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AmBeautiful: Oh, i see!
Eh ya! Champion!
What a waste!
Well i can intelligently tell you,
That any man who cheats or sleeps with women and is even intelligent enough to boast it, is a champion - yes , but a dumb one.
Dumb champions are people who are slow to understand, stupid and can be regarded as dim-witted.

Hope you have a better understanding, if you need further clarifications, signify and i would open your inner eye.

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AmBeautiful:

kunletiwoo: Waaaaaaaaat?

AmBeautiful: Stupidity?

Yes many people are quite stupid?
If you read some stories here you would actually discover this key factor.

kunletiwoo: Which is tantamount to his "VOLVO" abi?

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kunletiwoo: Yes Naw, U get the message?

kunletiwoo: Make we no loud am na Ehen!

fados4sure: Thanks, am greatful.

Idowuogbo: Fire me mail na!

ferhyntorlah: Why did you say that? Any similarity?

fados4sure: hahahahaha

Idowuogbo: D unpredictable badosky bebe!

ferhyntorlah: Only on Nairaland. Why if I may ask?

Rhymez: This crush initiative is not giving a positive result

ferhyntorlah: Mister, you've a treasure and you wanna throw it away because of statistics and experiences of family relations?

Life is a risk; no one knows tomorrow. We are only trying to make the best use of what we have.

This babe STOOD by you when you had nothing; when you were at your lowest points; when you once lived in a roach infested room. She didn't care if you had money or not; she was just happy being by your side.

What more can a woman do that she hasn't done for you? You said she is a good woman, what else again?

Can I ask you something? When you both had issue/disagreement, how did she react? If her expression and action is okay with you, come on what else again?

As per your family talking about your relationship, didn't they know that it was this babe helped you with your papers?

I discussed your case with my mom and she said the lady is your helper. That you shouldn't leave her and if you do after all she has helped you with, karma will visit you in your own coin.

She said you should change your mindset and tell yourself that this marriage must and will work. It didn't work for other doesn't mean same will happen to you.

It's all in the mind; if you strongly decides that this relationship must work, then it must work. Let to profess positive things to your life; do away with the negativity around you regarding union between NGA and AA. Browse and get stories of those in your position whose marriage is still standing and going strong.

Since she is willing to leave her family, friend, country and everything and follow you to Nigeria, what more do you want?

Remove divorce from your mind; I think you need to do mind exercise to instill positivity into it. She doesn't believe in divorce, so you're both game.

Also, hasn't it ever occurred to you that her family and friends also discouraged her from being in a relationship with you because of immigration papers? Didn't you think that for a second?

I want to assume she was warned that she didn't listen because she saw you as being different. If you end your relationship with her, you will make her folks have more mouth to say: didn't we tell you?

You will also be adding to the statistics of the Nigerian men who are known to befriend AA ladies for papers only.

Lastly, seek the face of God. Let him direct your path into marital institution.

Be positive; as our faces are different, so are our lives and life path.

kunletiwoo: Ha! Explo the don! Trust me now, always behind you.

kunletiwoo: What's the good news?

I've vicky, cdamsel and Spicy something on my the list