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Mindfulness:
Love is a feeling.
Commitment is a choice.

Two different things. Many people commit out of love. Love, however, is not necessary. But who wants to commit to someone they don't love?

No my dear love is bigger than a feeling dt can change with weather it a choice to commit to someone for better for worse

nnamdibig:
Not just choice completely

Love is simply a choice to commit to someone dt meets most of ur needs in a partner. All those movie love n if I dnt see u I won't eat kind of love is for immature ppl

When ur village ppl finally nails u even normal torch light go kill u

nnamdibig:
You don't live in fantasy land when you are happily married with kids.
As for OP, I still believe he still need to meet that person he loves before getting married. Am speaking from experience.

I agree with u but love is jst a choice and he can choose to love any woman he likes

nnamdibig:
You are not ready because you have not seen the one that you love so much that you can only think of a life with her. Until that happens don't marry. And when that happens, you will discover that marriage is overrated when you are with someone that both of you love and understands each other.

Lol u r still living in fantasy land. Op is jst a coward and cowards r afraid of everything n die many times b4 their death.

@ 34 any responsible man shld have marriage on his priority list if nt married already. Living with one person for d rest of ur life is a tough decision love or no love n it requires a lot of courage n maturity to take dt bold step once u see someone dt meets 50% of ur needs. No one is perfect.

Except u r jobless with no source of income, a man @ 34 shld be thinking n planning to marry except he is an irresponsible man.

Yormit442:
bro how true is your statement?

Dts true it's d corrupt practices in the system they exploit to survive otherwise d salary no reach entry level pay for some graduate jobs

U left out the most important part hw much are u selling them
1. Manual without ac
2. Manual with ac
3. Automatic without ac
4. Automatic with ac

Do u also sell naija used

Scammer

Lol except he dies dt aren't gonna happen

Nonsense this is a case of double standard

This bothers on corruption n police shld be involved to investigate prosecute them n nt setting some meaningless panel to cover ur northern brothers involved

docadams:
To be ill is a birth right. Let us pray for our President for a quick return to good health.

D man is old and shld be enjoying his retirement in Daura. Guess the National assembly shld put age limit to be President to 65yrs

this Dude is wasting his little cash n time BC he will nt even be a contender

dive or no dive spurs were well beaten

lecturers are highly under paid ASUU shld move for salary increment without further delays.

A fresh PhD holder earns arnd 140k monthly in federal uni n dts too low they should be getting at least 350k monthly

d blood of Jesus will wash ur sins n make u a new creation. By d way hw old r u op?

bukatyne:
Same Nigeria where most people still believe in traditional roles? Emeka must be deluded

Like same people will not scream if the wife stopped performing her duties

@Women behaving somehow when their husbands can no longer provide: Give me a husband who will provide and take care of domestics for one month while wifey does nothing without complaining then we will have a discussion.

To think most of same peeps screamed when that twitter guy said #wifenotcook

Bunch of people always wanting to eat their cake and have it.

Domestic duties are really over rated most of these lazy wives have 2 or more house helps dt does everything while d wife esp if unemployed sits to watch TV

JuanJO:
man wey woman dey feed, that one na man

Na bastard be dt lol, God said he is worse than an infidel

akanbiaa:
Its God that feeds us all as long as we are not lazy and dependent God will always create a way to cater for the basics if we humble ourselves.

Is like you are looking for a woman to feed ur lazy ass. God is our provider ultimately but God said dt a man that can't feed his household is worse than an infidel.

A man has d role of a provider in d family while d woman is a helper

She is getting correct African ikebe as a reward

MarieSucre:
This is my greatest fear too. That my man will be providing 100% in our household. I can't sit down and be dependant on a man.

Good no man wants a complete liability, work hard to support ur man

akanbiaa:
What of those that found love and got married when they were broke?

Hmmm God will help them when they are being fed by a woman

Like alot of posters said I can reliably inform u dt D President is on weight reduction pill, as doctors advice him against being fat

Iamzik:
Aptly summarized.

Those of you shouting the Bible says this and that you need to read the whole Bible and apply wisdom.

The man and the woman are jointly responsible for the welfare of the home. If the man has been shouldering his responsibilities faithfully and things go south, the woman should be able to step in without announcing to the whole world.... if they are truly one.

This is not 1970's where mothers were typically sit at home mums. If you are employed/engaged in business there is nothing wrong in taking joint responsibility for your family's welfare by supporting your husband. Funny how women want equality of privilege with men but do not want equality of responsibilities.

Bottom line the success of the home depends on both husband and wife cooperating in love to achieve great things. For those who know how to quote 1 Tim 5:8 please remember to also quote Prov 31:10-end.

If Emeka truly beat his wife then that is too bad. You don't throw stones at a bird resting on the ground... It will take it as an excuse to fly away

D wisdom of God is timeless n never outdated, if u are hoping for a woman to feed ur lazy ass then brace up for what comes with it.

A man is the family provider n a woman is jst a helper. This is an eternal truth n standard dt never gets outdated BC it is a Divine law

d worst thing dt can happen to a Man is for ur wife to be the provider of ur household.
Ask tee billz

Emeka ike is 100% correct

If u want to kw d real colour of ur wife go broke

Chisos dt womb is locked except drastic steps are taken by strong man of God to unlock it ASAP in Jesus name

Sapiosexuality:
Smh. Lol. This guy. I'm simply trying to tell you it's harder here because of the faulty system. I already said I'm not idle. Except you want me to join the "Owo Mi Da" crew or Yahoo boys for fast money.

Nooo abeg keep it legitimate n legal

Sapiosexuality:
You are missing my point. Linda is a billionaire in Naira but a millionaire in dollars. My point is that an idea as big as Facebook cannot be created by a Nigerian in Nigeria simply because the country doesn't even have the means to accommodate it.

Take for example Google and other companies that require direct interaction of satellites in space. Can the Nigerian space agency eben launch a satellite in space, to begin with? It's easier to achieve in a country with a responsible government.

U miss my point too u dnt need to be a dollar billionaire when a naira billionaire is more than okay

Stop living in fantasy land n get ur lazy ass to work

By d way adenuga n dangote are dollar billionaires n they are Nigerians so u can get there if u quit living in fantasy land n get ur lazy ass to work.

Nobody owes u anything jst BC u have a good biz ideas, millions of Nigerians ve good biz ideas too

Sapiosexuality:
You mean if Mark was a Nigerian in Nigeria Facebook will have over a billion subscribers? Haba! Fear God na! I'm sure on that.

Dnt u kw Linda ikeji at least she is a billionaire at less than 40 yrs n a Nigerian what more do u need

Sapiosexuality:
You mean if Mark was a Nigerian in Nigeria Facebook will have over a billion subscribers? Haba! Fear God na! I'm sure on that.

Dnt u kw Linda ikeji at least she is a billionaire at less than 40 yrs what more do u need

Sapiosexuality:
Exactly. That's what I'm doing. From Freelancer, YouTube Adsence, Poetry writing, Creative Writing, CPA Marketing, etc. In two years time there'd be a difference, for sure.

U can say dt again