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webincomeplus:
Not in all cases. How many times have you seen a Gucci shirt on Dangote?

One of the rules I've used on NL is “always check a username before you quote the person”. Check the username and thank me later.

Imagine saying poor man's thinking? Rich man no dey flash wealth, na poor man dey flash am.

I always feel bad when traveling to and fro work everyday. Vehicles of all shapes and sizes, healthy ones and pollution emitting ones struggling to get their owners to their destinations.

The madness of Lagos drivers knows no bounds all thanks to everyone trying to better the other person.

Whatever happened to “carpooling”?

Wikipedia defines carpooling as “is the sharing of car journeys so that more than one person travels in cars”.

Pros:

1. It reduces the number of vehicles on our roads.

2. It reduces wear and tear on the road itself.

3. It makes traffic flow easier because more vehicles are packed at home.

4. Cost can be shared between those carpooling thereby saving cost at the end of the month.

Contributors can add theirs too. Lagos is the only place affected albeit it's crazy here.

Cc:

VickyRotex malele naptu2 lalasticlala Seun Explorers Ishilove
naijacutee, dominique, puskin, FOD

rummmy:
Few people have visited sokoto,gombe and yobe states?seems people are avoiding northern states

Obviously because of the crisis over there. It has always been my dream to live in the north but my life is far more important than my dream.

nkpommpko:
Man is not wired to stick to one woman, it's not natural, even David God's very good friend had lots of wives and concubines, if you are a man and you have only had a woman , please check yourself, something is lacking.

David had a concubine?. Please let me know the book, chapter and verse in the bible so I can confirm. We learn everyday.

Eluwilussit:
Men are easy to manipulate.Trust me.

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My eyes on you boss .

Back to the topic: like Samson and Delilah abi?

djon78:
But most importantly a man that had self control as a bachelor can never cheat on his wife because he has trained his body that way,except...

I can't put it better than you did. There is no except... My uncle changed his branch because of a lady banker that was asking him out even though she knew he was married.

It seems people think that it's only women that gets advances from the opposite gender.

@op hope you are not the proud type because you said that you have a six digit pay package, you work for a top three company. I just hope you are not rubbing those things in his face. I'll never support men that cheat but it's only dogs that stick their thing into any hole.

Take a paper and measure yourself and your hubby's performance from inception of marriage and you will definitely find out what went wrong.

NwaAmaikpe:



I don't use generators in any of my houses but I have constant power supply.


Luckily for me my house in the town is near a telecom mast,

And the one in the village is next to a bank.
All I did, was to get a good electrician and asked him to explain the phrase 'tapping current'

Kai. Yaro, kana hauka?

Eluwilussit:
Aiigth. I will keep tab on you.

Me on you too boss .

Eluwilussit:
Okay na. But don't complain when those vultures in politics take everything for themselves.

No way. I won't complain.

Eluwilussit:
Well, it depends on who you are. Lol. I doubt that I am, though your uncle is right about that line. Does your uncle live in North America?

Please, reconsider your stance. We need great men and women with national outlook in our political scene. Not all these hypocrites and thieves.

Nope.

I can't reconsider ooo. My friends already tag me as an evil mind (not an evil person) so my work now is fighting the demons in my own life so to large extent, I keep my life off social media. I enjoying helping others privately so for me that's okay for now. Politics ke? That one na long thing.

PenSniper:
Emphatic No but in conflagrations and wars, anything goes because it becomes the survival of the fittest.
It is a sad thing when people refuse to accept a fault. Ofcourse, it takes great minds only to do that.
Nnamdi Kanu went on hate speach against two yoruba elders and yoruba in general going as far as urgeing igbos to kill yorubas declaring these two elders persona-non-grata in igboland. No single igbo leader or politician except Joe Igbokwe repudiated him. To prove their support of Kanu's action, some igbos began to vilify Joe Igbokwe branding him a traitor and an Afonja stooge.
Now the same fellow wants to come to yorubaland to propergate his mission ? And anyone with some sense thinks he will come and leave in one piece ? Then they have another thing coming. You reap what you sow. Yoruba see this as a God-given opportunity to prove to the some igbo that the silent agility of a tiger is not an indication of cowardice but of astuteness and civilization.
My only worry is that his mistep will put the souls of some igbos in the entire SW on the line.
We eagerly await his suicide mission.
We have some things to prove to some people with brawn but no brain.

Anything goes? I don't think you have the mind to kill a toddler because you are in a fight with his parents.

I understand. Nobody is coming to fight in Lagos. Let them have they rally in peace if they want to and go back to their various abodes. Until each person in the SE, SS and some states in SW stands up to their governors, I'll start taking them serious.

PenSniper, please let's all live in peace abeg. We no need all these hate speeches now that the country is sitting on a ticking time bomb.

Ishilove:
True, but doing it in public will make a would-be criminal think twice before committing evil

Hmmm...

Ishilove:
It is probably meant to serve as a deterrent.

Ya, Ish I get you but yet death penalty has not deterred people from perpetrating heinous crimes.

Na wa oooo. But public execution is not the best nah.

Please Seun can you do us a favour and lock down this thread. I can't believe my eyes. So much bile and hate flying around. Haba!

cc:

naptu2
Donbobes
Ishilove
VickyRotex
lalasticlala

PenSniper:
It's you who is talking arrant nonsense as a typical flattino revisionist. How do you invade another man's land without his concensus ? Did Ojukwu not invade the midwest and appointed an igbo man as the head ? Keep swiming in delusion.
1967 history in the north is about to repeat itself in the entire SW. It would a comprehensive action to cleanse the land of . . .

So PenSniper in essence if you happen to be close to an Igbo man/woman/child when an alarm is raised, you will kill the person?

Eluwilussit:
Are you serious? I will like to see that. Amazing. But we need good men like you in politics. Remember the only condition necessary for evil to thrive, is for good men to fold their arms and do nothing but enjoy their private lives. I joined NL because of Nigeria and Nigerians. If I get the opportunity, I will serve my people and lead them to glory.

Nigeria should be the greatest among great nations. We have everything we need. I mean EVERYTHING.

I hope you change your mind and use your understanding of Nigeria to serve Nigerians. I knew Jonathan when he was a commoner. Never underrate what God can do with you. All you have to do is be prepared. At the appointed time, the heavens and the earth will work in your favor. Believe.

You are beginning to sound like my uncle. Now I'm scared that I know some people here. My uncle will use same line on us while we were growing up, but lo and behold! He avoided politics like a plague.

DerideGull:
Nobody born of a woman can stop Nnadu Kanu from holding a self determination rally in Lagos. It is foolhardy for the group of people who had already opened a path of enmity with Ndigbo during 1967 saga to compound it with any form of idiocy.

So Nnamdi Kanu is now Macbeth, right? Okay ooo.

Eluwilussit:
God bless you.

We should be our brothers' keeper. When the North hurts, the rest of us should feel their pain. When the East hurts, the rest should sympathize and empathize with them. Same goes for SW, SS, NC, etc. We are simply humans. Same blood runs in all of us. I cry for my people everyday. Too much suffering in the midst of plenty.

Bless you too brother. President? Far from it. I don't need the publicity. I like my near private life. Same blood ooo my brother. I'll share a video of a research done wrt DNA. You won't believe the outcome of the video. Imagine a Pakistani related 20% to a Briton.

We are all connected.

naptu2:
Wale - My Sweetie (cover of Sierra Leonian legend Bunny Mac's song).


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5bZTZ_y7Tjw


Bunny Mac - Let Me Love You


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_8Jj2rkcv4

Naptu2... Thanks a lotttttttttttttttttt. I remember this song. My dad was always playing it. Uncle grandpa Naptu2

Wale did a good one on the remake. Wow!

Eluwilussit:
People are simply drawn to big cities. And the biggest cities are Lagos, Abuja, Kano, Ibadan and KD. So that may explain the reason for more migration in those places. I hope you enjoy my epistle.

I enjoyed it . Truth is that because most people don't travel, they will hardly understand others. Born and bred in Lagos and lived partially or been to Ilorin, Minna, Abuja, Abakaliki, Ado Ekiti, Idanre, Umuahia, PH, Owerri, Abeokuta, Ibadan, Ile-Ife, Calabar, Aba, Benin, Asaba, Onitsha, Uyo, Bonny. We are always limited once we don't move around and will hardly understand others.

bakynes:
Don't forget one tribe hold the grudge of the Civil war against the other and the other holds no grudge and therefore has no reason to hate the other. I asked some Edo friends who they think hates the other the most, the two of them attested to the fact that Igbos hate Yorubas more than the way Yorubas hate Igbos.

The enemy of my enemy is my "friend". I can't say more than this. Let this matter rest. I have seen what hate can do, my brother it doesn't pay.

NwaAmaikpe:

Either you talk this evening/night or forver hold your silence on NL. 5,4,3,2,1...

[quote author=Chukwq post=59039522][/quote] My brother the matter tire me too.

Is he a woman or she is a man? I'm not understanding. Please someone should attach the appropriate pissure mbok.

Benita27:
That's true. The op's case is a different situation entirely, from the story and how humans behave one could tell the outcome if he confronts his dad.

Yes you are right about that.

Benita27:
No. My dad passed when I was little and based on what I was told by my siblings: he wasn't irresponsible, though, he and my mum did have their differences. Theirs was about 32 when he passed.

Oops! Sorry about that. Pardon my inquiry. Just that I'm always of the opinion that one will never understand what people pass through unless you have been in their shoes.

OP calm down. You are looking at the situation from angle. Take a look at it from your father's angle (not from the immoral angle). Questions you need to ask:

1. Has he always been like this?

2. Does he pray with you guys?

3. Does your family spend time together?

4. What obligations in the house has he stopped meeting?

5. Question 5

6. Question 6
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7. Question n

toyetade:
What a wisdom you've got. Excellent advise

Excellent advise right? Benita27, I've seen your signature albeit oblige me to ask: have you ever been in the OP's situation?

Ayo001:
She can shout for Africa.

Aaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhh!!!!!! What if they've been kidnapped?

flexyfit:
She fine well...I hope she ate enough "kpanla stew" there...

And Iya Michael's gbegiri...