₦airaland Forum

alabiyemmy:
Nonsense- keep churning out nonsense as usual for Buhari - he will fail as usual.

How do you explain the deaths of so many Nigerians in his regime? Thousands killed by Boko Haram. Hundreds killed during an interview in Abuja.
This endorsement by Witches &Wizards is a pointer to what will happen if we make the mistake of returning that wizard (GEJ) to power. More Nigerians will die! We are not going to sacrifice the blood of our fellow citizens so that the candidate of witches and wizards will win. GMB 2015 to safeguard our lives from evil men(GEJ&SAMBO)!

It is now very clear why there have been so much bloodshed in his government. The witches and wizards needs a candidate that can continuously shed the blood of innocent Nigerians and they chose Jonathan. Nigerians now have a clear choice to make between the candidate of witches&Wizards (GEJ) and the candidate of the People (GMB).
I and my family will rather support the candidate of the people. SAI BUHARI 2015!

This says it all. A candidate endorsed by witches and wizards can never mean well for Nigeria. Our decision is made easier now. GMB2015!

The guy is having financial problems and you are not happy that you chose a man who can't provide. It is very clear to me..because you should not be breaking a relationship to focus on yourself if you really loved the guy. Afterall, people prefer their lover around as they make progress in life. What exactly do you want to do? Take a course abroad or what? It is good you clearly tell the man the truth. O boy I don tire for you as you no get money! Make I go hustle guy weh get. Stop pretending it is nit about financial status.

That girl is a stinking parasite! Tomorrow they will come here and start talking about feminism. I dated one stinking puccy one time who will never call unless you buy her a card. Needles to say, I dumped her weeks into the relationship. No Time! My guy look for a girl who respects herself enough to contribute financially in a relationship. All these other assistant prostitutes masquerading as girlfriends should be dumped ASAP!

jaytee01:
She should produce her boyfriend and the rumours will stop!
Or she produce all the dildos she uses for self service!

Perfect solution! A lady has no known male lover but is seen kissing other girls and even entering the same hotel room with ladies. Why won't there be rumors?

Bisi the pervert flaunts his partner in evil should have been a more appropriate heading.
Nothing makes homosexuality right,not America,not anybody. All their arguments to gain acceptance na wash. Their is nothing normal about a man drilling another mans poppoo hole.

Two things! It is either she is a lesbian or she has spiritual problems. Lesbians find it very difficult to form emotional bonds with men and will never give their relationship with men the needed seriousness and time that it deserves. She doesn't think about the situation because she is not really into men.

I have always known she is a Lesbian. See her response sef. Is it the unavailability of handsome men that turns women to homosexuality? Quote me any day. RUKKY SANDA IS A LESBIAN.

All these bought women! Their husbands are billionaires so what? How much did they contribute to the mens wealth? Bunch of stinking parasites!

As usual they cluster around to attack because they hate the truth. They forget one thing, the truth hurts! It is an advice. The OP 's friend either take or forget. It is that simple. Cherio haters!

Enough of all these emotional answers from feminists here! I can almost picture the situation clearly in my mind...here goes.
From my observation, your friend is a bitter woman. She is very bitter against everything for her tumour and she blames herself. She sees sex as work not as fun that is why the man can hardly get it up and struggles with it. She has never really loved the man. I can almost swear that her puccy stinks and for some men that is a total turn off. Without it being said I know she is an introvert. Now I know her body hygiene is suspect because most women becomes unkempt if they believe they are not being appreciated enough. SOLUTION.
1, Let her understand that ONLY she is responsible for her own happiness not her Husband! It is her choice to either be happy or not.
2, She should love herself. Her friend should help her to rediscover herself, tell her your old jokes that the really enjoys and refuse to discuss her husband with her anymore.
3, She must make sure she bathes regularly and get a very nice deodorant and perfume and use it very well on herself.
4, Her puccy hygiene is critical. She must wash it thoroughly and always ensure it is very neat before sex with her husband. Stinking puccy totally turns a lot of guys off.
5, She should go out of her way to buy porn movies and join the husband to watch it .
6, She should stop crying around all the time.
and put a smile on her face.
7, She is too rigid in bed..She should spice it up ...touch the man's body...lick and suck his nipples..run your fingers behind his neck...lick and gently suck his ear.. Go on top... Make the sex lively..free your mind..sex if properly done is very pleasurable.
BUT if she cannot bring herself to do these, then I recommend a trial separation first. She should go away for a while...

Go and check those countries that outlawed corporal punishment, they have the most badly behaved children. These are countries where children wake up pick arms and open fire on their classmates for no justifiable reason. Some even kill their parents. Children have absolutely no regard for their parents there. Here in Nigeria, children respect their parents more by far. Why do we have a justice system that jails and sometimes executes people? Punishing children when they misbehave helps them to understand that there is a clear consequence for breaking the law.

That is the best way to treat cheating feminist pigs!

That pregnant woman should be immediately arrested for attempted murder and duly charged to face the music. She is a killer!

Some people here are really sick! A woman attempted to murder a man by grabbing his balls to kill him and when the man in a bid to save his life from the feminist beast dealt her a blow,some idiots who do not value human life come here to spew rubbish. The woman in question have absolutely no respect for men. I am very sure she is the type that fights the husband at every opportunity. How I wish the man beat her to death. Obiara Igbum gbuo onwe ya (He who came to kill me should kill himself)

And later, you hear these bought women coming here to talk about feminism!

Honestly, I hate it when some women come here to deliberately paint men black. Your father did no wrong! Even the Bible accepts divorce in the case of adultery. However, If I was in your fathers shoes I may have handled it differently. I will forgive her but the truth be told, it is not gonna be easy. Now apparently you are truly your fathers daughter! Both of you have unforgiving spirits.

He was born that way! I am sure those who claim homosexuality is natural will understand. Rubbish! O boy go to a very strong deliverance pastor. You are possessed!

Just like I predicted, instead of women seeking answers to their terribly smelling puccys, they are here arguing. Now you know why many guys take off after one encounter with y'all. It takes a neat and very clean pussy to keep a good man. A word is enough for the wise!

MarieSucre:
You keep raising a straw man argument and demolishing it yourself. honestly its laughable at most. There was no point about not being appreciated. there was no point about marriage. there was no point about sex. There was no point about Nigerian men seeing the light or staying in jahiliya (ignorance). The crux of my post was simply thus:- you cannot shout down someone else for appropriating a culture when you're doing just the same just coz the part they appropriate is not to your liking. Issues like this is why the word "tolerance" was coined and being considerate became a virtue.

Hahaha! Stop arguing for argument sake. You reasoning is oblique! Ur talking about being considerate to people, where did I support men to do otherwise? I have said that unless you remove bitterness from your heart against Nigerian men, you will never be able to argue straight. You did not see the light, on the contrary,you were thoroughly deceived! When a woman focuses on challenging and arguing with her husband all the time just to prove a point, then she is setting herself up for a very very lonely life. Like I said earlier, being with a man or marriage to a Nigerian man is not compulsory. These days we have transgender and Homosexuals. Options dey! But if you are a Nigerian woman who wants to marry and live in peace, then you have to submit to his authority and be humble, Shikena!

MarieSucre:
my God what are you saying? you sound like a little child who is on the verge of losing an argument, sticking his hands into his ears shouting 'lalalala-lalalalala-lalalala'. dude you're gonna be the head of a family someday. Is this what you'll teach your children. you better change your philosophy and be considerate to your fellow man/woman.

Funny how you bitter women think you are not being appreciated. Remove bitterness against men from your heart so that you can move forward in life. The first step to a troubled marriage is to marry a bitter woman...who believe their stinking puccy entitles them to everything in life. Sorry to burst your bubble. Nigerian men have seen the LIGHT!

GoodGirl2:
Staying in a marriage has got nothing to do with the level of happiness of the spouses therein. Women in the west are less likely to be stigmatized for being divorced, while in Africa, a woman will be insulted, mocked, and spat on simply because she's a divorcee. Take a look at Monalisa Chinda. The woman endured 5 years of a womanizing, violent husband and walked out of her marriage after it became too much for her to bear. Some people still bad-mouth her for divorcing her husband. It's like she was expected to put up with it, after all that is the "plus" that comes along with being married.
An African woman is scared of a broken marriage. She'd rather have her fingers chopped off. She'll put up with 3,000 tonnes of s-hit from her husband for the sake of staying married, something a woman in the west won't do. That should explain to you why the divorce rate is much lower in Africa.

Divorce rate in Nigeria will be high the day Nigerian women begin to imbibe this western idea. Having seen what feminist teachings have done to western marriages, Nigerian men do not want to make the same mistake of their western counterparts.

MarieSucre:
You're the one with so much bitterness in your mind, how can you think it is okay to belittle some one else and treat them unfairly (as opposed being self-centered and being all about yourself). don't let your ego be your own undoing. People can't be this sexist and i'll choose to believe that.

Marriage is not compulsory! Keep up with your Lesbian lifestyle and leave Nigerian men alone. It is what it is. Make yourself successful first, stop feeling entitled to everything just because you are a woman. Give yourself some respect. Humility and submission is a sign of strength. Since you know you can't submit to a Nigerian mans leadership, then don't marry a Nigerian man! It is very simple. Take it easy before you kill yourself with bitterness!

MarieSucre:
Dinachi are you a virgin? how many women have you slept with? the last peson you slept with was she your wife? is it our culture to sleep with women who we have not brought drinks and money to their fathers? i guess such double hypocritical adoption of western standards completly eludes you.

If care is not taken, you will die of bitterness against men! The truth is simple go and marry Oyibo and leave us Nigerian men alone.

I can't stop laughing! See as the few wretched women here are busy defending western lifestyle and the high divorce rate there but can not even spare a moment to praise the heroic women of Nigeria who are successful and yet hold it down at home. Their is no better way to describe slavery to western lifestyle. Their description of happiness is the western women who have had multiple divorces and are extremely selfish thinking only of themselves and what money they can make off men. Like someone said, if you want a western lifestyle marry an American or European and leave Nigerian men in peace.

netizenbuzz:
Yeah right, successful marriages. Ask how many women are actually happy in their marriages. I see the number of people who come to my mom for advice crying. They do all what is expected of them as wives but are still unhappy and have marital problems. It doesn't stop their men from cheating on them. This high divorce rate in the west which you are talking about, you are forgetting that there are other factors involved. I don't want to be a wife who will pretend to be happy when I'm not so that society can tag me a "good wife". So that I will hold resentment against my husband all my life and now end up in hell over lack of forgiveness?? God forbid.

Stop reasoning like this. Western feminist propaganda has done a lot of damage to the psyche of some Nigerian women. A woman who was once happy following Husbands leadership suddenly finds it resentful because of western propaganda. Be careful what you allow inside you. How can such a woman be happy in her marriage? No body cheats on their wives like western men and vice versa. Their women are not any better. If you really want to be happy to do anything you want, then do not marry at all. Marriage is for mature people who can take tough decisions sometimes. It is not for children who want to be on a perpetual high all their lives. And stop attaching your happiness to someone else. Happiness is a function of your state of mind. It is not your husbands fault that you are not happy. IT IS A CHOICE. I have seen people passing through difficult times filled with joy and happiness and I have seen highly successful people that are very sad. Like I said ealier submission and humility is an attitude and mindset. It reflects in the way you talk, carry yourself, obedience to your husband because he is your HEAD!

netizenbuzz:
Can I ask you a honest question? What is your definition of a submissive wife? Some one who cooks for you 3 times a day? Someone who bears your children in pain, backs them to the market and back? Someone who can't contradict you even when you are wrong? Someone who is turned to a maid immediately she steps into your parent's house? Someone who washes your 10 pairs of jeans every weekend? Someone who cleans the whole house with a baby strapped to the back? Someone who shuffles between bathing your child and watching the food on fire? Someone who does all these and still has her job or business she needs to attend to? Someone who still brings at least 30% of the financial income in? In short, you want a slave? And you know quite alright that submission and respect is not necessarily the above listed? So please state your case. What exactly do you want from a woman? Since to our naija men, a woman who doesn't do the above is disrespectful.

You failed a very important test and I am highly disappointed in you. Submissiveness and humility is basically about your ATTITUDE not what you do or don't do. If you have these attributes as a wife, you will do all the things you mentioned above and more because THAT IS UR FAMILY. If you have a mindset that doing house chores is demeaning or that letting your husband be the leader of your household infringes on your rights as a woman, then you are not ready for primetime!

My point is western women should be the ones copying from our women, not the other way round. Their own style have ensured that most marriages there have ended in divorce. While our style here ensures successful marriages. It is very clear. IF YOU WANT TO FAIL IN YOUR MARRIAGE COPY WESTERN WOMEN BUT IF YOU WANT TO HAVE A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE THEN CONTINUE TO BE AN INDEPENDENT YET SUBMISSIVE AND HUMBLE NIGERIAN WIFE. The choice is yours!

KanwuliaJara:
* See HBP! SHAI!!! *
Mumu!
Ala-OKIJA husband nor dey work o!
Ashawo Mrs. dey feed am. . . .as usual with NIGERIAN MARRIAGES!

I don't hold it against you at all. It is in your blood. All the women in your lineage do the same. You said so with your own mouth.

Nigerian wives who are independent, submissive and humble are heroes loved dearly by their husbands,adored by their children. As for the few cursed, shallow, unwise and childish little girls here arguing blindly and foolishly confusing themselves with their imaginary image of what they want their husbands to be, I have one word for y'all. Dream on! Go and read about the richest black woman in the world Mrs Alakija and learn oh foolish woman that being successful does not mean you should be disrespectful and rude to your husband. We pick good ideas from western culture but we should not dump our own. It is time for western women to bring their asses down here and learn from the successful, hardworking, submissive and humble Nigerian wives. They need to learn some things from us. Their marriages and their men in the west will be better for it.

KanwuliaJara:
Make those kain men nor DREEEEEEEEEEESSSS come my gate o!
If I can't argue and CHALLENGE. . . Please, move to MBAISE or IJEBU-IGBO quaters!
I am used to making a lot of noise in MY OWN HOUSE!!!! We don't do 'JOINT' PROPERTY OR ACCOUNTS IN MY VILLAGE O!
I don't have such women in my family lineage who do NOT ARGUE AND CHALLENGE!
Werily-werily I say unto thee. . . . .You shall SURELY DIE SLOWLY!!!!
Thanks in advance!

If all the women in your family lineage argue and challenge then your family lineage is cursed!