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Yes. It is bad please

Wow.. send me the link i want to see the post
See we will get there some day it may not be in our time but let's do the one we can for now
One love

brain54:
I made this exact point on another thread…

Like you just said everything in that post.

And am still saying marriage does not need love because love is not enough. If you have someone that ticks your list love is grow. Our parents didn't marry out of love, both families made research about each other before allowing their children to be together.. we can learn from them. Love to me is an oyinbo phenomenon

brain54:
People marry for different reasons…


It could be love, commitment, money etc.

Your topic is if marriage needs love/will work better based on love or other factors…

What I understand your asking is among all the reasons or factors for get married if love should be considered as most important.


It’s only natural to marry a person with same goals, ideals, ideology or whatever with a partner or could be love that unites the couple.
Meaning something has to bring two people together in the first place whatever reason that is. So should love be the sole reason or most important consideration for marriage. That’s your question.

Am not deviating... Am I talking about love and you are talking about commitment am simply explaining how the commitment may/may not work if coming together is for different reasons
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brain54:
Now you are deviating from your topic…

We can build money and wealth if we have the same goals in life.

Goodlady:
Money nko?

I sight you Daddy KC

DaddyCK:
copyright is iligal....section 14, act 25 chapta 1 page 17, third paragraph of the Nigerian Money laundering code...juss saying(.( No oofencsse)

You are so entitled to your opinion. I respect that

rickleye:
She an angry black divorced woman .
So she still hurting from a betrayal.
Hence the Tina Turner rendition- “ What’s love got to do with it “.,,,

Coming from both sides it the rare-est thung in earth. People come together for different reasons and most wont tell their partner their real intention of getting together.

brain54:
The commitment and everything else obviously has to come from both parties involved…

I agree. Yet all on your list is rare.

burp18:
Sacrifice, tolerance, is what keeps a marriage. Having all tge knowledge about someone is of little use if you cannot tolerate each other's excesses. Be with someone who's always trying to please you, ask you what's wrong and this should apply for the both couple

No matter how committed you are if the commitment is one sided then, it won't last
because you will get exhausted along the line, motivation go finish

brain54:
Op I agree with you…

I think what you should have used is compatibility instead of knowledge!

I feel marriage will work better with more of commitment, dedication, compassion and compatibility to a partner rather than when love is the major focus in a relationship. Love should be a bonus.

Love is just not enough!

A girl who loves you will want to give you everything without asking at all. Fools are lovers. Lovers are fools

Seriousmata123:
Thank you bt can u please elaborate?

It's not possible

Knowledge on how to live with them

Nazgul:
Your copied write-up is incomplete. You said marriage needs knowledge

Knowledge about what?

Tell them for me o

imagrg:
Love is a scam.

It exists no more.

@FuckTheMod love has always been lust to me since my teenage years. That doesn't mean I didn't fall once though but the experience was not good for me. I rora dey on my own now

Lappy Please.. are you giving it out now

MARRIAGE DOES NOT NEED LOVE

A successful marriage has little to do with love. Love is not the qualification for marriage.

Love is a dangerous thing.

Love can make you think you can make it.

Every divorce person was first in love with the person they divorce.
So, don't tell me love keeps you together.

Love does not guarantee success in marriage.

Love brings happiness but doesn't bring what it takes to make marriage work.

The only thing that makes marriage work, is knowledge.

You feel like you love someone, but you better get knowledge on how to live with them. And we are such a feeling culture that our insanity takes us to the alter, making commitments we know we can't keep.

Marriage is not protected by love, Marriage is protected by knowledge.
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BVN no go allow me use am. Besides you are mae I am female. Our names go get ishes

JoeRizzla:
How much you wan buy am!?!

So Atiku even get Yoruba wife...I love Atiku I get more Atikulated by the day

Money. Give me money and a Sugar Daddy

Mass Communication has a many courses incorporated. Human Resources/Relations, Media i.e. print, TV and Radio, it could also lead to film making as the media under TV will teach you how to handle cameras and other technicalities of live and offline production, Public Relations, the list go on and on...
I realized most times what we are always looking for is closer to us than we imagine because we are human. We are limited to a trial and error life

Banilla:
Does it? How?

I like your job. I have been looking for something like that... Since forever .. . appreciate and enjoy your life please

marlow1962:
I work as a customer care attendant for different private companies ( I mostly works from home, it’s fun since I got my weed,games, food and light, tho It can be borin as hell sometimes but nairaland and my PlayStation got me cover sometimes). When my son goes to sch in the morning, home can be a torment for me as there’s no one to visit me( no frnds, I hate it but I love staying alone).

Sell am for me na

JoeRizzla:
I studied Civil engineering and graduated with first class but am a hu$tler. I don't think i will use my certificate again, I wan sell am at the right price ✌️

@nicerod why not get a computer first if you can.

See where Mass Communication is underated, it fits into all walks of lives

Men and women disappoint like that. You just never know who has good conscience

Not true. Masturbation can keep men and women away for ages

Never

Using the blood of Jesus for sexual jokes. These people are crossing the lines seriously

I don't have to argue further with you. So we hear is all I can say. We broke girls will get a job and date ourselves

StrongAlphMale:
How you deliberately avoided the other parts of my comment is laughable abi u wan tell us say u no see am? U talked about a man giving you something else?

However, if you claim a man must give you something else, what then must you give the man in return? Your over used damaged pussy I guess? Are you trying to tell us u Nigeria girls are into prostitution who use their bodies in exchange for "something else' ?