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sistawoman:
If there are open conversations about sex and sexuality then showing what you learned is not a problem.

According to him thou this younger generation of men are far better at understanding this then his or his parents or his grandparents.

Im sure most of the guys on this board are younger than your husband. It's all pretense

AngieFan:
Spoken like a true British visa reject. Actually it is the other way around. Most people are refused Visas to the UK, get one for the US and start expressing their bitterness about not getting the highly valued British visa by slagging off the UK.

Um sorry. Everyone knows getting a British visa is 100X easier than a American one. Majority of my secondary school mates had to settle for the UK after being rejected at the American embassy many times. Why else is London pretty much Lagos? It's not even about being competitive now, most people that arent in denial are well aware of how hard it is to get an American visa

It's obvious those that are in support of loondon make their daily bread from that city and most of them were refused visa to American so they had no choice than to settle for London.
The fact that u were refused an american visa does not mean you shouldn't be objective, i'm sure the American embassy has reasons for refusing people visa.

sistawoman:
You asked me how can a virgan know how to play very well, and I told you how.

and Im telling you why it's not possible for some of them. What
's the point of "learning how to play" when she cant show what she learned?

whitelexi:
I suggest u buy a bible and a qur'an as well, read both from cover to cover and then return and argue your point

I have no business with the Qu'ran. Point remains there are many passages In The New Testament about one man, one wife. If you wanna be in denial, that's your business. Just stop lying.

sistawoman:
By talking to thier friends about sex.  By hearing other people talk about sex.  By reading books about sex.  By having conversations with thier moms about sex.  By watching porn films.

If she wants to know how to play well then she should do her research.

Give me a break.  First off, I bet YOU didnt have a convo with your own mother about sex, talkless of Naija women doing such so dont even start that. You have a long way to go in understanding Naija mentality, sistawoman. Marrying a Naija man doesnt mean you know anything about the mindset. Even on the so called "liberal NL", most of the Naija women that talk about such things freely are looked down upon by the dudes. They pretend to be ok with it, cool with it but they say crap behind your back, sometimes straight to face if there's ever an arguement in the future.

You really think when you start your raunchy threads, people arent talking shit about you? I assure you, they are and while they pat you on the back with "I love how sista just says it like it blah blah", the same people will use that VERY reason to never marry a black american. Better dont let these snakes fool you.
Many times you see them mention how Jamo girls and such are great in bed blah blah while Naija women are like fish, how many Nigerians do you know that are actually MARRIED to these women? They play the field with these girls then go to bush to find a naive naija chick.
Just recently jenni was talking about how an acquaintance of hers couldnt bring up bedroom tricks to her husband cos she did it once and the husband went into a rage demanding to know where she learnt it from, why does she know such things, blah blah blah and she begged him and since then it's been quiet missionary. These same dude will look for some hooker from the universities, complaining that the wife is "frigid"

You have a lot to learn.

. u can argue that the new testament says something else but it doesnt condemn marrying more than 1 wife, it only condemns adultery and fornication

I suggest you buy a new Bible.

He said that married Nigerian men, of his generation, cheat because their wives dont play very well and their feeling is that the women should come with this knowledge. I asked why not teach them and his response was that you cant teach a woman how to play very well she has to know this.

Rofl, Ironically these are ALWAYS the men looking for underaged virgin wives. So how exactly is a virgin wife "supposed to know how to play well"

Imbeciles.

Dont know about the people you know but such doesnt work in my family.

a man that wants to cheat shouldnt get married, simple and if women still intend on marrying such men, na their own wahala be that

Thanks Tpia

Their Yoruba is hard for me to understand sha.

Have you watched "Owo Eje" (no it's not a ritual/blood movie, its crime drama), majority of the cast were Ebira. Lol thank God for subtitles

i wanna see!

where's the advert for "condoms and boob jobs"  . Also Oxford Circus looks "worse" than that pic below

Kidman is definitely a better actress than Biel.

Another bone head just placed in movies to show off her tranny physique

Seeing that Bond's a stupid LovePeddler himself.

I have had plenty of babes back in naija to confirm that I am a great lover.

We ie Naija women are great pretenders.

Those raised by "western" standards arent tied by social stigma of being vocal in bed. If oyinbo tell you that you are boring in bed, accept that it's the truth

examples?

Yep.

Notice how women are 99% of the time only used as sex kittens in movies. So bloody unnecessary.

In your pocket of course after being changed for a bigger one 

small ring

Women in general are unnecessary in 98% of movies.

where's the link na?!

osisi quit being stingy

If people are doing this to get out of Naija what the hell should the Somalians do

Either way she obviously wanted her kids to be citizens of an European country. Sad

1. #1 you will find with most women, Naija women especially (though she might just do it while you;re out)

2. Maybe you;re the boring one. When women fee something great, they will react. The frigid excuse have been used by many whom Im suere arent good as they think

Sorry but your reasons for divorce are dumb as hell

(1) You cannot quote someone's post if the person's post is not in the last page, so i feel every post made should have a quote button.
I removed it.

Reason?

NL is the only site that doesnt have a quote button on each post. What's the cause?

obviously fake Funmi, that person doesnt have a Muslim beard

Lmao people just dey claim UK, yet their reading comprehension is pathetic.

so osisi has seen oyb and I havent. O ga o

Is his beard like Santa Claus?

sistawoman:
The guy should know the moment is right and just take it. Asking for permission messes up the flow and is a stop sign for sure.

Agreed

Unless the woman is angry then sometimes you better ask before she chews off your bloddy lips

I'll pass

Naming ceremonies are meant for real names. English and French ko. Greek ni.

That's what happens when women marry children instead of grown men.

what slowpoke makes fun of his friend for taking care of his own kid?

who is comfort?

*sighs*

why are you denying the thing all over again, osisi. You didnt believe me before. You found proof of it on YOUR OWN online(not on Nairaland) plus David, agbaba, chiogo confirmed such thing happening. Whether it happens in other tribes isnt being disputed either. Jeez.