Gaggi:

Let me say this, an introvert is different from an antisocial person.

I like a calm and peaceful setting and I enjoy my company. However, I do socialize with people. I don't have a problem calling people to check on them. I do play with my kids. My wife and I chat alot, we talk about everything.

The thing is I just feel calm and peaceful when i am alone. I do what I have to do with family and friends whilst also finding out time to do my own thing.

yeahhh, that's right that's what all introverts say!...

Fairview1:
The most annoying part for me is that most times, I am always short of words or let's say I don't usually know what to say when I am with the opposite sex. It has cost me alot in my little journey in life.


Most especially in my relationship with the ladies. I don't find it easy to communicate my feelings and that has made me remain single as I had always been. Meanwhile I have been of age to to get into one.


Advise me please!!

lol. Me too. Most times I plan in out in my head but when I meet the person, words fail me. I feel most comfortable with older ladies, guys, older men than young girls.

cindybaby22:

Can i be your girlfriend?

Chai you are lovely. Be my girlfriend

hello good morning. am introvert.

hello people i love this group am so happy knowing about this great group , all what i read here is so true about me, mine is worse because am a visioner i see things and through people mind and heart, i gat only one friend, this group make me to understand better am happy about it pls any way to connect to the whatsapp group, or any friends available for friendship but i will scan you well oo lol

My own introversion ehnnn.... I love my quiet space, I can be indoors for one week and neighbours won't know I'm around. Now that everyone is getting married don't even know where to meet Mr Right or strike up a conversation. It's worrisome

VirgoG:
My own introversion ehnnn.... I love my quiet space, I can be indoors for one week and neighbours won't know I'm around. Now that everyone is getting married don't even know where to meet Mr Right or strike up a conversation. It's worrisome

hi are you in lagos

As for me I'm an ambivert cos I'm good at switching, my problem comes from staying around shallow minded individuals, I think different and its so sad meeting people who fall in the same categories and patterns of thoughts everyday, its really hard to find someone who sparks your interest

VirgoG:
My own introversion ehnnn.... I love my quiet space, I can be indoors for one week and neighbours won't know I'm around. Now that everyone is getting married don't even know where to meet Mr Right or strike up a conversation. It's worrisome

We are in the same boat man. Most of my colleagues and friends are all married and my own introversion is just too extreme. I've been thinking of how I will settle down and get married, where will I start from? How will I find a wife to marry with this my extreme character? The last time I tried to hookup with the girls of underworld, the girl was practically trying to help me rise seemingly to her that I'm a novice and I could barely touch cos I was scared. If I find myself in a crowded place or in a gathering I just bury my face and I try to leave the gathering as soon as possible. My life is fvcked and I just don't know how to unfvck what has been fvcked

jekks:
We are in the same boat man. Most of my colleagues and friends are all married and my own introversion is just too extreme. I've been thinking of how I will settle down and get married, where will I start from? How will I find a wife to marry with this my extreme character? The last time I tried to hookup with the girls of underworld, the girl was practically trying to help me rise seemingly to her that I'm a novice and I could barely touch cos I was scared. If I find myself in a crowded place or in a gathering I just bury my face and I try to leave the gathering as soon as possible. My life is fvcked and I just don't know how to unfvck what has been fvcked

You two should just get married. Heard introvert- introvert marriage is love made in Heaven.

cheesmooth:
hi are you in lagos

Yes I am

Apus:




You two should just get married. Heard introvert- introvert marriage is love made in Heaven.

I fully support the motion!

Goalnaldo:
lol. Me too. Most times I plan in out in my head but when I meet the person, words fail me. I feel most comfortable with older ladies, guys, older men than young girls.

haha.. as for me.. I prefer it when I'm among my peers , but admist grown ups, my mouth will be shut all through.

My problem as an introvert is that i can't find people (friends) that are like Me

I Spent most of my time alone and learning about new stuff and when i want to make use of some of this stuff e.g filmmaking, i can't find people who'd be interested and when i do, it turns out to be alot of work for me because I'll be the one doing everything behind the scenes and stuff

jekks:
We are in the same boat man. Most of my colleagues and friends are all married and my own introversion is just too extreme. I've been thinking of how I will settle down and get married, where will I start from? How will I find a wife to marry with this my extreme character? The last time I tried to hookup with the girls of underworld, the girl was practically trying to help me rise seemingly to her that I'm a novice and I could barely touch cos I was scared. If I find myself in a crowded place or in a gathering I just bury my face and I try to leave the gathering as soon as possible. My life is fvcked and I just don't know how to unfvck what has been fvcked

Your comment is funny though lol
How old are u?

Apus:




You two should just get married. Heard introvert- introvert marriage is love made in Heaven.

Yes very true
The marriage is always peaceful, introverts don't naturally like trouble

Rubbiish:

Yes very true
The marriage is always peaceful, introverts don't naturally like trouble

The Kid will be affected ooo and the cycle continues..

Bhadgirl:
As for me I'm an ambivert cos I'm good at switching, my problem comes from staying around shallow minded individuals, I think different and its so sad meeting people who fall in the same categories and patterns of thoughts everyday, its really hard to find someone who sparks your interest

what is your interest ?

jekks:
We are in the same boat man. Most of my colleagues and friends are all married and my own introversion is just too extreme. I've been thinking of how I will settle down and get married, where will I start from? How will I find a wife to marry with this my extreme character? The last time I tried to hookup with the girls of underworld, the girl was practically trying to help me rise seemingly to her that I'm a novice and I could barely touch cos I was scared. If I find myself in a crowded place or in a gathering I just bury my face and I try to leave the gathering as soon as possible. My life is fvcked and I just don't know how to unfvck what has been fvcked

yours is low self esteem .. who dey pursue you ? why bury your head, what are you ashamed of ? you need help

I need some encouragement people
I'm at that point in my life where nothing seems to be working in my life. Sometimes I feel like giving up and wish this phase of my life can just end already
Someone should please tell me "it's gonna be alright dear"

JGirl20:
I need some encouragement people
I'm at that point in my life where nothing seems to be working in my life. Sometimes I feel like giving up and wish this phase of my life can just end already
Someone should please tell me "it's gonna be alright dear"

It will be alright dear. I know it's worse for introvert cos you may not have friends to talk to and those close to you may not understand what you're going through. I'll say lean more on Good.

JGirl20:
I need some encouragement people
I'm at that point in my life where nothing seems to be working in my life. Sometimes I feel like giving up and wish this phase of my life can just end already
Someone should please tell me "it's gonna be alright dear"

It's going to be alright.

We're one family here, whatever you're going through, let us know. A problem shared is half solved.

Being introverted hasn't helped me especially in business. I struggle to advertise what I do to people. Working on that part already though.

I do have a problem with 2 introverted people getting .married. not sure it will be any fun. I met my wife through a mutual friend and she is the complete opposite. She is the life of the party. At our wedding, she had to dance for two. Lol. Local man was just embarrassing his generation. Luckily though, she is helping me come out of the shell. I now find myself being able to do things I wouldn't do on a normal day. I would just prefer that our children take up her nature.

Why introverts easily falls into depression.

SkinnyNigga:
what is your interest ?

people with my kind of personality(thats my interest)

Xzbit91:


It's going to be alright.

We're one family here, whatever you're going through, let us know. A problem shared is half solved.

Thank you so much for your kind words
I truly appreciate.... seasons greetings

VirgoG:


It will be alright dear. I know it's worse for introvert cos you may not have friends to talk to and those close to you may not understand what you're going through. I'll say lean more on Good.

Thank you very much dear

We are all in the same boat,I get moody most times and keep to myself.dont like socializing and most of the time people misunderstand me and sometimes try to take advantage because they feel am too quiet and gentle..

JGirl20:

Thank you so much for your kind words
I truly appreciate.... seasons greetings

Season greetings!

Hope you're OK now?

Hi everyone hope I'm welcomed here

Xzbit91:


Season greetings!

Hope you're OK now?

Not entirely
But I'll be fine