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edwife:


Imagine people sleeping here since yesterday because of serving o and they are busy calling out frustrated women

The thirst is real my sister,e dey pain people say i dey camp for boys room....

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Dont mind the frustrated old hags without a man to call their own! Cursed imps paramblating around nairaland, lonely sad and dejected!
I strongly emphasize that mamalemon is not worthy to untie the shoes on your feet!

zeeblamj:
Jeez!!! How is it helping the woman??

zeeblamj:
Why do we Nigerians talk to eachother with so much hate? I'm sorry if she offended u. Please stop cursing her. It's not fair for a person to live this life u cursed her to. It's just a thread.

I thinks she enjoys it thats why she keeps attacking me.

oreos:
You are condemned to be hacked to death by your own children or die of neglect.: D

Stop talking about children cause you will never have any!
You will die a sad lonely,dejected, twisted old fuggly witch with no one to shed a tear for you!
HBP, Stroke and dementia beckons with open arms.
Enjoy your curse!

creepsyme:
dont get it wrong, wat is in dishing food dat a man cannot do? after all the cooking from ur wife? @%=÷teammenwholovetostresswomen$#@%

I hope you wont mind also when he ignores you and focuses on important chores with his secretary at the office. Get into your skull, if you do not make your husband your priority then he wont also make you his. What is stressful in serving your husband his food? Simple you do not love your husband! If you do then serving him his meals should be one of your best moments.

oreos:
Hehehehe

Just because that is you think does not mean that it is what will happen.

You have never been married and you do not have any kids. I suggest you fvck off the family section.

Obsessed nit-wit!

Cursed imp! Are you still alive? Not to worry, HBP, stroke and dementia are fast closing in! Get ready to kiss the dust you rotten unfortunate soul.
Stay away from topics on marriage and kids as you will never marry or have kids. That is your reality, but you are free to come and offload your bile on nairaland as that is the only life you have left! Like I said ealier, the heaven on earth I currently enjoy in my home is a life you can only imagine and dream about BUT will never have. You are condemned to die a sad,lonely,bitter,twisted woman angry at the world and God for your self inflicted misfortune! Enjoy your curse.

oreos:
Dumbass, Ensuring that your kids look prim and proper, arriving at school on time and meeting a deadline at work are far important than serving or dishing your food. Self-centered bastar.d

Stay off Nairaland and check yourself into therapy.

My kids? Okay I remember now you dont have any and will never have, life must really be hard for you, obtuse ape!
I cant advice you to leave nairaland seeing that is the only life you have left and nairaland offers an escape to ofload your bile.
Oh and remember you should have no say about married peeps because you will never marry and will die a bitter,lonely,twisted old fuggly witch from HBP, Stroke and demetia!

Joy1706:
If a man wants a divorce over me not dishing his food, then I say GOOD RIDDANCE TO BAD RUBBISH

Then remain single and die in your foolish pride.

zeeblamj:
Wow this has turned into a battle ground. Why is everyone fighting eachother? take it easy guys. Show some love.
My advise hasn't changed. U cannot get the right advise from Nairaland cause nobody here knows ur husband. U married him, unless it was an arranged marriage, I'm sure u knew who he was from the beginning.
U might have started an unrealistic relationship with him and now after marriage u expect him to grow out of it. He wants the submissive girl he married. Not the sudden Feminist after getting the ring.
I made it clear from the beginning we are equals. It doesn't make my husband less of a man if he cooks dinner and even serves it. It doesn't make him less a man if I set the table and have to prepare for work and he served himself. I don't think this is big enough to be a marital issue. People have bigger problems. Communication is key. Speak to the Man. Confess u were doing that before marriage to please him that's not who u really are. Women should really stop faking it. It doesn't make u low if u serve ur husband his food. I do it. But that's because we eat breakfast and dinner together. No matter what! The pots and floor and whatever I'm doing or he's doing can wait. We both wake up early and do all necessary chores so we can meet up in time. That's what a togetherness is. U cannot turn ur wife into a slave just because she is a house wife. It makes her lose her worth and self esteem. If he had helped her around the house a bit or told her to stop with the chores so they can both eat, she would have served the food. Actually she already served it. He wanted it in a smaller plate and that's why he was angry. One person has to be an adult. I think there is no love otherwise he wouldn't be able to eat without his wife by his side. Nothing is sweeter than sitting beside my husband and watching him enjoy what I have cooked. It's a beautiful sight. But if I'm really busy, he should understand and serve the damn food!!!! Or wait for me to be done so we eat it together.
This isn't even a marital issue. This is a battle between two egoists. They both do not want to talk out their issues.
One last thing, if he wants to cheat, he will. Even if u wash his butt after he poops!
Oya guys come crucify me oooooo.

My dear nobody will crucify you for saying some truths,however no chore is more important that serving your husband. The love of my life abandons other chores when it comes to serving the king!
Just the way I abandon every other thing to attend to my queen when she needs my attention.
No chore no matter how important should come between the love of my life and serving me her well prepared and delicious meal.

tearoses:
17 pages on serving food
I wonder how many pages it will be on sex or finance which are more important in a relationship

Truth though bitter is that you cant sow ewedu and pluck yam
There are millions of different characters around . . . .pick the one that you can live with. That is what courtship is about, but NO our people pick based on silly qualities such as the length of brazillian hair or the way he shaves his bia bia.

is it today that the woman discovered that the man likes to be waited on hand and foot. When they were dating didnt she do it?

Most issues within marriage were there since day toasting, only that people chose to ignore it. . . "I can change her" " he will change when he marrys"

A man insisting that you serve him even though you are busy didnt just wake up that morning with that attitude.

If the woman involved is reading or you are in a similar situation, dont listen to people advising you to do mike tyson. Your choice, your marriage, your cross.
I am sure the guy has some good qualties that other men dont have. Focus on those ones please.
No one is perfect. Serving food wont kill anyone.
The next guy may be a ritualist and use your unborn pikins for ajo . . .. yes some men do that according to Nollywood

Also boys and girls always try to find humor in things. Life is too short.
serve the man, rub his head with one hand and rub his wallert with the other hand both of you have a laugh, kiss each other and face the world out there with a smile on both your faces.
marriage is supposed to fun and I really feel sorry for those people who have turned it into a battle ground.

May Gods divine blessings never leave your home as you continue to dish out deep wisdom like this.
Leave extremely childish and bigoted women like oreos and co to continue masturbating over something as simple as serving the love of your life his food. They and their kind and will forever remain single.
Once again thanks for being a strong voice of wisdom.

oreos:
I love my family. I am blessed with four brothers and bantering with my dad is one my favorite pasttime.#Beat that#



Your children are going to rip ypur heart out. Mark my words!Of you are not careful your son might end up hacking you to death. I am hoping that you will eventually commit suicide when you start seeing the little signs.


Why are you so obssessed with women wahala? Evidently, it ia a sign of momma issues, Did your momma made a fool out of your dad? Did she cheat on him while you were too helpless to do anything about it or is it a complex issue caused by the woman who ripped out your heart to feed her dogs?

Whatever the case maybe you need help. See a psychologist. Please don't worry about me too much I don't hold the concept of life as important as going to heaven. It is for a little while. Anything can bloody well happen to me. I will take it as it is because it doesn't matter to God. It is just an earth thing

You again display your usual arrogance after plucking your fathers eyes and ripping out his heart you come here and deny it after he inflicting such pain on the old man. You are heartless and wicked!
No wonder you are denigrating men who are adored by their wives. You are scared of marriage and having kids because karma is waiting to return your curse to you. As you wish may you remain single for the rest of my life.
Since you grew up without proper care and training ina family that lacked love it is difficult for you to relate with a woman who lovingly prepares and serves her husbands food. Your life will remain twisted and bitter because of your foolish pride until you die from HBP, stroke and dementia.
There is no point going to a psychiatrist, as your case is beyond hope. Until karma finish turning your woggly ass to a societal reject,there is nothing much anybody can do to your cursed soul.
Our kids? They are enjoying the best love can offer in a well balanced and lovable environment, a thing you never had and will never have.
Enjoy your bitter, twisted,maniacal and lonely rejected life. It is all you can ever have anyways!

oreos:
The beautiful kids will soon pluck out your eyes and rip out your heart with their indifference towards you. It is only a matter of time. Wait for it.

Exactly the way you rips out the hearts and plucks out the eyes of your parents. This here is a clear pointer that you came out from a hate filled and bitter family. No wonder you do not see any man worthy of being properly served his food by his wife. Father issues!

oreos:
I came alone so why should it be a problem to die alone.

Perfect, as you wish yourself single may God grant your request.

oreos:
A stupid_, retarded_, arrogant man pull down his home when he decides to put himself first instead of his home. They can choose to compromise for the home or have regrets in future. It is their choice to make.

Another bigoted rant from a bitter,twisted woman who plucks out the eyes and rips out the hearts of her parents.
Kpele oh!
Who only sees arrogance in men who are well taken care of by their lovely wives!
A joy oreos will never know as she moves about in nairaland blaming men and God for her self inflicted misfortunes.

oreos:
You may not get married to any one at all with this your dumb_, stupid_, retarde.d way of thinking. Men like you get divorced easily and lead miserable life. Men like you who are so full of themselves and who also think marriage defines a woman end up living a miserable life. You may not get a divorced but your children who definitely not give a fvck about whether you are dead or alive.

Oh! If you are searching about women who can't do without blaming men, look in the mirror darling. That is your speciality.

Sorry that bus has moved with beautiful kids. But you are free to continue in your foolish pride and die at shiloh calling for Gods intervention when you clock fifty years.Or you can open your dark heart now and learn. The choice is yours. A foolish woman pulls down her house with her hands while a wise woman builds her own house. The choice is yours between foolery and wisdom.
And this matter is between married peeps, if marriage is not a priority for you may God grant your request and may you die single.

raayah:
lol.. my baby crying or food burning or using the bathroom is less important than serving your husband.

i will serve my husband but if i cannot do it, i expect him to understand. What if i were ill, wont he eat.

i pity your wife.

Pity your own miserable life full of bitterness before you think of the Angel that so readily complements my life.
Enjoy your divorce occasioned by your foolish pride and unrestrained bitterness.
Only a foolish women considers chores more important than their husbands. And I hope you wont mind when he has important chores with his secretary while ignoring you. Hope you wont mind when he ignores your requests and focuses on the important chore of watching his favorite football matches. Hope you wont mind when he ignores your request for money and focuses on the very important chore of driving to work. My dear prioritize your life. YOUR HUSBAND COMES FIRST AFTER GOD. So when it comes to serve him food unburden yourself from every chore and do the needful

oreos:
I am not going to get married to a man with a two digits IQ so I won't and can't have a divorce over something so flimsy.: D

You may not get married to any person at all with this bigoted, proud, untrained mentality showing a woman who is too full of herself to serve her husbands food. In this matter, you display a total lack of IQ. Women like you get divorced easily and roam the streets and nairaland blaming men, the world and God for their self inflicted misfortune.

raayah:
the problem is not about serving men. most women serve their husbands.

the incident occurred while the woman was busy with chores. An understanding man will go ahead and serve himself or help out with the chores.

everyone has different opinions and its very immature to insult people because their views oppose yours. your comment is the most disgusting comment in this thread.

You still missed it again. Nothing absolutely nothing should be more important than your husband. Those chores can wait until your husband is properly served. Any smart woman who loves and TRULY cherishes her husband will readily see this. Get it into your skull no chore is more important than your husband. This matter is as straightforward as they come. The woman in question completely erred. And when it is your husbands turn to do his due diligence no chore should stop him.

oreos:
Pray you don't end up with a werey

And You need therapy.

Missed entirely! Just pray you dont get a divorce over a well prepared and delicious egusi soup not properly served!
Only foolish,bigoted,shortsighted and idiotic women fail to understand that serving ones husband is an act of love, care and devotion to the man you love most.

oreos:
Dinachi and his complex issues


Only Baba God can save you

Pray you dont fall into that category of women cursed with eternal foolishness. Pray tell why should a woman serving her husband have issues with it?

oreos:
Dinachi and his complex issues

Only Baba God can save you

Pray you dont fall into that category.

The Op is a homosexual hiding behind the computer to type thrash. So if an armed robber or adulterer buys you food and chats you up, you now promote armed robbery and adultery as being good?
You are cursed with a curse!

Joy1706:
How about you serving your wife the way you serve your mother? Hope that would go down well with you .

Many of you with this cursed mindset will die without a husband and nobody to shed a tear for you!
Any woman who cannot serve her husband joyfully is cursed with a spirit of rebellion and is never in love with that man.

xtrorse:
Tell your paymasters that your mission was dead on arrival...give them back their money!

Bunch of greedy, hypocritical ingrates who have gained from the the great injustice and inequality in the polity and would rather the status quo remain.
Your days are numbered...

It is you who have to do stock taking after you people deceived Igbos to vote for the worst President in Nigeria's history just because you collected money. Go and return that money and maybe just maybe God may have mercy on your evil soul.

@ Op killing yourself is NOT the end but the begining of your life. You see their is life after death and you were born for a purpose. When purpose is not known abuse is inevitable. Have you searched for your purpose in life?
Instead of wanting to kill yourelf because there is so much evil in the world, why dont you rather seek to find out why? Your life is too precious to waste and remember that since you cannot create life,you shouldnt take it either. Again, if you take your life,what is the difference between you and boko haram who take innocent lives?

new2020:
Dirty Yoruba Maggot!

Your foolishness knows no bounds. Only fools like you follow Nnamdi Kanu to their graves. The blood of those IPOB members killed is on you and Nnamdi Kanus head. Evil people!

It is with a heavy heart I write. More than 3 members of his IPOB were gunned down by security forces. Where is the man who sent them on this part of foolery?
He is comfortable somewhere in London and Iam sure his next broadcast will be to encourage more fools to loose their pathetic lives while he wines and dines beautiful women in Europe.
This is a lesson before it gets out of hand.

I Sincerely sympathise with the supposed husband by the time Tonto and her Lesbian partners and friends finish dealing with him, his case will be worse than that of another reknowed Lesbian Eucharia Anunobi whose husband abandoned and fled for dear life!
It is official,the guy is a goner!

xtrorse:
Your propaganda is not working. It is stale already! It is dead on arrival!
Go back to your paymasters and tell them that their message did not sail through and return back their money!

So you think everybody collects money the way you collect money to sell our Igbo brothers as Ijaw s1aves?

I had expected when I opened the thread to have at least one Igbo supporter of Ijaw presidency of Jonathan to take up my challenge of naming one Ijaw supporter of Igbo presidency.
Very clearly, no single Ijaw man considers any Igbo man worthy of being president of Nigeria. To this end any Igbo man still talking about Jonathan is nothing but an Ijaw s1ave.

snowDiva:
4 real? Abi ure just throwing around unfounded allegations? #notcool

Tis real. She is.

Ginaz:
pastors that can't keep their family but can pray for other people's own.
he went to church to preach, just say what happened and stopped beating about the bush Mr pastor.

Is that why you sleep with women, you lesbian?

Bibol:
I still don't get why people here are arguing over what is totally clear. Dinachi and co, your point is that women should submit to their husbands whether they treat them right or not, isn't it? Good! Cococandy, your point is also that men should love their wives even as Christ loved the church.

From what I see in the scriptures, love conquers all things and can endure any form of insult and ridicule for it is the greatest commandment. Men have a very serious and great responsibility to love their wives. This to me seems more stricter than the popular submission talk because if a man is to truly love unconditionally, he will correct in love and still keep loving even when his wife or children are not exactly behaving the way he wants. Remember the scriptures also says that while we were yet sinners Christ died for us.

If we will infer from this passage, it means a man should love his wife whether she is perfect or not, and a woman should submit to her husband with all his imperfections

Both commandments on love and submission are mutually exclusive, and it is expected that a man should love his wife no matter what she does and even be ready to lay down his life for his wife if need be just as Christ loved and died for us AND a woman should submit to her husband no matter what he does. A Christian marriage is different from the world's kind of marriage. That's the scripture, no addition, no subtraction! (Hosea the prophet experienced this first hand when he was asked by God to marry a prostitute, God was trying to teach him what unconditional love really is) Now will God ask us to do something he thinks we aren't capable of handling? Never!

@ Dinachi, I'm not judging you as I am also an imperfect creature but going by all you have typed here, can you boldly show your comments to an unbeliever you are trying to win to Christ and tell him to follow your footsteps and write the way you do? Bible says let no corrupt word come out of your mouth. At some point in this Christian journey, we all need correction. You are being too abusive and you know in your heart that is totally unchristian-like. Don't take this personal, it's just the way it is.

If we claim we are Christians, there's no need heaping abusive words on each other, the unbelievers will just keep laughing at us when they read our comments here and they go ahead and say "See them, church folks, very confused lot!" There are more civil ways to have a decent conversation without exchanging words. Even if people say terrible things about you or don't agree on your point, the ideal thing as a "born- again" is to behave like Jesus, ignore the abuse and make your point decently.

*Let your light so shine before men that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven*

The bible is clear on all issues of life, the only problem is humans that try to twist scriptures to suit their selfish needs. No one likes to be corrected and we all love to point accusing fingers at the other person just to prove our innocence.

P.S : Any Christian that wants to get married should diligently study the books of Songs of Solomon and Hosea. It prepared my heart when I was getting ready for marriage and I learnt a lot from them even more than the marriage books I bought

Enough said!

Long epistle but it is well, I have heard you. Remember to submit to your husband today and enjoy divine blessings. Have a nice day.

bukatyne:
What is settled?

Answer me.... should .a man love his wife irrespective of What she does?

I dare you to answer me or your Bible knowledge no reach that one?

I am waiting

Cc: cococandy

Have a nice day and remember to submit to your handsome husband today. It attracts divine blessings!