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thorpido:
It's obvious from the Op's write-up that he had mentioned it severally over time.
There's nothing wrong with changing some things that can be changed especially when it's a compromise you make for someone you love.

Well like I said earlier, I don't drink your brand of coffee. I really do believe love is spontaneous. You don't plan it by thinking "I'm willing to do everything for her if she can change this part of herself" you don't even know how she feels about that part of her that she hasn't been able to change all this while. This is my opinion, you don't have to agree.

bukatyne:
New age philosophy.

Just ditch the labels and numbo jumbo and speak to what actually affects you.

If your partner is not invested in you enough to tell you to change your looks as long as it does not cause harm, who will?

Loll new age? Well you'd better come out of the old age if it's going to affect you negatively. How can you read that story up there and still think it's okay for him to do that? He's obviously not into fat girls so let him find his slim princess. How can you love someone and want to change them by nagging and complaining?

Listen girl, life is too short to waste time on a nigga who cannot admire your feminine beauty in all it's glory! Slim, Plumpy, Tall, Short, however, find a guy that wants you like that.

thorpido:
There's nothing wrong with asking someone to change something that can be changed like she'd weight, hairstyle etc.You will probably not be comfortable with someone who makes a remark about your appearance.

Can it be changed in a few seconds? He doesn't have to nag her about it, that alone hints that he's tryna protect his image. Let him run along to a slim lady and love her.

AkhereOkaka:
That's how it is done in civilised climes

Example?

Reno is the Lord and saviour of new generation broke guys
The number of guys hailing the boy is just laughable.

Tundexi:
SCAM!!!


Run o!
Run o!!
Run o!!!

Am I supposed to run or do you just want a reply?

thorpido:
There's nothing wrong with asking someone to change something that can be changed like she'd weight, hairstyle etc.You will probably not be comfortable with someone who makes a remark about your appearance.

You feel there's nothing wrong with it?
I think there's something wrong with it..

Different people, different brands of coffee.


But as long as I'm healthy, I wonder why someone who claims to love me will ask me to put off some weight, or change my hairstyle when there's nothing wrong with it. They are common signs of a possessive partner.

bukatyne:
Why?

I dunno if I'll be comfortable with someone who doesn't like me twiam.

If my boyfriend asks me to lose weight, and I eventually do, he's going to have to find another girlfriend lol.

Many things here don't come off as weird to me.
Maybe because I do them a lot.

-Like talking to myself outside. (I mostly hold meetings with my different personalities)
-Laughing out at my inside head jokes.
-Reading while eating (gives the food a sweeter flavor when your imagination mixes with physical pleasure)
-Performing a live concert under the shower...


To a name a few.

Humanoid01:
Consider an instance where someone is warned not to go to a place, but they disobeyed and along the line, there was a raid by armed robbers and lots of casualties were observed. The person in this case was unfortunately one of those casualties. Even though the attack isn't justified, who would you blame for his/her death?

Are you actually dumb or you're pretending to be? The fact that the act cannot be justified means the perpetrator must be blamed.

Why do you keep confusing yourself?

Humanoid01:
And so because rape cannot be justified, ladies should go about exposing their unclothedness shamelessly? Nothing justifies rape, but before you do something, think of the possible consequences.

What is the motive behind what she did? Didn't she think about the possibility of sexual predators lurking around? You know how hungry a predator is, yet you decide to tease him with the food you have no intentions to give him. Isn't that just plain stupidity? Enough of the victim game, it's always a two-way thing.

Now your modification is stupid af.
This shows a lot about how many rapists we have behind monikers.
Enough of the victim game? So you that has raped a lady is a victim too? Victim of foolishness. SMH.

Humanoid01:
And so because rape cannot be justified, ladies should go about exposing their unclothedness shamelessly? Nothing justifies rape, but before you do something, think of the possible consequences. What is the motive behind what she did? Didn't she think about the possibility of sexual predators lurking around?

The first line is the most important thing. Rape can never be justified and that's final.
It was wrong of her to do that in a public place but for someone to just think her punishment should be being raped is just sickening.
You don't even know if she's had a psychological defect, or if the story is actually as they put it.

donbachi:
It will only matter when blacks stop killing blacks.

Did you think before typing this?

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Princessogaraya:
if someone come behind and rape this one,she come online and be talking

So because she's dancing half naked in a supermarket it's okay to rape her?
SMH.

Theundertaker:
Intoverts hows your relationship with the opposite sex ?

Well for me I just discovered I am an extremely possesive person, never knew I had this problem. When I’m used to someone its hard letting go cause I Don’t get that often from women , people thinks I am so uptight n hardly want to get close .

Attention craving.
I don't look like it at all, but my man gotta have eyes on me always. It makes me feel vulnerable, so I haven't really been lucky with relationships

This is so sad.

"I love you"

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For ladies it's always best to let things take it's right course.