it enter her mouth she will vomit it,and she av not eatin since 3days now,the stooling and d vomit have not stopped,pls what will I give her that will stop all these..

Pls take her to d hospital fast!! Babies stooling n vomiting is not nice mbok!

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dependableGod(f): 9:18pm On Sep 20, 2017
Liftedhands:



Where those boys weh I say make them clear the grass for this land!?? Oya do sharp sharp the owner don come.

chaiii !!!! Thank U JESUS!!!!

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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by dependableGod(f): 9:01pm On Sep 20, 2017
[quote author=4realwoman post=60654595]Good Afternoon mama and papa in the house.
How are we all doing today?

I want you all to join me in thanking our GREAT GOD.
I call him,
The king of Kings
The Lord of Lord
The I AM that I AM
The first and the last
Who is and who is to come
The mighty one of Israel
I call him yahwah
The Alpha and Omega
All Sufficient God, all knowing God
The rose of sharon
and my igbo people call him
Chuckwuoma
Eze ndi Eze
Ejide obi esike
Ikuku amanoya
Echeta Echezo nkpa
Dike na'gha
Imela (thank you)

For he has done what no man can do.

Finally our God has answered me

He has giving my dh the best birthday gift ever

I have gotten my BFP it can only be God

Thank you Lord
Thank you Lord
Thank you Lord
I can't thank God enough cry cry cry cry cry

Thank you everyone for your prayers, support, care and love here.

Thank you all with love from me kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss

I WANT YOU ALL TO KNOW THAT NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR GOD TO DO

YES, NOTHING AT ALL.

HE WILL DO FOR EVERYONE HERE IN JESUS NAME, AMEN



@Liftedhands, i am coming for my plot of land ooooooooooooo
@Zaynie, please roll out the red carpet and the golden chair cos i am coming now.
@Fpeter, thank you for your prayers.
@mummykyrti, curvilicious, tsquaure, loisemm, spiritualgal, adejeve and pweetymii thank you for always being there for me

@Towerofgrace, i read your dairy and tears came out of my eyes this morning, i want to kw that God will surely weep your tears and come 2018 you shall be called mother in Jesus name, Amen.

BFP will go round for each and everyone here in Jesus name, Amen.

[b]Please if i dont mention you name, please abeg dont be angry with me cos i am still shaking please. just kw that i love you






Wawuuuu!!!!! Faithful Awesome and marvelous God, we say THANK JESUS!! only U has done wat no man can do!!!

mama congrats congrats congrats to u and urs!!

It has finally ended in praise!!

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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by dependableGod(f): 9:11pm On Sep 15, 2017
Redeemed:
To all my wonderful e-sisters, mummyJJ, dep07, 4realwoman, fruitfulray, janix2, miraclebaby, pweetymii, fruitfulnathia, dependable God, tsquare, omojudy, cuppy mummy, dutchessgoddess and everyone, thank you for your responses and prayers.

Who else would know where the shoe pinches except the person who wears it. I tried searching my heart to know if the statement was actually true. Hmm! many waters have passed under the bridge but I bless God's for His sufficient grace upon my life, it can only be God. I'm six years in marriage, done three hsg, myomectomy, countless HVS, scans and lot more......, not to mention various drugs, injections and herbs.
In all, I give God all the glory because only the living can TTC, though it may tarry but God's promise will surely come to pass.
I'm a happy woman though I still soak my pillow with tears sometimes but it has never deterred me from having good relationship with people and this has made so many persons not to know I'm waiting for Ayomide.
Moreso, no matter how close I am with people, i dont discuss my ttc challenges with anyone except mamas that here or GTC mamas because they are the only people that can feel my pains, so why bother carrying sorrowful face or been petish when I know God's word must definitely come to pass in my life and other GTC mamas in the whole world.

Baby dust and fertility blessing toveveryone.!

*i'mnotanobjectofpity*
*nothing domeinjesuaname*
* makeupmodeactivated*
*ttccantkillmyswagger*
*thejoyofthelordismystrenght*
*it shallendinpraise*


Mama just have dis in mind dat surely and truly IT WILL END IN PRAISE!! Keep on holding on!! GOD no dey fall hand!! cheers!!
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by dependableGod(f): 11:30pm On Sep 13, 2017
Redeemed:
@purelady, happy birthday sis. Wishing you many more fruitful years ahead in Jesus name.

@Iamajoyfulmother, congrats dear, this shall be the beginning of your testimony in Jesus name.

My faith looks up to the Lord, for He's my strength. I'm just trying to be strong, AF showed up this morning.

A sister asked me on Saturday if I was trusting God and I answered yes. She said anytime she sees me, something tells her that I'm not desperate enough.
I beg, can someone explain how To recognise a desperate GTC sister?

Don't mind such people, maybe u are shining and happy always I guess which is d best. she wants u to be sad and unkept or turn her to God by lamenting and crying to her, such people will pretend to be by ur side but laugh at ur back though some are genuine encouragers and many are fake!

When I was ttcing someone said I was not sober!! sober for wat kwanu?? persin die?? I was always happy and grateful but they don't know I don't sleep at night always crying, thank God for my sweet husband, God will continue to bless him for me, he is my backbone, my oyom! He encouraged me, sang for me, cracked many jokes unless he sees me smiling he won't stop! The next day I will be full of life again and this makes people think im not sober enough, they don't know my secret is God and my Godsent huzzy!

So my dear mama don't mind them it's only God that gives children, being sober does not solve natin, when it's God's time He will do it!! God don't need anyone's approval to bless u!! He is GOD the impossibility specialist, the only giver of children!!

The same GOD that made me mother of children today, will do it for u, He will weep ALL those tears, ur sleepless night will be for nursing ur babies not wetting ur pillow crying for a child again IJN amen!

Just hold on because delay is not denial!! You too will testify!!!

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dependableGod(f): 1:09pm On Sep 06, 2017
peggygee:
BA! BA! BA!
My princess arrived yesterday, at exactly 8:42pm weighing 3.5kg with a little tear. Mother and Baby doing great, father has been jumping and dancing since yesterday. Lol

I thank God for the grace and the privilege to be a mother.

I wish the remaining September mothers safe delivery of their Lo's. May God who did it for me do it for you all.

Wish all other momas safe delivery too.

Cc: katchycouture

@jazzyjazz, tnks sis, your sis is now a mother.

Thanks to all who cared abt me and answered my sometimes weird questions, and also to those who checked up on me I heart you all.

B.S will be submitted later. Vigilante is very real

Finally ended with praise! Thank U Marvelous JESUS!!! Congrats to u and ur fam!!

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Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by dependableGod(f): 9:45pm On Aug 15, 2017
Hope baby is getting better now? GOD supernatural healing is her portion IJN amen! cheers!

cc: spiceeamiee

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dependableGod(f): 5:13pm On Aug 15, 2017
katchycouture:
GOD has done it again oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo,
The ALAGBADAINA has manifested himself and shown his glory...

I had the most beautiful girl on planet earth yesterday sometime before 5pm, I don't know her weight yet but she is here in the ward with me where I can see the nurses feed and bath her....

She very healthy and bigger than some babies that reach to term..
Abeg who help me JESUS oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo ...help me thank am well well...

Thank U Great Jesus! congrats ! GOD is faithful!!!
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by dependableGod(f): 1:38pm On Aug 14, 2017
spiceeamiee:
Mamas good morning. My baby has been throwing up since every fees yesterday evening because someone fed her ice cream yesterday. Ice-fucking-cream! Who Does that? Who feeds a 5week old baby Ice cream? My 47years old Sister in law that you expect would know better. I'm literally shaking as I'm remembering this. Now my baby is throwing up at every feed. She throws up every thing she is fed and starts crying and then I have to feed her again and she throws up and starts crying. This is how it has been since last night. We would do n go to the hospital, just waiting for hubby to come and pick us up but she has managed to sleep and I'm wondering if anybody has any remedy for me.

Meanwhile, make una help me judge this matter as I'm about to go off tangent and insult somebody not minding she is almost 20years older than me. My husband comes from a large family of 9children and he is the last born and you know how large families are. Although they same mother and father, kwanta dey plenty so I dey try stay on my lane but I'm very close to my husband's immediate elder sister who had her baby 's birthday yesterday so everyone was there. I was in the sitting room with my baby but tge party was downstairs so this my eldest SIL (let's call her A) comes up with their eldest brother's daughter who is 9months and she starts feeding her ice cream. I did not say anything but in my mind I felt it was wrong. About 30mins later, I wanted to go downstairs and take something so I have my bay to my husband's cousin. Less than 10mins ,I was back and I saw my baby smacking her lips with A trying to scoop more ice cream into her mouth. To say i was she'll shocked is an understatement. This is a 5weeks old baby for pete' s sake!! How are you feeding her ice cream? I quickly dashed and carried my baby from her and said (not to her face though but loud enough for her to hear) that she should never try that with my baby. I angrily left for a friend's house close by and did not return to the party until my husbAnd was ready to leave. Now SIL A married quite late and does not have a child. That is where I entered trouble. I was told she went downstairs where the party was and started crying that she carried my baby and I insulted her, that is it because she does not have a child? That I shunned her snd told her never to touch my child. Hubby called to know where I was and he came and I explained to him. He told me not to pick any of his siblings calls and we went home. Everyone started calling hubby telling him to put his wife in check, that how can I insult A who is almost 20yrs older than me? Hubby told them that she fed out baby Ice cream and they said and so what? God knows I did not say any of those things. I only said no one should ever in their life feed my baby if I'm not there. Now MIL and FIL are saying I must go to her house and kneel down and apologise. I have told my husbAnd I'm not going. Now baby is throwing up and feeling lethargic all cos someone that should have known better fed her something she should not eat and I'm being asked to apologise for being protective of my own child. I don't want to apologise but I'm being pressured to on all sides and its driving me nuts!

Your baby will b fyn don't b scared. what she did was wrong but for peace sake forgive and forget just go to her so that peace can reign, ttc can b so so emotional, makes someone to pick and cry over every every even when it's meant for good purpose. So many advice will come from different people to a mother of a new baby, when I had my first baby that wasn't even up to a month someone said I should put small soup in his mouth, I said with fufu abi? she laughed so hard that she didn't say such again. So dear sis I'm sorry is short but goes a very long way! cheers!

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Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by dependableGod(f): 5:56pm On Aug 12, 2017
jazzyjazz:

Ah no o Please no vex I'm sure it was an oversight
No wahala!
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by dependableGod(f): 3:14pm On Aug 12, 2017
jazzyjazz:


Trust me I've done all that. Still the bobo go cry once we enter church.

But the day we went to Mumsi's church he didn't cry o


Hope I didn't say anything bad for d little cent I dropped, bcoz you asked and I replied u based on my experience but u didn't respond. If I did I'm sorry.
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by dependableGod(f): 3:27pm On Aug 11, 2017
jazzyjazz:
Let me rant small Abeg

So ds hates noise. Any loud noise he hears, he will begin to cry! It's so bad that o don't sit inside the church in sudays. He will cry and cry till I leave the church premises completely.
Today's own was so bad. Immediately we entered the church he started crying. I didn't even enter the auditorium. I stayed outside with him. Breastfed him, even backed him and walked around but he didn't stop crying. So I left the church premises completely and went to the parking lot. He now kept quiet o.
But when I got to our car, another church nearby started their own praise and worship and he started crying again. I now backed him and walked around the whole parking lot till he totally slept.

I'm here sitting in the car waiting for service to be over.

Hmmmmm motherhood is not easy!


Abeg if anyone has any possible solution I'm open to it o
I can't be sitting in the car every Sunday na

Biko epp me


Cc
Alphahandmaiden Mizmycoli Beyedew Helovesme Enque Zaynie Liftedhands and all mamas


story of my life then but now he claps his hand more than choirmaster. Don't keep him in a quiet place much, when u guys are at home put on cartoon for him, d dancing and clapping ones it will help. He will outgrow it soon.
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dependableGod(f): 2:48pm On Aug 11, 2017
Loisemm:

Anugod, I am with you on this one o. I used to think my Dad was too strict when I was little, but just like you...today I really really thank God that he didn't spare the rod for me. Those days, the 'fear' of Dad was the beginning of wisdom. You dare not misbehave when he is around. Who born you? Sometimes sef, all Mom needed to say was 'I will report you to Daddy o' and we will start telling her sorry and kukuma respect ourselves.
Today, we are pallies. He stopped flogging after Junior secondary sha. I think after this stage, a child is already moulded. If u want to flog or discipline at this stage, you may be wasting your time.
To each his own. I believe in moderation even in disciplining kids. You mustn't cane for all offences. Sometimes then, when I started crying useless cry for nothing as a toddler (tantrums), my parents will remove every harmful thing in a room and lock me up there. I will cry and cry till I am tired. Then I will start telling them to open the door and tell me sorry. Lolz. I could cry for Africa then ehh. All na discipline.
( Edited to shorten the epistle grin)

mama u just reminded me of my sister-in-law's daughter she cries for Africa just for nothing and she will ask her mummy to tell her sorry if not she won't stop crying imagine lolz and my sis-inlaw will say no I wont lolzz she will cry cry and sleep there lolzzz

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Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by dependableGod(f): 5:37pm On Aug 08, 2017
Prettyhurts:
Good morning Mama's, thanks for the love yesterday. I'm grateful.

The result is out, no infection in the poo or Cholera. Told doc her feeding routine, she reacts badly to soybeans and the first and last time I gave her that was at 7months.
He asked me if I introduced anything new to her.
She poop now and the texture is normal, vomits mucous when she coughs.
They'll discharge us today around evening, they want to monitor her till around 5.

Introduced toothbrush last week for her, was it the paste (she always swallow everything). I'm using Maclean but for babies 0-3years. Is like I'll go back to sacrificing my fingers to her mouth/teeth/tongue.

May God guard and bless our children.

Amen! she is already healed IJN amen! motherhood nobi moimoi Jaree and we can't trade it for anything in d world! mama well-done o?

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dependableGod(f): 1:48pm On Jul 20, 2017
Damsel21:
Well I really owe this group so much application because it has helped moved out of my shell,right now am very happy lady duo i still think about d past but not as much as it used to be.i got a job Tru my uncle I went to visit on location 2weeks ago in lekki,in fact I was not prepared but am living fine and meeting people each day.as for mrking3 don't act to be mr perfect cus no one is perfect and I don't knw if u are pregnant either shocked@katchycouture thank u for reminding me cus I remember I got to knw names of movies I downloaded and watch wen I was still on sick bed thru this same thread so I don't knw why someone shld just attack me of derailing, embarassed @Naomi14 thank u for all ur words I appreciate you smileyto those mamas that give me some tips few days ago thank you so much I've started working on it will let u knw personally when it's all done and perfect Insha Allah kisssassyangel1 and GIddyperson and every other woman on this and on earth that believes woman shld be another woman's keeper may God bless you kiss to those that thinks am derailing this thread remember a particular drug can cure several illness depends on how it is administered lipsrsealed.


I will surely announce my BA here Insha Allah grin cool


Amen! ALL will surely b well! cheers!!

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dependableGod(f): 11:41am On Jul 20, 2017
mrking3:
I recall you brought this same marital issue here some days back that almost took up to 5 or 6 pages there about! Heavily preggy mamas had to suspend all other pressing issues just to find possible means to resolve your marital crises! In my own candid opinion, I think it would be reasonable to channel this issue to family section or any other section on nairaland that deals with family related problems or crises! There's no need to derail this thread.. This thread is strictly for pregnancy related issues anything other than this is a pretty distraction!!!

calm down mrking3! Just imagine she is your blood sister, will you chase her away even if she brings same issue to u severally?
I'm sure u will still listen to her, encourage and advice her!

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dependableGod(f): 9:54am On May 31, 2017
Benignasweety:
PART TWO! PART TWO!! PART TWO!!!

Cs you want abi, na wetin d nurses dey ask me o, den I was looking at them dix weird look like (water dey my mouth wen I dey talk am)
All dix time, Doctor was outside with Fil signing consent form dat reads according to them dat cs is a 50/50 something. The nurse came to shave me na em I tear her slap! Where is d doctor o, where is d epidural o... She said na d cs dem dey prepare me for and I was like ontop dix pain? Give me epidural and start shaving o....

They now brought drip, gave me injection, I heard buscopam, for my mind I was like haaaa no be dix buscopam wey dat midwife give me wey no work...I started shouting again o, call d doctor, I want to see d doctor, save me o, save my Zion.. D doctor (a very nice handsome young gentleman embarassed ) now came and said oya lets head to d theatre. They said I shld raise my cloth and take injection, omoh I pull out d whole cloth, wore dat dia hospital green cloth dat looks like dat of d prisoners and used my legs to run inside d theatre o.

Oya na, lie down, I couldnt even climb bed again, I jex hooked for dia screaming my lungs away... Na tydi cuz dix tin o, na em cuz am oooo now my abigail has tight like rusted engine and my Zizi jex cnt come out.. D nurses where laughing but for me, it wasnt a play something. Doctor came in and I rushed and knelt down before him like Inwould kneel to my God in prayers, Doc save me o, dont let me die o... He calmly tld me, lie down on d bed so I can help u, dix tym I obey o, lie an obiedient crayfish and dat was how I zoomed off to laalaa land where I was seeing myself as dead o... Omoh to die is scary abeg if datz d feeling {I dont mean to scare anyone o} in my little trance, I was like so I don die be dat, where is my baby na, how are my inlaws taking it? I said I needed to see things myself and dat was how I started running back till I cld feel my body.

I was talking but it wasnt like I was d one doing d talking o, everywhere was jex triple sizing in my eyes. They now tld me I have delivered and blah blah blah... Dey wheeled me out of d theatre... (chai bs no easy o, my hand is paining me gosh! I gatz finish dix biko). They took me to my ward and all I wanted to see was my Zion!... Swt Mil brought him in for me and I looked at my cutie and I was ohhh dix boy is too cute kiss kiss kiss worth my cs o...

Then I decided to feel my abdomen for cs pain but I wasnt feeling anytin, jex my hoohaa was hurting me... I asked swt Mil if I had cs and she sef think say I had cs o but jex wanted to calm me down, she said nooo, u born am o. She now opened my tummy jex to see how d site is but she saw nothing and she sef got confused. She went outside where Fil was doing all d calls of (ehhheee my son's wife don born o via cs, infact na wetin e tell my hubby sef) and asked him biko kee ebe esi eme operation (please which area dem dey do operation ). They got confused and went to meet Doctor who told them what he saw in the theatre was nothing short of a miracle... When I had d whole strength to push, Zizi didnt come, jex wen he drew his working tools to work on my body, d pushless me, pushed my 3.7kg without even knowing I gave birth, dey tear me, dem stitch me, only tin I knew was my baby was brought to my arms...

My God is Jehovah overdo, Fil said he is Chukwubuikem cuz he has no power of his own.., I learnt Zizi came out with tight fists sef like say he was gighting on d other side. He said itz power of a tither dat since he has never robbed God of his tithe, God wont let him use his tithe to pay for cs. My mom said a prophesy came to her early dix month that she will hear a testimony dat would look like a lie before dix month runs out... How wld u believe dat a doctor who has prepared me for cs ended up not doing it to me even when consent has been signed, anaesthsia administered and all... It can only be Jesus and I always say, he gat me big time! D man no dey carry my matter play at all.... Twale to master Jesus who did it for me as he would grant each and everyone of u easy supernatural delivery and to my GTC sisters, d God I serve who never fails has sworn he would remember u guyz and evryone will jex flood dix thread sotey we go reach 1mill page under 3weeks...

My hubby only learnt I didnt do cs yesternight sef cuz he said he was scared to ask me how d pains was and all, but swthrt u can always ask me how d episitomy pain dey abeg... D tin dey deal with me seriously! Even with mah sitbathe, though I started today... Another miracle happened dat day wey I forget to add sef, doctor no put me for maternity ward o, he said my son is special and gave us private ward with vip treatment grin grin grin... He still taking care of us via phone and he wld say, how is my miracle baby... We would start reporting for thread cuties soonest, una go keep something for am o cuz his fine can make a lame to walk, so seeing his face wouldnt be cheap u know tongue tongue wink

Tiwatopebam my able cappo and edd mate, I troway salute ma! I dey wait Zion edd mate o, it will end in praise.. All team June maamas, supernatural delivery is already urz.. Iyamormorload no forget to dey put me in dat ur prayers, I dey follow all dox prayers in faith o and so jex dey use ur prayer time to always remember Benigna and her family.., Thanks alot everyone.., Naomi14 I greet ma, for letting me join team Ma wink me I dey for d closer ripe date d better and God answered me... Mizz2posh said it, I believed it and that settled it! Team June porters, na only tmro left o, so on you mask! Abi na match? Get set ready!!!!!!! I will shout GOOOOOOOO!!!!! after tmro, stay tuned on d line....

MAKE I SLEEP ABEG O! DIX MY BOY CAN SUCK FOR THE WORLD! AFRICA NA UNDERSTATEMENT! GOD PLEASE KEEP HIM SAFE FOR ME kiss

BS! DONE AND DUSTED! ALL GLORY BELONGS TO GOD!


It can only be God!! congrats again mummy Zizi, u made me to cry where u said 'Dr pls don't let me die' things women goes through mmmm... Of course We will not die but live long to take care of our children, they will also take care of us, we will see our children children and continue to declare the works of GOD IJN amen!

baby Zizi u are blest and highly favoured, God will continue to take care of u, daddy n mummy IJN amen! welcome cutie GOD gat u !!!

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dependableGod(f): 10:10am On May 29, 2017
tydi:
All thanks to God Almighty!! Christ Jesus may you name forever be praised above all earth ..
I am short of words to type rather overwhelmed with joy nd happiness. the Almighty God we serve has done his wonderful work again, making me a proud father of a cutie bouncing baby boy!!!
my hubby benignasweety has put to bed BABY ZION, @23:45 gmt 28may though she is @sleep now cus Almighty God carried out the "cs" himself.
mama/papas join me & celebrate!!!


Thank u Great Jesus!!!!!! been waiting for this good news!! congrats to u Daddy and mummy ZION! God is too faithful! GOD in HIS infinite mercy will take care of ZION IJN amen! welcome Zizi(according to ur mummy lol) God bless u and ur parents IJN amen!

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Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by dependableGod(f): 5:52pm On May 21, 2017
curvilicious:


Thank you
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tks mama but I'm not ttcing, though I used to few years back God changed my story and made me a mum just like urs has changed now to d GLory of GOD! The same God that showed us mercy will definitely make every mothers here to testify too IJN amen!

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