₦airaland Forum

Caracta: Hmmm. Nice thread. Ladies need to respect themselves. Jeez, why can't people just keep their legs closed?

Abi oooo

andromida: I really do not care for you and others respect and disrespect. Why must I toeline your thoughts and opinion.Abeg free me make better men take better advice jor.

I see...

donkarly: Pls what time is barca's match?

6pm...

Bitter kola... Abi you no like am?

anulaxad: THAT COMMENT DOES NOT EXIST

Okay sir....

andromida: Instead of you too to take the message and leave the messenger but no here we go.......... And so sowwwie there aren't many like me.

I don't mean to disrespect you in whatever way buh if you are who you claim, then you shouldn't have come up with this post "What about words of advice to men to be responsible to the society they live in afterall they are to be the leaders and the best leaders lead by example. Which is why majority of men end up with fairly used that they all want to avoid.I love how what goes ard comes around. Life is indeed beautiful" and this "May God help all the unmarried men to the right path and partner!".

Personally I wouldn't do so cause I know I ain't like that. So, if you know you ain't among such groups being discussed, you had better refrain from countering it so you don't give people a wrong impression about you. Because often times, people who tend to counter pieces like this are guilty of it, and thereby making them to be fussy. Okay?

anulaxad: if this house is built it will be on the top ten most expensive houses in the world

Nah... That's false. The tenth most expensive house in the world costs $135million. It should be between the twelfth and fourteenth.

anulaxad: no its nots you did not check before you wrote your comment Nigerians you make me laugh[b] if this house is built it will be the third most expensive house in the world[/b]

What are you arguing about? 16B Naira is an equivalent of 100Million Dollars..

But the third most expensive house is The Penthouse, London, England – $200 million.

So, get your facts right.

Sagamite: If I was in their shoes, I wouldn't.

Don't think my moral values are at your level.

That is by the way, I am more bothered by your statement of saying "this obviously has nothing to do with JB".

An organisation that has been enmeshed in the public corruption system of Nigeria.

I don't think you would even spend $100m if you were going to build a residence for the US Vice president that would save him from a North Korea nuclear attack, talkless of a useless third world country where security needs is not as high.

@ first bolded.. Hold it there! You don't know anything about my level of morality or ethics. So don't make assertions you can't prove. Okay? I only asked you a question based on a convention with the Nigerian system, that is not to say I would do so myself.

@second bolded... WHat I meant was that, one should not focus on JB as the villain on this as it's a company and not an individual in the sense that, it's out for business. That is not to say it doesnt have it's own fault like I stated in my earlier post, but they shouldn't be the ones to blame.

@last bolded... That is the more reason why I don't want to attribute the blame to the company in charge of the job, but rather the VP and those that signed/awarded such contract..

heed101: what if u now discovered that she z not a virgin on d 9ite of your wedding. Wetin u go do. #shalaye

WAEC Question... Lol

duni04: Exactl! that's y I hate cliches. They don't capture everyone, most times they just represent someone's personal experience. So many different people out there. Depends on d type of person ur dealing with. U can't go and dull urself doing friendship first B4 relationship with a loose girl while she's doing oda guys. And den if she's responsible, it'll make sense 2 b friends first b4 anything. In d same s.tupid way most girls think d way 2 a guys hrt is tru his stomach, some guys think d way 2 a girls hrt is between her legs, hit her there and d hrt is urs.

You are right bruv.... What works with some, might not work with others. The thing with me is, I have a pre-defined way of going about what I do, and that's the principle that guides me in whoever I meet. I don't cut-out for that daddy-bullshit of being friends first before going into relationship. If you don't want to have a relationship with me, then you tell me point-blank rather than make me hang around as if I don't have a destination. Infact! My style is, if I do the talking and you choose to keep yourself at bay, I would just stop further communication with you, whenever you are ready, you can bell me.

I ain't got time to tolerate trash from anyone.

sundaybam: Yeah. Just to study her first and know whether she keep a lot of guyz b4 jumping into relationship with her.

My study process takes place before approaching her. That way, she won't have anything to hide just to please or convince me otherwise.. I seldom approach a gurl I do not know into-to.

Sagamite: And you think they will have no corrupt hand in getting the grotesque inflated contract?

Sure! This is Nigeria. They might be guilty of that. If you were in their shoes, won't you do the same? That is not to say they are the ones to blame. They wouldn't have a hand if they weren't given the contract in the first place. So, I think we should focus more(that does not mean they (JB) are clean out-rightly) on the source rather than JB.

Ata rodo

andromida: May God help all the unmarried men to the right path and partner!

Amen!!! Since most of you ladies have decided to be too benevolent and magnanimous with your punny, it's only God that would really help us out in finding virtuous ones unlike you... (Una dey do "givers never lack" for una punny. Lol)

luvmijeje: op thanks 4 those words of wisdom.

God bless you wherever you are..

@andromida... <<<Instead of you to take the message and forget about the messenger, the reverse is the case for you and many like you...

Instead of them to take the lesson and see how to work in-line with it, they would want to refer the same matter against a guy. I am not saying men don't falter in their own way. If a one wants to raise issues about men, then do that on a new thread rather than counter men on a thread meant to educate the ladies.

That's why some of you will never learn.

laykhorn: i also hope they learn to know their worth too.. I've replied your mail.

Yeah you are right... There are more to being cheap than saying yes to a guy on the first date. They should take note of that.

Replied your email.

Nice one bruv... I just hope ladies will live and learn from stuffs like this. It really pisses me off the way and manner a lot of ladies give out their punny thinking that a guy will leave if they don't, and at the same time, eventually losing the guy because he never meant to stay.

Sometimes, it is not the fault of the men, as there are lots of ladies out there too who can't just hold themselves together without sex, and thereby compelling the guy to do the needful. Only if the see things rightly would a lot of them restore the dignity they deserve.

A lot might even find this piece offensive, while some will applaud you for putting up such but in real life will do otherwise...

Ladies hearken to this and gain the respect and dignity you really deserve.

50calibre: When I say being born a Nigerian is like a curse or plague, some say I'm a pessimist.

Please tell me a country in the world where N16 billion of government money is used to build a house for just one man whereas many people struggle to survive, struggle to have three square meals, have no good road or electricity, have no jobs.

Julius Berger obviously want to get their own share of the national cake

This obviosuly has nothing to do with JB as they were only awarded the contract. We should be pointing accusing fingers to The VP and Co...

Koolking: Summon! Summon!! Summon!!!. . . Caveat: Anticipating prosecution at your own risk. Summon is a norm in the polity called Nigeria. Summon is a mean to give a pat on the shoulder and nod for national award

Lol

goldfish80: N16b is too much to build a house fø̲̣̣я̅ one man απϑ his family! No need to setup a probe panel/commitee/taskforce/private/public hearing. Its not that difficult to figure out joor

This is not hard to figure out as it is very glaring.... May God help us all

[quote author=John_son]most of u in nairaland are just kids.there sum of us who are master in d game.a girl can't get d real me no mata hw long u'r my friend.even my girl of so many yrs don't d oda side of me.Yield,com and b my friend[/quote]Thats one thing alot of gurlz don't know. If you decide to keep a guy at the friend zone in hopes that you will get to know him well before taking it to the next level, some guyz are just too intelligent that they would always play on gurls' intelligence. Make them relax jare. Which kind friends wan be that one...?

Pyrrho: 4get any of these love tips nd sh.ts. In real life, anyWAY is a WAY! Bt a long-lasting relationship requires friendship (understanding, tolerating, believing, needing, wanting, lusting, trusting) before or after sex.

Gbam!!! things happen dynamically in real world scenarios...

[b]It depends on different individuals... Some gurls like it that way; that is, to be friends from the outset, and then going further to be lovers. Other gurls don't like that, as friends from the beginning will always be friends and nothing more.. This is borne out of the variant nature of gurls.

Personally, if I come for a relationship and you decide to keep me at bay, I'd gladly forfeit everything cause if I needed to be just friends with a gurl, I think I would just do that from the outset and kill any hopes of having something more to do with her. Buh on the other hand, it's either we are in a relationship or we are apart from each-other in every way.. I seldom keep friends with females, buh if I have a gurl-friend, she automatically becomes my friend; and not just my friend, but my best friend as well as my lover.

So, if you are a gurl and you expect me to wait while you do whatever you like all in the name of going by convention (making the guy wait), you are on your own. After-all, no be by force (just tell me say you no want so that I go lock up, as "I no buy, I no sell no dey cause wahala". I always give a considerable time of about 2 weeks, if that's not enough to make her decide, then she can f**k-off!!! More-over, I have got nothing to lose...

Friendship before relationship kor, friendship before relationship ni.[/b]

okpara ugo: I was single for 26yrs, broke up, broke down, broke record and am still single.

I give thanks.

lol... if i hear that one ehn!

Hate!!!

Morgan1092: Not rily, bt considering dat i hv bin having sex b4 we met. Don't u tink it wil b hard 2 suddenly cut it off i.e. Start staying off sex?

It's never hard. It all depends on your kinda person. If you are the type that is too attached to having sex, then it would be very hard for you. Buh, if you are not the too-freaked type when it comes to sex, then it would be a work-over.

I'm writing from experience.

^^^ True talk. It's fallacious to think in such light.

Idowuogbo: I phoned u..some man picked up, he say hin na Babalawo tested and trusted and hes offering 10% discount on love portion. Is dat u?

I think that's him cause I called too and got the same response. Lmao

Wish you well in your search bruv..