iamkelvincent:



Hey Mr, having children is good but not an
achievement. Religion, poverty and ignorance have made a lot of people blind to this. Some would say who will live on with my name when i die, that's a fool's mindset cause after 5 century's or possibly even less your so called name would have been forgotten. What's having children if you can't take care of them, bringing them to this world to suffer. Most parents or people are 100% selfish to giving birth, all they want is someone to take care of then when they are old, they fucking don't even care about the child coming to suffer.

Did you see me quote religion or support irresponsible child bearers?

DSoj:


Do U have to quote the whole long write up? Dopemu

Sugomu, supo arogomu, oponu ayerada omo fobojona! Mo ri e sugbon o ju omo lasan lo!

Kobojunkiee:
Even the most irresponsible among us can have a child. Considering the Nigerian society and poor welfare system, those who choose not to have children are instead achievers.

You can't twist my statement.
My post isn't in support of irresponsible child bearers. Stop frowning at your keypad.
My post is based on life desires.
A lot desire to v children.

DSoj:


Do U have to quote the whole long write up? Dopemu

Sue me to court if you are in pains!

Kobojunkiee:
Asking for money isn't the problem at all. Taking on a burden and hence a responsibility you are ill-equipped to cater to is.

Nigeria does not have a welfare system to provide support for children in the event that the parents are unable to and so it is the height of irresponsibility for anyone to choose to have children without first ensuring that child's future is near guaranteed.

Kobojunkie, why you dey personalize am towards me like say I be one of the people asking money from you?
I m highly educated and intelligent to know that Nigeria has poor system in welfare & other amenities for her citizens.
What I m telling you Junkie is that a child is an achievement to whoever has it. If you are responsible to yourself, family and society and you desire to marry and v a child, it's an achievement.

Kobojunkiee:
That again is not a truth.

Children can be had in marriage and outside of marriage. They aren't a reward even for the marriage.

Financial stability is necessity of sorts for all, single and married alike. However it is irresponsible for any to embark on the burden of child raring without it.

The world has no need for more children. Society has no need for more of them given the population to resources ratio we suffer. That desire to have kids is a selfish one, making it even more ridiculous when people try to sell them as an achievement.

We are still saying the same thing.
The way you sounded it's like you don't appreciate those that got children as rewards in marriage & are taking care of them.
I don't support irresponsibility wether you are married of single.
The person raising children & asking money from you is practicing irresponsibility.
And if you claim to be so sound, people without children ask for assistance too. Will they die or just cease to exist?
There are lots of single fine-beggars online & in our private lives.
The crux of the matter is to be responsible to your tasks.

Kobojunkie:
An achievement, you say, meaning that these kids out there having kids of their own even outside of marriage are pretty much achieving a lot too, right?

That's not an achievement.
Am talking about having kids in marriage.
Children are one of the rewards of marriage.
However getting financially stable is now a priority in our present world. Wether you are married or not, don't put your responsibility on others.

Ok

Supreme145:
There is this motion that giving birth to children is an achievement in this country. I see young guys in mid and late twenties rushing into marriage while they are barely standing on their feet. From someone that comes from a family of 10 I'm sure if my dad is given a second chance he won't give birth as much children again. Let me share some of my experiences as regards giving birth without proper planning or sustainable income.

I've a neighbor in my compound, he's 32 and in his final year in the university, I can hardly have decent conversation with him without hearing about how he wants to get married. I would always remind him that he's living in a one room apartment, still a student without a strong source of income, but he would counter me saying that he can always start small and grow with his wife. Moreover when he gives birth he would have an investment.

I've have another friend that was a classmate in secondary school, he graduated the year I got admission though he had some issues with his results. One day he called me that he's married and I was surprised, though he is an artisan into all those parapets and pop stuffs I know he wasn't financially buoyant enough to carry a family. The last time I visited him he was looking malnourished and unable to sort out his issues in school almost four years after because according to him any money that he gets already has a pending issue waiting for it. He's looking far older than his elder brother who's still single, he looks 38 when he's just 30. He consoled himself by telling me that even if he doesn't have money he already has two kids which he sees an investment and a great achievement. Meanwhile they are cramped into a single room apartment and none of the kids are enrolled in school.

Last week while we were training in the evening, an argument broke out between two young guys. I was just by the side observing what was happening, I kept hearing stuffs like....why you dey argue with that guy? you no know say na person father he be? that guy don born two children o abi you think say e easy to born, na big achievement be that o. Now this is a guy that is about 25 years and has no sustainable means of income, he works in peoples farms and other menial jobs to make ends meet.

My next door married neighbor has become a torn in my flesh, he's always borrowing from me without paying so it's obvious he's struggling financially, factor in the constant arguments with his wife due to shortage of funds all the time. I once asked him why rushed to get married without a good source of income and he bluntly told me that he had always been broke while he was single and still broke now that he's married the only difference is that he can boast of his kids as an achievement unlike when he was single that he had nothing to boast of.

I have no issues what so ever with how anyone choose to life their life but considering the economic condition of this country now bringing in kids without proper plans is not the way to go. If my dad had given birth to maybe 3 kids I'm sure he wouldn't be stressed out the way he is now and the resources used in training 8 kids would be better managed on just 3kids.

Personally I feel that one of the surest way to perpetual poverty as a young guy is to get married while struggling financially. Like one of the examples above, he cast aside his personal development and aspirations just to cater for his family. Supposing he's still single I'm sure he would have cleared he's outstanding school fees and maybe get his certificate.

Well since I'm still single and still struggling I don't judge anybody, every mallam to his kettle. As for me no marriage till I'm financially stable enough to afford at least 3 bedroom flat, a small car and substantial savings. It would be an abomination for me to bring a child into this world to pass through the kind of life I had growing up.

Having children is an achievement.
Marrying without good source of income is bad. But this is another topic.

Yes it's ok

Ok

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Sauce?

Hanibbal:


So watching to you means using conspiracy theories to preach fear and nonsense right. Go and ask the Holy Spirit to show you what watching means. I don't care about any statue anyone has erected some where.

Do you even think sinners understand all these error mr righteousness2 is preaching. You came to me a sinner to preach the gospel to me and you are telling me a beast statue has been installed in the U.N headquarters and i should repent and run for my life, does that even make any sense to a sinner? Is that the gospel. Error and error is what he keeps preaching.

Truth be told, peacemakers aren't suppose to look scary.
There are animals that depict meekness. Jaguar face grinning it's teeth isn't the best idea. So all the theories of antiChrist are adding up.

735i:
No government will remove subsidy less than one year to elections.
APC knows they will lose if they try it because the hardship that will come with it will make people ask them to leave even before 2023.
Forget subsidy removal next year.

Jonathan did it in 2012 and the masses were against him from that time. Let Buhari remove it too so that APC can be doomed from that time.

ArchiLtd:
If I'm being sympathetic to Messi, I'll say he never wanted to leave Spain and Barca but had to leave when things went beyond his control. And before you come to compare with Ronaldo who has played in 4 leagues, just chill. Messi is not Ronaldo pls and Ronaldo is not Messi. Everybody is different and unique and must not attain greatness using the same template. Ronaldo achieved greatness by dominating in several leagues, Messi achieved same greatness by dominating in one league. In this life, find out what works for you and do you. End

See my signature below for excellent building designs and construction

So who's better? Someone who's dynamic and can flourish everywhere or someone who's stereotyped to one area.
You see life is truly not balanced. People like you v trolled CR7. Making his uniqueness to look stupid. You all don't mention how he's dynamic. Spit ontop your head!

Mtcgew

SiggyNG:
Just this one thing causing plenty wahala

Seun posted it himself, this must be very serious

Even Seun I don't know if he's an atheist or antichrist or pro- MURIC version I f Islam

nedekid:

You cannot be sure.
Give the owner the benefit of doubt until the truth comes out.
Does it make sense to own a hotel, then at night grab your guest and use for ritual? A regular guest for that matter that obviously has family that knows he lodges there when visiting the university. That obviously called his family that he had arrived.
The hotel owner cannot be that stupid, if not he wount own a hotel in the first place.

So what's the possible scenario? Are you aware ritual killing is rampant in Nigeria not withstanding the condition or situation involved.
This that the Vanguard of Lies said is a cock n bull story.
To get justice in Nigeria is not easy.
God ll judge so quick on this case.

ezenwaez:

They will be paid batch by batch

Batch by batch till when?

ezenwaez:

NPower NASIMS have encouraged NPower Batch C Volunteers to exercise a great deal of patience, as October and November stipend will be paid soon.

Reason for the delay is due to the validation procedure which takes time, and after validation of the N-Power Batch C Volunteers' account information, it is sent to the Central Bank of Nigeria for disbursement of payment to individual accounts of Npower Batch C beneficiaries.

Will those that weren't paid for September be paid too? And how? Is it the three payment they ll pay?

Chopchopfine:
Check out how I made coconut rice.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R9dh27EUmOo

Where's coconut water? Where's the grinded coconut that you ll pour in the rice before it's finally done.

cblack247:
so this one person amounts to 80% of people that are not yet paid? Even some people that put in wrong account number, the stipend was paid to the wrong one which should not be so if they had made use of BVN, I hope you've heard of such occurrence. Even some people who did not do physical verification were paid. The whole process is scattered abeg.

To buttress your points, we v heard of people that did stream 2 and were selected for stream 3. If nPower is vetting thoroughly how can this happen?
Also, some people v not done physical verification and they were paid.
Some dropped the wrong account no n were paid.
Who's fooling who?

Rightmindset:
3 years after graduation, I still can't afford good meal. See me sipping Garri with salt because nothing else to eat.

It is well with me and all those going through tough times in the country.

What are you taking this night? Let's see.

My prayers for you.
However, what's the purpose of that rodo?

copyrites:



NPOWER will pay you when they have the money. Right now, they need to buy as much time as possible by telling you to supply your personal account information on Facebook. Lol.


You think NPOWER don't know that you've not been paid? And you think they can't pay you if they want to? Somehow ,you also believe that over 50% of the people made mistake on their portal?

I v reasoned it just as you v put it. It's well with this country.

ezenwaez:
The following are reasons why most Npower Batch C Volunteers were not paid

1) Most Npower Batch C Volunteers did not do the COMPULSORY physical verification exercise.(CHANGED FROM BENEFICIARY TO APPLICANT)

2) Most Npower Batch C Volunteers did physical verification exercise, but was not successful (PENDING)(CHANGED FROM BENEFICIARY TO APPLICANT)

3) Most Npower Batch C Volunteers provided wrong bank account details (ACCOUNT INVALIDATION)

4) Most Npower Batch C Volunteers did not supply their bank account details (ACCOUNT INVALIDATION)

5) Most Npower Batch C Volunteers did not provide their BVN (ACCOUNT INVALIDATION)

6) Most Npower Batch C Volunteers information did not match informations on other relevant documents especially their banking credentials.

Gathering of data is ongoing, if there is any information regarding alternative physical verification for those that missed the previous physical verification exercise, it shall be communicated across both privately and publicly.

I passed all these and yet I v not been paid. It's tiring bro.
I mailed them when you said we should mail them, called the two nos and wasted a lot airtime and will call for over 30 mins, the call ll just end abruptly with over N500 airtime wasted. I was even directed to the accountant general of my state as if he/she's the one incharge of npower payment.
Now, I v supplied my info on the Facebook page that was provided. In all, it's not all that v not received September payment that made the mistake themselves.

ArewaNorth:
See how bias, self centred and insensitive u are. All I stated are facts, u are just trying to run away with ur intolerance and unconcerned attitude toward them because it isn't touching u at all. Lean to know facts and avoid these emotional ranting because the facts are there, all references I gave are little out of our findings.
God bless MURIC, u are sad because u hear what j never expected to be exposed.

I repeat you typed hate speech. If there's justice, you ll be prosecuted. You are inciting violence. Even MURIC is always defending Muslims blindly. I m not against Muslims neither do I suggest injustice. But urchins like you ArewaNorth who invite violence here need to be arrested. You v no reference to the following:
1. “Political appointments are reserved mainly for Christians while Muslims who constitute the majority are ignored.
2. There are only four Muslims among the fourteen (14) commissioners in Oyo and Ogun states where the governors are Christians.
3. All the board chairmen in the two states are Christians except the Muslim Pilgrims Board and the governors have ignored the complaints of Muslims.
4. In Ekiti State, Fayose ran an all-Christian cabinet.
5. In Oyo State, the hijrah holiday which was declared by a former Muslim governor, Isiaka Ajimobi, has been annulled by Seyi Makinde, a Christian governor.
6. “Muslims are also totally marginalized in the education sector. Christians are in charge in the ministries of education in Lagos, Ogun, Oyo, Ekiti and Ondo.
7. All the teaching service commissions TESCOM) are headed by Christians. Some of the heads are even church clerics. A pastor is the chairman of Ogun State TESCOM while an evangelist heads the Ogun State commission. all the bolded above are your comments which is on record. You can edit it but it's also in many archive. So get ready to defend your lies!
To everyone, ArewaNorth and others are inciting violence with this post.
Let's treat issues with decorum & proper investigations, not hearsay. There are many injustice in the world. It's not a Christian Vs Muslim thing. Everyone suffer injustice.

ArewaNorth:



There are other cases in reference and examples of the violation of the civil rights of Muslims in Yorubaland but u surreptitiously don't want it to be exposed.
Muslim female teachers who went for a promotion interview in Abeokuta last week (Thursday 15 th April, 2021) were told that they must remove their hijab before they could be interviewed. The Muslim girl-child is being stigmatized in the school and sometimes locked out of the classroom on account of an ordinary headscarf.
“The hijab of the Muslim girl-child is yanked off her head by Christian teachers who are also Yorubas. Muslim girls are beaten up and sent back home. Muslim parents suffer this humiliation on a daily basisin Yorubaland. Muslim males are forced to remove their caps and turbans. Some are forced to shave their beards before being attended to by government civil servants who are also Yorubas. Court cases which bother on the infringement of Allah-given fundamental human rights of Yoruba Muslims litter courts in the region.
“Political appointments are reserved mainly for Christians while Muslims who constitute the majority are ignored. There are only four Muslims among the fourteen (14) commissioners in Oyo and Ogun states where the governors are Christians. All the board chairmen in the two states are Christians except the Muslim Pilgrims Board and the governors have ignored the complaints of Muslims. In Ekiti State, Fayose ran an all-Christian cabinet. In Oyo State, the hijrah holiday which was declared by a former Muslim governor, Isiaka Ajimobi, has been annulled by Seyi Makinde, a Christian governor.
“Muslims are also totally marginalized in the education sector. Christians are in charge in the ministries of education in Lagos, Ogun, Oyo, Ekiti and Ondo. All the teaching service commissions TESCOM) are headed by Christians. Some of the heads are even church clerics. A pastor is the chairman of Ogun State TESCOM while an evangelist heads the Ogun State commission. We believe this is a deliberate and strategic ploy to perpetuate Christian hegemony in the education sector in Yorubaland. This is the machinery of oppression and it has served in the repression of hijab-wearing female Muslim students and teachers. The perpetrators persecute Muslims with impunity since they are assured of official protection up to the office of the commissioner of education.
“We are nonplussed that Afenifere has never commented on the above maltreatment of Muslims that has lasted decades (since independence) in its domain but it revels in joining Ohaneze of the South East and the Middle Belt Forum in complaining about marginalisation, nepotism and Islamisation which they claim began six years ago.
He who comes to equity must come with clean hands. For now Yoruba Muslims see no difference between Afenifere and the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN). In fact, the former looks more like the political wing of the latter in the South West. We are waiting earnestly to know which way the cat will jump as regards Afenifere and the Muslim 2023 presidential candidate.
http://muslimrightsmuric..com/2021/04/press-release-shariah-in-yorubaland.html?m=1

Hate speech. I call on appropriate authorities to arrest this person. And Lukgaf too.
What you wrote here is pure lies and words to cause religious tensions.
It's MURIC that love to lampoon issues that relate to hijab as if the victims are completely innocent that caused this shit.
What has MURIC ever done to the progress of Nigeria? Only to cause religious tensions.
And what good thread has Lukgaf ever created, except olfor Friday threads which is to discredit other religions.
You people aren't the only ones in this world

Things don't like working well in Nigeria

ezenwaez:

Keep disturbing them

I v not been paid for September. My dashboard payment gives no payment data available. And my account no, account name, bank name and BVN no is on my dashboard.
Pls what's the Facebook handle of nasim or any other contact? I v called the nos that you pasted on other similar threads but got no response after it wasted my airtime with over 19 mind and at times 30 mins of call.
I v not been paid for September. I v done physical verification, started working at my PPA n has done all required. This morning, I went to my bank to get my BVN print out to cross check if it's my BVN that has issue or my account. I supplied the right information but I m yet to be paid.

Don't beg them o. Any sensible lady ll abide with the money her husband is giving her.