₦airaland Forum

aalangel:
No problems.

Meanwhile, it's not an error. It's carelessness. People just don't have the strength to write, even though they know what to write.

And wow, You can speak English. Quite commendable.

English? I no sabi speak english o, I no wan make queen elizabeth summon me ooo.

Everyone is in a rush, no time to proof-read their post. I do appreciate you send a pm madam.

aalangel:
Yes. It comes with the job. Moreover, everybody has an angle you can take to a story and choose whether you want to discuss or not. He needed to finish his sentences so I can understand the full import of what he was saying.

I'm News editor my friend. I'm used to punctuations not dot dot dot.

I do research more than you know. So, the subject matter isn't what I should go into. I know where to get answers to such interesting topics, if I want. The topic is one of my best because there was a time it was main duty in my station; I.e. archeology and the likes.

Get my drift baby?

I get you pretty well, you crafted those words very well i must say. Of a truth, your post really turned me to a sapio-sexualist.

You write with so much chutzpah, the ellipses are common errors in chat rooms. Just so you know, not everyone is actually error free.

Its an interesting topic, I've been researching about it for 3yrs now if I'm correct. If you don't mind I follow you?

aalangel:
OP, why don't you like finishing your sentences?

Everything wey dem discuss no even concern you, na the grammatical structure dey worry you. D;

airmirthd1:
Cool...... But y just conscience ... Any religion in mind or you want to leave it at that??

Believe me, no religion at all, just want peace of mind with my creator. Just conscience, knowing right from wrong. When I'm wrong,knowing when to apologise. That's my way of life.

airmirthd1:
A rare gem you're indeed!! And for d fact that you base your life on conscience, it's applauding... Never heard that all ma life...
Hope you really stand by it??

Yeah atleast, I've been leaning on it.

airmirthd1:
Hmmm......I'm just meeting with your type for the first time.... So are you an atheist??

Atheist? Noooo oh, I guess people like me are rare gem. The thing is I based mylife on conscience.

[quote author=airmirthd1 post=41330542][/quote]I'm not a christian , I don't have religion either, but I'm open to views .

airmirthd1:
YES dude!... It's for real... So stop it

You just concluded I'm in the act already by saying stop it, anyway can you shed more light on it

airmirthd1:
I know most guys will oppose what's up there.....Anyway na true talk but only those who looks at it beyond d physical will know it's no joke

For real?

missyadorable:
Big deal? cheating on wife is constant,normal and acceptable....in Africa

Through out your post on this thread, you seems indifferent to cheating which I like also, I think men and women should be given a chance to practise open marriage

luvola:
must d poster release d story in a peicemeal ? must e advertise his book in n.l ? d assertion dat red cross official came to his house and beg him to come to sch is baseless, d poster also assert dat e participate in a play as a teacher were normal stu are which i think is imposible . am not trying to ridicule u but we can just believe d story just lik dat .this is naija

Reading your comments saddens me, you don't need to be pessimistic or saddistic towards everything you see,read or hear.

Oloks:
@luvola

No basis for comparison here. As you and I are not visually impaired, we will not know what someone with this disability can do.
My earlier comments is for people to focus on the good and positive things the poster has achieved not looking at minor things to discredit it.

The funniest part I know this story so well, I just find it amazing how we got to this level in this country that we can't tell when people are telling their biography really sad.

adetunrayo:
I Just thank God 4 u.

Thank you sister.

Nubian113:
Brilliant read op... Thank you.



But... Dear Men: "It was never about the money"


Just have a purpose; other than your rooster

Werey omo! D;

Caringpro:
@ Poster,
Your story is really inspiring. I want to believe that those who will objective read your story will be touched for GOOD.

@smile4kenn You must be a very serious human being. I kept laughing as i re-read your contribution here. Years ago, i was involved in an NGO project were we go round some blind centers and inspire them. Believe me, they make good use of their memory much more than we that see. One fact is that since they can not see, they are not distracted by anything. But in this instance, the POSTER must be relying on someone else to read the reaction on Nairaland[ i am saying this because i have related with a lot of blind people on charity missions.] Also note that there is a computer keyboard now for the blind but another person has to read out for him or he can set up his audio transcript.


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NB: I will like to get in touch with the poster [if this is not fiction], he deserves to be encouraged more.

If I tell you this person is a family member of mine would you believe? Infact I was trying to look up on the message I sent to his facebook at a time around 2009 then I saw this story, I heard some family member of mine talked about this story but I never knew the depth of it until he is telling it. I'm really glad he shed some lights to some things I never knew, he is my paternal uncle, though we haven't seen. Strange but true, I was just dumbfounded to people finding it hard to believe who do we blame? Nature.

Oliviaarims:
Grammatical blunders are a great turn off for me. It hurts my soul!





BTW, all these guys on this thread are just confirming the fact that, for most of them, the first thing on their mind when they approach a girl is simply to screw her!

What should be on our mind madam? Its all about you girls punny.

Rukkydelta:
Seriously it baffles me, what is good for the op, may seems bad to them but I can't fathom the reason for the attacks cos the op is an adult and I'm sure he knows what's best for him

Trust nigerians

Rukkydelta:
Why is everyone attacking the op ? Age is just a number, true love knows no age

I don't know why my fellow compatriot are so full of hater, to me he's done no wrong. Age shouldn't be a restriction when it comes to relationship, his choice,his life.

Some were even telling him about menupause! Wtf? So cause she's older she doesn't deserve to be happy, bunch of saddist.

PassingShot:
"The Change" cares less about your opinion.

So, no issues.

You a shau-vooh-nist clearly enough, hope you know you gave me a quote first not vice versa?

PassingShot:
What is your problem?

Dokpesi was arraigned in court on charges borthering on diversion of funds and stealing. The alleged offences are bailable.

He asked the court to release him on bail pending determination of charges brought against him and the court rightly granted him bail but on very stringent conditions including surrendering his international passport to ensure he doesn't escape from the country.

He met his bail condition and thereby promptly released according to the law. So, what is the fuss all about? Do you think Dokpesi is already discharged and acquitted of his crimes? No. He has plenty dates in court and I am dead sure he will not go scot free.

I careless about the corruption fight now, cause I don't see this government as a talk and do but talk and mute.

TonyeBarcanista:
Do you know the pain I feel reading headlines of looting billions and trillions? Some of us are so ashamed of these morally bankrupt men. Imagine poor Nigerians campaigning for candidates of their choice in line with their patriotic dutÝ while some morally bankrupt wealthy evil men sits in a round table to share the resources of these people without any iota of sympathy.

It really sinks my heart deeper than the titanic bro! To worsen the show I saw some clowns of pastors quoting bible in such gathering! People who should uphold moral standards inhaling the stench of corruption coming from the filthy body of dokpesi! One was even quoting mattew, just smh for this country! No justice take it or leave it bro

okolochyke:
Bros be smart and think

The government cannot detain him indefinitely. Once he has met the requirements of bail conditions, they have to let him go

Investigations and prosecution is still ongoing.

This is not a military government where they can detain accused persons as long as they want.

Chiarman, sheby na work me and you dey do so? Which civil servant made 200million legitmately And the second surety, which investor get straight 3 consecutive years tax payment for naija? We all know how non-existent nigeria tax system is, to mean he met the necessary bail is a sham, a big lie I won't believe, they can tell me he was bailed on another terms but certainly isn't this sir.

TonyeBarcanista:
Nigeria is a funny country. How did a civil servant legitimately bring out N200m to pay as bail money. How did he make such money? How much is his annual salary? I think EFCC should move in

From today!!!! Bros I hereby denounce every support I've got for this government as regards corruption, cause its evident enough its all mouth! Lord knows how irritated I am to see dopeksi on tv tonight, the whole case is a smokescreen then, it will die naturally like the sarakis et al cases.

KingEbukasBlog:
She likes you because you are carrying her handbag always Every woman would !

The feeling is emasculating .... and your guys will give you that "woman wrapper " look

Ugh !

That guy's comment to this really sicks me, how the Bleep do you enjoy carrying female bags Arrrgh! I think he's confused on his masculinity.

Adaure4ever:
But some guys hate carrying the handbag for a girl when walking on the road.

that so unmanly, will not do that for a milli buck. I so much wear my pride upon my sleeves like a bracelet, especially females trying to hurt my pride.

Joy1706:
Y dear, men can be selfish too o. My husband was diagnosed with low sperm count. I stayed with him for 6 yrs. I had to try my luck elsewhere. And gratefully I got pregnant. Instead of him to be happy he was there yarning dust. What manner of selfishness is that?

Hope you find succour with your new man, bless madam

AsanwaKC:
somebody have to go down......just pretend to be in accordance with them..then struck.

That's evil

ajuwarhodes:
The rate at which men have low sperm counts nowadays will make u wonder if they have had abortions too,once i marry and I don't get pregnant, I will devorce his ass too! Who knows how he spent his single days! Stupid messing around

The rate humans are getting selfish puzzles me, just imagine those ignorant post earlier? Me wey no get sister sef no dey reason like that and I'm sure they have sisters, he even dey back am with bible how appalling!

Zizaboni:
Moderator, abeg help me put this for front page.... Mr seun abeg front page

Pls help me nairalanders, I have a big problem.... In details......

There was a lady I dated back in my ND days, we later broke up despite my great love for her... As in i sacrificed so much for this lady.... We broke up in January Cox she said she wanted a break.... But to my surprise that she went back to her ex boyfriend.... Later this year in September, she msg me that she stil love me. But before dt time, we have had a lot of disputes, insulted each other Cox I was hurt..... She said she wanted me back and she is ready to face anytin with me... She said this time, she has come to stay forever... I tod her that I am not interested and we insulted each other again.... 3 days ago, she msg me that she wana come 'n see me.. I agreed, she came yesterday, we reconciled, she askd for me back and I said Yes.. We shud try the relationship again... We had romance session but no sex.. Bcox we dnt want too...... She is now all over me..... But I am a kinda person that fears God, Weneva I commit a little sin, my conscience will never leave me unless I repent from it... I cudnt go to fellowship bcoz I just finished romancing a lady who is not my wife..... Till now, my mind isn't settled conscience is still panel beating me just bcox of 10 or 20 mins romance... Actually am not a Virgin, the first time I had sex in 2012, I hated myself, broke up with that lady Cox my mind neva rested.. Even till now, weneva I remember it, it saddens my heart...... But this lady, actually I tot she was a Virgin Cox we met in church but wen she told me her past, my hand fall. She has had uncountable sex with her first boifrnd that disvirgined her... Same with the second boifrnd, am the only one that hasn't had any tin like sex with her..... Shud I just tell her that am not interested in a reasonable way or keep pretending to love her and keep romancing till we have sexual intercourse till I later break her heart and keep getting bothered by my conscience... Cox I fear God so much... She wants me to b lying that I love her but within me, I no I dnt.. Only infatuation and aim of getting sex.... But am not ready for sex Cox I fear the Almighty... Pls advise me.... Pls front page Cox I am depressed right now.. Shud I continue dating and sinning or tell her the truth....... Christians and Muslims around the world, help me... Thanks

You motherfuucking hyprocrite! Son you should be grounded in a rehab centre for not practising what you preach! Fucking religious slave!

See your post here on someones thread! Shame on you! Don't even try to edit it cause that will make you more stupid!

"hmm. wen u no dt u were childless, did u seek the God of Shiloh 2015? the answer is No... Did u see the God of Pst Enoch Adeboye.... the answer is no..... Na u do ursef, Imagine years of barrenness and u didn't see the God of my fathers in the Lord.... na u labour, nA ur landlady eat the fruit of ur labour... Who shall eat the fruit of the fools if not the wise ones..... Glory to glory "

fbtowner:
I can see some ppl blaming the man. Well they might be right. In the other book childless for 8 years is no beans.

He even tried kudos to him. I guess the wife didn't take the childlessness serious enough.

Now some ppl taking about STI or STD or whatever. U are childless for 8 years and u are talking STI

from my own view I have never seen a man who will be childless for 8 year and will not be trying other women.

The woman is not faulty. Neither the man. I blame the landlady for been wicked.

But critically looking at it the man has a little fault. But I still give kudos to him for waiting that long its not easy. I don't think I can myself. It will take God's grace for me to wait that long

Now psychologically the man loves his wife. He didn't go far. I guess the relationship started by d Hetty woman initiating. The man couldn't resist. Who could do that should cast d 1st stone. For d man to do it within same compound I bliv he still loves his wife it was only a temptation he couldn't resist
He who can resist that should cast the first stone
Note : so many are cheating only those who get caught are named

Now to top it he is going to be a father after 8 years meeehn its no joke.
(probably the best feeling he ever had in his life)

The best thing to do here for the wife is to accept fate and move on with him or otherwise. If she tries anything funny the man won't hesitate replacing her for Hetty

So I bliv if she confines In God and pray. God will grant her wishes and make her get pregnant.


The moment she becomes pregnant. Things will start balancing.


A man made for 2 wives will never marry one


I hope u choose your advice wisely


*inks Empty*

"A man made for 2 wives will never marry one "

Sir,I'm trying hard to accept this part sir, though I agree with all you've said.

geni340:
what is sex,, without mouth action

I know that pose isn't convenient but you just have to go through that for you to premiere your olympus as fallen 2, Weird.

Rainess:
My boyfriend

You lied!!!!!!! Gaddemit! You still told your lover who is a guy not quite long, on the phone.