₦airaland Forum

OK...is it Abuja?

So , who dis one help

Colorado ti mu brain

Who will bell d cat in Nigeria...


Especially dat aso rock

I won't come back and hear is d novel v.... dat killed her

government na scam

Dis ppl are mad, if dey want to take picture, dat is wen dey do social distancing...


But....



Dey be scam

Heal the land


O LORD

Long time no see on Seun blog

Who dis news help dis Monday morning

This mod dat post dis and d op need dis

Stupid headline on Monday morning

Please, who don finish reading...

Wen dis dude go retire

Inside life.....




If u no anyone face dere...

No need to argue especially if she is your neighbor



But wait...jus finish reading d news and I wonder d stupid mod dat push it to fp...


Come...dat mod needs cain

Okay

Edo no be Lagos



I will break ur teeth

600 years

Ok

Y Nairaland and dere useless mods dey decieve us since yesterday

How dis one wan help d common man on the street?

K

manos:
Note: it's a bit long... I could have summarized but I want those contributing to get a crystal clear picture of the situation, so that they can give better and specific advice.

The major problem here is that she mixes up things to be done in the kitchen with things done only in the toilet.

I have been married to my wife for over a year now (no kids yet) and there are certain unhygienic habits she has been displaying, since we started living together. I have been seeking ways to help her improve on it, but a calm correction from me always leads to a bitter argument between us. (She claims I complain too much whenever I point it out)

For example, she always clears her throat early in the morning and spits in the kitchen sink. (despite the fact that we have 2 toilets with wash hand basins; one in the room and also a guest toilet, with a wash-hand basin which is basically 3 steps from the kitchen). Then she goes to the bathroom, gets her toothbrush and comes back to the kitchen to brush her teeth, while doing several things with toothpaste and saliva drooling from her mouth all through.

The other day, she prepared breakfast (spaghetti) for both of us with the drooling toothpaste mouth and i refused to eat from it. I didn't complain to her either, until she asked why I didn't take my portion of the spaghetti from the pot, later that evening. I mentioned to her that, as always I find it disgusting to eat spaghetti, seasoned with toothpaste drool and saliva. The response I got from her was a hiss and then she said that, next time I should inform her if I am not going to eat the food she cooked so that she would not cook for me."

I let that slide but I felt she missed the point. The next day was her birthday and I decided to prepare breakfast for her.
While I was in the kitchen cooking, she came in with the same drooling toothpaste mouth to take a kitchen Scissors in order to cut something on her pants, even though we have another scissors in the room for such purposes. In the process of trying to pick the scissors, her hands which were covered with toothpaste drool had to cross the pot which I was cooking with. I mentioned to her that I was not comfortable with that and she just hissed as usual, still picked the Scissors and left the kitchen while angrily saying that I am just a complainer. I lost it at this point and proceeded to give her a lecture in anger about basic hygiene and why I can not keep quiet over these things because we live in a shared space and how her actions have a direct effect on me. It ended in a shouting match till she kept quiet, without accepting she was wrong.

This is the pattern almost everything takes when I try to correct her. The worst part is that I would still have to be the one to apologize for shouting at her because if I don't, I might be subjected to a week long silent treatment which I dread.

There are other more unhygienic things that are done by her, which I might not be able to post here due to the fact that I am not completely anonymous and she is still my wife but I hope this information is enough for someone to understand my frustration and profer a solution.

My question first is she a Lagos babe or u go marry am come from village...


If it village... Jus know it wud difficult to adjust...

If u have complain to and no result...

If it me...I wud leave the house for 3 wks...

I guess she wud miss me...no money...no food stuffs again and turn a new leaf

If that plan does not work out, I wud invite someone dat is younger dan her dat is discipline to live with u cos it wud correct her or beta still check it well if DAT how dey do in dere family....living a dirty pattern


Cos I guess she wud be dirty on bed)


Or if u love ur wife...beta to pray about it cos ur family or visitor comes to the house and see such, can even not come to ur house again or might hatred for d family...

Pray to get bikin...maybe it wud change her thinking...cos I see

Putting dem in hostels is beta dan accommodating dem in hotel where is no proper guidance from a house masters...


If u don't want ur child to do wassce dis year....den come next 2 years wen covid 19 might be over

mrcommonsense:
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Thanks

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Cos something, one is not sure off...can pull out money bro...

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Thanks
God bless...

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We didn't see result...na ongoing work

We need output

Inside isolation centre

Haaaaaaaaaa

fabuloz1:
Kyari, Ajimobi and now Kashamu died in this same hospital

We must go to d hospital to no d injection dey give dem...

Oya channels, AIT and co

Bawal:
Due to some challenges, I and my wife are staying in one room self con and her 30 year old sister has been staying with us for some months now, my wife is older than her by three years.

Making love has been challenging since then even though the sister puts bed on the floor and sleep,most time when we assume she is asleep and engage in the act, i will later observe that she is not sleeping. Though she will maintain as if she is sleeping and this is constituting an uneasy environment.

In fact most time she knows when we are doing it. We are very uncomfortable over the act and she is not moving out from the house soonest. Though she is an adult that such may not sound strange to her, but indirectly seeing or hearing the sound on when i am performing duty on her elder sister makes us feel uncomfortable especially when we see one another in the morning after the act.

Please whats the right way to manage this situation. Advise please.

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