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oyinye, abeg calm down. Im sure she said that cos she's annoyed. Dont know why people are up in arms over than and not the fact that a pregnant woman was turned into a punching bag

either way thankfully the girl has a sensible person advising her offline. This thread should be placed in NL Trash

staircase "accident"

Ebony-Silk:
Is California in NY?

maybe that's what she read in her Eze Goes To School

Beaumont:
they did - strike and pose and make a point?

Im gonna hold my breath and pray you can use common sense to figure it out.

Last I checked the UK supported the US in regards of the war

Try Again

someone mention obtaining visa, this one is talking about stowing away.

Did the accused black footballer get arrested in London?

Do you not know the story?

A huge majority of Nigerians in the UK and have sneaked into the country on a crate on a crate.

That doesnt change the fact that it's easier to go there than the States.

unnecessary ranting

osisi, you are talking to the woman offline abi? Please advice her well. Thankfully she's speaking to you and not the products of terrorized homes.

It's obviously a good majority is yarning dust for shock value/attention. Like I said before, quit replying there. Always the same ol' shit. You'd think they'd realize that most of us are bored with their antics by now.

Im glad that luvinhubby scallywag isnt Yoruba sha _{no offence osisi}

luvinhubby:
Dereloaded is osisi your wife?

You're not funny. Try again later

luvinhubby:
OSISI, are you a frustrated fourty something spinster ?  was just wondering  

Im pretty sure she's been married longer than you. Instigator.

**osisi:
If the poster is sincere,she saw this abuse coming
He didn't learn to slap women the day he slapped her
he must have shown several acts of violence which she ignored and may have pushed and shoved and yelled in her face at ocassions.

Very True but 3 months is early. I think the "Im such a nice guy" pretense starts to wan after 8months to a year which is why I dont agree with short "courtship". Dont agree with extra long ones either but really short ones are kinda dangerous

Sweet T you better be quiet. Mugun.

Thread's officially lame.

I have never been violent in my life but there are certain things that will produce evil in any humn being. The guy has absolutely no right to slap his wife but the wife has not told us EXACTLY what happened before the slaps

She's carrying a human being inside of her, who cares about what happened before?

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listen to Sauron.
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well you know such dont say or act out these things til they get you tied down. Help your sisters before they get trapped by knowing signs OFF an internet forum. Rofl

I may be talking to teenagers sef

Everyone dey claim big boy and girls nowadays.

Just look at the comments. Must be idle househelps playing with madam's computer

**osisi:
I tell women all the time to weed off these losers at courtship.
Most of these efulefus can be spotted at the initial times and kicked to the curb.

Lmao tell us the many signs of "efulefus". You know they hide it well at first

**osisi:
You are wrong in all counts.
I am very married,happily to a wonderful man that would not lay his hands on me.
He loves me too much to do that.
I make good living.
The home we live in belongs to us so he ain't sending me packing to anywhere in case anything happened.
In the event of divorce (God forbid) the house would be sold ,the procees shared and we go our seperate ways (God forbid )
I believe in submission,love,peace and harmony in the home but whenever a woman's life is in danger,she should not tolerate that nonsense

must you reply these people? If they wanna believe that only an UNMARRIED female would be against a wifebeater, that's their business. Giving all these agberos attention

Most of them were raised with barbaric fathers and weak mothers. Why wont they think its ok? Seriously, they're not worth responding to.

invisible!:
No am saying that African women are more respectful.

You arent making any sense. What does that have to do with domestic abuse?

invisible!:
Of course this is Africa and it will be foolish to behave like a white man while you are here, different strokes,

so you're saying white men behave better than africans?

invisible!:
I think the woman should apologize to the husband, this is to keep peace in the household. What the man did was wrong, and since they have not been talking to each other for three days the woman still doesnt know what made the man hit her that night, since she said in the second post that the man was gentle before.

The woman should apologize, period.

a boy.

must you always fall for the same old traps?

Um can we get the modify button back?

Dude, stay off the crack pipe

Most of the guys yarning dust are being predictable as usual.

Guess they think people still find their "devil's advocate" comments entertaining.

OP, I suggest you apologize so at least when he kills you, on your tombstone it will say "Ever the Respectful Wife Even Til Death"

Good luck

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r6XMiVijS3I&feature=PlayList&p=C8DB15F01E187D79&index=0&playnext=1

Very good movie

Til today their so called CCTVs havent found the guys who robbed the jewelery store. Instead they accused a black football player with a CAST.

sistawoman:
But this board is not about black americans but Nigerians.

It was a general statement regarding how upbringing effects how some people view sexual relationships. It's not about you

Black Americans have their own issues btw. Most are raised with church values which is why they have sex young yet refuse to use contraceptives cos then they'd really have to accept that they are fornicating. In their minds being prepared with protection of any sort means you're accepting what you're about to do but they rather be in denial and call it "heat opf the moment" hence the numerous children by teenagers

I dont believe I said you should care.

Just letting you know that they're full fo shit and people shouldnt take their fake compliments seriously

Its funny how men jump in with useless excuses to support cheating. "The girls wore revealing clothes", "They were pushing their breasts in my nose" etc. Interesting thing is,

They're pathetic is all

But u gotta realize that the men are'nt entirely to blame. Yes,some men go ballistic when their partners try to discuss their sex lives,but some(like yours truly)dont mind at all. In fact they'd be more than happy to discuss how they can please each other better,except the women disagree. I once dated a girl who absolutely refused to talk about sex with me. She thought it was dirty talk,n talkin about it somehow made her loose. I mean,how hypocritical is that?

How is it hypocritical if that's how she was raised? If they are raised to believe talking about sex is a sin, what do you expect?
when a person is raised by "western standards", you say they've been brainwashed and have lost their "culture"?

so what should they do?