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greatgod2012:
Let the government restrict their movement to night movement, to at least save lives.

Which government abeg? One Dangote equals 120million Nigerians since the days of John the Baptist.
...pls, note that the Nigerian govt is such a joke that Dangote (plus his trucks) will even restrict the govts movement but never the other way round.

Category1:
[size=15pt]afro candy no even happy say dem dey pay moni for her Mumu videos [/size]

...you don watch those mumu videos before bah? Talk true oh, I go pay you 20k to send some to me biko

Beowulf:
Must everything on this site be made tribalistic?!! Some of us try to come on this site to get informed but the rank tribalism, hatred and viciousness against fellow countrymen on here is driving some of us away! It may be difficult for some of you but please try and restrain yourselves!

Domestic violence knows no ethnicity. I have close friends who are being battered by their husbands. Recently, one was so battered she was hospitalized due to blood clot in her head from her husband smashing her with an iron rod! These were not Yoruba men! Overseas domestic violence is also a problem.

I am sorry for writing this long response but I am so very frustrated by the tribalistic vitriol on this site!

Peace.

Maybe it is something in their food or perhaps water or some form of mental-disorder...these tribal bigots.

Their comments is just an eyesore to men/women who think straight but have to use this forum as well.

bukaldrinio:
Na all these bankers sleeping around all in the name of marketing...........I think the man couldn't control it any more

You must be a prophet to know this or just plain wicked So you support that all 'bankers sleeping around should be murdered in cold blood'

...that I am from the same country with men like you makes me really sad.

A normal person would wait for the husband to be caught before arriving at conclusions...but some of you here just don't have no chills at all.

@daretodiffer

...note that men who call women ugly(all the time) have mental disorders either induced by poverty or their inability to meet up with the Alpha Males around them, so they take the frustration out on women. Men are not created to be that PETTY.
Stop fighting them, they have enough demons torturing them already and the signs are all over their tendencies to exude negativity and blatant disrespect towards women(that they consider to be weaker and easily subdued)

Flashh:

...sometimes, the packaging doesn't do justice to the content, and women express freedom in being defiant...for this woman- the black lacy dress may be immediate symbol of freedom and not signs of 'being-irresponsible' like you termed it.

bulldoza:
Ugly woman

Behind those fake smiles is "mourning"
Let's wait and see her in 3 months time

You are kicking one who is already down bro, pls note that no sad person can exude beauty...only god knows what this woman has gone through.

You would prefer that she endured the marriage till she is 6ft down?

...btw, you think her mourning is fake huh, you know when I read comment like yours, I wonder why some of you guys in Naija are so CRUEL to women! Why?

You don't just let up, too much bashing, negativity and bad blood flowing through your veins for this species of human.

@Op, at least, this one has escaped Ronke Shonde's fate, whether she is happy or not, at least, she is VERY MUCH ALIVE.

Flashh:
[color=#1970BC]Does she looks responsible to you?[/color]

Prostitutes in the Northern part of Nigeria are always fully dressed with head gears too, they always look responsible until they tear off your boxers shorts in private
...you get?

After Sandra, Anna will upload hers, then Chidinma will sneak hers in too, all in their fish-brained attempt to stay relevant to one man and appear as the best liked..

ireneony:
After bleaching I guess

Why not? Only women from your tribe are naturally fair skinned in Nigeria, huh!
And I used to wonder why forum users think you are DUMB

frank317:
A lot of people have gotten jobs in different circumstances. But no no no, only the Christians are special. Some people get jobs by sharing a stick of cigarette with a stranger.... but no when unexpected coincidences happen to Christians, their God, their almighty powerful God has come for the rescue. What an insult to whoever this creator might be.

They know deep down that god doesn't care about them, and it hurts.
Some christian girls would Bleep BMs to get a bank job and still have the guts to give testimonies on Sunday. It's all show off, they know god did not give them any job, they know how they cheated, fvcked, bribed to get the job but they must entertain the congregation with the lies and fabrications termed testimonies...

Nostalgic

kowalsky:
who married this guy
what a sober puss

LOL
He obviously did the woman a favour by marrying her, let's not piss him off further.
...and Omaigala, hope you have forgiven your wife now that you have me to worry about.

Omaigala is coming for me

@Postmann, your reply to my post is clear and concise...except the part where you wrote that the society should slut-shame women..

Why?
Women in Nigeria spend a ridiculous amount of time thinking about sex, whether to fvck or not, how to hide and fvck in the dark, how to pretend they don't svck preeqs, how not to fvck, because people like postman slut-shame them....Time better spent doing something worthwhile like having a PHD or investments or innovations. Instead, Nigerian women fight their libido, they abuse cucumbers, bottles and candles because you people will not let them fvck in peace

But why? Women have libidos, they have fantasies, they have HORMONES!

For example, people's libido ain't the same, same with their sexual orientation, people(men and women) with higher libido will most def fvck more than those with low libido, and not even a pastor or preacher can stop the course of nature; It's not about morality or the lack of it.

Nigeria would be easier to live in if people actually Live and let live...if people understand and accept the concept of Individuality, preference, choice, objectivity, subjectivity and relativity.

...about honesty, you can't hinge your entire opinion of a person on a lie or assume they are worthless for being untruthful.
Also, life is too short for all the tags and names and unbending rules.

Perfection is an illusion.

Pyrrho:
Pheeeew!!!

This guy just dragged us back to the 1st century all over again!

It's exhausting. Anyone else prepared to engage this guy?

Okay...

Mr Anjelus, follow the link bellow, read through its 47 pages, then come back and make your claims.

https://www.nairaland.com/3078223/pastor-atheist-why-never-christian

It's not him really, it's the mental-illness induced by the sufferings of a failed society - where graduates study for 5years then pray for another 5years to get a job.

...it is even important to let these people have their god, nothing else is working.

Anjelus:
Mr Man, dont talk about what you dont know, Our God is still in the business of answering prayers, the condition is that you must believe, ask yourself why it took a woman with the issue of blood to get her healing quicker than the many crowd that flog around Jesus, because she believed that by touching Him, she would be healed and it was so. In 2006, my wife went for an interview with Oceanic bank and after one week they sent her an email that she ws unsuccessful, she became dejected. So I asked her to print the rejection email and bring it to me, she did and we cancelled the letter by faith and requested for a successful one in agreement. Glory be to God, after two weeks she was invited for another interview with the same bank and was employed. I can count more than ten other miraculous things God has done since then. So dont be deluded that God answers prayer, however, even if God does not answer prayer, he remains my God forever because my relationship with Him is not based on answering prayer but feeling the warmth of His presence in every area of my life. Jesus Is Lord.

...when you are in a failed society, getting a job after duly studying for years is considered a miracle.

Your argument is same with that of all Christians who feel the need to defend god...most tell ridiculous lies and give false testimonies. They are all around me.

Anjelus, I actually need superior argument not some job thing where HR managers get changed, systems develop glitches, Applicants get reviewed and recalled to take up a job they were initially denied by some overzealous HR persons. Btw, you keep rubbishing god, telling us he actually has the time to provide a job for your wife but looks on at ritualists plucking a little boy's eyes out and the other ills happening in the world.


NEXT!!


..and pls don't come back to ask me not to question god or to tell me his ways are not my ways..
I know that getting your wife a job is more important to god than saving the chibok girls, I know ok

Welldone, Hardmirror.

The fortunate unfortunate thing about this thread is that, the Christians/Moslems who view it all know that their god don't answer prayers, some of them have prayed and fasted and cried, some have blamed god, threatened god, cajoled god, tested god, toasted god, bribed god but dammit, god HAS NEVER ANSWERED their prayers...not even ONCE.


But then, church is entertainment for most, it is like a social gathering done once or twice a week, the nude girls, the 'worldly' songs, the businessmen cum motivational speakers(named pastors) and the state of the art musical instruments that makes them forget their sorrow once in a while. People who hold on to religion don't have a choice until they start to use their brains... It's actually better to have them believe in god(esp in Nigeria) than to take that away from them...what else do they have? Nothing is working, no hope for the common man except his belief in god and false miracles.


The suffering out here(in Nigeria) is too much, and even though god is not answering prayers, at least, let them believe he will, one day.


Note: If you have proof of answered prayers, pls state them without lies, arguments or insults.
And I'm not talking about malaria induced confessions, suffering-induced hallucinations, mental-illness induced confessions caused by the abject suffering in Nigeria/Africa and the lies you lot love to cook like chicken soup.

Thanks

Again, the voice in your head you call god, is nothing more than the signs and symptoms of mental-illness, unfortunately there are no psychologists and psychoanalysts to attend to the masses in Nigeria, hence the pastorprenuers will keep having a field day.
Btw, ain't you all ashamed and disgusted that your big shots in the NIGERIAN RELIGION INDUSTRY like Adeboye, Olukoya, Joshua, etc haven't yet seen a vision to locate the Chibok girls.

Some bastards will insult the fools and destroy their self-esteem until they get married to anything that comes along. Then the bastards will continue to abuse the fools, beat them, abuse them, cheat on them, give them STDs and ruin them.
Some other bastards will ask the fools to pray and persevere, and of course the fools must stay married by all means afterall other fools like them are still searching for bastards to marry; then one day, the fool will get beaten to death.


...and this is a story of bastards and fools and a nation full of hypocrisy.



NOTE: Any bastard that insults Linda Ikeji or Genevieve Nnaji, etc on their single state on this forum again, will be destroyed by Amadioha...Ise!!!

donbenedict:
My gosh what kind of expired breasts is that

..no be una handwork Association of bobbi destroyers

postmann:
You're my man, bro! You just said it as it is. Leave those deceitful multiple dick tasters who want their past to be buried because it's so ugly and a potential deal breaker.

Why would how many sexual partners someone has not be important for every new relationship one enters? Is sex a trivial matter? Nonsense hypocrites.

....sometimes, it is not about telling the truth, it is about how some would HANDLE the truth.

Sex is important and virtue is desired but asking these questions AFTER marriage is crying over split milk, if you discover your spouse lied to you, you should sit and thrash it out. Not condemn them or act like God.

Of all the ills in the world, lying about numbers of Exes is at the bottom of the list How many will you marry, how many will you divorce? How will you have peace of mind and cultivate Love in your home when you constantly fill your head with thoughts of your wife's exes?


Note, for the Nigerian woman, it is not like they can't reveal their sexual history, it is the FEAR of slut-shaming, name-calling and the fact that they have been told to keep themselves chaste while the men can fvck as much as they want.

The question now is, who have you guys been fvking? Goats? Most def not, you have been fvcking women who will get married to someone else someday since you only fvck them, you refuse to marry them

And the society will slut-shame them if they reveal how many men have fvcked them, hence they hide and lie about their escapades.

You see, it takes two to tangle, the more you praise the Man-slut and shame the Woman-slut, the more the women will continue to lie about their numbers of exes!

You get?

Fact is::

Women cheat, much more than men. Women are powerful, deceptive with natural intuitive powers.

A woman can Fvck today and convince herself that she has never Fvcked before or even met the man.

A woman has enough DECEPTIVE powers to Fvck and forget instantly, when they deny, pls don't argue, they have simply wiped the memory from their head

Women, all over the world loves s£x, they fvck a lot too, but NIGERIAN WOMEN ain't liberated or westernised enough to talk about it or brag about it(except for a wild few who don't give a damn)

SOME virgins have been drilled in the @ss severally, they want to fvck, they just don't want the hymen broken.

Your Wife (cc Omaigala) MAY have bleeped a 100 men before you married her, if she says 4, note that she has erased the 96 off her memories, so the society won't slut-shame her

Finally, if you fvck about 100 women before you get married, multiply it by 2, and know that your wife has fvcked 200 men.. women get a WHOLE lot of Sex proposals from men daily, it would take an Angel, to say NO to all the men.


And it is all fair Cos the women you are fvcking right now with no intentions of marriage will get married someday, same is being done to your future wife, it is not rocket science, it is MERE FACT.

Now, y'all should stop the hypocrisy and concentrate on developing Nigeria


Sex is highly overrated, esp in this clime.

Sameme2:
well said.... Op is sounding like a broken record, very annoying

The issue with people like Op is that they feel they have done a woman a favour by MARRYING her, that's the A-Z of his problems.


...and it is the Nigerian society that reduces women to NOTHING hence, men ride on this absurdity to abuse and de-value the women.

It's sad, really sad.
Give this same Omaigala a WHITE WOMAN with more than 1,000 men in her past, he will RESPECT her because he will be JAILED and MILKED DRY if he tries any NONSENSE with her, esp in her own land.

But women are the same all over the world, why treat the BLACK WOMAN like trash because your society permits you.


PS: You got my IP and location yet you have not visited Omaigala, why? Still waiting for you Omaye, maybe I can drill some sense into you finally

Modsenemy:
Y not pray in ur bedroom . ? publicity stunts ..mtchreew

Pls what makes a celebrity if not PUBLICITY?
Think about it.

You can pray in your bedroom, no one KNOWS you.

...you get?

EazyMoh:
Where my governor's own? He no go sleep tonight!

Ghen! Ghen!

Pikin wey say eem mama no go sleep......!

HornyTiwa:
And she is pretty.
but I think she took her physic build a tad bit up notch,its too masculine,should be soft though

Oh! She is pretty... Wonders!

Thank God she is not YORUBA, you would have destroyed her with your bad mouth...


...abi I lie?

tellwisdom:
Have you called your girlfriend to confirm if she wasn't the one you killed??

No hope again, chaiii...even Tellwisdom no get sense

cold:
Funny thing is the woman won't still be allowed to opt out of the marriage if she so desires. She'll be urged to be patient,pray and fast. God might just touch the man's heart to return. So she keeps waiting. She's neither married nor divorced. And labelled a whòre if she's seen with another man. It's a lose-lose situation for her.

Sad!

Reminds me of a friend, her dad abandoned her mum and her siblings, remarried and moved to another town.

Mum struggled to raise 5 kids alone, she did not remarry though the husband left when she was 27/28.

I still wonder how that woman who enjoyed sex legally and often before the separation managed to survive.

The loniliness, struggles, fears, etc...while the man simply moved on, never looking back.

Sad!

baby124:
Why is she fighting? What difference is that going to make? Instead of her to go away dancing and singing. At least you know he is not dead and no one can accuse you of killing him. You also know you are free of such a useless idiot. He will keep running from woman to woman till he dies. See how some people refuse their blessing. God has removed this one from your life but you are there fighting. For what

When a road is blocked or closed, and you are told No. It is because that is not the place for you in life. Move on and stop fighting for things that are not yours. Otherwise you will see things you were not supposed to see. Nothing in this life is by force. All humans have free will to do what they want.

Beautiful!

Dollyak:
You guys and cow seems to have so much in common.

Chaii Chaii Buhari will deport you very soon

omaigala:
Don't push this too far. I can tolerate but to an extent. I already have your IP and location. Please don't dare.

....at least, you are man enough to threaten sobriquets on the internet. So now that you have my IP and location, I guess you wanna dump your wife on me huh Pls, bring her, I'm waiting for you Omaye.

Mindfulness:
So just because you once do someone a favor, the person has to put with any of your rubbish for the rest of her / his life?

...meet the Nigerians

omaigala:
I will pretend I didn't see those insult. It is not worth anything. I hope it made you feel better anyways?

...which insults! Ogbeni, go and chase your wife out of your house because she lied about her exe's and fvck outta NL with your sob tales mbok.

GodnGold:
How many times have you lied since this year?

How many times have you lied since you were born?

In all honesty,you don't expect her to say she has being with over 20 men.

FCS,if you decide to pitch your tent with a woman,these questions you are asking her are uncalled for.

You should focus on the present tense of your marriage.
You are getting expert advice and am not charging.

Stop this wahala,Life in Nigeria is hard for all and sundry.

Enjoy your woman and stop looking for what's not there.
If she tells you 20 exes,what will be your gain?,she loves you and is protecting you.
We are not all sincere.

Marry and stay married please.

You give this priceless advice to an immature man who is an emotional and mental weakling, and for free too.


What nonsense will one not see in Nigeria? A grown man who is supposed to have his wife on lockdown, be her Alpha and Omega, be her everything, handle her in such a way that she will NEVER recall the name of her exes...has come to NL to cry about his wife's exes...chaiiii.

What will happen if this one faces life's difficulties, if his wife can't conceive for years, if a child dies, if life starts to unravel and things start to go wrong...The dark tunnel before the light, the 'downs' of life....

Pls GodnGold, keep your advice for those with IQ greater than room temperature, not this one.


Exe's kooo, Zxes niii