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StrongAlphMale:
She not knowing her father is just an excuse to hoe around.

Your father is the only man God created to take care of you until you're married. So if you lack basic amenities in life, blame your father!. Otherwise get a job and work.

I made it clear on my comment that if she lacks basic amenities in life, she should get a Job and work.

Lets watch and see again... Awelewa Spells and Big Daddy on the beat this time... Y'all heard

PoliteActivist:
My beautiful Awelewa Spells. Looks like every time I post here I get banned. Let's see what happens now

I'll get one. Because you said so

kenedyx:
You need therapy.

My Dearest PoliteActivist..

That intrinsic part. I have buried it

kenedyx:
I was referring to your wish earlier of coming as a man in the next world.

Your innocence is long gone you say? Rubbish. Innocence the way I use it is not just about virginity, it's about being submissive and nurturing to a fault. As a woman, innocence is an intrinsic part of your nature due to your hormonal buildup necessary for the nurturing of your babies. So it can't be gone unless you're trying to hide it.

Show a good man that part of you and he will not only mentor you but marry you. He will guide you and help you avoid mistakes and correct them. You shouldn't be looking for this outside of marriage. Don't let any man who's not your husband mentor you!

To be successful. You need a mentor. You admitted earlier.

My innocence were long gone before...it's not about that. It's about guidance on making the right choice in life to avoid mistakes later.

Not all dad's. Our parents and spouses are not perfect.

kenedyx:
You don't need a mentor!

Your husband should be your one and only mentor..after your dad of course. The best way to reach your husband's house is as a novice woman who knows nothing and is open to learn. That's why many men scream virginity, though it's not just about that.

You gave away your innocence for a needless experience that would even mar your chances of ending up with the right man.

Even women need mentors too fortunately or unfortunately, women hardly mentor other women. Their jealousy no go gree. The men mentor women find will always want an exchange.

I use to have one. Everything was perfect later, my life change when I say I no do again. You know what I mean

kenedyx:
Hahaha.. then you should also pray for a good mentor. Because as a man you come with nothing, are required to acquire everything and then destined to leave it all behind for your kids. It's really dicey I tell you.

You're welcome.

Have you checked it out

I stumbled upon this video and realized how dangerous the 'Entitlement Mentality' can be.

We have her lots everywhere these days...

https://fb.watch/i5bMqZ8FOt/?mibextid=RUbZ1f

She dey find Yahoo boy.. Chai

Aww, thanks a lot
Such a manly quote
I love men that know their onions
In my next life I truly want to be a man.

kenedyx:
Spot on, and as someone who has tasted both sides.. I don't need to tell you which one I prefer.

It's not easy being a man, but once you get it right, it's the sweetest thing in the world.. and you can only get it right when you accept that there's no other way.

Your sons will turn out fine.. teach them about finances and how the can get their shît together or find them someone who can. They'll be alright.

Boys of today will not understand this fact. Some older men still do. Believe me at the bolded, I have seen many men fall for this...it disgust me. May God help me to raise my sons to fulfill the commandment of taking charge not wailing for feminine support

kenedyx:

Men should understand that the person with the least resources in a relationship will always be the submissive one. There's no sugarcoating it, it is what it is. And believe me I've seen the strongest of men (both physically and mentally) submit to their richer wives because of this shît. That's bullshit.. what kind of man prays for something like that?

Baby Calm Down

Guys there is too much misconceptions these days about who a MAN truly is.
Some think being man is when you have a third leg with balls
Some think ejaculation means manhood while
Others think providing financially to family members and loved ones means one is a man.

But I will say being financially capable
Morning
Afternoon and
Night makes you a man

Some women have assumed the roles of some men in their lives simply because the men sold their birth right like Esau or they are just lazy to take on financial responsibility.

When you have/are my kind of defination of MANhood then everybody will want to worship at your feet. You begin to rule like the King that you are originally created to be. Remember Queen Elizabeth ruled like a King so don't argue the whole idea of women kingship which is also regarded as 'Queen'

Any man waiting in his woman to contribute financially in a relationship is a weak man to me. A woman should contribute financially but that just to get her busy. She shouldn't help her man shoulder bills because he is incapable or too greedy to run his home like a King.

kenedyx:
A woman's ability to provide financially to the family should never be a criteria in choosing her as a wife. That's a man's job. Trust me you don't want a woman competing the breadwinner role with you.. it's like a man competing with a woman in the kitchen over lists and food items.. it's a recipe for a chaotic marriage.

I can see, you gerrit right from the bottom

JustPowerApps:
Nigerian girls are broke, like 99.9 of them depend on guys. Even the wealthy ones among them are still depending on guys. If you see a Nigerian girl living large, just have it at the back of your mind that the lifestyle is sponsored by one dude who literally is getting ripped in exchange for love, fake love.

@StrongAlphMale: You sound very young. What if she never met her father.

StrongAlphMale:
If you' want a man that will give you something else, then that man is your FATHER!

Your father is the only man God created to take care of you until you're married. So if you lack basic amenities in life, blame your father!. Otherwise get a job and work.

However, if you claim a man must give you something else, what then must you give the man in return? Your over used damaged pussy I guess? Are you trying to tell us u Nigeria girls are into prostitution who use their bodies in exchange for "something else' ?

FEAR WOMEN CREW

Where una dey

Nairaland men are looking for girls to feed and accommodate them. That's why they complain about girls being entitled. A real man naturally provides for his woman and brags about it not the other way

Your Alpha Male idealogy is making you to get it all twisted.
Girls are normally broke. Even when they own a car and a house. You always have to give her something else you date your fellow men

And the men are happy being alone right?
Having companionship has nothing to do with marriage. We are treating marriage and divorce here.
Married or not.
Every man needs a woman same way every woman needs a man...

Cromagnon:
those women ain't happy being alone, but continue in your divorce

Marriage is overrated

simplypj:
Why bother marrying?

Why do you want to sit in a long thing bayi?
You know me pass me? I wonder...wait lemme check my gender again

Heathrow44:
are u?

Yeah. We all have a naturally God don't we?

Heathrow44:
are u really a "babe"

It was neither for better for worse or till death do us part.

wales4real:
Is this one aware marriage pre-dates religion?

Divorce is trending now, thanks to The Ekwueme Singer. God bless her for she was used to liberate many men and women in bondage in the name of marriage

Kobojunkie:
There is nothing new about divorce. Your ancestors did it too --- marriage abandonment --- with society subjugating the abandoned into living life in shame in order to hide the ill.

4 and 8 is dope

Capital No. If you like die there. The answer is still a No

Deciceco01:
Guy you will not make it to heaven, forget about it

Biological Reasoning for women

simple250:
When a woman go broke,the first thing they think of is to sale their body . Why?

Divorce is a new trend in our society
Divorce is here to stay
The more people realize that religion is a scam, the more they get divorced and live a happier life like our ancestors

I be babe o

Breeze111:
Hahaha � bros heaven far from you

Lol!
Make the pikin wait outside first.
We want check some thing.
Buy biscuits and Coke for the pikin

Honeypots may deliver the same goods but the journey can not be compared to another.

So my answer is No. Depends on the carrier