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Romance › Re: Qualities Your Partner Must Have by dmcdad: 11:58pm On Dec 24, 2012

sanb: Hahaha...hope if you find a lady with this, you wouldn't write her off; cos you never can tell especially if she has the other qualities you've mentioned...

No! No!! No!!! Why would I write her off? What I meant was I don't put my eyes out on people's stuffs. I will definitely make my own money, so i don't get enticed by people's things. You know sometimes, some people might think you are with them because of their material possession.

Romance › Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by dmcdad: 11:52pm On Dec 24, 2012

Abbey2sam: Rubbbbish,starting as a friend will only make you a very good friend to that person, mostly with girls you end up in the friends ZONE.
While in the friend ZONE one sharp guy will just be phurking her pussy
......hahaha

Gbam!!!

Romance › Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by dmcdad: 11:49pm On Dec 24, 2012

ceaser: All your replies have actually mirrored my own side to the issue. I've had personal experiences of ladies using annoying terms to wash down guys' romantic relationships with 'em. A lady we've dated for about 9 months (s3x-free though ) gave me the shivers when she replied to my own "I love you baby" with her own version. Guess what it was? "I APPRECIATE you too" - trying to avoid the use of the L- word. What in the hell! Whatever that means. I simply told her- "girl, do i look daft to you? Cos I the last time I checked, love and appreciate doesn't share the same meaning". That point on I got suspicious and later discovered she was slugging it out with a US based eastern bro each time they both travel to the village december for the yuletide (I'm from south west).

Of course I nursed my wounds for few months and got off on another footing and tried to be closer home this time around. Well, I'd say the friend zone part was rather blurry cos we got to like each other almost immediately. Her cold feet again in six months and I was again battling to save my treasured relationship. Damning the effects on me, she broke up saying she needed SOME TIME AND SPACE to re-structure....whatever that means (I suspected she had to do this as she was going for NYSC and wanted a taste of the free life out there and i was still in my 5th year of a bloody 6yr course). Funny thing is she promised we could resume our odessey later on but wanted us to REMAIN AS FRIENDS while she "timed and spaced" it out, playing on my naivety and inexperience. Silly me, I called every other day for several months (oh my pocket money and feeding allowances, dang!). Through perhaps some act of divine providence, I broke free of her bondage and was free to have a promising relationship. In exactly two years after she came knocking, apologising and chanting the mantra - "CAN WE BE FRIENDS AGAIN?" wtf, we've never been enemies before, have we? "Friends" gini? Tufiakwa! This gender, or maybe most of 'em, don't seem to get tired of that line o' lyrics, do they? Friends ko, friends ni! Why make friends with a girl if not for a relationship. That's why the only female friend I'll always have will be my wife.

Gbam!!! You have actually learnt from the school of hard knocks too. I think with your experience, you can tell a lot of people how its going with the friend thing.. But for me, I have never been into that zone, and will never be relegated to that zone..

What is wrong with being friends as we are in a relationship? Because friendship cuts across every other form of intimacy, be it friends, lovers, families, relatives and so on... I think its rather over-emphasized... More like an escape root for them gurlz

Romance › Re: Can You Tattoo The Name Of Your Lover On Any Part Of Your Body? by dmcdad: 11:32pm On Dec 24, 2012

Jan8: so wat's the craziest thing you've ever done for lyf

I have never really done anything worthy to be regarded as crazy

Romance › Re: Do You Believe In Abstinence Till Marriage? by dmcdad: 6:46pm On Dec 23, 2012

ruth42k3: guy na wah for you oo is it becos the guy is not having sex with the lady that means she is having sex with anoda person?hmm dis mentality dat guys have sha.but its always good to wait even biblically dats the instruction giving.

Gbam!!!

Romance › Re: Can You Tattoo The Name Of Your Lover On Any Part Of Your Body? by dmcdad: 6:14pm On Dec 23, 2012

Jan8: you're saying that now. Wait till you fall in love...

And what if I do fall in love? I will now stamp someone's name on my body? Nah! That would be gross my dear

Romance › Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by dmcdad: 3:10pm On Dec 23, 2012

SniperInADiaper: what if things change and you and your friend want to pursue a relationship?
Just because you are friends with somebody doesn't mean you can't be something else later.

Are you saying whenever you have a chance of going into a relationship with a guy, u be-cloud your mind with pessimism and premonitions huh

Buh, you will also agree with me that in often cases, friends from the outset might mean friends forever. What would a guy do at such juncture?

Don't you realise that there are dangerz that lie in being friends first especially on the part of the guy?

Please, see right through me and understand where I am driving at.

Romance › Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by dmcdad: 2:47pm On Dec 23, 2012

SniperInADiaper: Only because they don't want to lose a good friend if the relationship goes bad.

If the relationship goes bad? That is pessimism. That's balderdash to me. If I come for friendship, then we can be in for friendship. Nut if I come for a relationship and she ain't dispose to accept me, then we go our separate ways. What am I doing with a lady's friendship?

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Romance › Re: Am I Just One Of His Many Gfs by dmcdad: 2:06pm On Dec 23, 2012

byvan: Whatever u do,keep your legs closed oooooooo!!!!!!

lol

Romance › Re: Can You Tattoo The Name Of Your Lover On Any Part Of Your Body? by dmcdad: 1:28pm On Dec 23, 2012

2sexy: you have an email bro.

Same to you.

Romance › Re: Can You Tattoo The Name Of Your Lover On Any Part Of Your Body? by dmcdad: 12:57pm On Dec 23, 2012

Jan8: shebi na love tinz na

Yes ooo buh it's uncalled for na Ahan!

Romance › Re: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by dmcdad: 12:14pm On Dec 23, 2012*

ceaser: Na wa o. You dey vex fa.

Guy! It's not as if I am perturbed or angered by this phenomenon, but the thing is; this is a pretty common theme in many romantic movies… You see the nice guy becoming friends with the girl….He does everything to keep her happy and eventually they fall in love and live happily ever after.

Now reality doesn’t really work that way, and in fact in reality it’s the exact opposite of what you see in the movies, because once you fall
into the “friends zone” the female will never see you as a potential lover.

In the end, you will always be considered as just a friend, and she will only treat you like one of her girlfriends in a male form and nothing more.

In fact, when you make your move or try to let her know that you are interested in more than just friendship, she would freak out and would most probably avoid you from that point on.

Fact- Never be friends with a woman if you want to be her lover.

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Romance › Re: What Am I Supposed To Do.... by dmcdad: 11:53am On Dec 23, 2012

2sexy: I have just replied you, bro.

I just did the same...

Romance › Re: Ladies Listen by dmcdad: 11:40am On Dec 23, 2012

[quote author=oko-oloyun]Na becoz we don dey enter festive period that was d reason Op came up with dis. Guys no escape route for us ooo, we must pay them![/quote]Which work them do for una wey una wan pay them huh

Romance › Re: Marriage by dmcdad: 11:36am On Dec 23, 2012

Wedding cancel be that na. No too much story for that one since she can't wait for another extra day to have sex...

I go use speed cancel the wedding shapaly

Romance › Re: Women Only Like Men That Other Women Do. by dmcdad: 11:35am On Dec 23, 2012

jacobscros: A lady will only be attracted to you fully based on how she thinks other girls see you. if other girls want you then u are acceptable to her. if oother girls ignore you then u have no chance in he'll. how true are these words?

To say that a lady will only be attracted to you fully on how she thinks other girls see you is wrong. Though it's one of the basis of attraction from ladies, but that is not to say she will only be attracted to you fully based on how she thinks other girls see you.

There are other basis that tends to attract ladies towards a guy.

Romance › Re: Nairaland is good by dmcdad: 11:21am On Dec 23, 2012

Jambsupport: dos we see out there r d ones using nl so no big ish abt it

Gbam!!!

Romance › Re: What Am I Supposed To Do.... by dmcdad: 11:20am On Dec 23, 2012

^^^ What does that mean? Just curious

Romance › Re: Can You Tattoo The Name Of Your Lover On Any Part Of Your Body? by dmcdad: 11:19am On Dec 23, 2012

Jan8: then you remove the tattoo ni

So if you date like 5 guyz in a year, you go remove tattoo reach 5 timez? Na wa oooo huh

Romance › Re: Girls. by dmcdad: 11:07am On Dec 23, 2012

I think because they are at receiving end, a passive one, they want to feel it with the core of their heart so they don't want to see outside, and as such, keep their eyes shut. It could also be because women enjoy kissing deeply than men who simply kiss. Or maybe because she feels true love with her beloved and enjoys it.

Romance › Re: If Given The Permission To Be Unfaithful, Would You Cheat On Your Partner? by dmcdad: 10:50am On Dec 23, 2012

I will never try it!

On the part of what you wrote about your fiancee, like someone rightly said, it's a mind game she played there.. I know of someone whom, whenever he wants to travel outta town, his wife would give him lots of condoms to take along with him. She does that for certain reasons; to be safe from any infection and/or disease that might be contacted. It is also a way of fighting infidelity indirectly, using the mind game method (your conscience will hunt you)..

There are two outcomes on this: one is to play along with the fact that you will sleep around while using protection and the other is to refrain from it and try as much as you can to change her perception towards you as regards having sex outside your relationship and/or marriage with her.

But, I'd advise you to try as much as you can to refrain from any sexual activity. It is not good to for a woman to have such impression about a man.

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Romance › Re: Can You Tattoo The Name Of Your Lover On Any Part Of Your Body? by dmcdad: 10:29am On Dec 23, 2012

I dey mad ni huh

First of all, I dislike tattoos and secondly, I cannot fit to do that at all...

Romance › Re: What Am I Supposed To Do.... by dmcdad: 10:20am On Dec 23, 2012

I felt crest-fallen after reading your piece. It is so disheartening to note that you have to go through all these emotional trauma... I really do feel your pain cause as I read through, I just pictured myself in your situation using my mind's eye, and I really felt the infliction.

First and foremost, you have made a very big mistake in life to forfeit a job interview for just a girl. C'mon! What were you thinking? Sorry to say, but that is foolishness of the highest order. Jeez! Now see what it has begot for you. The same person that made you to forfeit job interviews is the one who dumps you because you are yet to find a job.

It is so glaring that she left cause you are yet to get a job and as such, slowing her pace. But I want to make a prophesy in your life: In no distant time, you will rejoice. You will have the course to reminisce on this and give special thanks to God. Before the first quarter of 2013 elapses you will find a job; and not just any job but, a very lucrative one. Just be prayerful and be steadfast as you wait for God to manifest His mighty hand in your life. I want to also promise you of one thing; this very girl will regret the day she ever came up with that decision to want-out. I assure you!!!

The thing is, you don't need to worry about a thing. At least you have learnt from the school of hard knocks. I think in subsequent relationships, this would help in prioritizing things more rationally. Also, reflecting upon this experience, and acting accordingly will give you a true control in subsequent relationships.

There is a purpose for everything in life, just keep your fingers crossed and watch as things unfold.

Forget about her for good. There is nothing you would do now to make her come back to you, except you are able to secure a job in a blink of an eye and she gets to know how lucrative it is, but even at that, I don't think you would want to be foolish enough to accept back someone who threw you to the trash because of your present predicament.

Guy!!! Lock-up and put yourself back together again. What lies ahead is far greater than what you are experiencing now.

Wish you all the best. Ndo oooooooo

Romance › Re: What Do Women Realy Want by dmcdad: 9:27am On Dec 23, 2012

olumaxi: jst to let u knw dat,d nature of women not knoin wat they want has been embeded in dia biological structure

Gbam!!!

Christianity Etc › Re: Pope Benedict Pardons Ex-butler by dmcdad: 9:19am On Dec 23, 2012

Ma Angwa: My friend do u really know ur bible. U shuld remember that d bible say no sinner shall go unpunished,even if the sins are forgiven. He is serving the punishment of his sins while been forgiven. Sentiments apart, let's always think normal.

Leave people who want to blab and fool themselves to do so. Instead of him to be rational, he just wrote trash out of his low and meagre mind

Romance › Re: Why Women Cry More Than Men? by dmcdad: 5:37am On Dec 23, 2012

delkuf: ask google

Lol

Computers › Re: I Need Help. My Laptop Boots Up To Start-up Menu And Pause by dmcdad: 12:01am On Dec 23, 2012

Can you give a detailed explanation of the entire process huh

It would really help to proffer solution on what to do. Don't re-format just yet, lets get the full detail

Romance › Re: Qualities Your Partner Must Have by dmcdad: 11:30pm On Dec 22, 2012

k2039: She must be intelligent, beautiful and busty.

Badt guy. Lol grin

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