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Pritheeann: i do....ok wer yu @ naw?

Maza-maza, Lacoste

Pritheeann: hahahahahahahaha r yu sure yu wana come

Sure! Or you don't want me to come...?

RudySmith: ^^ I think u r mistaking advising her financially with taking care of her financially. What she said meant taking care of her, or in Lehman's terms spending ur money on her and her needs, point blank.

Gbam!!!

caseless: yea....i'm tall, maybe taller than most guys around me.

Short galz would rush u more cuz they will want to complement their height with urz...

Pritheeann: am fine naw dear....jes finished preparinq afanq soup..pls come n eat swerrie..

Wow! Thats cool. I've neva tasted it b4 and would love to. Just text me ur add and I'll be there asap..

Soyedele1: Hello house,
There is this gal I met months ago and we have been close friends.I love this gal and when I had the first chance to ask her out,I messed up(I ws unable to open up to her hw I'm feeling about her) bt I later got a second chance which I told her.
She insisted that when I return back from school,we will talk abt it but I'm having fear of insecurities as other guys are asking her out which I'm aware off(mostly,working class) bt the lady is also a student bt from a different university.
After a long talk,she sd we should remain as friends bt I want more than friends and I'm sure the girl likes me bt I don't knw if she feels the same way I'm feeling.she later sd; 'will you be able to take care of me?' I asked her that taking care of her in what way and she sd both emotionally(by being there and care for her) and financially and I said I will gladly share what I have with her as long as she is open to me bt the problem is that this lady is financially better than me cos I knw her monthly pocket money and sincerely,she doesn't need anything from a guy in order to be alright even though I know my responsibilities in a relationship.
What is now my problem is that how will I be able to take care of someone that is more financially okay than me interms of finance cos her money is 4x my pocket money.
Should I give it a try or remain as friends?PLS ADVICE

Its a good thing that you asked for enlightement becuz person wey ask question, no dey miss road. Lol. Well, what I propose is that:

1. Come what may, ur self-esteem towards her will always be low (since ur mind is beclouded with her financial strength) unless there is a radical change in ur financial capability..

2. Guy! You don't want to make yourself financially miserable all in the name of trying to carter for her needs when you can help yourself with the little you are getting.

3. I think if she has sincere feelings for you, then your financial constraints will never be an issue especially when she is better of financially..

Well, there are lots to consider buh I would advise you move ahead and stop wasting your time cuz it's obvious she doesn't really care about you.. Just remain her friend and look for love elsewhere cuz even if she eventually agrees, you won't be able to satisfy her financially.

Help yourself. I wish u all the best.

Pritheeann: ystrnyt buh went 4a test dis morninq...i will b fyn dear..cos i knw its well wiv me..fanks one aqain

I was reminiscing and it struck me that you talked about being very strong 2 days ago and so I had to check back on this thread to know whats up.. How you feeling now? Hope the situation is beta now...

xerxes456: Olboy... We re both in d same category ooo
Wen she finaly comes I'll makesure she pays for wastin time...

Ahan! Pay how? Na her fault? Lol. Buh if I may ask; how come being single is frustrating to you?

caseless: I dont just know why,they come my way. I jst have to make do with what is available. Tall gals no dey come my way...which kind wahala be dis?

Op, ur case is not in anyway different from mine...

Are u tall? And how tall?

rokiatu: Good for her. Wish her all the best.




Offcourse, if you have a crush you want his/her attention.

buh she should be mature about it.. If she ain't ready to reveal the identity of the person, what then is the purpose of opening the thread?

rokiatu: Great!! Threads like this entertained nairalanders (myself including)big up to her.


You have all the guys thinkig "could it be me?" LOL

All the guyz? Nah! I can't have such thought.. Maybe she needs attention

rokiatu: If you don't say his name, how is he supposed to know.

I suggest you say his name out loud. Who knows maybe hes in a relationship, married or will never ever like you back.

The sooner you say his name and know his status, the more of life you have to get over him or start something.

I'm beginning to think she is just playing prank...

I think ladies prefer tall guys in order to complement their heights since most are of average heights. If a gurl is tall I doubt if she will hold height in high regards. Like me, I don't really have strict preference on height cuz I'm tall (6'2"), so it depends

abbeycial: neva fall for a woman who is interested in u,especially a pretty one. gbam

Y? Are u saying there ain't pretty galz who are 4 real?

ambrosini593: Let's hear from you

Jealousy doesn't necessarily mean the begining of the end of a relationship. It's more of insecurity and insecurity sometimes comes as a result of a substantial amount of feelings or love for the person..

seunfly: I don't think you are talking about Nigerian girls, however if it happen to you i may not dout it because you be Aboki and with my little understanding of Abokigirls, they are not money concious like their fellow Nigerian girls.

Ha ha ha ha ha... Anywayz, in as much as a lot of gurlz are after money, there are some that would take u 4 who u are buh then a good number of them want their guy to b the humorous type(someone with a very good sense of humour) so as to make them smile, laugh and happy always

Well... It's no crime if you fall for sum1 here cuz I believe the instigating factor would be his personality which is a beta factor compared to his look. Anywayz, are you sure he is getting ur PMs? Well, u can PM me his username, let me see if I can help u link up 2 him... Thats if its ok by u

Pritheeann: huh naw u see mi as a clown abi...datz y u're lafin @mi??..m nt enterinq joor..cos i knw u wil start finkin odawise..xo i fink its beta i take ma tym..

See you as a clown? Nah! That will be lame of me. Just wanted to bring about humour...

cindyrella: How about all three?

Wahala dey be that oo.. Na only u wan pass them? Lol. No wori I go allow u copy 4rm me. You hear?

Pritheeann: are yu kinda openinq d door 4mi??..

I just unveiled my kinda person to you buh if you see it as opening the door for you, then you are free to enter. Lolz

[quote author=Mynd_44]I always give them one week. After that, my offer ain't valid no more[/quote]Lol..

Abujafood: ^^^^^

Yes naw she's supposed to be your one and only, why admire others when you have her, that's like telling her she might not be your number 1 for long!

I disagree with u... Admiring someone else's beauty doesn't mean anything unless the gurl is just super-jealous. Besides, it's beta to admire a gurl in her presence cuz it's shows u ain't got ulterior motive 4 saying it in her presence... Or do u think it's beta to do that at her back?

Pritheeann: hmmm....ve any girl wooed yu b4??.

Not directly. Although I have dated a couple of gurlz in the past I didnt woo but they didnt woo me directly.. Anywayz, I am not too open and friendly from the outside (to avoid insults and whatever) buh when u come into my world u'll realise I'm really fun to be with..

Ozegbe: 2004 sagem (gave it to my brother)

nokia 3310 (sold it)

nokia 2650 (still have it)

nokia 3g phone (misplaced it)

sony ericsson p900 (sold it)

sonyericsson p990i (sold it)

nokia n95 (sold it)

nokia n95-8gb (sold it)

nokia n96(sold it)

etisalat gaga and nokia n8 (just sold it)

now etisalat gaga and samsung galaxy note 10.1

......can you remember yours? Lets know their fates

LG 600
Samsung A300
Samsung A835
Sendo X
Nokia 6230i
Nokia 2626
Nokia 6303i
Nokia 6303c
Nokia N70
Nokia 6600
Nokia 6680
Nokia 3250
Nokia 1280(Torch)
Nokia 5300
Nokia 5800
Nokia N91
Nokia N95
Nokia N95 8gb
Nokia N96
Nokia N97
Nokia E90
Sony Ericsson Xperia10i
Sony Ericsson S500
Apple's iPhone 3G
Apple's iPhone 3Gs
Apple's iPhone 4

Not necessarily on that order.. Buh recently it's been iPhones. I think some are even left out cuz I can't really remember all.

Optimisticgondy: I once heard from a Yoruba elder that "Ede abinibi ni a fi n ronu", meaning "we think in our mother tongue". I agreed it's true for me because I think mostly in my mother tongue. But I still doubt it's true for everyone. Is it true for you? Do you reason in English language or your mother tongue?

I ruminate on things using pure english. I've never reasoned thing using my native tongue neither do I do using pidgin english...

cindyrella: I no fit o! answer bf call in front of my popsi u go answer questions tire.

Which kind questions? TOEFL, SAT or GMAT? Lol

2buff: If you like yourself, no try am.
Some is okay, but if you're into all that, you are more likely to have reprogrammed yourself to woman-wrapperism.
A girl will never tell you they want someone who is firm and lays down the rules simply because it doesn't "sound good" to them coming out the mouth.
At the end of the day, a girl's instincts know what is best for her...not her mouth.

You are right... I have most of those attributes buh there are some I'll neva bother about cuz they will just transit you from being a man to being something less,.

freecitizn: Op, I'd also like a comprehensive list of what you'll do in return if you find such a boy. From empirical observation, girls take such boys for granted...they adapt quickly to all that, and then shift the goalposts. They give such guys hell, and save their niceties for the bad guys.

Agreed!

[quote author=Adeniyi A.]in summary,she needs a jobless rich boy(yahoo boys i think).
better she needed a boy not a man[/quote]

pleep: girls can be gay

Are you talking about sex*ual orientation? A gurl can be gay if she's attracted by someone of same sex buh she can't be termed gay when she's attracted by someone of the opposite sex..