₦airaland Forum

SmartPolician:
When you see people carry the corpse of someone else, it looks like a log of firewood.

Keeping asking an unreasonable question until these killings get to your family members!

how is fasting?
what are u breaking ur fast with?

Dricker:
dude people were unalived..grow a conscience..

In Zamfghanistan abi?
na internal affairs

SmartPolician:
Killings happening in Nigeria are a testament that Tinubu is incompetent. Do you know what it means to be the commander-in-chief of the armed forces? I bet you don't!

under which government killings no happen?

SmartPolician:
If not for shamelessness among the political elites, how would Tinubu be proud to call himself the president of this slaughterhouse?

if woman for ur house miss period ma u go say na Tinubu

TheStoriesOfMan:
That's how you lots fail IELTS and TEFL.

"An" doesn't apply to all "h" words. It applies to specific words which have a vowel after the h word.

Even at that it still doesn't apply to all words rules.

oya ask d same google (AI) if dem d use "an" in front of "hungry"
Odeh!

TheStoriesOfMan:
Unfortunately, he's correct.

Another example is "an hour"

because "h" for hour dey silent.
u go school so?
na by d vowel sound dem d use "an"

Afrobasic:
A ton of women have rape fantasies, so I am not surprised by this case at all.

u wan d make their dreams come true?

chiiraq802:
One bad gen z baddie for street.
Hi


Me:

u no go twe twe gen z baddie?

adamkkk:
These are irrelevant to an hungry man

see wetin hunger dey cause.
Ogbeni say na "an hungry man"

Dpsychologist:
There is a breakup that does not come with a speech.No dramatic argument. No clean ending. No final talk.

Just… less.

Less effort.
Less affection.
Less presence.

The texts slow down. The calls get shorter. The warmth cools. You start feeling like you are talking to someone who is physically there but emotionally packed and halfway out the door.

You ask what is wrong. They say nothing.
You ask if you are okay. They say you are overthinking. You try harder. They try less.

This is the slow fade.

And it is one of the most manipulative exits in modern relationships.

Some people do not have the courage to say, “I do not want this anymore.” So instead, they engineer your exhaustion. They withdraw slowly. They become inconsistent. They create confusion on purpose.

Why?

Because they do not want to be the villain.

Ending a relationship directly requires ownership. It requires accepting that you are hurting someone. Not everyone has the emotional spine for that. So they push you to do it.

They starve the connection until you snap.

Then when you finally react, when you cry, argue, or walk away, they get to say, “You gave up.”

But let us be clear about something.

Silence is communication.
Distance is a decision.
Emotional neglect is a breakup in progress.

When someone truly wants you, you do not live in confusion. You do not beg for clarity. You do not feel like you are competing with air.

Confusion is not mystery. It is withdrawal.

The cruel genius of the invisible exit is this. They keep giving you just enough to stay, but never enough to feel secure. A breadcrumb here. A kind word there. A good weekend followed by three cold ones.

You stay because you remember how it used to feel.They stay because they are too afraid to end it.

But here is the revolutionary part.

You do not need their formal goodbye to accept reality. You do not need a speech to validate what you are experiencing. If someone consistently shows you reduced effort, reduced care, reduced presence, believe that.

Do not wait to be officially discarded.

If you feel like you are the only one fighting for oxygen in the relationship, the relationship has already ended. You are just the last one still holding on. And walking away from neglect does not make you weak. It makes you awake.

If you have experienced the slow fade, you are not crazy. You are not dramatic. You simply noticed what they hoped you would tolerate.

Name it. See it. And when necessary, walk away.

na me u just describe finish
I never ever start relationship with girl formally and i never end am formally
e d start just like that and e d end just like that.

Samantha125:
Cushions would've only attracted unwanted attention, I carried a sweater instead...😅😅😅

My father visited me that same week and when he asked what was wrong, I lied and told him that I tripped and fell while I was mopping my room, I had already promised him to stay away from campus politics...😂😂😂

Samantha my Kukunase darling, how soft are d cushions of urs that u are talking about?

Double0h7:
She does look too old to be so reckless. She did that shi as an adult.

doubleH0e7 baby, who's harem do u belong to?

What alcoholic wike could not do

LegendHero:
Omo see wetin Mallam use him own hand cause.

He probably listen to all those social media noise telling him he’s some kind of special. Make he go tell DSS who dey give am info.

—He spent his birthday in detention
—First day of Ramadan in detention

sweet sweet detention
even d cell he should be put in should be a midget cell so that space will not be wasted

Damilola0147:
Are you okay?? I asked a simple question and you wrote this nonsense, at the end you still didn’t answer the question. Human beings Dey sha o!

do u have a womb?

Damilola0147:
Never heard of Dangote son. Does he have a son ??

No, only daughters 17 daughters

Chummynoni:
But for an ordinary person to apply for just a post of the clerk in a container office , you must have 15 years experience .

na him choice why e d pain u
u ma go get company so u fit employ people
east people

Adonisty:
Burna boy or Davido could have been a better kill for this feature.

long face or frog voice? nonsense!

Namaster:
Find BAIL money.
'Cause I'm going to the school.
And from there, JAIL.

na how una d fūck up be that.
fess u suppose to report, give net get lawyers wey go follow d case free for u.
u want fess go d school make dem beg u and show remorse make u end up no do ur mind?
storm d school with lawyer and police at once
this advice na $200 consultation but i d give u for free

goslowgoslow:
Wetin this one dey talk?

how is that ur sister?

goslowgoslow:
Good for you.

How is ur sister?

Tinubu why?
Tinubu has started attacking APC chairmen too
Obidients

Helinuss:
Honestly u need to see a psychiatrist

Can u tell me why?

carnal:
As in sombody wife o.
Stanley do sha, e knavk somtin for her bodi but madam Vanessa sef,too do. Married woman wet scatter camp upon how her husband de shower her with love.

See her exact post here 👇🏾 👇🏾👇🏾

MadamVanessa:




Nysc, though this falls into short term relationship, after one year everybody go their separate ways Some go back to continue their relationship that they paused in the cause of national service. I'm ashamed to say this, but Me and Stanley knack Weting no good that year sha.

Akwuna-ma-t0t0, it means don't worry for d rest of NYSC

bnbash:
Why joke with our leadership?

Which leadership?
Fulfude sule of sokoto ?