₦airaland Forum

shortgun:
I am always harassed by women anytime I go to the Market to buy food stuff.
They are always making bad comments about me coming to the market as a man to buy food items.

If I buy fish of 2k, they will say this "one u are buying fish of 2k today it's like madam is around"; I will tell them I live alone, they will be like so na only u go finish fish of 2,000. i will laugh this off with a playful reply


The other day, two women that came to buy stuff were saying to my hearing that it's only stingy men that don't want their wives to chop their money will come to the market to buy food stuff.
They said serious minded men don't have time to go to the market.
They were almost making fun of me but I kept my cool.
Me that is single, where is the wife?
I will ignore this one, for all i know, their puxssy can keep get wetting from gossiping about me in front of me, keep a straight face, and act like they dont exist

I was waiting for my turn another time for d woman selling vegetables to attend to me, she finished selling to d woman before me, instead for her to serve me next she turned to a woman that was behind me I said to her, "madam how much Ugu u want buy"
I didn't say anything to both of them, when she was almost done slicing the vegetables she now said but "madam this Oga first you come"
The woman said, "madam leave this Oga him no smart, I sharp pass am, that's why and I am a bully,
Bros this is where you fuckedc up, you should have left immediately you sensed you are not going to be attended to with respect... I wont lie you, if i goto the market as i man, i command more respect, they will mostly likely attend to me first, pleading with other female customers that i am a man, and i cant be standing and waiting for them (afterall i buy more), you should goto where you are wanted, i dont know what your location is, but down here in the south south, market women will calling you bobo come buy from me, fine boy (even when you are ugly)... You should have walked out them, even when they have served you half way, tell them you dont want to buy again, and move to the nearest shade, i am sure their neighbor will be more than glad to attend to you, if the seller is sensible, she will apologize to you to win you back as a customer...


I can bully my way to get what I want
Correct men don't come to the market, this one na woman."
I don't know if I should be angry,sad or just disappear none of that, be man you are supposed to be.. Know when you are insulted /when you are been played with
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Even the way they look at me with disgust is enough to give one heart attack.
They will keep telling me things like, Oga u be fine man and u get money, why u no want marry bros what is the location of this market, i am suspecting this is the way they behave in the west?? No customer relations...


Is a crime that I like to cook my meals myself...and cook good, very good
Is it a crime to be a single Man in this country?

Pls what can I do to stop this harassment by women in the market?
These days I will drive to a market far from my area to get stuff.
Not that I can't talk back at them but u know how sharp their mouths is
Is food stuff market only for women?
Local man is tired.

dayo2me:
I would like everyone to contribute to this topic.

I am 29 years old, by next month I will turn 30. But I am not happy that I am turning 30 with nothing to show for it.

There are lots of job opportunities out there for 26 years old applicants only, if you are 27 you will not be considered. Even the outsourcing firms are on this age restriction too. I went to an outsource firm last month for job. One of the guys that work there checked my credentials and said 'you are 30, I told him I am 29 not 30' thinking there could be a chance for me to get immediate attention. The guy told me, there is an IT(information Technology) interview tomorrow which I would have sent your credentials to the HR but your age is against you. I was sad about this.

Now, my question is, "would there be any penalty for age reduction"? I am using WAEC and you know what that mean. I am planning to go to court for age affidavit.

Your contributions is paramount here. Thanks

Offpoint:
I reduced 2 years out of mine every year for the last 4 years and it has been wonderful experience so far.

The joy of looking at your birth certificate reading '22' for 4 conservative years, it's amazing.

No implications my dear op, do whatever you have to do. Las Las no Nigerian is going to heaven.

Remember the longer you wait to reduce that age, the OLDER you'll get.

fairy88:
Mine was after working for 15 days, on the day am suppose to receive my salary, being on my birthday, getting to the gate, I was giving a sack letter and was not allowed to go inside the company, just like that, simply because I refuse to play the card..I cried like I lost someone, my pain was not only the money, but combining studies and working, yes I was schooling and working, morning am in the school, get home 3pm, leave for work 5pm, from work to school again the next morning, for 15 days I couldn't get enough sleep and it went just like that.... what would a poor girl do? Nothing, I got that job because I need to pay my fees, no appointment letter was given, who will fight for me? No one, I left it for God.

liquidfaya:
that's chenzen by another name.

GreenMist21:
And left. Chenzen should go and get a life.

chenzen:
Typing...

GreenMist21:
You are both ugly though

Stalwert:
Do you expect an ebrieted moro.n to be capable of understanding what you just wrote? Nah men, what you wrote to him is like explaining quantum physics to a mosquito .

Simplep:
Stupidity.
Even oyinbo that brought this proposal thingy are not this stupid,Nigerians and overdo...

Future hubby if you are seeing this,propose to me with just the 2 of us present.

Me that i'm shy,i will just cover my face and run away if you do it in public

Britishcoins:
Bros I wish I could physically assist you. To receive ur pin is the easiest thing in adsense, I have received my first second and third pin through post office minna branch, in fact my payoneer card was delivered and they even called me, my business now don't allow me to make money from Google, remember the threshold for Nigerians is 150 dollars hope you have sufficient fund 21st is always the payment date beginning...

I will forever miss my Indian and Pakistan friends those guys can cheat Google very well. We bomberd Google with admob u till the discoverd and made it almost impossible.....
I am now minding my physical business....

Ariza:
I read a thread here sometimes ago where Men were advised to marry and learn to love those who love them and only use and dump those they love.I asked how does one learn to love but my question was left unanswered, the ones who tried to answer only danced around it. No procedure or How to was provided and I laughed. How men bask judiciously in so much ignorance amuse me! They believe women learn to love so they can do it too.But only the wise one would ask how women easily divert this so called love on their children as soon as they are born neglecting the fathers. Was the love ever there?


The truth is you can never learn to love, you can only learn to appreciate.Love is not something you can create but Gratitude, you can. The misconception comes when people mix up love and gratitude. Contrary to what we see movies like a man learning to love the woman he was force to marry, No! he only learned to appreciate and live with the woman after his brain has been reconfigured by a terrible situation that might have caused him to lose the Good woman.

Op, you can't learn to love. You can only learn to appreciate, learn to be with and learn to accept your Man. In this case, look at the positive sides of things, compare his good qualities to what others do not have and accept him. I wish you luck.

landnewf:
continue saying it