dmcdad:

I agree with u to some extent, buh not entirely.. There are cases whereby someone attracts an opposite. The last person I dated cheated on me several times, whereas I have never cheated all my life. I was extra nice & she took advantage of my simplicity. Although, I was aware of her unfaithfulness 4rm d outset, I decided 2 play d fool 2 see if she would change.. Yet! She didn't.. Unknown to her, I always get a sign when someone is cheating on me, even in my absense. Anywayz, in d long run I ditched her. So, bottom line is that, it's not always true to say that u attract who u are...

dmcdad:

I agree with u to some extent, buh not entirely.. There are cases whereby someone attracts an opposite. The last person I dated cheated on me several times, whereas I have never cheated all my life. I was extra nice & she took advantage of my simplicity. Although, I was aware of her unfaithfulness 4rm d outset, I decided 2 play d fool 2 see if she would change.. Yet! She didn't.. Unknown to her, I always get a sign when someone is cheating on me, even in my absense. Anywayz, in d long run I ditched her. So, bottom line is that, it's not always true to say that u attract who u are...

oyin50: . @Babyy mama every man by virtue of nature is attracted to beauty, the reason why we feel good girls have to be ugly is because Negros does not have a high percentage of beauties hence the few once feeling bloated.

baby_123:

Obe to dun, owo lo pa. . Look for a simple girl that doesnt lay emphasis on her beauty. There are many pretty ones like that. But dont prefer flashy and shiny things and not expect to part with your money. With the way the economy is, even ugly girls are not smiling. So go and put all your energy on a farm and work hard for your future family. Life is not easy again! Nobody is smiling.

oyin50: . @Babyy mama every man by virtue of nature is attracted to beauty

baby_123:

So you want to claim that you have never cheated on a girl that was nice to you? Just because you became lover boy numero uno in that relationship, doesnt wipe your past misdeeds away. You are still the same person, and both of you fit perfectly. The leg was just on the other shoe. If you have ben faithful to all your girlfriends in the past, then you simply move on and find someone like you. You dont go to the papers and take it out on the world like Mr. Agbaje here.

baby_123:

Obe to dun, owo lo pa. . Look for a simple girl that doesnt lay emphasis on her beauty. There are many pretty ones like that. But dont prefer flashy and shiny things and not expect to part with your money. With the way the economy is, even ugly girls are not smiling. So go and put all your energy on a farm and work hard for your future family. Life is not easy again! Nobody is smiling.

dmcdad:

@bolded, I ain't claiming, it's the reality whether u accept it or not. I just wanted to clear u on that popular saying that; u attract who u are.. That's not very true. Moreover, u made mention of my past misdeeds. You don't know me, do u? Don't make silly assertions. It's not funny. It seems u need more enlightement cuz u are not being logical here

pfii:

It's not about my facial picture. It's about the picture of my heart. It's about giving my man the kind of atmosphere in our home that will make him always hate Mondays and look forward to Fridays.
It's about me being his Spinal cord, without me he can stand up str8.
It's about praying and fasting for him when he doesn't even know I'm doing all that.
It's about helping him find great avenues to turn his cowries into kobo and his kobo into Naira and his Naira into £ ¥ € $.
It has nothing to do with d "tongue out" fake dps I put up.

oyin50: . Aunty mi, a part of where my mom's from beauty is a norm so obe to dun owo lo pa doesn't work there.

mondi_cheeks: that's true. A lot of woman love nice things (that cost money) but is doesn't mean choosing a men according to his wallet is right. Jus becos u love the way a woman ooks doesn't not automatically mean she will change to be the wife mterial u wnt her to be... If men want to save themselves from such much disappointment they have to change wht they look for in a woman who will be his wife one day

baby_123:

So why are you complaining? I said look for the simple pretty ones. The shiny and flashy ones, obe to dun owo lo pa.

ichidodo: And what is that? Guys my age look for ladies who r ready to b swept off their feet. But the ladies are after tall,dark and handsome or rich,wrinkly and bloated. I don tire.

baby_123:

You obviously have an issue with comprehension and are jumping the gun. Have you ever cheated on a girl that was nice to you? Yes or no? No one is fighting you here. The way you are quick to start fighting for no reason, i see why she may have preferred someone else. Abeg, dont take your anger out on me jare. Go and face the girl. Nothing stopped you from moving on, you CHOSE to stay.

Baby mama:

Rofl
Look at that man now
I wish I could reach into my computer and punch those kpomo lips
If na somebody like Dino Melaye I will say at least that one dey fine and pleasing to the eyes
Not this Ocho passenger

honeric01:

Are you for real?



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But why are you looking for a 30-45yrs man na if truly you believe in growing old and building with your man?

honeric01:

Are you for real?



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But why are you looking for a 30-45yrs man na if truly you believe in growing old and building with your man?

pfii: I'm a 23 years old young lady.
I'm a graduate.
Lived in lagos all my life but am an Igbo gal.
I'm very single but searching for a man who is serious and wants to settle down soon. I'm searching for a man from age 30-45.

Only extremely serious minded persons should drop their nums, bb pins or e-mail address.

dmcdad:
Don't u think u are the 1 who can't comprehend? I stated it categorically that I've NEVA cheated in my life? If u have a very good and foundational knowledge of comprehension, after what I stated it would be redundant to ask if I had cheated on someone that was nice to me (when I already stated that I have neva cheated).

Preferred someone u say... I can bet my life that u have neva dated someone as complete as myself. I ain't bragging! Buh I'm one of a kind and a sui-generis guy. Do u think some people cheat cuz they dnt have what they want? No! Its sometimes becuz they are neva satisfied with what they have. You just proved how short-sighted u are.

I ditched her afterall and didnt feel any pain one bit. I am still the last man standing that will get heartbroken..

I just need you to learn. We ain't fighting buh you seem to have taken it personal.

I like it when people argue with facts and figures, not with mere assertions.

Stay blessed my dear.

lola.luv:

Gots to study for my examination!

mondi_cheeks: all the best

baby_123:

Hey buddy, i asked you a simple question and you turned it into a big issue. Learn to communicate nicely and maybe you will be heard. You were immediately on the defensive. You dont need to go around boasting and throwing insults. It is what it is. At the end of the day your attitude drove her out. try to change. From where i started, you response was not even needed. You shouldnt have bothered if you wanted to be confrontational. it is a turn off. Who knows, maybe she couldnt handle your attitude.

honeric01:

Are you for real?



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But why are you looking for a 30-45yrs man na if truly you believe in growing old and building with your man?

oyin50: . This is the only woman has has made sense here and distinguished herself from the cheap talking materialistic defenders. That would do anything upon sighting a range rover and dinner in Sheraton. Pls these girls should shut up. And whoever knows berem should educate her on her attitude and speech, using the f word compulsively for a true naija chick isn't vogue but local and wannabe like.

mondi_cheeks: if those women end up wit a monster, they shldnt complain, and if those guys end up wit a beast trapped in a beauty's body, they shouldn't complain either its as simple as that

sexsinners: Guys ,this is ridiculous,no man should be depending on any person let alone their girlfriend to build their own success.My father always told me i shouldn't date untili am ready to be a husband. aka finished school and have a job.

the last thing i would do is wimp down and ask my girlfriend to help me build my success cause am too lazy and wimpy to do it on my own.

MEN GROW UP AND BE MEN, NOT WIMPS OR VICTIMS.A WOMEN SHOULD NOT EVEN COME 50 FEETS NEAR YOU. WHEN YOU R
JOBLESS AND YOU GET HER BELLIE,WHAT WILL YOU DO,ASK HER MAMA AND PAPA TO SUPPORT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY.

god did not put you on this earth to depend on people,especially a girl,its not her responsibility or job to help build you,you should of already built yourself.

this is posted by a responsible ready made man.stop giving yourself excuses and get your ass to work.

pfii: I can proudly raise my head up anywhere and at any time to say that the man who will eventually marry me is proudly a very lucky man. Even if he narrows it down to 1%, I am d 1% he's talking about!

ichidodo: All i just want is my 25 percent. Is that too much too ask?#breaks down in tears#

okpara ugo:

In a bid to get a wife, my guy has been hoodwinked by several ladies. He approches them on a marital stance, he dates them for say 5months and talks about marrige along the line. On proposing, he finds out the girl doesnt even have marriage in mind, she was just playing along to siphoon his money. About 3 ladies have done this to him and he never slept with any of them yet he has parted with so much cash. Yes, they are all around 24/25yrs old while he is about 30. This shows you those ladies dont want to build with him.

Now one of them came back to say she is now interested after being jilted by another guy she was expecting marriage from. Sincere marriageable men know that an average Nigerian girl is deceitful and a money monger.

ijebabe:

All the same, it is true that there are some Nigerian girls/women who will do anything to be with a rich man, or Bleep their way to get money or whatever it is they are after. It upsets me that these girls/women are comfortable with their lifestyle and I wouldn't want my brothers or friends to end up with or like such people. If you want to have a 'good time' then that's your choice but don't go demanding for money and gifts because you feel its your right for spreading your legs!

The problem I find with these threads is that the men act like they are innocent in all of this and are very quick to judge and criticize ALL Nigerian women. How can you men expect Nigerian women to become better people to themselves and society if you keep insulting and demoralizing them? For some guys here it's just for fun but some guys take it really seriously.
When you as a man, feel a woman is only good for fucking (no matter your age or status) why do you suddenly expect them to have moral codes and uphold values which you do not possess?

Decisions you make now have a way of coming back in the future to haunt you and that scares me cos I know I am far from perfect. Women should stop using their bodies as a way to get what they want or to punish themselves for their low self esteem. That your father raped you or died at a young age, grew up in poverty or whatever the reasons are doesn't mean you cannot make good decisions to guide your life. If a man spends half his life using women he shouldn't be surprised by the consequences whether micro or macro.