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kaziblake:
So he has no right sympathise with Belgium?
You guys shld leave sentiment aside,we are all human being.
Mtcheww

Did he sympathise with the family of the people killed in Aguta, Benue state and River state re-run election? Did he eve show concern?
I think you are the one being sentiment here.

Just picturing it in my mind how the lecturers would be struggling to escape from that single door.

Maka why?

Ok! Noted...

Just imagine. Which way Nigeria...

The masterminds of Paris attacks Salah Abdeslam. has been captured.
The police believed that salah is the mastermind behind the terror attacks that happened on November 2015, he has being on a run ever since. He was captured at Brussels, Belgium; followed by a shootout with the belgium police force.
He has been shot at the knee but alive, and was taken into custody.

Live now on CNN
Visit http://edition.cnn.com/2016/03/18/world/paris-attack-salah-abdeslam-fingerprints-capture/index.html for more news

Breast cancer is known to be one of the most women experienced cancer/disease. It seems to be a major problem in women, suffered mainly by women over the age of 50.

It is very necessary to detect breast cancer at an early stage before it spreads. If you have a breast lump, pain, discharge or skin irritation, see your health care provider immediately. If breast cancer is treated at an early stage, there is a chance to survive it.

However, the more it grows and spread the less chance to cure it. Although many women fear breast cancer, most breast problems are not breast cancer.

How to detect breast cancer

1. Lump
Noticing a painless lump in your breast is mainly the first symptoms of breast cancer, although not all breast lumps are cancerous. Most breast lumps are fluid filled cysts or fibroadenomas – a solid, round, rubbery lump that move easily when pushed, (occurring most in younger women).

Hints: you should see your doctor if a lump is develops, because it could be cancerous.

2. Changes in your breast
The size and shape of the breast could change during the early stage of breast cancer. But not in all cases, it could be fibrocystic breast changes – lumpiness, thickening and swelling, (often just before a woman's period).

3. Discharge from the nipple
When a discharge from a nipple occurs when a woman is not breastfeeding could also be a sign of breast problem or a cancerous effect, it is not necessary a breast cancer. But when the discharge is bloodstained, see your doctor immediately.

4. Rashes around the nipple
When you observe rashes around the nipple that look just like a small patch of eczema, it’s a rare type of breast cancer, see your doctor immediately.

5. Pain in the breast
Pain in the breast could be a sign of breast cancer, but not necessary a symptom of breast cancer; is not usually an early symptom, many women develop painful breast and it is necessary you see your doctor when it occurs.

Note: The first place that breast cancer normally spreads to is the lymph glands, in the armpit, if this occurs, you may develop a swelling or lump in an armpit. Moreover, if the cancer spreads to other parts of the body then various other symptoms can develop.

Hints: On a daily basis, before or during your bath; place one of your hand on your head and use the other hand to massage your breast and your armpit, repeat the same procedure for the other side of the breast, once you detect a lump or any other breast problem; make sure you see your doctor immediately.

Source: http://www.demandingtips.com/2016/03/how-to-detect-and-stop-spread-of-breast.html

Cultizim does not pay, please read your books and be useful to yourselves. Imagine young boys. Well RIP to the dead.

Damfostopper:
Post from a daft op.... I guess u wanted to say Calabar cos akwa ibom doesn't share boundaries with Cameroun

Geography teacher, what do you know?

Rest In Peace bro

Destined2win:
What if Nkechi and Damilola come out to tell you that what you wrote up there will make them friend zone you?

Never goona happen, with this Tips, you are good to go.

It’s very annoying crushing on a girl, who never feels the same way about you. Yes! I know it hurts not to be noticed; but hey! It might not be her fault, probably you are sending the wrong signal to her or perhaps you never send any at the first place.

Relax and fasten your sit belt, because I am going to show you the tips to enable you send her those signals that would get her on her feet, and start falling for you full time. Sounds great right? Sit tight

These tips will definitely get you out of that friend zone

1. Hanging around a lot:
When you are spending quality time with her, make sure you are doing the needful, don’t just be around her for God’s sake, take charge of the situation, compel her, and make her see burning desire in you, don’t give her the feeling that “you are her friend”, give her the feeling that “you are more than just a friend”.
This is how you will go about it; firstly, let her know how you feel about her by your actions, remember “actions speaks louder than words”, care for her the way a lover would,

2. Sacrifice:
This is very vital; you can’t expect some to love you if you don’t make sacrifices for her. This will surely send the signal to her of how much you truly care about her. Mind you, giving her money is out of it; because any successful man can give her money whether he loves her or not, except she need the money for something important, like paying hospital bills or school fees.
Make sure you make an impact in her life that she would never forget. Do things to her that no man has ever done for her before. You have to figure that one out.

3. Give her the eye:
During conversation with her, make sure you give her the eye, look straight into her eyes and don’t look away, when you move your eye away her, do it slowly and reluctantly. By so doing you are triggering what is called Phenylethylamine(PEA), a chemical in the brain secreted by the nervous system responsible in giving the felling of when we first fall in love. This is a major signal you need to give her constantly.

4. Don’t always be around:
Believe me, you don’t want to be a dummy or a nuisance to her, pay attention to this trick, you are about to apply the “Law of Scarcity”
When you notice that she is now into you and can’t go a day without seeing or hearing your voice; start being a little less available, then later be totally unavailable. This will make her miss you

Remember your presence will not be missed if it was not felt.

5. Tell her how you feel about her:
You don’t want to get her confused, after making her fall for you and you still never told her that you love her. Come on bro! You are making the whole thing so complicated.
Just tell her you love her and you are ready to spend the rest of your life with her. She needed to hear it from you, so tell her and you two are good to go...

Hints: Girls are very secretive; they can be in love with you without you even knowing or noticing it, these tips will enable you know when they are into you.

They always call you

They always smiles each time they sees you

They always have reasons to be around you or hang out with you

They give you gifts

They chat you-up most times
I believe that these tips is enough for you know when she is into you.


NOTE: Make sure she is into you before you tell her, how you feel about her.

castello:
What if I only want to loose weight around my stomach?

To lose weight around your stomach, eat less, but at intervals, don't skip meals, don't eat late, reduce the amount at which you consume white bread/rice or pastas, drink plenty of water and engage more on physical exercises for abdomen.

You feel something strong for your friend and want to take your friendship further but it seems your friend obviously don’t feel the same way.

Most ladies/guys can attest to this weird situation: You have that friend whom you develop strong feelings for and think your relationship can be more if only he/she stops seeing you as 'just a friend'.

You may want to take your friendship with this person further but it seems your friend obviously don’t feel the same way with you, even if both of you do almost everything in common.

this is how to 'un-friend zone' yourself and get into a real relationship with this person you truly like

8 ways to leave the friend zone, from a lady's perspective:

1. Show you are wanted: This is the basic and most primal instinct for men. All a guy wants to see about a girl is that other men find her attractive, and want to pursue her. Once this happens, the natural competitive factor kicks, whether guys realize it or not. Just showing you are wanted by other men is a simple way to get out of the friend zone. Go out to a bar, play a game of dodgeball, go hang with your "friend" and his friends, just make sure to flirt it up with anyone who tries to hit on you! The attractive factor is not that important, the key is just igniting the caveman in your friend

2. Don't make the effort: Girls, you don't want to be obvious that you want your guy friend. Blowing up his phone to hang out or talk is not the best way to win a guy over. If you didn't care if he thought you were crazy or obsessive, sure, constantly see what he is doing every night of the week. Let him come to you, and ask you to hang out. If he wants to talk to you about his about problems, or what is going on his life, let him. Make sure you don't overload him on your issues. Use every other friend you have but him, to talk about your life.

3. Keep sex life out of the conversation: First off, listening to him talk about the girls he has been sleeping with doesn't make you feel good, so why be that ear for him to talk off? Don't let him know you don't want to hear about his love life, because he will know the answer to why before he even asks you. This goes for you also. Don't think talking about that amazing date you went on will make him jealous. He is a guy, he really doesn't care. If you keep love life out of the friendship topics of conversation, he will always have a curiosity about your dating life. Keeping that hint of mystery is important to men. It lets them fantasize, wonder if you would be good in bed or not, think about what you are into or not into romantically. A guy hearing about your dates will automatically let them know where you stand on skill and promiscuity levels depending how long your relationship with those partners last.

4. Play hard to get: This is my most favorite way to get out of the friend zone. Playing hard to get is the solution to pretty much any boy problem you have! Guys will always make sexual innuendos to females, no matter who they are. When that moment of sexual tension, flirtation, or whatever happens, just resist giving in to it! The idea is if he throws out a sexual joke, he is expecting you to come back with the same sexual response, but if you play it off cool and coy he will doubt himself. Making him question where he stands with you is a good thing. Don't let him think he has you in his palm, instead put him in yours!

5. Be unavailable: When a guy asks you to hang out, tell him you have plans. Be too busy to hang with him more often than not. Let him realize other people want you around them, and you aren't at his beck and call. You just became ten times more appealing to him because you now are a chase, wanted by others, and making him feel and be unimportant. Have the ball in your court when it comes to making plans. Go ahead and even ignore his texts. You can respond in a few days when you are ready to go out with him. Make sure to not come off prissy and throw it in his face that so and so wants to hang out. It's not attractive. Remember, you are a woman of mystery! It gives the guy a chance to realize how much he enjoys your company when you aren't there to give it to him all the time.

6. Be the cool girl: Guys love when their friends like their girl friends, besides "girlfriends." When you are hanging out with your crush, make sure to really connect and bond with his friends. Join into their group, that way next time all of them are together you are talked about in a positive light. They may even decide they want you to come hang out with them, except you will be too busy sticking to rule number 5 in this article. When you hang out with your guy friend one on one, focus more on being able to have great conversations about topics he enjoys. It's important to put more emphasis on that when wanting to become more than friends. Men bond over connection so check out some of the stats on his favorite sport team, look up a new beer that just came out, or see the latest movie he was raving about.

7. Body language: When trying to win a guy over I always recommend using body language to show your interest. In this case, the body language you want to use is very introverted. Make sure there isn't physical touching. When you speak with him keep one shoulder in and one shoulder out. It shows you are listening, but you are still able to leave if uninterested. When you laugh together, turn your head to look around. Focusing on other people and objects in the room shows him you aren't that interested in whatever he is saying. When saying goodbye, if you hug make sure it is quick. Don't do any kissing on the cheek and part fast. This will all throw him for a loop, especially if you have been the shoulder touching, leaning in to him, 100% focus on him, kind of girl.

8. How you dress counts: You probably haven't thought that much about how you look when just hanging with the boys. Of course, you want to look cute and impress him, but this is the time where how you dress and when you wear it is important. If you are going out with the boys to see a movie, get some wings, do a happy hour during the week, sexy casual is key here. Never look like you tried too hard when the place you're going to looks like it didn't try hard to impress you. But, when that weekend comes around, doll yourself up to the dime! Let him realize you are one hot lady ready to go out on her night. This way it doesn't look like you are trying to impress him, it just goes with a natural Friday or Saturday night. How a guy first sees you is pretty much the picture that stays in his head until you do something to change that. So every time you go out with him he still sees that girl he first met. But if you trick his brain into seeing someone new, a different girl than he is used to, he will be seeing you in a new light.

Infidelity is a menace that has broken many homes, setting families apart in dismay; it's quit unfortunate that most husbands do cheat on their wives, and wives cheat on their husbands too in some cases; this is so as the result of individual differences amongst married couples who cares about nothing else; but their own selfish interest.

Research conducted from men who cheat on their wives proves that over 50% of men who cheat on their wives did that as a result of emotional dissatisfaction rather than satisfying their sex urge.

Here are some of the main reasons why men cheat on their wife.

1. Emotional dissatisfaction:
Most men got married without considering this issue; when they lose the connection they have with their wives, they set out looking for someone to connect with, someone to be their mistress, without considering what they might lose in their present marriage.

When there is a huge emotional distance and lack of communication between couples, they lose the connection they have before marriage; this is a major reason why men sees the need to seek for whatever he is missing in that marriage elsewhere as the case maybe, and he is likely to cheat on his wife.

2. Men are moved by what they see:
It is in their nature to feel lost when looking at a lady, especially if she is attractive and sexy, it is very difficult for men to withstand such an elegant beauty; because men loves looking for something good and attractive to connect with.

If the husband lost the connection with his wife, and pays less attention to his family, he is definitely looking for that attention and connection outside his matrimonial home. And when he eventually comes in contact with an attractive lady, boom!!! The urge to have her as his mistress will definitely sets in, and he is likely to cheat on his wife with her.

About 66% of men that cheat on their wives do that with their colleague at the office or their work place. Reason is because; they lost the connection with their wives at home, and happen to see a connection with an attractive lady in the office.

Two things are in their mind during this process.

a) The lady at the office looks attractive

b) They feel connected to her than their wives.

3. The type of friends they keep:
There is a say that goes like this “show me your friend and I will tell you who you are”, it is 99% true that our friends influence us directly or indirectly. Believe it or not, our friend’s attitude plays a major role in our lives and in our day-by-day activities. For example, a bird that have fowls as a friend, and walk with them, will someday forget that he can fly…

When he hangs out with friends that cheat on their wives, he himself will see it as a common thing and would do the same as them. They have influenced him without actually telling him to do so, he did that at his own will because; his friends who are good people also cheat on their wives, so he will then thinks it is cool to cheat on his wife too.

4. Not disciplined:
Men who cheat on their wives are not disciplined; as they lack the ability to control their behavior and the way they live.

A disciplined man will look for a way to solve whatever problem that would have made him to cheat on his wife, instead of giving in to such temptation.
There is a time in a man life, when he will see the need to cheat on his wife or have the feelings to, but the ability to control such feelings and need is the problem; as not all men can be able to. However men who possesses such ability are rear, and they cannot cheat on their wives no matter what.

5. The wife’s bad habit:
Most men cheat on their wives because of the wife’s bad habits; and ladies don’t see the habits as annoying and bad themselves as the men do.

One of the bad habits is;
Bodily quirks – this entails tying rapper and not dressing properly, non-clandestine nose picking, farting in his presence etc…
As a house wife, you should Endeavour to dress properly while at home, don’t allow your husband to come back from work and see you tying rapper and looking so unkempt, he will be irritated and pissed seeing you that way. Remember, men are moved by what they see. He might not even touch you because of your appearance, and he will not tell you to change into something nice, because he may think he’s just being rude. That will definitely keep his eye off you and focused to that attractive lady at his work place or the one forcing herself to him.

Hints: dress properly while at home, put on something nice and seduce him, he will never keep his eyes off you…

Another bad habit is when you starve your husband of sex when he is sexually active, he will definitely look for it elsewhere even if he loves you.

Hints: make sure you share everything with each other, know what annoys both of you and stay focus to it as husband and wife, so as to grow your marriage and enjoy it…

desunit:
Infidelity is menace that has broken many homes, setting families apart in dismay; it is quit unfortunate that most husbands do cheat on their wives, and wives cheat on their husbands too in some cases; this is so as the result of individual differences amongst married couples who cares about nothing else; but their own selfish interest.
Research conducted from men who cheat on their wives proves that over 50% of men who cheat on their wives did that as a result of emotional dissatisfaction rather than satisfying their sex urge.
Here are some of the main reasons why men cheat on their wife.
1. Emotional dissatisfaction:
Most men got married without considering this issue; when they lose the connection they have with their wives, they set out looking for someone to connect with, someone to be their mistress, without considering what they might lose in their present marriage.
When there is a huge emotional distance and lack of communication between couples, they lose the connection they have before marriage; this is a major reason why men sees the need to seek for whatever he/she is missing in that marriage elsewhere as the case maybe, and he is likely to cheat on his wife.
2. Men are moved by what they see:
It is in their nature to feel lost when looking at a lady, especially if she is attractive and sexy, it is very difficult for men to withstand such an elegant beauty; because men loves looking for something good and attractive to connect with.
If the husband lost the connection with his wife, and pays less attention to his family, he is definitely looking for that attention and connection outside his matrimonial home. And when he eventually comes in contact with an attractive lady, boom!!! The urge to have her as his mistress will definitely sets in, and he is likely to cheat on his wife with her.
About 66% of men that cheat on their wives do that with their colleague at the office or their work place. Reason is because; they lost the connection with their wives at home, and happen to see a connection with an attractive lady in the office.
Two things are in their mind during this process.
a) The lady at the office looks attractive
b) They feel connected to her than their wives.
3. The type of friends they keep:
There is a say that goes like this “show me your friend and I will tell you who you are”, it is 99% true that our friends influence us directly or indirectly. Believe it or not, our friend’s attitude plays a major role in our lives and in our day-by-day activities. For example, a bird that have fowls as a friend, and walk with them, will someday forget that he can fly…
When he hangs out with friends that cheat on their wives, he himself will see it as a common thing and would do the same as them. They have influenced him without actually telling him to do so, he did that at his own will because; his friends who are good people also cheat on their wives, so he will then thinks it is cool to cheat on his wife too.
4. Not disciplined:
Men who cheat on their wives are not disciplined; as they lack the ability to control their behavior and the way they live.
A disciplined man will look for a way to solve whatever problem that would have made him to cheat on his wife, instead of giving in to such temptation.
There is a time in a man life, when he will see the need to cheat on his wife or have the feelings to, but the ability to control such feelings and need is the problem; as not all men can be able to. However men who possesses such ability are rear, and they cannot cheat on their wives no matter what.
5. The wife’s bad habit:
Most men cheat on their wives because of the wife’s bad habits; and ladies don’t see the habits as annoying and bad themselves as the men do.
One of the bad habits is;
Bodily quirks – this entails tying rapper and not dressing properly, non-clandestine nose picking, farting in his presence etc…
As a house wife, you should Endeavour to dress properly while at home, don’t allow your husband to come back from work and see you tying rapper and looking so unkempt, he will be irritated and pissed seeing you that way. Remember, men are moved by what they see. He might not even touch you because of your appearance, and he will not tell you to change into something nice, because he may think he’s just being rude. That will definitely keep his eye off you and focused to that attractive lady at his work place or the one forcing herself to him.
Hints: dress properly while at home, put on something nice and seduce him, he will never keep his eyes off you…
Another bad habit is when you starve your husband of sex when he is sexually active, he will definitely look for it elsewhere even if he loves you.
Hints: make sure you share everything with each other, know what annoys both of you and stay focus to it as husband and wife, so as to grow your marriage and enjoy it…

Lawz20:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders, I have a very serious problem which I so much believe that with your kind and generous advice, I might take the right step. I met this girl around April 2012 at my work place and since then we have been together after I proposed to her last year. The fact is I love her so much and I thought she also loves me.

I went down with her to her village around April 2014 to see her parents formally and they were so happy, her mum, dad, grand parents and even her siblings welcomed me wholeheartedly and I was so happy. I stayed with them for two weeks just to see if I can picture out any bad behavior but seriously, non was found.

The problem am having with her is that she has too much male friends and most of them are always sending her love messages both on 2go and Facebook. I once stumble on her Facebook inbox and I found a chat between her and another guy and he was just thanking her for coming to spend good time with him, bla bla bla and how he enjoyed her. I was so mad because during this period she went to the village alone and promised to return in a week but she didn't until after 3 weeks, this is what she always do, she travels like 4-5 times in a year and never return on time. When she returned, I confronted her and she said she is not the one that did that chat with the guy, I tried asking her who did but she never gave me a good answer.

Later that week, she gave me her phone to help her charge it in a barbing saloon, then a strange number called and I picked, the person hissed and cut the call, he later sent a message saying, "you're picking my wife's call and asking me who it is" I replied him that he should check the number that he might be wrong, he then mentioned her name. I went back home to ask my fiancee who own that number then she said its that guy I saw his chat and I should not worry, she will fix it.

Recently again, she has travelled and up till this moment, she is not back, she promised she won't stay upto 2 weeks but yesterday makes it 5 weeks. That same yesterday, my mum's pastor asked my mum to call me that he has a message for me which I later went, he greeted me and say, while he was praying for me because of my mums request, that he was shown that the lady I am planning of marrying is not mine alone, that if I go ahead to marry her, she will wreck me and leave me, he said she travelled now and I said yes, he said she was seeing someone else in the village, he said if I doubt him, I should go ahead.

It was then my mum now said, my younger sister told her of a dream she had, that I caught my fiancee with another guy and it leads to a fight which the said guy killed me. I myself have had such dreams too. The pastor gave me 3 days fasting and prayer. I am confused, despite all her cunning ways I still love her but what should I do and how do I go about leaving her. I will be 30 by 5th April, am not getting any younger. Please advice.

i think you have already gotten your answer, it is better you drop her now, before she drops you later; is obvious she would. is just a matter of time...

Things we consume are the main reason why we add weight, some other reasons could be not burning the necessary amount of calories our body needed to burn; reasons could be poor body metabolism or not doing the basic daily exercise like walking. Etc

Body metabolism plays a major role here, because it converts what you eat and drink into energy, and when this energy are not properly utilize, it then stores in the body as fats.

Here are the tips to help you lose weight fast.

1. STAY WITH YOUR BALANCE DIET
Most people believe that eating as few calories as possible is the best solution to lose weight, well; this assumption is wrong because, when you do that your body will lose muscle mass which will lead to a decrease in the rate of your body metabolism and can also lead to increase in nutritional deficiencies.
When there is decrease in the rate of your body metabolism, then the rate at which your body burns fats drops to conserve the fuel it got, which is a very important aspect in the body.

Instead of cutting intake of calories like crazy, stick to your balance diet, so that your body metabolism will get all necessary nutrient it needs to work properly, and when it’s working properly, your body burns extra calories.

2. DRINK MAINLY WATER
Drink plenty of water daily; the first thing you do as soon as you wake up should be drinking of 1.5liters of water, then take 0.75liters of water during the day and 0.75 at nights. It will be very hard to stick to it, but believe me, it worth it.

Water has zero calories and little to no sodium, making it the perfect slim-down drink. And strangely, it actually helps flush out excess water weight as well as jump-starts your metabolism. If it's just too boring, add lemon to it, it’s much better.

Sports or energy drink, fruit smoothie soft drinks, or light beer — each serving contains about 100 calories and may be high in sodium and carbohydrates, which trick your body into retaining water, the not good for you.

3. REDUCE THE INTAKE OF WHITE BREAD/RICE
By cutting low the intake of all white grain products such as white rice, spaghetti, indomie, shawama. Etc will instantly slim you down because the simple carbohydrate in these foods cause bloating, especially around your belly. "Simple carbohydrates wreak havoc on your weight because they're digested very quickly, leaving you hungry and more likely to overeat later," says Jana Klauer, M.D., author of The Park Avenue Nutritionist's Plan.

Instead of replacing them with healthier yet still bloat-triggering whole-grain bread products, blend them with vegetables; when you want to eat rice or spaghetti, mix it with salad without salad cream. Instead of taking chicken sandwich, go for chicken salad and chips and dip turn into carrots and dip.

Complex carbohydrate blend with vegetables are digested more slowly, so you remain full longer. And because veggies are mostly water, they also help flush out excess water weight.

4. USE VIRGIN OLIVE OIL
It is very advisable to use virgin olive oil; because it a healthy monounsaturated oil with low or no cholesterol level, it also helps in battling some diseases such as cancer and brain deterioration.

Virgin olive oil is the best oil to use if you really want to lose weight, it is the right kind of fats and oil which helps to quash hunger, maximize your metabolism, and speed nutrients through your body.

5. SLEEP MORE AT NIGHTS
Try to get 7-8 hours of sleep every night. A recent study from case western reserve university found that, on average women who sleep for 5 hours or less per night are 32% more likely to gain weight and 15% more likely to be obese than those who get at least 7 hours.

That extra half an hour, whether you sleep 5 hours or 8, can refresh you enough that you will make better food choices (in other words, no quick sugar fix for breakfast in search of energy) also boosts your metabolism.

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Many homes have been broken, many couples have gone sideways; probably because of one issue or the other, most times people forget the reason why they choose their life partner, these is because they neglect or never pay attention to some necessary things that could have saved their marriage,

Here are most of the tips, pay attention to it and save your marriage.


Love: Of course you must be in love before getting married, it is one of the vital things in marriage; any marriage without it is set to fail. Love leads and it has no boundary.
The question people should be asking their selves are;
Q1. Why do we fall in love?
Q2. Do we choose who we love?
Q3. Do we love unconditionally?
Let me answer the questions for you,
A1. We fall in love because our heart tells us to,
A2. No we don’t choose who to love; rather our heart does that,
A3. Yes because love is a strong bond that takes us unaware.
Hint: Make sure you are in love and not being carried away by lost; before getting married.

Understanding: Most causes of broken marriage is lack of understanding between the couple; couples ought to understand each other to save their marriage, couple that understand each other never argue, they know exactly where each other stands.
Conducted research proved that couples that thinks the same way understands each other more than couples who don’t think the same way. If you always have a different idea with your husband/wife, there is high chance that both of you won’t understand each other, and will find it difficult to.
Hint: Make sure both of you understands each other before going into marriage.

Trust: If you trust yourself enough to pick him/her to be your husband/wife, then he/she should also be entitled to your trust.
Trust is very crucial in every marriage, and any marriage without it will fail. You must trust your husband/wife even if he/she suddenly develops questionable characters, this will go a long way in sustaining your marriage.
When you trust your husband/wife, you won’t believe anything bad people are saying about him/her. But when you don’t trust him/her, you might believe anything bad people say about him/her; hence you are inviting disunity in your home that might cause a broken marriage.
Hint: Trust your husband/wife; because you cannot stay with someone you don’t trust and expect to have a long-lasting marriage.

Secrets: couples should not keep secrets from each other, because secret is a family destroyer, couple who does that will have a failed marriage.
Share everything with your husband/wife whether good or bad; because it will go a long way in strengthening the bond of trust between both of you.
Hint: Save your marriage by telling your husband/wife everything he/she ought to know about you; both present and past events.

Perfection: This is mostly one of the main reasons why people have broken marriages and broken homes, don’t expect your husband/wife to be perfect; because nobody is perfect, not even you. Everybody is bound to make a mistake in life; so be wise and forgive him/her in whatever mistake he/she must have made.
Learn how to forgive someone who wrongs you in any way, because you might wrong someone tomorrow and expect that person to forgive you. When your husband/wife wrongs you in any way, find a place in your heart to forgive him/her so that both of you can move forward together.
When you expect perfection in your marriage or relationship, you are indirectly giving room to misunderstanding and disunity that can cause a broken marriage.
Hint: You need to overlook certain things to save your marriage; as “nobody is perfect”.

Source: http://demandingtips..com.ng/2016/02/save-your-marriage-with-these-tips.html#more

Many men have the idea of getting married to a wife material, while few thinks that marriage should be for love and nothing more; whether their fiancée possesses all the qualification of a house wife or not, they seriously argued that marriage should be for love. However most Nigerian men thinks that a lady who is capable of cooking a nice delicacy for her husband, keeps the house clean and take proper care of the children is more qualified to be a wife.

Meanwhile, for those that are eager for a wife material, I have something for you. These signs will definitely lead you to your choice of wife material, who possesses all the qualification you might be looking for in a house wife.

Here are the signs that will enable you to know a house wife when you come across one.

Hardworking and Diligent: hardworking is one of the key sign in finding a house wife, when a woman is very hardworking, it simply means that she is capable of doing house duties and can never go lazy about it nor ask for a house help to assist.
Women that are hardworking and diligent are probably trained that way from childhood, and they grew up with it, thus it will definitely be part of them, they won’t see house work as a big deal and they won’t seek for a help, there will prefer and enjoy doing it all alone.

Educated: “Education is the key to success” I guess we all know that already. Every man wants success in his family, and that is a more reason why men looks for the educated ones for a wife.

She looks attractive: Her beauty is more than skin deep. You know every flaw about her and still find those to be best attributes. Every time you see her it’s like the first time. You are just crazy about her.

Smart: Everyone loves the smart ones; she will go very far in achieving her goals, and would stop at nothing until she gets there. A girl that is doing well for herself will lift you up and make you want to do better.

Intelligent: If she is intelligent, then she is capable, capable of doing everything; having an intelligent wife will go a long way in making your marriage a success.

Supportive: She will always encourage and support you in time of difficulty, and allow you to have time you need to do what you have to do because she knows your dreams are just as important as hers.

Great sense of humour: If she makes everyone around her happy; understands people and knows how to manage every bad satiation, then she will definitely make a good wife material.

Good heart: This is one of the qualifications that every man wants to see in a woman; if she has a good heart, probably the way she relates with people, then she will make a good wife material.

Less temperament: Is a true fact that most people likes people that can control their temper; temperament can cause more damage that you can ever imagine, so it is good to have someone that can control hers, someone that will think before she acts.

Conservative: If she is not in a hurry to condemn her culture and heritage for any reason; and she knows where she hails

She’s Polite: you don’t have to worry about her being rude or impatient, most people like her and that makes your life a lot easier

She’s a great cook: she enjoys cooking and can cook a feast, she knows everything you like and exactly how you like it cooked.

NB: You can’t expect to see all this quality in a human being; as “nobody is perfect,” if she has most of the qualities above, then she can make a good wife.

Relationship is a union or an interaction of two or more people that shares the same feelings about each other. There are many types of relationship, but for the essence of this article, we are going to focus on social relationship which involves couples.

More than 65% of the world’s population has relationships issues that are difficult for them to solve, literally; they find it difficult to sustain a relationship over a period of time. The reason to this problem is simply because many people go into relationship without knowing the necessary things one ought to know about relationships, therefore not being fully prepared for it.

These are some of the tips that will help you maintain a long-lasting relationship.

1. Infatuation: This is literally referred to as “love at the first sight” by many people, and it is responsible for breakups in most relationship. If you are asking me WHY? Here is your answer.

Infatuation is a lost feeling and not a true love; when you miss interpret it to a true love, then there is high chance you will have a fail relationship.

It is important to know what exactly you feel for your crush before going into relationship with him/her: If it is infatuation, allow the feeling to develop to true love (by spending quality time with your crush) so as to have a sustainable relationship with your partner.

Hints: you can love someone at first sight, which is “infatuation” and it is not true love. (It never last).
“True love” comes when you actually spend quality time with your crush. True love developed with time. (It can last for ages).

2. True love: I use the word “true love” to actually tell the difference between “Infatuation” and “true love”
Love can be attributed to infatuation, while true love is more than that; is like a package which has understanding, caring, commitment, sacrifice and patience in it.

Infatuation is a lost feeling, mostly cost by body chemistry of attraction triggered by a chemical in the brain called “phenylethylamine (PEA), mostly at first sight, (seeing the person for the very first time). This feeling is not true love because it wears away as PEA wears out with time.

True love is a sincere feeling developed straight from the heart, it is never triggered by any activity in the brain. For instance; when you spend quality time with an opposite sex repeatedly for a month or couple of months, there is high chance that both of you will develop “True love” for each other, and it is a strong feeling that can never wears away.

Hints: When next someone approach you for the very first time and said, “I LOVE YOU”, don’t take that person serious; because whatever feeling he/she has for you is not “True love”

3. Understanding: A relationship without understanding will fail, so it is necessary for couples in a relationship to understand each other very well, because it is very vital in sustaining a relationship.

Speaking of understanding, you need to spend quality time with your crush for you to be able to understand him/her. When you spend much time with your crush, you will definitely have more room to listen and pay maximum attention to what ever he/she is saying, know what he/she is capable or not capable of doing, know if he/she has a good heart…etc

During the period of quality time spending with your crush, you must have known and understand everything about him/her, also a bond of attraction will exist between both of you, and that is True love

Hints: spend quality time with your crush and pay maximum attention to him/her so you can know him/her very well before engaging in any relationship with him/her.

4. Sacrifice: Sacrifice is very crucial in a relationship, if you are in a relationship and intend to take it to the next level, you must make sacrifices to make that happen, because sacrifice is one of the items in the package of love; the work hand-in-hand and you will definitely need it to sustain your relationship and also make it grow deep and strong, hence love is necessary for every relationship.

Hints: You make sacrifice for the ones you love, when you don’t feel like sacrificing for someone, then you are not in love with that person.

Source: http://www.demandingtips..com

Jobless will increase your conji level. When you' re busy, the last thing you will be thinking about is sex.

kennydee05:
“The money is not a ransom or a kind of compensation for the missing girls; it is to provide a kind of relief to the parents, who have been devastated by the loss of their children,’’ he said.

what kind of relief 100k will bring in place of someone's life?

Bring back the girls and stop giving them money and fake promises. What would they do with N100,000?

Onwe101:
north rules

North have been ruling this country since 1960. And what have we achieved? Nothing!

kaeforum:
A Biafra SPEAKING. WAS IT NOT YOUR UNCLE GEJ THAT FAILED TO DELIVER THE BRIDGE.

And now Buhari intend to stop it at ful force.

ibotic:
Buhari .....please forgive us....igbos...... ....even if you cannot give us bridge......we can manage canoe...

I am ibo and from Nnewi.
I am ashamed of my ibo people.
Nigerians should forgive us for our stupidity
We are just sorry because we are jealous of Yorubas
We wish we had an origin, history and culture like them.
We must be less cowardly and brave like Yorubas who plan better.
I say no to Biafra and I know we need Nigeria more than you need us.
Please just allow us to be shouting Biafra of the Internet because we are jobless.
Nairaland is all we have and even that is owned by a Yoruba man who is nice.
We must stop Okija, ritual killings, Osu issue, fraud, fake spare-parts etc
We know without you we cannot survive that is why we run to your land
Our shame and hopelessness in the face of your superiority is terrible.
Even Ijaws are now our bosses and we have been reduced to goats.

Chukwu Abiama o.......

Please don't comment on this forum if you don't have any reasonable thing to say. You really need help.

Some folks here really need sense. Abeg who go dash them small sense?

nochildsplay:
what is the main "functioning" part of a car ?

Is it not the engine ?
You want to tell me they made the engine ine their company ?


#Get wisdom

Yes he is doing that now. You can go and verify for yourself.

nochildsplay:
These are cars dismantled in UK , shipped to Nigeria for assembling.

We ain't there yet, so people calm down

Laughing in spanish... Sorry bro, this one was made in Nigeria, and not Assembeled.
We are there already.

Mata is back in form.