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Talk2Bella:
I know I’m not supposed to complain, but my vagina is, all we do is have sex every minute of the day and it’s not fun for me anymore.


He has never asked me about my parents, relatives, siblings , nothing at all and we have been fucking for 3 years and the shocker is he doesn’t know where I stay not that I haven’t invited him over, he just says his place is more comfortable.


Whenever he’s coming home from work he tells me to wait for him at my bus-stop and then we go to his house, anytime I try to cajole him to just come know my place he gets angry.


Bella does this man even love me, he gives me money in abundance, and takes care of me when I’m sick but even in my sickness he still wants to Bleep, I am getting tired of this routine.


I am in love with him so I can’t leave, but is he in love with me?




Talk2Bella



I like the way your last sentence ended “I am in love with him, but is he in love with me” do I need say more? He obviously isn’t remotely in love with you, you have been fucking him for three whole years, he doesn’t know your house, you siblings or even your aspirations in life and yet you say you can’t leave him, something must be wrong somewhere.


There’s no point asking him where the relationship is going to lead to because you’re just a sex mate, a tension relief, a hole to drill that’s what you’re to him, some place there’s a woman who he’s going to settle down with and that woman isn’t you.


He only calls you for sex, and you give it to him in abundance, try and withhold sex from him and you see he becomes nice for a while and goes back to his old self, or he’d have another person willing to take your place in a heartbeat.


Honey this isn’t love, if it is ,it is one sided and you need to get away from this, it’s toxic and three years is a lot of time to not be sure of what you have with someone, it’s time to kiss that cock goodbye and let your pussy rest for someone who’d appreciate it.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/09/all-we-do-is-have-sex-in-abundance-i-am.html

You do not have the right to accuse the man of using you as a sex object,when you treat him as an ATM.
Even the love the woman claims to have for him is sorely based on the money. He takes care of her financial needs and she takes care of his emotional needs. No ambiguity anywhere.

raayah:
Why am I not suprised that you are here defending rapists. If you ever owe anybody anything, I hope they destroy your a-hole forcefully

After all, they spent money on you, so you deserve to be sexually violated.

U r so pathetic. U defend heartless women who pull romance job on guys. U deserve all that U have coming to you. Meanwhile she raped his money first! In any case rape of all forms is deplorable and so is wickedly milking a man dry.

VolTOxic:
Is that how you'll stand back, close your ears and eyes and wait while your sister gets rapèd? This is terrible.

Is that how u will stand back and watch your brother being milked dry by wicked women?

BrokenHeart2016:
Right now my heart is heavy, am in a state of confusion I don't know what to do.On saturday I received the shock of my life through a text message from my girlfriend stating that I should move on with my life that it is over between us, at first I thought I was dreaming because I just got up from bed at exactly 7am, I ignored the text thinking it was a mistake had to shower and get ready for work. The following day which happens to be on sunday I called her and She told me that she has think about it that I should move on with my life...its over!!! I asked her what have I done to deserve such a thing from her she was unable to justify her action.
O boy, my jaw drop e be like say dem use dagger pierced my heart have never experience such thing in my life, I do read it online about how girls break up with their partner with no reason I can't believe this is happening to me. This is a girl that I really care for we met during our National Diploma program in 2012, she will be graduating this year while am about to put in for my HND.
Am not boasting about what have done for her but I just want you guys to understand my plight, I help her financially during her two years of studies pay her school fees and other miscellaneous while am still hustling. During our five years of courtship have never thought of cheating her or dump her for no reason I always make sure she's comfortable because her parents has passed. Since saturday my life have never been the same because the tone of text msg always ring on my head, am so sad right now I can't think straight anymore my boss at work notice my mood today and ask me what's up with me I had to dodge the question....till now I always look at my phone hoping to see her call or text maybe she was joking with me, I really love her so much and I always express my love to her though am not financially bouyant at the moment but I always do everything in my capacity to ensure she is Ok....there was a time i use money meant for my handouts to buy her foodstuffs and all, have sacrifice a lot for her during our academic days I finished with Lower Credit while she has Upper Credit. I'm not jealous of her success but frankly speaking I make impact in her life in general, I do see her as the mother of my kids there are a lot of plan I have for her, we always discuss this all the time. Right now she school in osun state while am hustling here in oyo state but I always travel to visit her from time to time and shower her with a lot of gifts.
Pls I need your advise on how to move on with my life because right now the thing is affecting my life I can't think straight anymore or even sleep very well. Bashing is also allowed I just want u guys to talk sense into my head.

Sorry for my grammatical blunders

Lesson 1. Did you notice most of the women here are advising you to move on? It shows you how a woman's heart works. So stop building your life around women. You will never succeed that way.

Lesson2. Call her and thank her for opening your eyes and tell her you will always support her in whatever she decides to do. Don't go crying over the phone o! Most of you bread and butter men of nowadays are so weak and pathetic emotionally that you now disgust women.

Lesson 3. I expected to see her here writing about her broken heart but you the man who is supposed to be strong and take control of things is here crying like a weak child. For now you are too weak emotionally to be useful to anybody, so don't go jumping into another relationship for now. Give yourself six months probation for now.

Lesson 4. Next time you wanna pick a girl, don't invest a dime, until you have taken her to the altar. Most of the girls we have today are plain whores!

He should completely dump the insecure trembling little girl he call a girlfriend and go for a real woman who will worship him. Most women are not worthy to untie the lace on his shoes. Listen guys only girls that worship you should you date. The woman was made for the man, anything outside that is pure chaos!

Chineke meeee! Apart from flawlessly applied make up in her face and her generously slippers flattened breasts, what will Rita Domnic tell our God she did with her life at 41? No Husband no children? Tufiakwa! I do not wish this even for my worst enemy!

uzolexis:
you are very pathetic.... you call yourself a father and you are here trading abuses and curses on pple who have done nothing wrong to you. I feel very bad for your kids cos as you are a baby yourself and have no business fathering kids, can you just do yourself a favor and take a look at your comments on this thread? If that doesn't tell you something, doesn't make you ashamed and cause you to reflect on your life then sorry should be your middle name.... I mean come on, give yourself some respect

Asswipe cyberspace LovePeddler why don't you turn the words back to yourself and maybe they will hold meaning to you? Reserve your sympathy for the children you will never have. In all honesty calling you pathetic is actually an act of praise, you are far worse. Yes I am a very proud father and one of the things I owe my beautiful God given daughters is to encourage them never to lead the kind of life that people like you and Rita Dominic leads. An empty, barren, lonely, unproductive life with only a tired pillow as a companion on lonely nights. The only thing you people have close to a relationship is only when you are sucking the rotten puccy of some poor wretched unlucky girl. Tufiakwa! There is no hope for you at all. You are completely worthless! Please don't bother replying, I have my hand over my nose here to prevent your atrocious stench from reaching me. You stink baddddddddddddddddd!

Go and check very well, her pussy stinks!

uzolexis:
Bless you my dear, fitting reply for this illiogical overgrown baby called dinachi

This cursed imp parading as a normal human clown. When are you going to realize that all that faces you in this life is loneliness and barrenness?
Your childishness and pettiness is profoundly embarrassing as you do not have the slightest qualms displaying them here.

You are cursed with a curse!

RaggedyAnn:
Are you really a father? What a tragedy!

I guess when an irresponsible single person marries, they don't magically become responsible married people. But those girls (that you call your own) deserve better than a father who condescends to the level of a foul mouthed rascal insulting young women in cyberspace, wouldn't you say? How are you ever going to teach them any self-worth?

Your comment have been observed and competently discharged in the trash bin where it deserves. Worse that a disaster, even worse than the cyberwhore you are is your idiotic and extremely silly assumptions that reduce you to a complete empty hulk of a dolt! My daughters, will gladly give you a through washdown if they ever meet you in real life for ever entertaining the thought that you could be making sense.

In all honesty, your parents should have sold you to buy recharge card at birth. You are completely worthless as a human being!

2dugged:
hehehehe, not only are you stupid, you are childish as well, just negodu! hehehehe, you just showed everyone how low you are willing to go, just to win an argument, chai!

Uzolexis this is what i was trying to tell you.

2dugged:
it's official, I give up on myself,*sighs*

Na waoh!

2dugged:
hehehehe, unfortunately I typed that with my hand, hehehehehehe, not only am I stupid, I am also childish as well! it is very clear that I will die single and barren.

na waoh! Why you take your hand dey curse yourself like this na. I guess it is a generational thing from your lineage.

uzolexis:
I give up on you, you are a lost cause.....goodbye

@ 50 poor, single and barren you are a total lost cause, goodbye! Good riddance to your utter rubbish!

Anita is just a trembling little girl that got served by Pastor Chris. She is so petty that I now understand why Pastor Chris dumped her like hot potato.

uzolexis:
again you have shown how dumb you are by calling that a prayer. also i didn't say marriage is not important, everyone has their priorities and marriage is important for some pple and not for others, it's their life, it's their decision and you have no right to tell pple what they should hold as important in their life. i'm trying to be as polite as possible and have a civilized discussion with you but if you still don't get it at this point, there is really nothing me or any other person can do to enlighten you cos your problem is beyond our understanding.

May you remain unmarried and barren like your best friend 2dugged suggested for ya! Shout alleluya to that.

2dugged:
I didn't just say I will not get married, I am also saying that I am barren and I say amen to that. I will die broke and battered with no one to shed a tear for me.

Chai this curse in your life is too much! No be me talk am oh! Na you take your mouth say am.

2dugged:
I didn't say your daughters will not get married, I am saying they will be barren,now say amen,infact let me help you out, Amen!!!.no need to thank me for the prayers, you are welcome

Yeah, they will be barren of having kids that thinks like you, and fruitful having kids that thinks like their daddy! You are cursed with a curse! No husband or child at your age, you will die alone , broke and battered, twisted with nobody to shed a tear for you. No child and no husband! Enjoy it while it lasts!

uzolexis:
common sense is indeed not common to pple like you, pls introduce me to your English teacher so I can scold him/her for not teaching you well cos it very evident your understanding of English language is way below par if this is what you understand from my post.

I don't know why you are trembling like an epileptic patient over a simpleChristian prayer I made for ya! I expected you to shout halleluya in ecstasy as you begin to enjoy the fruits of that prayer.

It is simple , if you say marriage is not important, may you never experience it. Now shout amen to that or keep your rotten hole shut.

2dugged:
marriage is a personal choice, and she made her choice, and I also pray for you my dear brother, may your daughters be barren, say Amen

Sorry my daughters take marriage serious and even at their tender age are asking serious questions about it that you at your own mama age will never even contemplate. Keep sucking rotten pussys of other women, remain single so that by the time you clock 50 you can see how Rita dominic is chopping life at that age without a husband or kids to call her own. And while at it may barrenness visit you like a hurricane to complete your joy in that sector! Happy single living!

uzolexis:
there is no problem if a woman is not married at whatever age...marriage is a personal decision and if a person decides not to marry it's their choice, it's their life, leave them alone and concentrate on your own life.
So she should not celebrate her bday again, she should be sad cos she never marry....i tire for some pple sef

You said it with your own mouth. May you never marry in this life because it is not important. Remain single and keep rubbing pancake and wearing lipstick at 50 to show how Rita Domnic is "chopping life"

2dugged:
one of the ladies I respect in the movie industry, and I wish would atleast have a child, even if it is by anonymous sperms donor, marriage is not a must but having someone to carry on your name is important

May you never marry in this life in Jesus name since it is not a must. I expect an Amen.

It is over! She will never marry again. She can keep applying make up and sucking other women's puccys. That is what a life of Lesbianism and I too know will do to many female fools here.

aaronson:
Ignorance at its peak.

The daughter is trying to get things right by enlightening minds about this fake world we live in.

The dad is out there wallowing in pool of ignorance allowing that murderer of a pastor lay hand on his head.

This is saddening for the future of Africa.

Another kemi oluloyo wannabe on the loose! Let Kemi defend herself.

Joy1706:
You are an IDIOT. If I decide to keep my surname, how is that your business? Are you the one marrying me? GOD FORBID. In your under developed brain, this is about independence and feminism? You're as dumb as they come I swear. Why should I keep my mother's maiden name? Is her father my father? Mstchewww

Remove your head from your ass, you are full of sh1t! You cannot even comprehend simple logic! Walahi your papa drink too much brukutu before them born you. Let me rephrase it for for a dullard like you to understand. You should start your crusade from your mother who adopted your fathers own surname. Idiot go and tell your mother to dump your father's surname and start bearing her maiden name anuofia! It was okay for you when your mother adopted your fathers surname but you want to go to another man's house with your maiden name, abi? You are cursed with a curse! You will never marry in this life!

Man dump that control freak ASAP! She is so not worth the ground you march on! Reply her text, tell her she should stop comparing herself to football. That she is downgrading herself and if she does not stop you will leave her for someone that understands her self worth.

How much? Why is the air conditioning not working?