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@ poster

You need to be patient with your wife to be , the pressure is definitely getting through to her, sit her down and gently give her the reasons why she needs to be careful with the budget and caution her on the type of friends she keeps which she definitely has to cut down sooner, i believe they are seriously adding to he pressure she is going through for the wedding plans, it happens a lot to girls especially those that keep friends a lot and maybe they know that you are the rich type and just want to take advantage, you guys need to be very careful at this stage and always plan every step of the way together.

@poster

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you, you can never be more perfect than you are right now, you just need to be more patient because the right guy will definitely come along soon like the saying goes "you will kiss a lot of frogs before you finally meet the prince" a lot of guys out there are frogs, just be patient and you will definitely meet the prince sooner or later that will take you for who you are whether good or bad.

michelin89:
@ topic

Those people who insult have never created a topic before and that's because they are cowards. They'd never take a risk but are always on someone else's ass. Ignore them because most of them have shitty lives outside the net and need someone to look down on to feel better about themselves.

@ Michelin

You are very right.

where is the guy from?

I'm sure he's a Nigerian, girls have to be very careful this days because a lot of married men are out there telling the same lies to innocent girls, initially they will appear as single men, while some even don't, then after a while when the girl starts developing feelings for them they will reveal the truth and go further to tell her that they are not happy in their marriage and need another wife which can be easily done if the girl gets pregnant first or they should keep on dating until he divorces his wife which he will never in his life time do.

I would have told you to advise your friend to abort the baby but this is not Godly and i really don't support it either, since she is already pregnant for the guy, she just has to start praying to God to lead her right so as to know the next step to take. But just have it in mind that the man will never leave his wife or marry her but will either leave her or keep her as his mistress.

Unfaithful married men are abomination, especially in Nigeria.

@sasha009

I understand the way you feel, do whatever makes you happy and try to find all means to convince your parents about the way you feel about each other and please try not to lay emphasis on the fact that you are always attracted to white man, that statement can complicate issues for you, black or white we are all human and if your parents keep on refusing then probe further so as to know the real reason for their refusal.

tonye-t:


when we both read this, yeah i know my friend was actually trying to put up his ego, but emotions couldnt but helped him reflect back on all those good memories they both shared, and i as the friend i still know how they both loved each other , it was so hot that they were tagged "One heart", and i know my friend still loved her but man's pride didnt let him make up until a sharper G stole her. maybe prolly because she relocated from PH to calabar

Don't go or else you will end up "putting down" your ego

Just simply love him/her and every other thing will fall into place.

Forget it, i won't because it would bring back too much memories but that is if i still love him, but if i don't feel a thing for him anymore i would definitely attend the wedding, i will also give him a very beautiful gift to let him know i was there.

@mohawkchic

Thanks a lot

@mohawkchic

This pictures are very nice and helpful, please can you also open a fashion thread for women.

I am so proud to be born in May, my birthday is on the 30th of May and my junior sisters birthday is on the 18th of May, aint we lucky?

Lack of self confidence

I will be 31 next month and to tell you the truth i am just beginning to enjoy life and enjoying the things i missed out on, what i mean is that i never leaved a wayward life, always faithful and caring in all my relationships and a wife material.I am still that same person but i see life from a clearer view now being a single person at this age.

Thank God my mother is a very understanding person and has advised me to be patient and careful especially at my age, really i don't know why am still single at this age but i know God has a reason for everything, even though i have a lot of admirers, i just seem to always meet the wrong set up of guys, the few times i go into the depressed state is when the feeling comes to me that i need someone to genuinely love me for who i am and not my looks or my money or when i feel like truly talking to someone i feel strongly for and trust but altogether I'm a happy person but feel i can be more fulfilled.

Am a slim girl, no matter how much i eat i always remain slim and i don't even do any form of exercises except swimming which is once in a while, although i love fat men but not too fat.

spikedcylinder:
The best thing is not to inform people you are getting married. Just go to the registry with your intended and members of your immediate family.
No one is going to kill you if you tell them "hey, I got married last weekend".

This is exactly the type of wedding i want to have and then get back home to have a parlour wedding and chops and nothing like an after-party behind me, i already told my family members and my guy has to be ready for it whether he likes it or not.

Is divorce a sin to God? will one be judged in the end time for committing divorce or getting married to a divorcee because my Aunt might be getting involved in one very soon.

the man she is about getting married to divorced his wife after a year of marriage although they didn't have a child together, he said he rushed into the marriage even after several warnings from friends and family that he didn't know why he did it, that the ex-wife was always rude to his friends and family, very stubborn and a whole lots of other issues i don't know.

Is this still a good excuse to marry a divorcee or to divorce someone, i have tried to convince her not to marry him and wait for a single guy but she really loves the guy and is convinced he is the man for her and she is someone that really likes to do things to please God but she seems to be confused but ready for that marriage.

Is divorce a sin to God?  will one be judged in the end time for committing divorce or getting married to a divorcee because my Aunt might be getting involved in one very soon.

@ poster,

you are very lucky that you have someone proposing marriage to you even though he is ugly, believe me so many beautiful girls are out there that are not even approached by men at all , so please make up your mind yourself.

This is a very shocking news, may her soul rest in perfect peace and may God comfort Pastor Kumuyi and their children.

Thank you all nairalanders, this is a great forum to join, i will give him a chance and control my emotions as well and see where this leads to, i really pray it's for good.

I really need to make a decision as fast as possible on this issue, i have known this guy for some time now and he is quite nice, and also has a very good character, actually he has almost everything a woman wants.

I actually met him 2yrs ago and he asked me out but i turned him down cos i was in a relationship but my ex broke up with me not too long ago and suddenly this guy called me after 2yrs and still wants me for his wife and he is even planning on taking me to his mother already whenever am ready and also wants us to get married this year but am very scared that it is too good to be true although i already have this strong feeling for him but havent had any intimacy with him.

Its like a magnet is drawing me to him, i cant stop thinking about him, am getting frustrated that i cant tell him how i feel too and the most disturbing thing is that i don't quickly develop feelings for guys, it usually takes me a very long time and so much persuasion, i have prayed so much about it to know the next step to take, because he wants to know my decision if i want him too or not, i don't want to make another costly mistake, and am so confused, please what should i do? should i start dating him or should i be patient until when? I don't want to start something i cant finish as sometimes i always believe my ex will come back soon.