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[quote author=Mynd_44]well the situation I painted was different from this and that's why in one of my posts, I asked the OP to be explicit next time.

Okay how about this senerio they are both worshippers of ogun and when a problem came up, one party went behind and went to a church for prayers then other party saw a bible and raised an alarm, who is at fault.

**waiting for the "christian appologists" to jump all over it**[/quote]@bolded, If this were the case, then the same thing would apply, as it would be against their belief. So, the thing here is, you deviated from our mutual agreement and as such, there is need to answer for it. Got it?

@Op, you don't need to go head over heel for a girl... You need to develop yourself to become thew high level male and not a low level one.

I can not blame you to have taken this up to this present moment. The thing with such happenings is the fact that, you need to prove to her that, she is the one that stands to gain if the both of you eventually come together. I know one question that would be lingering in your mind at this juncture is; how would I prove it? If you have this in your mind, you have a very good question.. See, you need to turn the table and take control of proceedings.. In this case, this is what I would do if I were you:

For the fact that the both of you have known each other for so long a time, I don't think there is need for her to start giving you that daddy-bullshit thing of I'll think about it. Since that is the case now, don't ask her anything about it anymore. If you can, halt further communications with her. If you can't halt communications with her, try to reduce the rate at which you call or text to the barest minimum and make sure you don't talk anything as regards inquiring her response from your proposal. And if after a week or two she still ain't ready to divulge her response to you, then I would strongly advise that you blank her whole life out...

My point here is, make her feel you don't really need her as she must have sensed before now. If you give her all the attention now, I tell you affirmatively that she would nail your a*ss to the wall and make you suffer for it. That is the conventional way girls act when they know a guy is into them.

I have used this method times without number and I 100% of the times, I ended up the victor. Despite the fact that you want a relationship with her, it doesn't mean you have to work tooth and nail for it. Make her know she stands to gain a lot as much as you do, if not more than you do. Because sometimes these girls think they are doing a guy a favour to say yes to him, and that is one impression that you need to correct..

Bottom line is, don't act cheap. You are the man and the cards should be with you and not her. If you allow her to hold all the cards, you are on your own oooooo.

Good luck.

2sexy: @ dmcdad , sup man no vex say I never call u ooo

I dey bro... Vex for wetin na?

How you side na?? Hope you dey enjoy the season

[quote author=Mynd_44]That was in a way to explain it. If most people see nothing bad in a christian having a bible and/or annoiting oil in their possesion, why shouls it be bad if a believe in èsu have a black stone?[/quote]Guy what are you saying? That will not be bad if that spouse was a believer of the devil and yet the better half accepted him/her before conjugating. But, if it were a case whereby the said spouse was a christian from the outset of the marriage, then chose to go somewhere else along the line, then there is need for one to raise it's eyebrow on this. So, it would be wrong if this were the case... Okay?

[quote author=code_0]Overlook? Why? Because is for protection? Do you think that thing really protects? There is one thing you should know about the devil: he can never do you any good. The devil means the evil one. So tell me how something good can comes from the evil one? The devil only uses those toy things he'll do for you to entice you and then start striking. Beware! Don't support or seek for anything from the devil.[/quote]Gbam!!!

[quote author=Mynd_44]3-4 years? Dude that is long enought to get a university degree and met more that 250,000 girls to make her memory evaporate from your head na.

Abeg you need to wake up from this dream and find better things to do ooo[/quote]Leave am make him continue ooo. Wetin be your own na? You no want make him wait until masters level? I laff him face

Jan8: the melancholy ish, da whole attention thing...etc etc

wow... thats cool

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Keep wooing her. . . She'll reply in the 7th year. Smh.

Are you so fugly that you believe no one else wants you, or you think she is the only one for you?
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Lwtmbo.... As in ehn, I wonder ooooo

NeeFEmi: Me just jokn

Who says I took you serious? That was why I directed you to read my diary so you can notice something u needed to take note of...

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]here are some tips...wait for those guys who shop lift and sell fragrances at 1\4 price downtown whenever u get the chance to buy them, get them and keep stock...anytime she refuses it won't hurt that much cos u knw u bought it at a stupid price [/quote]Hmm.. This is super-cool. You seem to be an expert on this, how come you have so much expertise on this? Your working experience on this must be extreme...

k2039: [color=soyouquotedme]the thought of seminary and priesthood [/color]

Hmm... I see

NeeFEmi: Dude get a girlfriend. I don't mind being ur shuga

Peruse through my diary...

k2039: [color=soyouquotedme]diary [/color]

Does it seem righteous?

k2039: [color=soyouquotedme]His holiness. [/color]

Why?

Jan8: so why don't you have a girlfriend? Why aren't you searching? Wait, lemme guess.
You're the stereotypical serious minded business man with no time for women, fun, tattoos and the like. Am i right?

Nope!!! You are wrong...

Jan8: talk true joor....oya, how old are you?

you think I am lying right You dont expect me to put my age up here. Anywayz, I am in my late twenties....

Jan8: awwww....why

I have not seen.... Besides, I ain't even looking

cigar icon: It happened to me once, I took to her a pack of chocolate and she refused to accept though we had issues the pravious day. So right there in her presence I opened the thing and started eating it. It got her vexed up and as she angrily walked away, I took out my phone and deletet her number. na for there our relationship end oh. Rubbish, u know how much I buy dat chocolate?

Gbam!!! You be correct guy jare. I like your style. No time to tolerate trash

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]is it because u will be broke after that [/quote]Maybe....

poshest: The fact that am disciplined,very smart,lovely dentition and sexy eyes.above all highly spiritual.it has kept me going.

What is your personality type? Type 1