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poshdiva: really is english so hard? even while typing?
poster did you go to school? i mean any school at all.....even daycare or creche

Don't mind my asking buh, u Nigerian?

[quote author=uj_sizzle]I read somewhere that crushes last 6month[/quote]Another assertion...

DSB: I am a virgin too

I'm a virgin three

Dinmajudith: Make him tell her say he wan travel

exactly! Make hm throw lamba give the gurl

JayKayMaybachz: Okay Saint Obi

I hear St Remy... Lol

JayKayMaybachz: Eh nnnnnnnnn Temme Why ?

Cuz it ain't proper...

Wonder shall neva end.. Wetin ur guy expect b4 wen the gurl come with all her things including cooking utensils...?

Sybellah: Please people, no fronting speak the truth? Don't be shy, after all it is very usual and arguably natural.
What are the reasons that lead you into cheating?

I've neva done it before. Besides, there is nothing natural about it

dazz661: Very nice write up, & very true. I've seen people get marrried due to pressure & desperation. Itz not only women that can be in desperate zones, men too!

Desperate men? Like 4 real Well even if there exist men who are desperate, I assert that the ratio of desperate men to none desperate men can be 1:99 or even less..

[quote author=190-the-clown]I'm desperate someone come marry me [/quote]Lol... Do u mean a Nigerian gurl?

I wish u all the best bruv as u search 4 ur heart-like, ur true-to-type and ur toot-say-woot-say...

Nayah: No, people has to control themselves, your wife is not your child sorry. Now you can talk to her to make her understand her role in your couple ( moral, values ...) but I'm sorry you can't control your wife as you can do it for your child, that's a mistake

This ain't more of physical control like sending someone on errands and stuffs like that. Its more of psychological control of situations

smooooooth: i cant raise a hand on a woman, thats why i said its hard, but reading ur post is even harder. summarise it, just my advise.

You dnt have to read all.. Make use of ur intelligence to pick the salient points in all. I didnt read up to halve the entire article, I had to skip alot of lines in between buh I got the whole idea...

Good gurlz all the way.. I don't have the necessary disposition to get along with bad gurlz...

onila: Having a crush on someone only lasts 4 months, if it lasts longer... you're in love.

This is just another assertion..

Veedon: Plz nland i need advice on what to do. i just meant is lady 4days ago i told her i like her i will like to hv i relationship with her something like married,so she no problem we both exchange numbers an i call later at night an she invited to her that d mother we like to see me, so d following day i got there saw the mum an she me if i like her daugther an i said yes an she was ask d same an she said she like me an her mum encourage us to study one another.now since she hv not been to my place i invited her over to my place.so will got talking and she ask me for money and i ask her for what she said she wanted to buy suit she will used for her school party and i said how much she said just #20,000 an i said no problem so she left to my surprise she requested me to bring d money by eleven am on sunday morning that d person to get d suit for her will b around at that time, i m not really happy now at d desperation she is displaying i really like her to be my wife. So i didnt show in her house but later called an she said she does not like me anymore but i should bring d money plz what should i do now i need yr help i dont want to loose her.

She said she doesnt like you anymore because you didnt take the money to her? and even with that you are here crying that you dont know what to do? Come on! You are talking about marriage buh you acting like a kid, like a juvenile. Anywayz, it shows she didnt like you from adam and she was too foolish even to start displaying her ulterior motive just within days. Yoo dont need a prophet to tell you that she ain't real. WTH you talking about? you dont want to loose someone you just met barely a week ago? Guy! If you know whats good for you, better run... Else, na office she go just open for your head..

[quote author=190-the-clown]With a british abeg make una nor de spoil my market [/quote]I for say... So you no need dey spend abi? Lol

Vincent 4: No pretty Gl biko na Pretty make up

I ain't gonna agree on this one.. There are pretties who are real however few

amyg: Wt all ur female followers?

Lol...

[quote author=190-the-clown]In a relationship! [/quote]With a Nigerian gurl?

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]but u hvent done any of it yet. I don't agree wit u becos its not true, the moment a guy becomes selfless a matured woman will know well enough to keep him by doing the same for him[/quote]I havent done any of what?

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]have u ever tried anything I made mention of?[/quote]I eat with those things you made mention of.. The fact that I am responding this way doesnt mean I falter on those areas. I can do anything ethically possible for the one I love not even watching my favourite Barcelona & Madrid match nor playing game on Play Station would stop me. I sure know how to priotise things and the one I love is always a top priority. But face it my dear, you know what I said is true. Right?

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]I don't agree[/quote]WTH! I didnt say all gurlz but most gurls are looking for something (The bar) other than what you made mention of and you don't agree?

Now you dont wanna be sincere...

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]actions means leaving the PS game jus to go comfort her wen she is in need, listen to her even wen she seems like she isn't making sense to u, being loyal to her, supporting her, giving her a foot rub after she spent the whole day cleaning up after u...[/quote]leaving the PS game jus to go comfort her wen she is in need, now this is attention and was acknowledged in my post.. and also some of the things you highlighted could also fall on one or more of what I did acknowledge in my post.n Anywayz, I really know how it goes just that most are craving for things other than what you made mention of but certainly not all them gurlz but most. Don't you agree?

[quote author=Mynd_44]I don tire sef[/quote]I am getting tired posting on threads these days cos there ain't interesting and challenging issues nymore...

babyface333: op how do you want someone to prove to you that he/she loves you other than the care, attention, commitment and affection.

what kind of deeds and actions do you want before you understand that someone loves you other than the qualities i mentioned above. OR are you among in the school of thought that money is the deed/action to proof one's love for you.

Na wa o............... according to 190 " nigerian girls"....................lolzzzzzzzzzzz

Sometimews I wonder what these people are searching for... Is care not shown through action? Is action not given through attention? Is action not shown in commitment? or maybe what she meant was action through showing financial concern and all that crap... No wonder 190 is weary of Naija gurlz. Lol

[quote author=Mynd_44]Old topic[/quote]That is ehn.... I wonder why the recycling

moodswing: Everyone tell me to advice him. YES, that is why i shared the problem in the first place. I am asking for what exactly to tell him cos my mind is so full of hate for this girl to such an extent that I can't conceive anything decent.

Didnt you read my post? Besides, you have to be matured in treating this issue. Dont take it the way you are feeling right now else you are gonna bring about more harm than good. Maturity entails emotional & psychological balance and control... Dont treat it with anger but with patience and perseverance...

@OP, I really understand how you feel. Infact! If I were in your shoes, I would feel worse. Well, I believe you are mid-way from solving the problem because as it is said, a problem shared is half-solved and in solving a problem the first thing to take into knowledge is the fact that there is actually a problem. I like the fact that he already knows there is one heck of a problem and what he lacks now is the ability to confront this menace..

Since you said you have talked to him several times in the past and he never hearkened to your words, I would say you call him now and inquire from him if he really wants you to help and also if he'll take to your advice this time. If his response is positive, then you know you ain't wasting your time for wasting-time-sake.

Anywayz, from what you narrated, its so glaring that she ain't the so-called-responsible kinda gurl. Your brother needs to be a man and take the bull by the forlock. Let him call the gurl and spit out his mind without mixing words. For him to let her know he is not comfortable with the way and manner she is going about this blah blah blah... Pending her reaction or her willingness to conform with positive change, then he should know what comes next (show her the exit door before he gets totally ruined and miserable). One thing to note is that, he should be ready for anything cuz gurlz like that seldom conform to positive change. He shouldnt be afraid to lose her..

I wish him goodluck

austinsmat: 2. Gucci bag-N350k.

3. Louis vitton wallet-60k

Pls how much will person put in this kind wallet and bag I'm just wondering

Lol... That was what I was pondering too. Abi u wan buy wallet 60k come put 5k inside? The wallet need dy kari like 5hk upward.. Anyways @OP, she no ask for 2 much. I think the guy lock-up cuz him feel say the list no dy up 2 date. She 4 add iPad 4 64gb, iPhone 5 64gb, Samsung Galaxy Note II and so on...

phineboy1pimple: For your partner... I can understand... What about ur sibling? Will U ever b able to forgive n forget?...

Surely I'll forgive him buh dnt talk about forgeting cuz u knw whats up on that. I dnt think I'll want to involve myself in anything with him anymore buh that doesnt mean we will not be in talking-termz

What kinda oat? Quaker oat or which one? Lmao. Anywayz, having a blood oat is highly unethical, unspiritual and brings about moral decadence. I mean, y wont people let their love be unconditional? If she doesn't trust to the extent as to believe you won't shatter the left-overz of the already broken heart, then whats the essence of being in the relationship? Whats wrong with giving love freely rather than being compeled to love? Because, after a blood oath, you will be compeled to be with her for the rest of your life irrespective of the love being in existence or not. Y do u wanna put yourself in bondage while you have the choice of being free? Besides, as gurlz dy waste 4 everywhere so, I go come go dy jonze myself say I dy do blood oath.. No b only oath, na golden morn

If you know you are with earz, try as much as you can to hearken to the words of wisdom being offered to you. The fact is... You dont wanna do this and in that light, tell her you can't and will never and if she insist, I'd advice you show her the exit door. Thanks