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FamilyRe: Am Tired Of My Marriage,please Help by Desusi: 12:48pm On Jan 10, 2023
Stallionhorse:
Leave the kids with him pack your things and come to my house. We can plan our future together I earn more than 100k and I don't do any betting my servings is almost 1m and I live alone in a 2bedroom flat..
Wife snatcher! so that's your own opinion and counsel to her.? Man oh man!
HealthRe: Doctors Share Alarming Stories Of Attack On Duty In Nigerian Hospitals by Desusi: 12:35pm On Jan 10, 2023
armadeo:
Nothing is free anywhere in the world someway some how someone paid for it. You say mode of payment and I say yes. There is no business that won't fail if clients don't pay.

Secondly life is more than bread is a beautiful phrase. The question is who's life and who's bread.

Thirdly and the funniest of all is does God answer only you ?

I'm the devil's advocate here. Looking at things from another point of view.

Let's say I work at a hospital and at the end of the month my boss tells me this month we saved 200 lives clap for yourselves.( we clap) He then says out of those 200 lives only 30 people paid for the services so I can only pay 50% of your salary this month and 25 % of the back log. The 200 people then give us a round of applause and walk away with gratitude. do you think I'll find that funny when you who could be my landlord is on my neck for his rent? Or my kids school proprietor threatening to kick my kids out of school? Same you is here telling me the above.

Looooooool.
Hmmmmm,it takes a considerate heart to see things on your side.Truly speaking,the system in this part of the world is horrific. But then,if the old generations can't do the needful, then the new generations should act fast and put all the necessary apparatus in place.
But then, what do we see,this generation, are generation of get -rich quick, no one seems to be talking about our challenges but,everyone is after what they will anger away with. Thanks for your interesting opinion and analysis.
Christianity EtcRe: Presidential Election Now A Spiritual Battle – Pastor Enenche by Desusi: 11:23am On Jan 10, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Who lied to you that your mog is an anointed Prophet of Old? undecided

Are you saying Jesus Christ, who told you over 2000 years ago that John the Baptist was the last of the Old Prophets, lied? So you are willing to throw Jesus Christ under the bus for the sake of your scamming mogs and pastors? undecided
Thank you very much sir, of a truth, Jesus told his audience in Luke 7:28 that "Among those that are born of women there is not a greater than John the baptist,but he that is least in the kingdom of God is greater than he." Yes,
We are in the new dispensation, every believer in Christ is greater than John despite the great privilege accorded to john being the for runner of Christ.This is because we are joint heirs with Christ in Gods kingdom. We are in the same pedestal with Christ. Greater than John of old.ln this regards,apart from pastor Enenche,myself, all believers who believed in Christ in this dispensation are greater than John .
RomanceRe: What's The Difference Between Having Sex And Love-making? by Desusi: 5:51am On Jan 10, 2023
unclejb2:
I always see people comparing 2015 and 2023 elections and I laugh their delusions and self induced ridicule. 2015 is very different from 2023.

The chances of APC winning the 2023 elections is very slim. Buhari's calamitous performance has taught Nigerians that hunger and poverty cares neither about tribe nor religion.

There is no single individual who didn't vote APC at the presidential election in 2015 that would vote for APC in 2023. You can show me one, and prove me wrong.

I'm really wondering where APC would get their votes from? All the odds are stacked against the ruling party.

In 2015, there was no BVAS and electronic transmission of results.

In 2015, there was a Buhari on the ballot.

In 2015, was $1/N216.

In 2015, fuel was N87/1litre.

In 2015, there was no Fulani terrorists menace all across the country.

In 2015, Flight from Lagos to Abuja was N18k.

In 2015 A bag of rice was N8k.

In 2015, Osinbajo a Pastor in RCCG was running mate.

In 2015, There was no insurgency in the south east.

In 2015, Bandits were not in Nigeria.

In 2015, there were no two strong northern candidates on the ballot.

In 2015, We didn't have a Muslim-Muslim ticket.

In 2015, There was no drug baron on the ballot.

And Finally,

In 2015, WE DIDN'T HAVE A PETER OBI ON THE BALLOT.

WE ARE TAKING BACK THIS COUNTRY FORCEFULLY THROUGH THE BALLOT.

PETER OBI FOR PRESIDENT.
Are these the differences between love making and sex? You have been obsessed with 2023 election. If however your candidate didn't win,God forbid, what would you do? Take this issue to God in prayer my brother. God is awesome!
CrimeRe: Woman Allegedly Set Ablaze By Her 'Jealous' Co-Wife Dies In Owerri (Graphic Pix) by Desusi: 5:28am On Jan 10, 2023
Shalommy:
Chaii.. Ugly people are dangerous. shocked shocked
You gerrit it.The woman face is never friendly. You don't need to be told before you know that the suspect is possessed. The victim is beautiful enough. Why looking for wahala going for another woman? oh man!The problems with men is greed and ojukokoro. RIp madam
HealthRe: Doctors Share Alarming Stories Of Attack On Duty In Nigerian Hospitals by Desusi: 5:16am On Jan 10, 2023
armadeo:
How much you pay ? Was it pay before service or you paid after service.
So its becos of the mode of payment that made you people misbehaving to your clients in our hospitals? Why now?Life is more than bread o.If l tell you medical treatment is free there,would you believe it? I will take you people matters to God in prayers. "E ni ti a ko ba Lee mu oluwa laa ran sii"
FamilyRe: I Suspect My Wife by Desusi: 10:20pm On Jan 09, 2023
Softmirror:
grin LOL...SEE WHAT THIS ONE IS SAYING?! IT'S NOT MATURITY BUT STUPIDITY OF THE HIGHEST ORDER. D

IT IS VERY CLEAR THAT YOU DON'T TRUELY LOVE YOUR WIFE AND YOU ARE A VERY WEAK MAN. IS IT YOUR WIFE'S EX THAT ALSO PROVIDE FOR YOUR FAMILY THROUGH YOUR WIFE? WOMEN LOVE WEAK MEN LIKE YOU!!!
Hmmmm,there are two sides of coin
FamilyRe: I Suspect My Wife by Desusi: 10:15pm On Jan 09, 2023
TimT:
Marriage is not for the faint hearted ooo....
Infact, marriage in this 21st century is more harder than before becoz of the issue of trust brought about by the advent of internet....
Any marriage that both parties "Read each other chat in their phone" may likely lead to end of the marriage...
I'm not saying u shouldn't check each other phones, but at least try to give each other some modicum of privacy...


Arise O Compatriots..........
To hell with modicum of privacy.....!
"Marriage is a honorable in all,and the bed undefiled,but whoremonger,God will judge" Marriage is for the matured not for the boys or girls.
FamilyRe: I Suspect My Wife by Desusi: 10:05pm On Jan 09, 2023
ifihearam:
If your ex or old classmates tells you they miss you and you reply back with " miss you too' does that mean your wife should be worried?

If she had ulterior motives she would have deleted it.
It may be due to her carelessness or nonchalant attitude thinking the husband wouldn't know.Why should she be worried?
FamilyRe: I Suspect My Wife by Desusi: 9:57pm On Jan 09, 2023
Juicethekid:
it isn't proper, emotional attachment involved, don't overlook!
If this woman run into this man casually, anything could happened.women don't joke with ex.The op should be careful of sleeping with his two eyes closed. E funra oo!
Christianity EtcRe: Presidential Election Now A Spiritual Battle – Pastor Enenche by Desusi: 9:46pm On Jan 09, 2023
ElSudani:
Who is touching Enenche or doing harm to him? He is the one falsely accusing people of terrorism without any evidence.
Where should I find that in the holy books?
Check psalms 105:15.
PoliticsRe: Bandits Kidnap Lt. Col. N.B. Ahmed, Commanding Officer by Desusi: 3:41pm On Jan 09, 2023
matex97:
A whole commanding officer!

To make it worse, they intend to release the so-called "repentant terrorists" into the society.

This is very saddening and worrisome.
Truly, a whole commanding officer! Whom did we offend in nigeria!?We are finished. in nigeria. Until the president is kidnapped before the message would be made clearer. Where are our combatants?
FamilyRe: What Is the experience getting married to A Medical Doctor? by Desusi: 2:29pm On Jan 09, 2023
horlahwaley:
Hmm. Make sure you are far richer than her sha so she will be able to respect you cos when she finished, she is in money already and trust me it will be hard for you to impress her with money especially when she reach abroad.
The responsibility of building your home lies on your shoulder. Know that and know peace
This is possible where your foundation is not of Christ.where your aim is to marry a medical doctor that would fetch in plenty money and living a luxurious lifestyles without seeking God opinion about it,you might definitely be seeking for trouble. The greatest matchmaker is still God in heaven.Have you told Him??
CrimeRe: UNIZIK Student Shot Dead By Armed Robbers While Attempting To Collect Sim Card by Desusi: 2:08pm On Jan 09, 2023
Kajaard:
Did he forcefully try to collect his simcard from gun welding armed robbers?

I don't understand.
Some lessons to be learned here, It shows how he valued his sim cards and the level of his maturity.He forgot to realize that, so long,he is alive,he can use millions of sim cards. What then is the values of life?l pray that sudden death will not be our lot in Jesus name.Amen.
Christianity EtcRe: Presidential Election Now A Spiritual Battle – Pastor Enenche by Desusi: 1:54pm On Jan 09, 2023
sreamsense:
I will not talk ill of men of God in general, but the problem is that some of them put mouth in politics they don't understand by missing their human emotion into politics. When man of God already picks political side, it will be difficult to hear God clearly when he speaks otherwise. Men of God should be neutral in many cases if he/she wants to hear clearly from God. All the candidates have good minds to serve Nigeria in one way or the other. We only need to check their experiences, past governance record and other parameters before we vote for them
You have a good argument truly. But then,he is not taking side with any party,from my own observation. Let's just pray that the will of God be done.Predicting/knowing God's mind is another thing entirely.The way of God is in the whirlwinds.
Christianity EtcRe: Presidential Election Now A Spiritual Battle – Pastor Enenche by Desusi: 1:46pm On Jan 09, 2023
ElSudani:
DSS should ask him if he is aware of any terrorist running for office. All these fake pastors.
So, pastor Enenche is fake pastor now for speaking his mind.?May God forgive you.God says touch not my annointed and do my prophet no harm.
FamilyRe: What My Wife Did Yesterday That Made Me Realize She's Special by Desusi: 1:34pm On Jan 09, 2023
Cowbell521:
This thread is about Two Women Competing For Which Maga Pay Pass. Your wife no say she fit no win. So she cheated in the competition

Baba, it's not your duty to give her money. Let her go and work if na alert she dey find. The food and roof over her head na something. You have tried

Na marry you marry. You didn't adopt a child
This man,your wahala too much o.kai we don hear now. Yeah!
FamilyRe: What My Wife Did Yesterday That Made Me Realize She's Special by Desusi: 1:30pm On Jan 09, 2023
Zonefree:
Must you always use cuss wordshuh
She just dey vex ni!
FamilyRe: What My Wife Did Yesterday That Made Me Realize She's Special by Desusi: 1:23pm On Jan 09, 2023
Sweetplum:
God bless you as you later sent her money.
Actually those words of the lady in your street go dey touch your wife o. But cos she's a woman of virtue, she was calm and even used wisdom to respond and add glory to your home.
Who said Nigerian woman ain't doing well?
We are virtuous and lovely.
Thumb up!
FamilyRe: What My Wife Did Yesterday That Made Me Realize She's Special by Desusi: 1:22pm On Jan 09, 2023
Jennyclay:
Hope it's not the usual nonsense 2k or 5k you sent to her undecided. I expect you to send nothing less than #500k to your wife.
Long throat! Can men ever satisfy womenfolk?
CrimeRe: Prime Suspect In Abeokuta Couple’s Murder Escapes From Police Custody by Desusi: 1:14pm On Jan 09, 2023
gypsey:
Very good observations grin Nigerian police that are prepared to shoot an innocent person are now taking a MURDER suspect to hospital for ordinary fever, no one goes to hospital for fever in nigeria. Whatever happened to PARACETAMOL?
Police is your friend..............?
CrimeRe: Prime Suspect In Abeokuta Couple’s Murder Escapes From Police Custody by Desusi: 1:11pm On Jan 09, 2023
kunkelhanspeter:
Since when police start taking murder suspect to hospital for treatment? For ordinary fever when dey will beat innocent person blue and white without taking the person to hospital?
Anything can happen in Nigerian!
CrimeRe: Prime Suspect In Abeokuta Couple’s Murder Escapes From Police Custody by Desusi: 1:08pm On Jan 09, 2023
Buddha3:
Look, you cannot escape from the Nigerian Police custody once you've been arrested. The Police sees you as their next meal ticket so they keep eyes on you more than they even guard their service guns. I know this for a certainty cause I have friends and relatives in the force.

So whenever you read stupid headlines like this, just know the suspect was released by the Police themselves after proper settlement has been done. The nonsense about an escape is just poppycock meant to deceive Nigerians.
Thank you for your observation, please let the world know this,the innocents blood must not be wasted.
CrimeRe: Prime Suspect In Abeokuta Couple’s Murder Escapes From Police Custody by Desusi: 1:03pm On Jan 09, 2023
Angelfrost:
Escaped... You mean "bailed out" by men of high influence!


Escaped my foot!

You people can't even lie intelligently!
Please, tell them what to say. Lol
CrimeRe: Prime Suspect In Abeokuta Couple’s Murder Escapes From Police Custody by Desusi: 12:54pm On Jan 09, 2023
gaby:
How person wan take believe this story now when everybody don know say una way dey hardly ever pure...
Since the two policemen leading the criminal wouldn't handcuff him for reasons best known to them before the unexpected happened, then,life for life,they should be held responsible for the consequences of their action. Nothing happened, by chance. Nigerians are unpredictable.
TravelRe: Woman Dies After Falling Off Husband’s Motorcycle On The Way To Church In Ogun by Desusi: 7:16am On Jan 09, 2023
yinkus6750:
What a sad way to die
Even in the presence of the husband and son
It's so unfortunate, and on the way to church.
God knows best
May her soul RIP.
May God grant the family the fortitude to bear the lost. Honestly, this is avoidable death. Sudden death will not be our lot in the new year in Jesus name Amen.
HealthRe: Man Shares Photos Of Physical Transformation His Friend Experienced In Pregnancy by Desusi: 11:00pm On Jan 07, 2023
Johnthejohn:
Women matter undecided
God is awesome!
EducationRe: Visa Denial: Canadian College Withholds Nigerian Applicant’s Fees (pics) by Desusi: 10:39pm On Jan 07, 2023
Islie:
https://punchng.com/visa-denial-canadian-college-withholds-nigerian-applicants-fees/?amp

Pic: Miss Precious Christianah Ademokun
Take a lawyer to follow it up.You would not only received your money but you would be admitted. This is not Africa.
FoodRe: The Small Barbeque Fish I Bought Last Night For 5 Thousand Naira. by Desusi: 10:31pm On Jan 07, 2023
eliyke:
Maybe u don high wen u buy am,5k 4 just 1 fish?
Lol,you're funny sir.This money supposed to buy five fishes.You weren't cheated kankan,things have gone far except God intervene and obi land at Aso rock,this fish would be sold for 10k.
FamilyRe: My Husband Has Failed To Satisfy Me Sexually Despite Taking Concoctions by Desusi: 10:07pm On Jan 07, 2023
Righteousness2:
Wherever you are on the Face of the Earth, Listen to the voice of reasoning
Listen to the word of GOD
Listen to GOD'S Standard of Marriage so you don't use your hands to destroy yourself.

Marriage is between a Man and a woman and it is For better for worse! Until death do you part.
GOD Hates Divorce.
The Only permission given to anyone to remarry is if your spouse is dead. Outside that you are living in Adultery, Fornication, Deceiving yourself and on your way to Hell.

Departing from your spouse and remarrying either as a man or woman is Adultery.

If you are 2nd, 3rd, 4th so on wife in a home, as long as the First legally married wife is alive, you are Decieving yourself. Pack your bags and leave that Home. Eternity is a Personal Race. It is not a family or community race.

If you are a Man and you jumping up and down from one woman to another in the name of wife, you are jumping to Hell. Your 1st legally wife is your wife. Settle and Discharge the others. Eternity is a Personal Race.

Consult the Word of GOD so as not to make mistakes!
Matthew 19:4-9, Malachi 2:16

Tell them my brother. All these peck and go with frivolous relationships, are unknowingly preparing them for hell.God has no respect of persons, whatever a man sow,that is what he will reap.Hell is real and God judgment is certain.As itsl has been appointed unto man, to die once,after this the judgment.
TravelRe: My Experience With A Russian Lady I Met In Dubai by Desusi: 9:48pm On Jan 07, 2023
G00DHardDick:
I saw this beautiful thread on frontpage about a guy's travel to Russia and his teaching experience, so I decided to share my experience with a Russian Lady.

I met this Russian lady in Dubai late 2019 and we became close friends, this lady speaks English but not perfectly well (you can easily tell from her Russian accent that she's still trying to learn English). But she was beautiful and awesome. I noticed that Russians loves blacks alot, esp if you're Africa. I used to think Russians are extremely racist far more than the USA, but I was shocked to find out all that was a lie. Russians are the most nicest people on earth, well mannered, cultured and highly respectful.

While it may be true that there might be low racisms in Russia, you won't even notice or experience it because these guys are all nice and friendly.

I also noticed the moment you tell a Russian you're from Africa, they become extremely excited and interested in knowing more about you and Africa, (you must be ready to answer questions, because they love asking questions). They Love learning and educating themselves, esp on things they don't know. I guess this is why they're so smart. However, I don't know about other Russians but this lady made me think so.

NOW BACK TO MY STORY WITH THIS RUSSIAN LADY

Please before I proceed, Russians love using Sophisticated phones and the latest devices. I also think this is why they're highly intelligent, smart and advanced too. You'll find out how I knew about this shortly. Just keep reading..

Now on that fateful day in the airport in Dubai, this Russian lady walked up to me and simply said "hello! (With a half smile on her face)

As in, I was shock and stunned at the same time. Na me this oyinbo person dey talk to? I mumble, one can tell it was obviously my first time meeting a white lady, let alone having one approached me. I also noticed if they found you attractive or like you they'll approach you. (As in, it is not like in our country where women will wish for ground to open and swallow them if they ever make a move on you.)

Hello" she said again because I didn't reply her first greetings, hello" I replied. From there this lady starting talking. I was confused, I noticed she talked very fast but I couldn't understand one single thing she said. (The Russian accent was still there). I then responded "I'm sorry, but I don't understand a thing you just said" she was shocked, she paused some seconds, looked at me and started her speech all over again. This time around she was slower than before.

While I listen attentively, I figured out she was actually telling me her name, introduced herself and asked for my name, my nationality and if I came to Dubai to buy goods or business purpose. Russians speaks Russian language! Except when they learn English then they can speak in English, although not all but i discovered that these Russians are eager and love to learn English language with great passion.So if you're Good in English and wishes to teach English, I'll advise you to find your way to Russia. Forget Media propagandas about war in Russian and racism. Don't believe everything you see on Media!

This lady learnt English because she was a business lady (she learnt it because of her constant travels to Dubai and other non Russian speaking countries) she goes to these countries to purchase goods and cargo them back to Russia. Now you you can tell why she needed to learn English, right? She deals With non Russians on her business trip so learning English for her was very necessary for easy communication.

She asked my purpose of visiting Dubai and I told her "for work purpose". She seem interested all the more and enquired to know the kind of work. We talked at length until she started asking about my family, relatives, siblings etc. What a sweet Angel she is!

She then offered me to come over to Russia and probably meet her Dad and Mom. Omo na so I shock o. Me wey just land for Dubai, I never even go the company wey I wan work for, a Russian is already inviting me over to her country. I didn't give it a second thought at all I accepted the offer at once (who know like better thing?).

I also noticed that this Russian lady has lots of connection in that airport. As in, she's a business lady and she do come there to purchase goods from time to time through cargo, so what do you expect? Sometimes they even send the goods to her directly to Russia while she's in another country purchasing goods. She has that kind of connections!

LET'S CONTINUE,

While I accepted her offer to come over to Russia, she started making preparations for my arrival. First while in Dubai I was to go back to Nigeria and prepare for my Russian trip. Guess what?

This Russian lady went and bought bags of clothes, I don't mean anyhow clothes, she went shopping there in Dubai and bought very expensive female clothes (about 5 bags), she requested I should give them to my mom, she also bought apple laptops and wrist watches, and then iphone 11 pro max (that was the latest iphone then in late 2019). And that was the phone and laptop she was using. Now you see why I said these Russians love using Sophisticated phones and devices? I never asked her to buy any of these!

I also noticed she has a younger brother whose name was Vladimir. As in, Vladimir! I thought it was Putin! You know na! Lol

I also noticed that majority of Russians loves president Putin alot (their president). I equally noticed her younger brother uses the same iphone 11 pro max, I knew this because whenever he video calls me on WhatsApp, it was usually through his laptop webcam and dude always play games on his iphone 11 (I saw it through the video call). The guy seems to love blacks even more than his sister, probably because he wants to learn English.

Now on their dad's part, the man has a restaurant and he's even more friendlier than I thought. They can't speak English. Only the lady can! The father was just similing all through the video call because he knew I won't understand whatever he says. Sometimes the lady interprets if her father wishes to say anything.

So I came back to Nigeria with the items she bought, and we do make video calls 24/7. She speaks with my mom and siblings too. But her English was and his difficult for them to understand. I find out that these Russians have a thing for black guys, although not all but some. Maybe it because of our English, I can't tell exactly!

In early 2020, coronavirus came and started our whole plans, and I was stucked in Nigeria. Even though my Visa and other documents were already getting prepared, I couldn't proceed further because of the travel restrictions all over the world as a result of the COVID 19. It was so terrible! But we still speak on video calls 24 7 even till now.

Permit me to say this, Russians are one of the most nicest people on earth. They're so sweet, welcoming and friendly. The only way they'll dislike you as a Nigerian is when you try to scam them online (yahoo yahoo) and they discover you're a Nigerian,. whereby giving yourself and Nigeria a bad impression.

In summary, Russians in particular are great and lovely people. If you have an opportunity to make friends with one, please do! If you're also good and fluent in English language and wishes to teach English, I'll advise you to find your way to Russia.
If there is any nation Russian love to befriend mostly in Africa, its Nigerian.
You have nailed your story by reminding us of one terrible canker fighting Nigerians.Yahoo, yahoo and others irresponsible attitudes like hama or sekere.In fact, its a common thing for them to quickly severe their relationship with you once they discovered you're from here,even when you didn't offend them. Can Ethiopian change her color. My people, let's endeavor to restore the lost glory by changing our lifestyles and our images abroad. Nigerians will be great again. A British lady once pleaded with me to be my girlfriend in 1986 in the city of London. I turned her down.We are proud people. May God help us.

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