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exactly why i have stayed in it this long. i really wanted my own story to be different and i know it would have been if the born again thing had not misled me. i so kept my self and never had a boyfriend until i met him. he remains my first date til now. i kept my self til marriage. i feel hurt, this is my reward for all those years of denying myself.

I feel very bad for you That's what happens when you care too mcuh about what society thinks. They are NOT in the marriage WITH you so if they said "well like mother like daughter", what do they know? They dont know your story. They only yarn dust from what they see outside and you should never let that make decisions for you. When your neighbors called the cops, you should have let him stay in prison for a while to wise up before eventually bailing him out. Shio.

Well the most you can do now is go and talk to your father. Stay with him with the kids, maybe then you have peace to sort things out. The fact that he would hit you esp in front of visitors is so sad esp since he's a good for nothing.

Dont understand all these pressured marriages to people one doesnt even like. not even attracted to. It's so sad and I blame our society since they make these women feel like they HAVE to join this institution to get respect. So pathetic

amebo no1.:
i think she's imitating epi and not claiming to be epi

afi bee tori oloshi ni epi ashewo yen ma de deal pelu e.

at least at that time, it'd be her own decision.

and why did your friend chnage her mind when she saw you guys in Germany

when did you become so nasty?

Didnt you just claim to be epi?

A moderator isnt supposed to have multiple usernames

IReport is Funmi eh?

Funmi, what happened to St Funmi this time

Economic crunch must not be that severe in England for them to waste food like that

well as long as your prolonged glances ends up with you only going back to YOUR WIFE then fine

Tpia you wan kill me. Snail?

*gags*

people still think Lagos is the capital?

tpia:
I think its a "black" thing.

why dont oyibos go gaga over women's behinds the same way.

lol they do, they just dont like 'em big. well most of them anyway

Ijawman, take your brother muda away

sounds your papa's name

why eat mango in the first place

kokoye:
I dont see how that's a crime, as longs as 'they' stare but do not touch.

quick/tasteful staring is fine (for a couple of secs), oogling like a depraved dog however should be a crime.

Some people believe she should have been kept on life support longer

Once I saw this on the hompage, I knew it musta been related to Morenike. Whats with you and babies sef

Someone should warn David to doublebag it

Im not telling her to stay but i think she can make her marriage work if she wants to,she has to let go of those pains shes felt all dis yrs :pains of being sold off to an older man,pains dat her family or father does not love her, pains dat she wasnt able to see life before being married off to one man,pains of being denied a chance to choose a suitor,pains of not having a say in her life,pains of suffering d aftermath alone,she can deny it as much as she can but dat is wats holding her back

How easy is that? especially since it's been 6 years

i understand how u feel,i was about ur age when i got married to,but i wasnt forced,it was wat i wanted

Then how do you understand?

Lmao spike, Downey definitely made that movie.

The whole love triangle/rectangle is unnecessary and stupid and catered to teenagers

chibic:
reloaded should check him self well and find out that tribalism is in the blood of all yorubas.any other tribe in nija can testify to that.afrocynic,i have read some weak lines from u.u got nothing to offer.u can't even battle on a real topic.u just cover up with those cheap excuses.the best actors and actresses are still from igbos.reloaded,na devil go kiss ur lips.animal!

Go to school, daft gay

She doesnt have 4 kids, where did you get that from

NY_WM:
I strongly encourage you not to leave your husband. Marriage is a sacred lifetime commitment and if you give in to the temptation you are likely to regret it later on. It is possible to rekindle your feelings. You should get counseling.

Forced Marriage isnt "sacred" so be quiet

jenny, while I agree with you. Ex aside, what do you say she should do?

*waka*

dae, more guys should be like your friend. Instead of goig around with their saliva stained ashy lips.

No.

The one about chores.

Who the hell is saraj and what is her problem?

All these lunatics coming out cos they finally have a holiday where they are "entitled" to drink.

saraj, mind your business. People are replying Leilah. Not you.

diapers need to be changed

wahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

when you were sleeping with her, why didnt you remember you didnt love her?

To the point of unprotected sex?

wow this dude is a whiny pansy. So embarrassing.

what's the correlation, spike