TV/Movies › Re: Live: Big Brother Naija 2018 (Double Wahala) BBNaija Live Thread by Divay22(f): 11:40am On Apr 07, 2018 |
oshe11: CeeC with her forehead when belike wetin dem force football inside? Savage 101  |
Celebrities › Re: "I Love The Smell Of Davido’s Fart!" - Mr Eazi Says by Divay22(f): 11:30am On Apr 07, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: Banke Of Events By BankySue And Tolu Wedding Proposal Story (Photos) by Divay22(f): 11:16am On Apr 07, 2018 |
Awwwww So nice.. |
Romance › Re: Most Nigerian Girls Deserve To Be Treated Like Trash by Divay22(f): 11:11am On Apr 07, 2018 |
AmericanSons: yeah, I learned that the hard way. So I am learning to balance things.
I won't go bad but I won't make it easy either. The attention and care they get will be reduced to the barest minimum.
There was something she said in a heated argument that made me see how I am viewed by her.
But what she doesn't realize yet is that I can be extremely good and I can be extremely soulless. If it worse, I may not even forgive you in years to come.
My ex did something when I was with her, hardly said no, always want to do something to make her happy. Then she abused everything, going as far as telling me plan ahead and too clingy.
I endured for a while until I changed after we broke up, changed so much that by the time we broke up and she came back, she held on to the image of old me and that kept giving her false hope to even demand things from me like she did in the past. She couldn't believe I had changed.
She refused to accept the fact that I had changed and the old me is dead! She held on to that image for another 2-4 years and begging in between.
I who used to count a few thousands, though very young then, and send to her reduced it to 100 naira and 200 when she ask or I tell her I don't have or simply use laugh to cover it.
This was a girl I bought brand new phone for, SIM and airtime when she lost her phone.
She used that phone for as long as 4 years after we broke up. The guys that were getting into her head couldn't change it for her. That is why I say I know my worth! I know a lot of guys wouldn't do what I did. Basically I hardly do use and dump. I can be at my chest that I don't need to fork a girl before doing anything for her... Not because I am stupid! I have done this multiple times but idiots with fish brain roam the earth!
At one time, she told me she was hungry, this was after we broke up. Of course I refused to flinch. I told her to search their house and laughed on phone while talking. She did that at various times and but was not getting the message.
But one day, it became obvious that if she was dying and I had the opportunity to save her, I wouldn't do it. But this same me was the only one calling the day she fainted when we were dating. When she woke up, they told her I had been calling.
Yeah, she called me one day that she needed help to get a tooth ache treated. And that it was severely hurting. She told me the amount and that she has tried to get it but nobody to help (oh yeah... We are rare). The money wasn't much and I had it but I refused to give it!
Since then, she got the message.
The shocking thing is that she did apologize multiple times within those years she was trying to make amends but knowing who I am, I didn't let go off atrocities with ease. She even offered sex to appease me. She thought I was like guys who sees sex as something... I declined for long but had later and I still didn't accept her.
I have to confess I did a good psychological damage so much that if she hears my name now ,according to her brother, her reactions is somewhat put off. When the brother told me, he said he doesn't know what happened between I and his sister that any time he mentioned my name to let her know we chatted, her countenance changes. I told the brother why? It is a lie... I know why! 
Whatever I have accomplished today and the continued hurstling is as a result of my encounter with that ex. At one point I was down and she became wicked and heartless!
I am both evil and good, just let me know which one you want and I will serve it to you hot!
Why I am telling you this? We all have evil but we manage to control them. There two souls in one body. What you get depends on your approach.
As for the current one, I don't have anything much to tell her now. She will get the message from my cold attitude towards her. After all, women are expert at using body language when they want to treat a guy badly. So let the game begin! Wow So much you've done... But I'll still tell you, it's not just one gender thing, guys do it to ladies also.. It hurts, you've been played .but don't make this experience of yours make you go hard on a lady.(all ladies ain't the same) Don't go and hurt a good and loyal girl all because you think we're all the same.. Be nice, but know when to draw the line. Live within your means..Not everything a girl ask, you'll do all because that's just you. Sometimes decline (Tell her you can do it , but this time you choose not to and watch her reactions only then you'll know who you're dealing with) But for now, work on yourself while you wait for who's worth it. |
Romance › Re: Most Nigerian Girls Deserve To Be Treated Like Trash by Divay22(f): 9:24am On Apr 07, 2018 |
AmericanSons: Thanks. It is unfortunate that this is how women are wired! When Adam and Eve were in the garden of Eden, according to biblical doctrines, things were easy and nothing stress them. But they took the ease of availability of their wants for granted and God withdrew his presence.
The surprising thing is that this same person complained about the cruelty of people and unwillingness to care and how she was undervalued. I took that and did the opposite to proof that they are still nice guys out there but what did I get in return? I was called a name that befits my kind, but this time around with a new terminology.
Life is full of miracles and surprises you know.
Apparently, I have to withdraw my presence as it stand now. I know my kind is hard to come by; I know my worth and people don't see my kind easily in a wicked world such as ours. I have resolved that I have to hide real me and no woman will have the opportunity to see it ever again. I did but I thought this one might be different...again, I was proven wrong that women NEVER appreciate the nice guys.
I am done! Don't go bad because someone who doesn't see your worth, choose to treat you unfair. If you change, you'll also get hurt. |
Romance › Re: Lady Gets DM From The Girlfriend Of Man Who Uses Her As His Screen Saver by Divay22(f): 11:13pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
BiafranBushBoy: Lol. Your online herbs strong tho.
Thought you are Yoruba. Lemme guess, you are from the south southern part of Nigeria. Maybe from Delta state. Yeah. Goodnight |
Romance › Re: Lady Gets DM From The Girlfriend Of Man Who Uses Her As His Screen Saver by Divay22(f): 11:00pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
BiafranBushBoy: That is yahoo native doctor. SARS is coming for you and your shrine. Lol.
You know on a second thought, ikogoisi isn't such a bad idea. Will fund your trip, and I communicate with you from Paris. Hehehehe...
You Yoruba? SARS Them go report me give SARS, but na them way dey come for prayers.. Haven't gone there before.. I'm not. |
Romance › Re: Lady Gets DM From The Girlfriend Of Man Who Uses Her As His Screen Saver by Divay22(f): 10:46pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
BiafranBushBoy: Hahahaha... Oluwa egba mi ooo.
Heard you are a doctor...
As in... Native doctor. Ekuse ooo Yeah. But i use lappi to communicate with the spirit, and i also have some online courses for root and herbs  |
Celebrities › Re: Mayorkun Thanks Davido For Giving Him The Chance To Showcase His Talent by Divay22(f): 10:38pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
NeeKlaus: Lol. Dremo is a terrific rapper; you can't say rapping doesn't suit him. It's just that his style of rapping isn't what Nigerians are used to. You can compare his style to Nasty C's. They rap alike in a way.
Divay.  He can goan join Nasty C in South Africa. But here in Nigeria, is rapping is wack to me....i have watched some of his videos (not intentionally though), and i ask myself, what I'm watching.. He did tried in MIND thou . But you'll agree with me, it's not bringing him to the spotlight. |
Romance › Re: Lady Gets DM From The Girlfriend Of Man Who Uses Her As His Screen Saver by Divay22(f): 10:32pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
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TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija: Nina "My Greatest Fear Is Losing Collins, My Boyfriend" by Divay22(f): 10:31pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
Greatest fear |
Sports › Re: France Vs Nigeria: Women's Friendly - 8 - 0 (Full Time) by Divay22(f): 10:11pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
naptu2: January 22nd, 2017
France 2-0 South Africa
October 23rd, 2017
France 8-0 Ghana April 6 2018 France 8-0 Nigeria  |
Sports › Re: France Vs Nigeria: Women's Friendly - 8 - 0 (Full Time) by Divay22(f): 10:08pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
So Someborri can not play with all this France again  8--0 |
Romance › Re: A Nairalander Pre-wedding Photo by Divay22(f): 9:57pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: Lady Gets DM From The Girlfriend Of Man Who Uses Her As His Screen Saver by Divay22(f): 9:56pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
BiafranBushBoy: And I was already liking you... Smh.
OK bye... Hahahaha But it's the truth.. (I forgot to add it) |
Romance › Re: A Nairalander Pre-wedding Photo by Divay22(f): 8:59pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
Oyindidi: I look at the pictures and discovered they are some random pictures from his gallery. See the rubber for her hair  Aunty pls respect yourself..wish them well and swerve to your BBNAJIA thread, where you belong. |
Romance › Re: A Nairalander Pre-wedding Photo by Divay22(f): 8:57pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
Op God bless your home. May this smile you both share blossom each and everyday of your marriage life.. Conjugal Bliss |
Romance › Re: A Nairalander Pre-wedding Photo by Divay22(f): 8:49pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
swiz123:

[s]If they couldn't afford taking a nice pre-wedding pics with good clothes, I fear for the marriage itself.
Dude couldn't afford N100 to shave his beards.
This is bad, it really is.
Modified :you can quote me all you want, I am not joining your bandwagon of hypocrites.
To the lady antibrutus, you ain't obliged to endorse my view. If my comment didn't give you an orgasm, then move over to the next. [/s] Trash.. |
Events › Re: Bride Storms Shoprite In Akure To Buy Bread, Shortly After Her Wedding by Divay22(f): 8:21pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
She couldn't go for her honeymoon without bread ( Shoprite own to be precise) |
Celebrities › Re: Mayorkun Thanks Davido For Giving Him The Chance To Showcase His Talent by Divay22(f): 8:01pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
SteveMarvic: Just shut tha hell up Dont compare dremo and mayorkun together again one is a rapper another a singer if both are singer then u have the right to compare them we all know nigeria appreciate singers more than rappers. Hahaha Rapper ko  Let him goan sing, rapping doesn't suit him.. Next time when mentioning rappers, gemme the likes of M. I Vector And the others  |
Career › Re: "I Make N45,000 Monthly" - Local Nail Cutter Reveals by Divay22(f): 7:53pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
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Celebrities › Re: Mayorkun Thanks Davido For Giving Him The Chance To Showcase His Talent by Divay22(f): 7:17pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
You're better than Dremo
More good tunes..
Mayorkun....Dremo Kiss Daniel..... Sugar boy Lil kesh.... .......Victor Reekado banks..... Korede bello Tekno...... Selebobo
Two each from diff music label, but only one making it big.. We can be same Age mate, but not same Grace mate |
Romance › Re: Four Women With Kids By The Same Father (Photos) by Divay22(f): 7:06pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
Collyno82: am cool,,, tgif Yeah... We're the house people.. There's nothing like party for us. |
Politics › Re: Ishola Filani Is Dead - PDP Ex-vice Chairman by Divay22(f): 4:47pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
What's happening na |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Divay22(f): 4:32pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
dopeJemi: We were 4, two boys and two girls, the girls made it, even though I felt pity for them, I still didn't share  Lol So girls follow you play that kind rough play  You would have given them na, per gentleman that you are.. We gat stop derailing, before they come for our heads. But next time, SHARE |
Romance › Re: Lady Gets DM From The Girlfriend Of Man Who Uses Her As His Screen Saver by Divay22(f): 4:28pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
BiafranBushBoy: Who are the they?
Having conflicts with so many people who think I am too serious or busy. Just pisses me off most times. Wonderful siggy.
I go sub this month for you.  Ehn But that shouldn't be an excuse not to care for them though. Thanks |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Divay22(f): 3:51pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: Lady Gets DM From The Girlfriend Of Man Who Uses Her As His Screen Saver by Divay22(f): 3:40pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Divay22(f): 3:34pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
dopeJemi: It wasn't, we had to play a bet with cards for who will take the last spaghetti in the pot, You are looking at the winner of the bet  Lol Just like i suspected.. More reason i don't eat with my bro or my male friends, I get left behind.. So i eat half while cooking and pick the food when eating with them, until i was caught. I know next time, the others won't think of betting with the remaining  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Divay22(f): 3:23pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
dopeJemi: No oh, though it's not too much for me alone. We were 4 Alright... Hope it was enough, cause i know guys to eat alot |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Divay22(f): 2:57pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
dopeJemi: As e dey hot So it's only you dat eat all this many food  |
Romance › Re: Four Women With Kids By The Same Father (Photos) by Divay22(f): 2:36pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
Collyno82: better diva. Watsup I'm okay and you? |