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goofie: is she d kind of woman he wants? if she is, he'l come to her. women dont do d chasing.

That ain't chasing my dear.. Do u even care if the guy is kinda the shy type?

goofie: i still disagree with a woman being d one 2 approach d guy. there will alwys be other men.and i dint say anything about age.

Sure! There are other men that can do the wooing even though they are not the kinda men she wants.. Abi?

goofie: a man may appear mature but whn d goin gets tough, u myt be surprised. its best 4 d woman not to be d one 2 hint it. she cld be friends with him n then things cld

develop from there.but i dont bliv a woman shld be d one 2 say it.afterall s.perms chase e.ggs n not d oda way round

My dear... Maturity here ain't about the age buh ur ability to handle situations with high level of reasoning. Besides, one who is mature is balanced psychologically, emotionally and otherwise. What is emotional balance? I think it's the ability to handle an emotional situation sanely and with dignity irrespective of the emotional tension..

So, like I said from the outset, if and only if one is very mature. Capiché?

Idowuogbo: wen i see a guy i like, i plot. After plotting, i point and hook. Sefini!

Chai! See formation... Lmmfao

goofie: i disagree. whn push comes to shove, u'l be surprised dt d guy wil tell everyone dt u wooed him. i prefer scheming. u cn scheme n strategise and orchestrate d whole thing without him knowing u did it

I totally disagree with you... Personally, I'm too mature to act so awkwardly. I'd prefer I tell politely that u are not my kinda person (that is if she ain't my type) buh to act the way u talked about, that's never gonna happen. Bottom line is; if the guy is matured enough, go for it.

[quote author=Law-confessor]Did nt mean it dt extent, SORRY.[/quote]No hard feelings my dear....

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]lmao are rice, turkey, eggs considered luxuries[/quote]You seem not to get it... To them it is...Hmm?

goofie: why shld u even update what u r eating in d 1st place? guys n girls form...maybe dey jst do it in dif ways

Gurlz do it mostly to show-off what they are eating even when they ain't eating such... Besides, if you read my post very well, you will realise I accepted the fact that both do form at some point or the other but cant you just be frank and face the fact that sometime some gurls do take it far and sometimes when not necessary?

[quote author=Law-confessor]LIES......my whatsapp p-pix is wia I wz eaten eba honestly.[/quote]Jeez! Does that mean all what I said are lies because you (just you) uploaded a pix you were eating eba? That's gross gurl...

Bekmy: if the guy is matured enough,the lady should put on courage and tell him.

Exactly!

2sexy: OP( BIG TO TO), I was never a cheat till a girl cheated on me and I learnt to play the game too.

Go pack canal!

Lmmfao.. Guy u wicked oo.

[quote author=ondo_boi]IMO

all99.6% of men are cheats ---AGREED

Does the men cheat on you (ladies) by having affairs with a fellow man? ---NO

Do they cheat on you with other ladies ----YES

therefore, if 99.6% of men are cheat, 99.6% of women are losers cheats aswell

QED[/quote]Gbam! No long story

binger: I hav never cheated,always been faithful in my r/ships...besides there are many like me.wrong statistics u got there

As in ehn... If person like me wey neva cheat b4 see this kind thread, e dey annoy me. Anywayz, since ur man is frustrating the heck outta u, y not quit whinning and opt out of d r/ship? Abi na must say u go dy into a relationship with ur BIG VAGI*NA?.. If u no get talk just blow whistle jhor..

@op, abeg make u try am first, then come tell us ur experience.. Lol

Hmm.. I see

boron10: Bros, na true you talk, however, na we guys cause am. If girl nor form for you, nor be you go later come talk say she nor get level? She's classless, she's not my type bla bla bla

Accepted. That one dey. Wetin me no just like b say some of them dey over do am which can be annoying..

[quote author=Mynd_44]I don't get the sense here. Guys do it too[/quote]Guy calm down.. We both know that at every point in time people (male and female alike) do it buh let's face it frankly, gurlz own 2 much jare and all na skimming.. Make I ask u; if u dy use chat services like bbm, 2go or whatsapp wey dem dy upload status, u don see when any stupid gurl update her status; eating eba, drinking garri, beans tinz and d likes? Abi dem no dy eat those tinz? 4 them its always fried rice and sallad, plantain and eggs, bread and tea etc. Even gurl wey eat eba come out, go say she just eat rice and turkey with yoghurt.. Them get luck say belle no be show-glass

eina: Some of us decided to hit but couldn't run afterwards. I have a girlfriend whom I met at a period when I was so lonely and depressed and needed company badly. I would say I don't love her cos her face is not as nice as I want, but that doesn't mean she is ugly. Facial appearance is a very huge attribute that I consider while checking out girls. If I am not satisfied with her face, I would remain dissatisfied with her.
I would have left this girlfriend of mine a long time ago but there are some things about her that I am finding difficult to resist. The first is that she doesn't trouble me at all. She tolerates my offenses. She hardly gets upset and whenever she eventually gets upset a short explanation and apology will bring smiles back on her face within seconds. Secondly she doesn't request for money at all and doesn't even care to know anything about my financial status. There was a period when I was so broke to the bottom and I was forced to tell her cos it affected me badly. This made it the first time we talked about money issues. Interestingly after I told her she made it a source of entertainment for us by constructing all sorts of very happy funny jokes about me being broke. After awhile when my condition improved she still never cared to find out whether I have made money or not. We never discussed about money or joke about my broke arse anymore. Honestly I cant imagine the relationship surviving that extent of the absolute poor man I was cos I wasn't able to pay my transport fare to see her anymore. Another thing I find irresistible is her body. Its among the best I have set my eyes on and handled. Sex is not an issue cos it comes even when I don't even ask for it.
Considering all these, I couldn't run after hitting cos the questions I asked myself are:
What if I run will the next lady I meet tolerate me like she does?
What if I run will next lady stay with me when I get broke?
What if I run will the next lady show me the NO SEX sign post?
What if I run will the next lady empty my bank account within weeks?

You have the answerz to those questionz..

4llerbuntu: This feature "innovation" is dead on arrival. NO TELCO ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD WILL ENABLE THIS.

na wetin remain for dem na? BBM works with BIS and not bundled data on blackberries


unless as i suspect is going to be the case anyway, with the release of BB10 this idea of unlimited data through BIS will be a thing of the past.

warrhell, its not like d feature is novel, afterall nimbuzz and skype will do this. but that u will pay pittance and then dump all ur phone calls on the telco's data pipes for free? u gotta be joking

Op said over wifi which means it can't be done on data or bis... Is that not so @op?

abdddone: kindly advice me on what to settle for,blackberry or an iphone?
what are the associated pros n cons?

I think it's based on preference. If u cherish 24/7 internet on bb after subscription then go for it, other than that, its no where near an iDevice.. Infact! Bis subscription works on an iPhone so I think that makes bb redundant. As 4 bbm, u knw quite well that whatsapp is beta cuz its cross-platform. In a nutshell, bb is way 2 useless when an iPhone is available. The choice is urz though

k2wise: I don't use an I phone cos am an avid android(htc) fan but blackberry has no place near an Iphone. Even iphone 2 is still more functional than the latest BB.

God bless u jare...

chidyhels: If ur a nov born,belv me u ar destined for the top.....check nov born now..zik of africa,chinuea achebe,psquares,mysef,treysongz,timaya,whoopi Goldberg...name dem,,,cant exhaust them jor...Be happy if u fall into this family...i must plan my childbearing o...my kids must fall 4 novermber

U r mouthed gurl... Mine is 2mao

[quote author=eagle,eye]I don't see you reply as an insult. I only disagree with your self esteem issue.
Like I said in the beginning of this thread, I am your regular good and cannot hurt a fly kind of guy. But people (male and female) usually take advantage of that.
When I withdraw from the male they don't usually rant or cuss. But with the female it is a different ball game.

When U love someone, U don't do Love because the person is pretty or anything....U just love.

And I have moved on.... it doesn't mean I will deny the fact that I have loved and still loved, only that am sad that she is not different from all other selfish people I have met.

The new girl is head over heals in Love (though I havn't done anything for her) but am sceptical.[/quote]I don't blame u for being sceptical since ur scepticism is as a result of experience well reflected..

DailyNews: Now y did I tell dis long story?

Its becos in as much as I agree with some ops points, I strongly uphold that nigerian women are the cause of their present predicaments with men n the nigerian society.


They tot guys not to believe in true love while growing as boys, so when these boys become guys n men, they still exhibit those belief.


If only Nigerian girls can all clear their minds from daydreams and wishy-wishy attitudes, and be nice and realistic with life, so as to be able to know when a guy is admiring them for good and when he is coming for play, then all these won't occur, but how possible when all most care about is irrelevant things before giving a guy a chance of date?

The truth is: this game has really gone far only Gods intervention can solve it. No matter what we preach today, Nigerian ladies will still be who they are n Nigerian men will still believe in what they had been forced to believe about the Nigerian women of today, so its really a sad moment we are in Nigeria of today, best advice: stay away from dates n relationships if ur not ready to condone the evil things that comes with it cos they must come as long as it is Nigeria!

Gbam! You've said it all

[quote author=mama-gee][color=deeppink]Nobody likes to be fooled. . .

So, I think the question should be "Why do people get angry when they are outsmarted?"[/color][/quote]God bless u.. It should be a two-way traffic. Thing is, the gurlz sit and whine all-year round when they are the victimz. Its absurd

Joliecoco: Cause men are idiots ,and a woman should always be fews stepts ahead of him.

Since the women now fail to b few stepz ahead, don't u think they are the idiots instead?

Well.. It depends. Sometimes one might respond to a thread outside the person's scope of reasoning and thereby not representing oneself on such comment or reaction. Buh I think more often than not the majority of ur post comes as a result of the way and manner you reason or respond to issues in real life scenario. Therefore, I assert that majority of one's posts tell of the true identity of the poster. Thats just my logomach.

WHy are people so inconsiderate as to compare a tattoo alongside a tribal mark? It's gross. They are two different thingz just so you guyz know. I have a bit of tribal marks but I forbid tattoo to the core... Grrrrrrrrr... If I hear say I accept tattoo gurl as my wife! I go know wetin cos am