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Nanorest:
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Marydiamond:
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SolexxBarry:
It worked for me,I don't think u can masturbate when having real sex is not a problem

IamAirforce1:
When you have a boss like GOD.

SolexxBarry:
To me the easiest way to quit masturbation is to have sex often

Mnewton:
Masturbation is simply a habit that can be curbed only when you decide deep within you DAT you ain't gonna do it no more. It begins by avoiding certain website and videos. Believe me as soon as you stop masturbating you will start noticing some changes in your live generally. using myself as an example, I noticed d following;

1) I started thinking straight; before now, I discovered I easily forget things but as soon as I stopped masturbating, I felt a significant improvement in my mental agility and coordination.
2) I started feeling strong and energised.
3) my spiritual life was strengthened.
I really need d guide cos it is affecting ma rlship
4) my social life and self esteem was boosted.
5) ! I discovered masturbation killed my love for women and sex but after i stopped masturbating,I started caring more for my girlfriend and started thinking more about a future with her!
6) I discovered a significant increase in d size of my penis.
I became a normal human being after I stopped masturbating !

antiFapping:
Don't be ashamed to talk to people about it if you genuinely want to stop. Well, it's okay to be ashamed, let that shame not consume you rather, let it be a motivating factor
to stop, if you can't talk to people face to face about it, you can comment on forums or threads about your addiction, you can create anonymous monikers for it, remember a problem shared is nearly solved

zionmade1:
Masturbation is like a spirit wen it gets hold of u, it will be hard to abstain from u.
As someone rightly said, first u have to admit that u have a problem that needs urgent solution
2. Only u can successfully profer that solution to urself
3. Stay away from romance section
4. Many of us have fears, something that sends a chill down our spines, maybe nightmares, wen u get an erection in one second brood over those fears and the erection will flap down in a moment.
5. Get busier than u ever think u can, always work urself up the entire day, u can hardly self-service wen u re tired.
6. If after a week or two u go back to it, dont accept defeat, start up again and this time determine to do better.

Sometimes all these things might fail but if u re a christian then become a worker in church and get more committed.
Different stroke for different folks but thats my penny advice.
Remember masturbation is better than pre marital sex, in as much as both are undesirable dont exchange the former for the latter, abstinence is the best

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adedejidamilare:
Most people spend hours daily online chatting and posting stuffs and literally make no money doing these things. on the contrary , they constantly think of buying data for subscription. Most people cant survive without being online at least even if its whatsapp for three straight days. i remember what happened the other day i was traveling to lagos. A young lady sat beside me and just because she forgot to buy airtime before the cab took off she had so much discomfort and was really unhappy. Her data subscription was out and by her countenence and action you would have seen easily that she wasnt herself.

this is how an average person is too. we cant do without our phones. have you ever lost your phone before. you know how hurtful the feeling is. humans are just addicted to their phones. Most companies know that you are addicted to your phone so to them its an opportunity to make money . Today MTN and other top telcom companies make billions from our addiction to phone. imagine 1,000,000 just buying #100 airtime daily thats a whopping 100 million naira naira daily. in thirty days you and i would have made MTN 3 billion naira richer without putting reference to data at all. When i first saw these figures i went blind for five seconds. i realised i will be foolish if i dont utilize the telecom/ mobile technology industry to my own advantage.

That led me to a discovery of an amazing business that pays people when others use their business platform to carry out these little transactions that eventually become mammoth cumulatively. today i earn in a month what my neighbors and relatives earn in 6 months. you will agree with me that its possible from the example i gave above

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Opinionated:
Mental toughness takes many forms, some of which include resilience against attack, calmness in the face of uncertainty, persistence through pain, or focus amidst chaos. To live effectively in this world, it is important to learn to develop mental toughness. Jumia Travel, the leading online travel agency, shares 5 ways to build mental toughness

Make a Decision

If you want to be tougher, be tougher. Don’t meditate on it, don’t think too much about it, just do it. Being strong mentally is, more than anything, a decision to do so no matter the circumstance. You can start small with the little things and work your way to the big ones, but by all means start.

Learn to be Persistent

As long as you keep letting every small or big thing bring you down, as long as you continue to give reasons and excuses for giving up or being unable to put in more effort to achieve your goal, you will remain weak. You have to learn to push yourself a little bit more than your limit. Remember, learn to always push a little bit more. When you do this, you will find a new depth within yourself.

Tackle Your Fears

Never let fear rule or control any of your actions and inactions. Never. You’ll end up regretting it in the not too distant future. Learn to put your fears in line and don’t give fear too much priority. Avoid running away from your fears, and if you must run away from them, do so to gather more knowledge and skills to come back and do what it takes to confront and overcome those fears.

Share

People for some strange reason tend to underestimate the power of talking to a trusted someone and sharing your fears, difficulties and discomforts. No one can live this life alone, and many times you will need someone who can help you see things from a different perspective. There is so much strength in unity, two heads are better than one, and remember that a problem shared with the right person is already half-solved.

To Dream or Not to Dream

Dreams are great. They’re a great motivational force and help keep you focused, but dreams are also largely things you fantasize about. We all know fantasies don’t always become reality. You therefore have to learn to convert your dreams to goals. Set SMART goals and work to achieve them. When you successfully achieve these goals, it helps to build a sense of confidence and accomplishment in you that’s great for strengthening your mental toughness.

Commitment

You need to learn to be committed to whatever you decide to do. Make a single decision and stick to it. The decision should be clear, simple and straightforward so it can be easy and realistic to maintain and achieve. Refuse to compromise and don’t beat yourself up or give up because of some failures along the way. Be resilient, be persistent and do not give up until the end. Once you learn commitment, you will be surprised at just how powerful this tool is.

Source: http://www.opinions.ng/5-ways-build-mental-toughness/

cc: Lalasticlala, Mynd44

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Billyonaire:
You are not qualified to form an opinion on where anyone in this country should put his or her focus. Politics in the USA is the paradigm of Democracy. The so called Democracy we abuse in this your Nigeria is tailored towards America's democracy, so you are totally a very ignorant chap who takes himself too serious when no one really cares about your ill-informed opinion. Nigerians watch US politics to evaluate the progress of your idiotic politics.

I worry about the direction of US politics because America and her allies remain the alliance in the hemisphere that can make or mar global peace. So, little man, if you hate America do not make any silly attempt to sound convictions on a country you may never qualify to enter. Most of us have wives, kids, homes, friends etc in the USA and it makes what happens there important to us.

I know you are some village boy who doesnt know much about global politics and the dynamics of war play. So, keep reading this thread, you will be schooled by those who know better than you. Do not assume to know anything, cos you know nothing about life.

Samtobh:
Hello Everyone,

I came across some threads of late, some folks are contemplating suicide or how to delve into crime, etc. because of the economy, lack of job, and so on. Hence, I've thought it necessary to start this thread.


https://www.nairaland.com/3356380/graduate-depression-lead-open-suicide

https://www.nairaland.com/3353785/six-years-after-graduation-yet

If you are feeling like this, please share your story/stories and let's see how you can get help.

If you've passed through this stage before and have made it, also share yours and let's help people.


I'll beg for this thread to be moved to front page so we can help as many as possible.


I'll put up an ash # tag in here


#IOncePassedThru

for those who've passed through and made it.
or

#INeedHelp

for those who need advice, mentoring or any kind of help.


#Peace
#Lets keep the thread alive.


Strictly for people in this thread alone.

Send me an e-mail with your details so I can add you on the thread's Whatsapp group.

I'll be treating these issues in batches , 10 wonderful and soon-to-testify people at a time.

To apply, click the link below :

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSedf2SunLHbZmKkJrBo1F95T0p8PjO6xCMA83mjdaMynC0lqQ/viewform?c=0&w=1

Sure before the year ends, some if not all on this thread will have a good story to tell.

Also, A LinkedIn account is necessary.

#OnlyGod

TechRev:
Who counted the dead? Who saw shekau mortally wounded?

EVENTSPRO:
Who God has blessed, no one can course!!

EVENTSPRO:
Who God has blessed, no one can course!!

nwaanambra1:
No bro!

dry bones rise again only when the initial owner is a saint!

- as for offor(you notice i call him Offor cause his real name is not Emeka - he changed it whn he return from jail), like i said, as for offor, even his corpse will be rejected by the vultures talk less of his bones rising again - it would av been eaten by pigs!

nwaanambra1:
that morafuka will be thrown into ajo-ofia when he finally dies of blindness and swollen stomach and no one will be there to mourn him cause he is a cursed man!


Ndi Igbo said the worst kind of coward is the coward that flex his powers on his ummunna who are supposed to stand by him whn his enemies come from outside.

look at him with all his wealth yet he couldn't positively touch or change any of his kinsmen's life for the better - but rather was busy fighting and intimidating them with his ill-gotten, rotten and blood stained money!

now as he is, even vultures will reject his corpse!

this guys tried to tell the story of how bad offor is but these ones are actually tip of the ice berg - wait until u hear it first hand from his kinsmen!

http://elombah.com/index.php/811-atrocities-what-you-don-t-know-about-mr-emeka-offor-aka-sir-e


used his police muscles and locked up Bony Okonkwo for the simple offense of reminding the bargar that he is busy donating millions of dollars to lottery while his kinsmen are wallowing in total poverty - charity begins at home!


http://www.sharpedgenews.com/index.php?option=com_k2&view=item&id=1801:anambra-community-accuses-billionaire-emeka-offor-of-terror&Itemid=692



more expose on the idiota!

http://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/141816-police-abduct-incarcerate-nigerian-businessman-over-online-comments-about-pdp-topshot-emeka-offor.html