You're on point...so on point.

Atiku's ambition will be the end of PDP las las.

I have not read a more truer statement

saddler:
This man and Atiku na the same badluck they follow them.

He contested in PDP and was beaten.

He contested in APC and was still beaten

Well deserved

So with all the suffering Nigerians dey go through, you wan add another level of suffering for someone's daughter

People dey mad shaa

Chispa:
kill her.

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?

Please give me one good reason why you should marry a girl that doesn't respect you.

LeoDeKing:
Peter Obi the agulu shock absorber will never be shocked with this demolition.

Children of drug sniffing slave masters like you with your mtn borrowed 50mb will forever feel threatened when sane people challenge the actions of your drug sniffing balablu presidiot. Try develop yourself to the point when your comment will at least make some sense

You mean the candidate that was struggling to hold ordinary party flag with two shaky-shaky hands?

KingKO22:
After the meeting they will declare support for Emilokan of Africa.


I knw this people are agitating for fairness and justice for southern Nigeria.

Shut your smelling gutter you call a mouth.

You and your ilk are just lousy stupid and dirty clowns who colour every move with religion.

You're obviously a raving mad dog who thinks one religion has a divine right to rule over the other.

Stupid mad dog

OLABAMIJI99:
Good.. Next is total suspension!

The young man has been causing nuisance recently since after loosing primaries..

He and other Christian governors like Makinde, Ortom and Ikpeazu have been crying all night because Atiku defeated them.... He has been criticising Atiku saying that Fulani muslim wont hand over to another fulani Muslim, insulting Tinubu for his muslim Muslim ticket best decision, yet PDP candidate in Rivers state is a Christian like him

Hypocrite!!



LIKE I HAVE ALWAYS SAID, WE WONT ALLOW ANY XTIAN TO RULE THIS COUNTRY AGAIN..

JONATHAN IS AND REMAINS THE LAST CHRISTIAN PRESIDENT IN NIGERIA..


NEVER AGAIN

Wonderful initiative but definitely cannot be sustained... We should have seen a similar initiative from APC during these 7 painful years of hardship but No

E reach campaign season, they roll it out.

Good one though. I'll register, ride free and still vote OBI

Tingotoe:
I've got a good reason to vote against Peter Obi and 9that's the Pandora papers

My vote for Obi against Tinubu/Atiku will cancel that your useless vote

Truly truly, the number of people consciously promoting a vote for this satanic APC tells you the number of mad shameless people in this country. Anyone suggesting a vote for APC should be running mad on the streets

apache22b:
I pity the Obidient's urchins that will waste their useless votes on their Grandmaster who's the father of all lies.

Mark my words today, Peter Obi is going no where with his inconsequential lies.

A vote for Tinubu is a vote for a better Nigeria, better Economy, better Security.

Tinubu will single handedly eradicate touts ,Cultism and Agberos in the whole of Nigeria if elected into office.

Peter Obi and his Obidient urchins are only looking for what to eat and impoverish Nigeria even more .

Labour Party is a structureless party and cannot do more than a dead rat, just like the vulture griller [b][/b]

My brothers and sisters be wise and do what is right for a better future for our dear Country

Only Bola Ahmed Tinubu can put Nigeria on the right track again

How much

Spark2:
Hi guys,
I've been invited to the third stage of sterling bank recruitment. This stage is called assesment center and the mail I received reads that the Assessment Centre will test skills such as creativity, critical thinking, analytical skills and digitally savvy skills...

Honestly, I do not know what to expect. Any idea?

Congratulations on getting to this stage brother. You need not quiver much. It's an assessment stage, more like an online aptitude test. You'd be required to answer, I think, 60 questions in 15 minutes. Questions also involves a bit of logical reasoning.

You need not worry much. Your real preparation should be focused on the oral interviews.

But believe God! You'll scale through

Sheyy dem don chop d money clean mouth

Abi somebody wey dem no give share don blow whistle

First, for those saying Papa should have shared money as "poverty alleviation", how significant is the one that your useless Government has shared?

I seriously would have wished some of you make your opinions from a position of knowledge and not because you have to talk trash. Laralek is an indigenous construction company with over a thousand employees on this project working day and night. I am seated close to the site of the project in Canaanland as I type this so I can visibly see what's going on on ground here.

There are specialists in from various fields who are not even Christians and not even members of Winners who are working on this project. Not mentioning the multiplier effect that the project has on the income people earn and the businesses, several of them, that the project impacts on.

How many visible tiny projects has the useless APC Government successfully completed?

hakeem4:
Abeg who is This bald headed eagle man trying to threaten?

What exactly did he say that looks "threatening?". Please enlighten us, Oga that is not bald-headed

@Dreal_Legacy

Accept our heartfelt condolences Richie...May her soul Rest in Peace

Skoopy: I happen to know her in person, we both camped @ Kubwa july 2011.
What i like the most about her is her self confidence. She will go places if only she maintains her focus, afterall, there was a professor @ the university of Calabar who is almost her height.

are u kiddin me? I believe God who created her this way has a good plan for her

Every1 knows that d problem of Nigeria is corruption...I thought identifying a problem is halfway d solution? D obvious challenge now is: How do we remove d breath of a system and expect it not to collapse? Corruption is obviously d breath of dis nation...even OBj bears testimony to this