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Round 12 is over, I think our boy won this one

Reussite:
Wow over 2000 guests on view. Half of nairalanders are sure here.
Anyway it looks like AJ prefers to win by points.

its hard ro beat a pro like ruiz on kO, its not like he likes to win with points... In fact he has 22wins of which 21 are K0

AJ has won this match

Any live stream link

fabianiyobosa:
Stop all this nonsense of being an elder brother, so you can owe your younger sister money for two months and not expect her to feel vexed! I don’t know why elder bro and sis always want to ride on the younger ones.

What if the table was turned, would you have allowed her owed you this long? Please stop the nonsense and let her have the money. What if she claimed she didn’t have the money when you asked? Would you have killed her? Now it is family, you are talking of calling your mother, what a sisi.

What if you borrowed same from just a friend you are older than? Would you have owed him this long or call your mother when he forces you to get the money back?

Just do what is right and forget the elder or bigger brother nonsense! Pay back her money.

I have done more than lending her money. I guess I it was she doesn't owe me anything. I have paid her.. AND I WILL NEVER BORROW MONEY FROM HER AGAIN..

KiidaACE:
I feel you bro, you're trying but you sound like a defeated person.. You're the first son and you gotta impose yourself and stamp your authority..

Say something and mean it, meaning you should never bluff. whatever you tell them, make sure to see it to the very end be it a promise or a threat.. Don't get me wrong, this doesn't stop you from being a loving elder bro to your siblings but they should be able to clearly tell when you're serious and when you're not and you should also limit money interactions with your sister..
Have some pride and don't borrow from her even if she's the only one available... It's better you be lending to her not the other way round..

Being a man ain't easy and the first step is total independence so move out bro.. But the real big bro's out there have the special power of bringing a rebel sibling and talking to them with love and without grudge.. Just one prolonged heart to heart talk between you both could do the trick..

Goodluck bro..

thank you very much for your thoughtful words, I feel relieved now

crackhaus:
Are you sure you're the one paying the rent in that house?

It seems your presence is not needed there.

I am.. I feel pain, cos I go through alot just for them, my savings is nothing to right home about...

Born2Breed:
She collected her money back right?

Bros, dey quick pay your debt and make more money. Money stops nonsense.

indeed money stops nonsense, but compassion is priceless, and I think I deserve it with someone I share the same blood with

KiidaACE:
Hold it and leave.. Complaining is always useless and will only make you more angry..

It's a shame though that "see finish" also exists amongst blood related family members but know this; your absence will surely be felt and absence makes the heart grow fonder..

Just finish up your plans, move out and polish your life.. They're still family at the end of the day though so try to call in from time to time..
And your sister still def needs a talk from you.. I suggest you sit her down and talk one last sense into her just before you leave..

Your mum is at fault in all this; putting such ideas into her head, what was she even thinking?..

there are some irregularities fostered by mum, but as a first son I make sure I break away from it, and try my best to keep the family united...

But my sister is frustrating my efforts and my smaller siblings are looking at/upto us

YourArewaSister:
. I would advise you to stop disgracing yourself by asking for help from someone who does not respect you!

And yes, leaving the house would definitely improve the relationship in the future. But please, keep helping the family particularly your mum in any way you can.

My brother I have vowed never to have anything to do with my sister concerning finance, this last debt, my mother was the one that coerced me into taking it, that afterall she was my sister. I tried to explain to her the incidence I've had with her before.. But because of the urgency of the situation, I had to take the money...

Meanwhile I always come through for her as a brother in times of needs, so I expect her to come through for me...

With all this stuffs I don't think we will ever have good bloods..

theButterfly:
Since this wasn't the first time she would take money you're owing her from your wallet (which also means this wasn't the first time that you sef are owing her money that she had loaned you), you should've taken your wallet to the bathroom with you and not leave it out in their open.

why should I do this in the house I pay the house rent for?

Olalan:
Please OP don't confront her..........You need to explain all to your mother and make her realise she has fuelled the disrespect your sister is showing to you.

she knows this, I don't know why they are doing this... In fact I called my mum immediately that incidence happened, and told her to call my sister to return the money as the money is not mine... She disconnected the call saying she was busy.

lilmax:
Whether to keep mute and suck it up as usual and wait for when I am ready leave that house cos I understand that too much familiarity can breed disrespect. I have plans to leave before January.



You're welcome

that's all you could say..?

paul1995:
Don’t hit her just scold her verbally and also expect some insults too lol ..

is that all I should do...

Nairalanders pls come to my rescue as I have always come to people's rescue in topics related to co-existing with other people..

I am the first son of my family, I have a sister who is one year younger than I am.

For a very long time now, in fact from time immemorial, my mother has always taught my sister that it is

"ONLY ONE YEAR GAP BETWEEN THE BOTH OF US" - SO THEFORE THE SENIOR RESPECT THAT SHOULD BE ACCORDED TO ME SHOULD BE MINIMAL.


So fast forward to today. I am owing her some money for about two months now. And promised to pay her infact I have paid half of the money despite all the expenses on me in the family. She asked me to give her part of the money today, I told her I didn't have money, that the 15k with me is not mine. That I will give her 3k to hold hand, even tho it will cause me great inconveniences. She threatened to take the money, the whole 15k. I told her to stop that nonsense and I went to the bathroom to take my bath. On coming out of the bathroom, I noticed that my wallet was tempered with. The 15k Is no where to be found. I asked my Lil sis, she said it was sister that touched it.. I ran outside with my towel, and called out to my sister, but she walked off without turning back...

I cried inside my heart, because I know she didn't really need that money right then... I felt bitter, I don't even know what to do.... I found a way to sort for another 15k.

This is not the first time she has done something of similar behavior, and I brushed it off, afterall she's my sister...

Right now I am outside a beer parlour watching a match and typing this.. I am not feeling fine at all.. I am feeling bitter. Until now I always forget quickly what they do to me...


I don't know how to confront her when I get home. Whether to caution her verbally, or give her a slap.. Whether to keep mute and suck it up as usual and wait for when I am ready leave that house cos I understand that too much familiarity can breed disrespect. I have plans to leave before January.


What should I do..


I live with my mother and this sister and other of my little siblings. And I pay the house rent of where we live.

Manchester united fans fasting and praying on the Mountain this is serious...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zT86bHgIMbk

Gaggi:
Let me say this, an introvert is different from an antisocial person.

I like a calm and peaceful setting and I enjoy my company. However, I do socialize with people. I don't have a problem calling people to check on them. I do play with my kids. My wife and I chat alot, we talk about everything.

The thing is I just feel calm and peaceful when i am alone. I do what I have to do with family and friends whilst also finding out time to do my own thing.

yeahhh, that's right that's what all introverts say!...

ominilongest:
with that stupid sarri wey dey use bentacur, khedira, can, ahead of RAMSEY,PJANIC,RABIOT...very sloppy mildfield

they are too lazy a team to win the champions league

KrazzyAndy:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ruos_yRjiHs
Geez and you wonder why it so fvcking hard to get to ace and conqueror
when their papa dey use six fingers to play
I still dey try master four tho

Egwoloko... is he human or robot..

Guys add me: DrimCatcher

NaijaOlosho:
Police in Umuahia the capital of Abia State has gunned down a wanted armed robber identified as Sampson Nwokocha, popularly known as Grave.

The Commissioner of Police in the state, Ene Okon, said Nwokocha, who was recently released from prison has been on the watchlist of the command following his alleged numerous criminal activities.

Okon said he was finally gunned by police operatives attached to the state command following a tip-off on Tuesday.

He said, “It would be recalled that on 6th and 10th November 2019, Nwokocha and his gang invaded a hotel and robbed staff and guests. During the operation, one policeman on duty was shot dead and his rifle carted away.

“Also on November 10, 2019, Nwokocha and his gang robbed attendants and customers of a filling station on Bank Road, Umuahia.

“On different occasions, he led a gang that snatched vehicles from their owners within and outside of the capital city at gunpoint.

“He also robbed other locations and planned to attack the Correctional Service Centre in Umuahia (Prison) in order to liberate his mother and other people.”

Okon warned criminals intending to disturb the peace of the state to relocate as the command will not spare them.

See Photos Below.........

https://punchng.com/police-gun-down-wanted-armed-robber-in-abia

Photo credit: https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1386992984794247&id=609387929221427

is my Brain doing me deja vu.. I tot they've killed this guy before
...

Cosmatikka:
All I can see it heavy metals welded together on top 4 tyres bought from China
The welding sef doesn't look neat

I am telling.. By looking at it. You just know they don't have a knowledge of what they are doing, and no research was out into it.... Just weld nonsense, and call a whole president of the largest black nation to inaugurate what anybody can wake up and do, no innovation, just plain Jane and they expect us to clap.. Hyi. Who do us...

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Money Issa bastard

recievesense:
But naija don reach to get this kain rail. If all Ibo billionaires can come together and connect south east by rail from onitcha to Owerri to aba to Abakiliki to Enugu kimon

railroad is a business killer for billionaires, favors the people but but not the rich

Hey maynation, good morning. I saw your mention yester night. But I couldnt reply because I was banned by anti-spam bot. (idk why you removed it this morning tho).

My last entry was removed by the same anti-spam bot.. This happens all the time, seun should make a list of censored words biko.

Anyway thank you for reading through my top secrets (obviously).. I will bring back the last entry when the second ban expires after editing it.
Gracias

ibkayee:
Me every time I see this Remi guy on my screen

https://tryimg.com/u/2019/12/01/tenor.gif

https://tryimg.com/u/2019/12/01/221075.jpg.gif

yeye girl you just missed a suitor.. Keep dreaming

I knew it, they wanted to shut someone up

Ghostfaze:
Kindly approve to the homepage, mods.


Hello everyone.
I have an unusual issue at hand and it's really giving me a headache.

I have a girlfriend I met in August this year when I traveled to my state from Abuja. She's beautiful, a graduate, and she's everything I have ever wished to have in a woman or so I once believed.

I loved her and our relationship was going to lead to marriage.

After we met in August I traveled back to Abuja and a few months later her NYSC call up came. She told me about it and we planned that she will serve in Abuja. I paid one NYSC man to work her posting but unfortunately, she was posted to another Northern state.

On her way to the state where she was posted she stopped over at my place in Abuja on the 3rd of November, That night we had sex without a condom and after the sex, I gave her a pregnancy prevention drug tablet I had collected from a doctor.

She refused to take the drugs not until after much persuasions. The next morning, some thick blood mixed with water started coming out of her and she was also having stomach pains so I called the doctor that gave me the drugs and he said we should come to his hospital.

We got to the hospital and after explaining to him what happened the doctor said she was already pregnant before taking the drugs that's why her body reacted that way to the drugs.

She denied that she's pregnant and eventually she had to undergo a pregnancy scan. The result came out negative but the doctor kept on insisting that she was pregnant and that the reason why the result came out negative is because of the drugs she took and how young the pregnancy is.

She left for home angrily that day and I had to beg her to forget whatever it is that happened.

A few days later she left for NYSC camp in the state where she was posted. After two weeks she started complaining to me that she's been feeling cold, hungry, and sleepy often than she used to.

I told her that it could be because of the change of weather and the approaching harmattan season. While she was in camp I was working for her to be reposted back to Abuja and somehow she didn't want to serve in Abuja again. She wasn't really open to me about that but she was subtly letting me know of her desires.

Finally, her reposting worked out and she came down to Abuja three days ago. Today she told me that she wants to go for a pregnancy test and I obliged and escorted her to another hospital different from the one we previously went to the first time she came to Abuja.

After the test and scan, the result said she's 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant. We went to another hospital and the result came out the same.

Remember that I first had sex with her on the 3rd of November. Tomorrow will make it a month I had sex with her but she's already 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

I could not understand why she should be 6 weeks pregnant when it's not been up to 4 weeks I had sex with her. I have asked her to tell me if she slept with someone else earlier before she came to Abuja but she has maintained that she did not.

I have equally asked the two doctors we met today plus a few other doctors I spoke with on the phone if they think that I'm responsible for the pregnancy but their answers are all contradicting.

Now I'm confused. She's in my house, with a child I'm certain does not belong to me. I don't know what to do. I'm really really confused. Please, any mature advice would be gladly appreciated.

Thank you!

be a strong man, forget what guys here are telling you... Wait until delivery and conduct a DNA test on the baby... It might be yours....

Aidejay:
Is there anything bad there?
Palm oil- vitamin E
Bread- good source of carbohydrates and nutrients such as magnesium, iron, selenium, B vitamins, and dietary fiber
So what?

wow. Just wow

Lalasticlala

This is a video of a moment in federal government's school feeding program where palm oil and bread was supposedly shared among school pupils..


At the point of reporting this news, I am not clear of the location of this incident.. However I can confirm the authenticity of this video as it was shared by a reputable source on Twitter..


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5KK4J1pkJwM


Lalasticlala MYND44