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[quote author=mondi_cheeks]If its his mess he cleans it up...I have my own place to clean up[/quote] WTH!

[quote author=Mynd_44]Just saying[/quote]Yeah I get u

[quote author=Mynd_44]Amazing as this sounds, I rarely check people's profiles and I won't be checking yours[/quote]hmm.. That's cool

[quote author=Mynd_44]You need some glasses mate[/quote]Check on ma pix u will see I've got one...

[quote author=Mynd_44]What do you see?[/quote]I see u.. Lol

[quote author=baby_123]Hey buddy, i asked you a simple question and you turned it into a big issue. Learn to communicate nicely and maybe you will be heard. You were immediately on the defensive. You dont need to go around boasting and throwing insults. It is what it is. At the end of the day your attitude drove her out. try to change. From where i started, you response was not even needed. You shouldnt have bothered if you wanted to be confrontational. it is a turn off. Who knows, maybe she couldnt handle your attitude.[/quote]Thats the probs with u. U dnt knw me 1 bit yet u keep saying I drove her with my attitude just becuz of d way I am sounding nw. U see! Thats bad of u. Anywayz, I hate personal faceoffs with pple in order to avoid insults and all that crap. It's all good. Buh I think we got off the wrong foot and I'm far more than what u think of me...

Just so u knw.. Ur 1st msg to me was a bit personal. That was why I responded rather unusually. Try to read my diary to know a bit about my kinda personality.

Have a very good evening.

[quote author=baby_123]You obviously have an issue with comprehension and are jumping the gun. Have you ever cheated on a girl that was nice to you? Yes or no? No one is fighting you here. The way you are quick to start fighting for no reason, i see why she may have preferred someone else. Abeg, dont take your anger out on me jare. Go and face the girl. Nothing stopped you from moving on, you CHOSE to stay.[/quote]Don't u think u are the 1 who can't comprehend? I stated it categorically that I've NEVA cheated in my life? If u have a very good and foundational knowledge of comprehension, after what I stated it would be redundant to ask if I had cheated on someone that was nice to me (when I already stated that I have neva cheated).

Preferred someone u say... I can bet my life that u have neva dated someone as complete as myself. I ain't bragging! Buh I'm one of a kind and a sui-generis guy. Do u think some people cheat cuz they dnt have what they want? No! Its sometimes becuz they are neva satisfied with what they have. You just proved how short-sighted u are.

I ditched her afterall and didnt feel any pain one bit. I am still the last man standing that will get heartbroken..

I just need you to learn. We ain't fighting buh you seem to have taken it personal.

I like it when people argue with facts and figures, not with mere assertions.

Stay blessed my dear.

[quote author=baby_123]So you want to claim that you have never cheated on a girl that was nice to you? Just because you became lover boy numero uno in that relationship, doesnt wipe your past misdeeds away. You are still the same person, and both of you fit perfectly. The leg was just on the other shoe. If you have ben faithful to all your girlfriends in the past, then you simply move on and find someone like you. You dont go to the papers and take it out on the world like Mr. Agbaje here.[/quote]@bolded, I ain't claiming, it's the reality whether u accept it or not. I just wanted to clear u on that popular saying that; u attract who u are.. That's not very true. Moreover, u made mention of my past misdeeds. You don't know me, do u? Don't make silly assertions. It's not funny. It seems u need more enlightement cuz u are not being logical here

raystanley: Wht a coincident! Recently i insisted my partner & i take an oat cos we really love each other.

Na only oat una b wan tk? Una 4 tk golden morn join am. Mtchewww. 4 dis mordern age...

[quote author=baby_123]You attract who you are, dont complain. If you are a nice, hardworking man that treats his WOMAN not GIRL well. You will get a good woman who will treat you well. But if you are an agbero, you will get agberos. Even if she was not an agbero you will turn her into one for survival sake. You are what you attract. If you want a good woman, work on yourself. You cant value beauty and fashion sense and not be expected to pay for it one way or the other. [/quote]I agree with u to some extent, buh not entirely.. There are cases whereby someone attracts an opposite. The last person I dated cheated on me several times, whereas I have never cheated all my life. I was extra nice & she took advantage of my simplicity. Although, I was aware of her unfaithfulness 4rm d outset, I decided 2 play d fool 2 see if she would change.. Yet! She didn't.. Unknown to her, I always get a sign when someone is cheating on me, even in my absense. Anywayz, in d long run I ditched her. So, bottom line is that, it's not always true to say that u attract who u are...

[quote author=baby_123]You attract who you are, dont complain. If you are a nice, hardworking man that treats his WOMAN not GIRL well. You will get a good woman who will treat you well. But if you are an agbero, you will get agberos. Even if she was not an agbero you will turn her into one for survival sake. You are what you attract. If you want a good woman, work on yourself. You cant value beauty and fashion sense and not be expected to pay for it one way or the other. [/quote]I agree with u to some extent, buh not entirely.. There are cases whereby someone attracts an opposite. The last person I dated cheated on me several times, whereas I have never cheated all my life. I was extra nice & she took advantage of my simplicity. Although, I was aware of her unfaithfulness 4rm d outset, I decided 2 play d fool 2 see if she would change.. Yet! She didn't.. Unknown to her, I always get a sign when someone is cheating on me, even in my absense. Anywayz, in d long run I ditched her. So, bottom line is that, it's not always true to say that u attract who u are...

[quote author=Mynd_44]Means I don't know if she is yet[/quote]I see...

CosmicJames: I was not in search when I found mine. I just stumbled on her and decide to make her the one.
We are not married yet, at the time, we are still friends (No dating)But I intend to marry her if everything turns out as planned by me. She is not aware of my decision for some reasons.



Btw, I'm still single as well.


I wish u d best in ur search. Good luck!

Dude, I ain't searching..

[quote author=Mynd_44]I am trying her out[/quote]What does that imply?

Ofunaofu: I'm yet to make a choice

Which means there are options. Right?

oyin50: . Absolutely correct dearie, but the fact is women are distinctly different from men, it has degenerated to a point where I hear some girls say if a man cheats why can't I cheat, it's crazy. True, naija men aren't the best of character especially when it comes to promicuity but that shouldn't tilt our sanctity as women. A virtous woman is highly valuable to a wise man not azonto dancing kiddos.

One bottle of baileys 4 u jare... I love realists

CAMEROONPRIDE: ^ most? what are the statistics?

That's just an assertion

Still single, buh I don't bother myself searching...

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]But there are more women that are wife material than there are husband material cos were are probably looking 1,8% tht are husband material [/quote]

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]But there are more women that are wife material than there are husband material cos were are probably looking 1,8% tht are husband material [/quote]Gosh! She's back with another assertion

plendil: Simple as 'Do Re Me'. . .

Far Soh Lar Tea Doh'

[quote author=Mynd_44]What makes you think he would understand If he does not get himself?[/quote]Well, na true sha...

phemi01: He only said 25% are wife materials.

If u are a wife material, there's no need to kill yourself over this man's statement. Let your conscience judge you.

Abi o... Na guilt dy wori dm...

pfii: I can proudly raise my head up anywhere and at any time to say that the man who will eventually marry me is proudly a very lucky man. Even if he narrows it down to 1%, I am d 1% he's talking about!

God bless u bountifully.. If u know urself, even if d stat is at 0.1%, u'll b confident enough that u'll b there.. Galz who kill themselves in d protest against this know they r guity.. Make them no force am

odum desmond: Seconded!!! Unlike our mums, women of today have the mindset of consuming rather than building whereas the primary puropse God created Eve for Adam was to be a helpmate/ helper !!! In my empire building quest, any woman who is not ready to help mould the blocks will be shown the way out.

shown the way out? I won't even allow u to come in... Dm wan reap where them no sow? Mafìosìs

2sexy: Your own don pass super story

That guy dy jonze o..

[quote author=Mynd_44]the guy did not deserve something that long jorh[/quote]Y naw?

kaycrystal: seem you are still attracted to some things about the babe, whatever dem things are, na u know!
i am so certain if u leave d babe now, u'll most likely beg her back...

u are a classic example of those that will never leave a bad relationship till something drastic happens.

ur eyes never open, so maybe u shd stay till u have had enough.

until then, guy stop complaining and and kip carrying ur cross!

Abi...

[quote author=Mynd_44]@Dmcdad, do you really thing the OP deserves a reply that long?[/quote]Nope! I just didn't wanna be led by my emotions as regards the issue, else, na 1 line i 4 write & no b beta tin i 4 write cuz e dy annoying kinda

safarigirl: Why aren't the other 75% marriage material? Is it because they refuse to cater to your every whim? Or because they stand their ground rather than cower away when you challenge them? Or because they don't want to be locked up in a man's house living the life of more or less a slave? Or because they want a man who can afford to provide comfort for themselves and their kids? Or cos they don't want to end up in the house of a man with no future ambition who just sucks them dry and hinders their progress without appreciating their efforts? Thank you sir, but it's not like we're buying scratch cards to get a Nigerian man for a husband either. Chauvinists can now attack

@bolded, this ain't about chauvinists invasion. The statistic might be misleading, buh that doesn't take the reality away 4rm what he said

omenziate: Me: oga mi,good morning, i wan buy wife material
Sales person: Na 6billion Naira o
Me : Haba, why e come cost like dis na?
Sales person : shuo, you no no say e scarce abi na moon u fall from, waka go find am na.
Me : thank u oga mi, make I carry my money go do better tin abeg.

Lwtmb.. You no come buy again ni?

honeric01: 5-20 women flirt and sleeps with 1 player

so if we have 100 male players we are going to be having 1,000 to 2,000 female free-giver.

Agreed. Cuz the ratio of d population of women to mean is like 5:1