₦airaland Forum

oluwaseyi0:
Unfortunately that's not really hundred percent true

A child that will spoil will still spoil

Parents are not as powerful and influencial as the use to be, social media wokeness is fast undoing their influence

Two kids of same parents with same upbringing can turn out to be completely different, I have a pastor family in my area to attest to that

I agree with you albeit, what is the ratio? I can as well tell you that I know of a family that only 1 out of 10 children is wayward. Now at the bolded, it all depends on how the parent wants to control the child.

My uncle gave his 14 yo daughter a smartphone and made sure parental control with Google Parental supervision was used when installing the Android on it. Any attempt by the teenager to move to any other app, Google will send a notification to her dad. In such a way, he is aware of what is happening. If all parents do the same, then we would have less things to worry about.


But alas! not possible.

ravetechng:
I don't see anything provocative

Trust Nigerians. You don't know them.

What's this nah? Comic relief or distraction from the burning issues plaguing us currently?

3kay945:
I can't share such video and I know people won't stopped sharing cos this is what the citizens/government have breed over the time.

I wonder why people still think we are normal in the part of the world.

I've not seen the video, I don't want to see the video either. I've warned my contacts on WhatsApp that if I see forwarded media, I will block the person and even call for the person's arrest.

We need to stop this madness. I'm not a saint either but indecency is still indecency.

deardear2021:
Poor parenting poor parenting......I know of many families who instill good discipline in their wards but yet, they turned out to be useless. Most of our children today get spoilt by peer groups. So is only God that will help us.

The peer groups didn't fall from heaven. They are also products of bad parenting.

Raymeg7:
Amen my brother, look at how bitter this bastard is , people are funny, my problem and his crying � on it

Raymeg7 calm down. No need disturbing yourself over the internet space. You will definitely find à lot of different personalities.

Hotty321:
sorry am not the person with kids ..I only contacted you under the through the Man plus I don't have the tool and even i never get a laptop to start it

Oops! So sorry about that. You have a smartphone?

oluwaseyi0:
Unfortunately that's not really hundred percent true

A child that will spoil will still spoil

Parents are not as powerful and influencial as the use to be, social media wokeness is fast undoing their influence

Two kids of same parents with same upbringing can turn out to be completely different, I have a pastor family in my area to attest to that

I wish we could use stats to do this. Let's start with BBN.

visijo:
At this point, it is not enough to raise your kids right. Praying other kids don't help you undo everything you have done is also important.

Which is why I said parenting. I didn't put the blame on the parents involved only, all parents inclusive should work hard.

Yommychrz:
at times the fault is not from the parents, peer group too influence peop and social media

See it this way.

Parent A block all access to SM, and Parent B does the same, how will they have access to SM?

If Parent A does and Parent B does not, then Child B will introduce it to Child A.

How about that? Cc: visijo

Everything will go as planned. No need for shifting. We had far more concern in 2015/2019.

Jennyclay:
You lied.

I'm tired of typing. I wish we could just go to a press conference and debate this topic.

I still stand by my word. The school is to be blame.

We agreed on the reasoning as adults ooh. Which is I lied again? Did I shift from an earlier position?

Jennyclay:
The parents.

So 90% of the blame goes to the parents my sister.

Kingpin1000:
The father demanded for canes. The man was just flogging only the feet of the boy the boy shouted until he lost his voice and became weak.

This is so my dad. Only that my dad will ask the VP Admin and DM to take their turn, after that he will unleash Japanese Kamikaze styled flogging on me.

But I'm glad he did, as I'm smiling right now . Spare the rod and destroy the child.

Twoclans:
I might be very old schooled but like seriously I am not sure I can allow a 10 year old child travell all the way to Dubai for whatever reasons. Except I am there shadowing that child.

I dont know sha, maybe something is wrong with me

Sis keep your old-school very well. It is the best possession ever. I'm not that old school but I prefer the ways of the old. Wisdom is with the elderly wise ones (some elderly ones are not wise ooh).

Jennyclay:
Honestly speaking, the school is to be blame.

Let's reason this matter like adults, please. Who purchased à device for the child?

chatinent:
Who Should We Blame: Chrisland, The Parents, The Girl Or Society?

Tackle the mosquito not always the malaria!

Nice words on marble.

Baba, take à roll call of those that made comments under your post. Take screenshots as receipts. Come back to the receipts when BBN starts. Until then, I won't say anything on this.

Have a nice day chatinet.

Imagine the mother having the guts to make à video and post on SM. Shame no go even gree my papa and mama. Tueh!!!

OVB123:
U are right my friend but what i am asking now is: in the next 50 years, how will our younger generation act? how would they dress? This generation dey shocked me wel-wel

The way they act depends on the template we handover to them. Very simple.

Coca-Cola is still using the same template and formulae till now. Coke n'a still Coke, Pepsi n'a still Pepsi, no matter now hard they want to copy Coke.

We need to put our foot down and instill the principles we want to see in our children.

Ban all ban-ables (sic), put à filter, use parental contrôls.

Administer, enforce, control, protect and repeat the process. Else, we might end up seeing worse than what we are seeing right now.

I've not seen the video and I don't intend to see it. Obviously it's bad as I'm hearing.

Bros, I'm tired. This generation will not kill someone.

I have an aunt that will comfortably be viewing BBN with her wards - aged 17, 16 and 13. I discussed this with her and she didn't see anything wrong with it.

I kuku took 5 litres of water immediately and you know the rest?

Hotty321:
Thanks for the advice

You are welcome. Do you have the tools you need or can afford them? And hey! don't regret the 4 kids you have. Some people have just a birth and 6 or more babies are made. Cheer up.

Botking:
Phonograph and internet connection

Who provides the means to that content? Parents.

OVB123:
What is going on with this generation of lads? Everybody after sex.

The major problem is parenting. I really do not have time for words. Fix parenting, fix 90% of the problem. Simple.

Yeah.

Just saw DrOlufunmilayo's tweet.

I avoid stories that touch simple. Never been accused of such and will never be. Men, sheath thy sword.

Some will say 'easy to say but it remains the fact'. Sheath thy sword. Let thy sword not put thee in danger.

Alexgeneration:
It was not rape.

Learn to hear from both sides and seek the truth in everything, don't join the mob.

Try and see the video for yourself and be the judge.

I never wrote rape in my comment. Where did you see that?

I'm only referring to the cover up by all parties involved.

GloriousGbola:
Depends on the school.
My kids school admin does not listen to parents.

For this reason two of my friends actually moved their kids to Chrisland

But that should be the ideal. Different professionals can advise on risk, best practices etc.

Damn! It's that bad? Wahala dey ooh.

GloriousGbola:
Too many schools do not think through extra curricular activities and excursions.

Expect a new round of bans for Nigerians

Shouldn't the school plan the extra curricular activities with the Parents/PTA and decide the best course to follow? Like that should be the best course to follow, right?

dominique:
What I find most disturbing in this case is that people are eagerly looking for video of child porn.

Exactly. Shows how debased and corrupt our minds are. I saw the outburst on Twitter yesterday before naptu2 brought it here. Tweeps were looking for the link to the video

placeofallure:
Valid questions. When minors go out, they should be accompanied by a chaperone or chaperones. Where were they?

These things happen when efficiency or efficacy is undermined. Some people think I'm a witch at work for demanding due diligence and efficiency. I try to avoid stories like these. I won't have my two hands behind me answering to queries that are avoidable.

For all you care, the girl might have been a willing participant in this saga.

Parents! Many parents need parenting! Character flaws and evil ideologies everywhere. What happens? They pass it on to the children who are too innocent, too young to decipher.

The school, why are they keeping things hush-hush from the parents? The parents are key partners here. The school don't owe the public any explanation but in their trying to cover an inadequacy, they end up committing another one. Where were their care givers in Dubai? They went sightseeing obviously.

You and I are in the same school of thought at bolded [1].

On bolded [2], we are still together. A lot of things are totally wrong with today's parenting. Where do I want to even start from?

We have copied à lot of things from the Western and now, it's payback time. If I say what's on my mind, I will end up derailing my paddy's thread because I will be attacked. All in a bid to provide everything and keep up with the joneses.

Not all parents are doing à poor job, some à doing à very good job. And kudos to those that do.

Hotty321:
To learn all this ,is it free or I will pay

There are sites you can learn them for free and they are some you can pay as low as 5,000 or little above that but you will need to write the exams and earn the certifications.

That is the only way you can prove that you have the required skill set.

thisnaijaguy:
Schools!

A place where products of parenting flaws and products of quality parenting come together and try to influence each other.

Is my prayer that light always wins

Less of these kind of news especially in our schools

So many questions beget answers.

Where did they get à phone from?
Why were they left unsupervised when they got to Dubai?

Twitter was abuzz last night with the issue. This is so sad. My question is why the cover up?