₦airaland Forum

lonelydora:
Abroad work is type by type. We are not handing over our country to someone who all his life has been washing dead bodies in mogue or peeling potatoes at a restaurant.

But that potato peeler earns in a week what many Nigerians earn in 3 months
People in developed countries know that It takes collective efforts of individuals in different sectors to make a nation work great and this is one of the many reasons why the US is prosperous, people don't look down on jobs and everyone is level headed and humble, take a cue from even Obama and his family. His daughter did a summer job at a restaurant, how many big men in nigeria will let their kids do that?

Mayflowa:
She said she is ready to be a wife and a mother. Is that not marrriage?

Where she talk am?

So is she looking for a baby daddy or is she looking for a husband. She never talked about 'marriage'. Anyone can have regular sex with a guy, have kids and live life... But what about true commitment?
This is what I call bad advertisement because now, many men will be pretentiously trying to get her attention just to win her Favour
By the way she looks really good! Happy birthday to her

goingape:
you have seen better!

have you settling down with him?

I've been off the market for a while now

goingape:
if I tell you come marry me I dey work for NNPC, as if you no go jump leave all your belongings like the disciple of Jesus.

just say you no see finish we go understand instead of this preaching were you preach so.

Who NNPC epp? My dear I have seen better!
I'm just speaking the hard truth.

Everybody marriage marriage marriage ! And then they enter the marriage, realize that it's not a bed of roses and start wishing they were still single ...
Everybody's time will come! I just cannot understand the crazy desperation all for social media show off and to 'belong'.

Baddo101:
Then b ready to av ur salary slashed by half.

Imaging u are given an offer in dat bank and u are tld ur salary is half of N................... Lol

Nice bank Though. service is good @ d moment. perharps because dey have few customers.

How much do they pay currently

deity:
She can cook the soup,different types every weekend and put them in the freezer, every night she brings the one to be eaten,take a portion and warm,then make the swallow it be eaten with it,I was like that too,because we eat late in my house before I got married, my husband complained too and I justed by doing the above.

Yes that's another way. I grew up seeing my mother do the same and I do same as well. I cook in large quantities and save. When ready to eat, warm and dish. Unless OP is a fresh food man who must have his meals cooked everyday... Some men are like that.

Huston1:
She is good at putting off the cooker or reduce it in the process of cooking. I don't know why. Sometimes I walk into the kitchen and increase it. I have visited her family house and this is the same thing there. Breakfast is 11am in her family house. The annoying part is that you see her mom busy in the kitchen but the food is never out. The few times I slept in her family house, her mom wakes me up at night to say dinner is ready and she apologies for being late. I have watched my wife's mother cook. Sometimes I see her put off the cooker too. Washes plates and clean the kitchen up to 5 times before she finishes cooking. I don't really know how to work on my wife. This whole thing is affecting my kids too because they have to stay awake to eat before they go to bed. The worse part is that myself and my wife don't eat together most times because at the time she dishes my food, she goes back to kitchen to clean up. Sometimes when I wake up by 12 midnight or past twice, I see her in the parlor eating and watching Nigeria movie. Many times I force her to bed because she can actually stay awake till 1am

Your wife needs to readjust her timing or get a maid that will assist her. My guess is that she goes to bed late , wakes up early to prepare break fast for you and the kids and goes back to bed when u all have left the house. Maybe by the time she wakes up, it's around 3pm , then she starts to cook and clean. I just can't understand why it takes her that long, normal cooking even if na soup shouldn't take more than 2/3 hours max. She needs to start preparing dinner at 12 noon since it literally takes her forever to have the meal ready. I can't bring in the issue of laziness because she seems hardworking just knowing that she cooks and cleans everyday and without a maid to help.

Nice one! I hope they offered him a job and means to carter for his family as well

She looks good

The furnishing and outlook of the hotel looks basic. Wondering why anyone would pay almost 400k per night for a basic room ... That's almost $1000

lofty900:
African mentality is a disease. Probably because she's not sending home enough dollars, now they're trying to use lesbianism as an excuse. If the girl have been sending thousands of dollars every year for the family upkeep, will they reject the money? Will they say she's no longer their daughter for being a lesbian? The answer is a big NO

What if she comes from a well to do family?
Do you think a poor man will spend his last dime paying to put up a news paper advert?
They are just 'a family of high morals' and have disowned her because they highly disapprove of her lifestyle. Maybe the girl is a hardcore unrepentant tomboy lesbian who has been warned severally to desist but has resisted

Hard to believe that she's 80, she looks 20 years younger

This is so funny because this same sh*t happens every year. Next September too, same thing for iPhone 7s abi na 8

ucsparks:
[size=15pt] ma'am,, you are officially the one who should do the thinking now. Was getting my mum into this necessary to a prove a point you haven't even proved yet?
Please bring up sometime reasonable To oppose my motion or you desist from quoting me, Thanks.. [/size]

Lol! But is your mother not a female? It means she also falls into the category too. So what ever you say a female is, just remember that one gave birth to you.

Nothing

Firstlieutenant:
Na lie, proper cable no go let her look outside. If u disagree, bring ya senior sister to me, make I prove am to you.

It's not all about sex, emotional neglect can push a woman to cheat.

Millerz:
Oh look; a deranged fellow. People like you shouldnt breed cuz your retardation may affect an innocent offspring.

Let me school you, females are generally smarter and wiser than men of the same age as they are.

Compare 2 two year olds (boy and girl), I assure you, 100% of the time, the girl is always smarter. Females also learn to read and communicate way before their male counterparts.

Thank you jare! He also forgot that a female gave birth to his silly ass!

ucsparks:
[size=15pt] i stand to be corrected. Females were never created to be wise, and you naturally proved that flaw from your write up [/size]

Does this include your Mother as well?
Before you hurriedly make such stupid statements, think!

No.1 is a stupid misconception. So the woman should expect to be cheated on and take it in good stride. I also hope the man mentally prepares himself for the day his wife would 'accidentally' cheat too. So glad many women are now 'very wise' these days. Even the bible condemns infidelity, so why would anyone in their right senses condone it. It's different if the offended spouse decides to forgive and let go but where there is lack of remorse, then it's a problem!
As for no.2 it is very important that a woman has her source of funds. Don't depend on no man for everything. I know a couple that newly got married and everytime they fought over money the man would call her a wh0re and gold digger just because she was asking him to do basic stuff such as giving her money to take care of herself. They are currently separated now anyways. The issue of finance is always a problem in many marriages.
No. 3 applies to both parties. Everyone should know their duties and adhere to them.

UltraSphinx:
when I saw Tonto's sister, I was wondering how her sister was so obese and tonto herself remains slim.. But now I can see that "destiny" can only be delayed, but cannot be denied.

I'm sure she will lose the weight in due time. That's if she doesn't do mercy johnsons style of back to back births. She has to stay trim to keep getting her usual sexy roles in films

I'm sure some guys are already fantasizing ... She has a nice body. I wish my waist was that small

Awesome! I'll like to work for heritage bank

No 5 is the best option

See money nice cars

Good deed

That's unfortunate.

What kind of medical condition is she treating with $15m, what rubbish!

smada13:
pls madam, what do you stand to gain from defending what is indefensible? You can do the maths yourself, she only worked as a civil servant up to the Permanent Secretary level, so how will she have acquired the enormous wealth on display?

Well said! The woman stole more funds than her husband if I'm not mistaken. More stolen money to be discovered soon... !

VolT0xic:
My Mum married at the Age of 21-22. She was majoring in nursing at then. Well, 25 years later and counting, she is very, very happy and blessed in the union. And that's cos she loved my Dad. What I'm trying to say is maturity isn't the precursor to a happy marriage. Love is. So I ask is your sister in love with the man? Or is this just a case of arranged marriage? At that age 20, she's physically ready. But socially, mentally & emotionally, I don't know.

Remember that was back then! Times have greatly changed. These days it's not a good idea for any woman to get married at such a young age. Not only is she naive and hasn't seen what life is all about at that age but then again, marriage is just too complicated these days. Let her go to school and discover herself first. Explore a career while building her skills and making some little money of her own. Marriage can come when she's 24 or 25 and above.

It's a good thing you didn't react! @OP, Just try to avoid her when her mood swings begin. Women are very difficult sometimes and trust me, many couples fight this way, even worse. Sending her to nigeria to stay alone may be the beginning of the end of your marriage, what if she starts straying or cheating or you start straying too? Long distance marriage is a no no. If u can avoid it, do so!