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Politics › Re: Yoruba Nation Agitators Storm Ibadan, Declare Oduduwa Republic by DMerciful(m): 8:11pm On Oct 29
You're hiding behind a finger. This is being done because Tinubu is about to lose
zoghys:
Abeg stop giving yourself needless headache. Yoruba nation agitation is far beyond Sunday igboyo. The movement has the on for quite a while and if you must know some well meaning Omoluabi who want our right to self determination withdrew because of igboyo so that people will not misconstrue the ideology and see it as a gun caring or violent movement. Personally, I don't believe Tinubu will win reelection next year because of the back breaking policies but am grown enough to know one plus one is never two in this part of the world and even if that happens the agitation for the right of Yoruba race to self determination is sacrosanct.
Politics › Re: FG Defends $21 Billion Borrowing Plan, Cites Infrastructure Needs by DMerciful(m): 8:51am On Oct 29
Tinubu is a scam!

Packing all the money to France
Politics › Re: Tinubu seeks Senate approval for $20.5bn, €1.04bn Foreign Loans by DMerciful(m): 3:31pm On Oct 27
You're not well
Parachoko:
If the money will be spent on infrastructure, there's nothing wrong with taken the loans
Politics › Re: 2027: NDC Unveils Presidential Campaign Council (see List) by DMerciful(m): 2:20pm On Oct 26
Tinubu will not be president by May 27, 2027 because he'll be booted out
Parachoko:
If he likes, he should add Donald Trump and Netayanhu to the list

The Agulu Fraud Will Never Become The President Of Nigeria
Politics › Re: Remi Tinubu Popping What Appears To Be Pills Into Tinubu’s Mouth - Sowore by DMerciful(m): 7:33pm On Oct 25
Seun messenger,

Are you still on this Tinubu's hill? Inspite of how bad things have deteriorated?
seunmsg:
Yesterday, they shared a fake video showing Tinubu shaking people with his left hand. Now that the fake video has been exposed, they are back with another fake video to claim that Tinubu is being fed with a medication. Another one is even saying the same left hand is shaking. They can't even agree on the propaganda to push.

At the end of the day, Tinubu had a very successful rally in Kaduna that has pushed the opposition into massive propaganda response. Both Atiku and Obi can't even organize a 500 man rally and it's less than 90 days to election. By this time in January, they would be shouting about rigging all over the place after they have lost woefully.
Romance › Re: A Brother Needs An Advice. by DMerciful(m): 4:48pm On Oct 18
Go ahead and marry her. You should stop playing God. You're AA and thats good for all genotypes. Your kids being AS is not an issue.

Mind you, you're also not perfect!
ManLikeL:
Brothers, What Will You Advise a Brother?

I'm currently confused about my relationship journey.

I haven't really been the type to consider a serious relationship for a while now. It's just been a couple of sex partners here and there. We do it safely and keep things on a superficial level.

Now, recently, there have been demands and questions here and there about starting a family, especially considering that my immediate junior brother is done having children. His lastborn will be three next month, while the lastborn of my family is also done having kids. Her firstborn is already 10 years old.

I seem to be the only odd one out in this regard, even though I'm arguably more financially settled than all of them. Not to brag, please; I'm just trying to paint a clearer picture of the situation.

I clocked 35 in May, and it was as if everyone in the universe agreed to centre their birthday wishes around God providing me with a wife and family. Ever since then, the reminders from my folks have been pretty loud, persistent, and disturbing.

For the first time in years, I decided to seek a proper relationship, unlike my usual superficial flings and sexcapades.

Come to think of it, I can barely go three days without proper sex. This detail should be useful later.

I met this very beautiful babe from my state. She's 27, a first-class graduate (I am too, actually), and I'm naturally attracted to every facet of intelligence, especially communicative and academic intelligence. She has both, and I'm superbly into her.

She can hold a very reasonable conversation without leaving you mentally exhausted. She's become an integral part of my life, and at this point, I think it's safe to say I'm deeply attracted to her and genuinely like her.

Worthy of note is the fact that I've enjoyed a very unusual level of peace with her over the past three months, which is absolutely unlike me.

I get correct anger ish, although I've learnt to manage it well. I'm not a violent person, but I pick offences easily, and most times, I walk away when provocations get too loud. More often than not, my walking away is goodbye. I'm so good at it.

But since meeting this babe, we've not had any ugly disagreements over these past few months. She's very calm, calculated, and receptive. These qualities have made me like her even more.

She has a reasonably good-paying job, but that's not even an issue. I earn well enough to cater for everything, but she's also financially independent. Gifting seems to be her thing, too, as she's spent quite a sum on gifts for me without expecting anything in return. I haven't even matched up to a quarter of what she's spent on gifting though.

For the first time in my life, I agreed to a no-sex-before-marriage relationship because she's a virgin.

I still dey run my games on a low, so this didn't really look like an ish.

Here lies the rub.

Just last week, she said she had a confession to make, and she opened up about being SS. Mind you, I'm AA, so, by the usual norms, this shouldn't be an issue.

But during one of our previous conversations, she had claimed to be AS and asked if I would be comfortable settling down with someone who was SS. I almost freaked out.

I'm sorry, but I've always wanted to have AA kids. With apologies to those affected, I've always believed that if I ever have children, I owe them the best possible chances at life, including heightened intelligence, beauty, and a sound genotype. I believe I have a reasonable degree of control over who complements my genes to bring these qualities to fruition.

I'm honestly very good-looking and intelligent, so why not get someone who possesses these qualities, too?

Call it insipid or vapid, but I could swear that life has already dealt some people heavy blows by limiting their options in their quest for a future partner. Unlike those of us with AA genotypes, who can consider partners across all the common genotypes without the same risk of having children with sickle cell disease, they don't always have that freedom. I wanted my kids to have that freedom and an avalanche of options, too.

So, when she asked me that question, I sincerely freaked out and couldn't hide my disdain.

This, in turn, stopped her from opening up until last week, when she could no longer hide it.

Funnily enough, I already like her to the point where I don't mind if she's SS, BB, or iPhone. undecided

But the fact that she lied is what actually turned out to be my ish. She's been a very straightforward person so far, and this particular issue has upset our fashioned norms.

I proposed that the no-sex-before-marriage agreement should be off if we were going to be together, and she agreed. But now, I'm beginning to think it might look as though I'm trying to take advantage of her at this point.

Brothers, what will you advise a brother?
Am I being unreasonable?
Considering the emotional supports people with SS need, how challenging can it be? What is the possibility that she lives long enough?

All insults, curses, and whatever are welcome.
T for grateful.
Politics › Re: Stop Disgracing Tinubu, What If He Commits Suicide? - Hafsat Paki To Northerners by DMerciful(m): 1:22pm On Oct 01
Dey play
madridguy:
Tinubu should locate this poster and bless him/her.

Let them continue wasting their time and money, Peter Obi & Alhaji Atiku Abubakar will never be Nigeria president.
Foreign Affairs › Re: UK Leaders Sign Agreement To Break The United Kingdom (Video) by DMerciful(m): 8:29pm On Sep 14
You can't force unity
OkpaNsukkaisBae:
I'm not talking about what happened in the 60s , don't change the topic. You know what I'm talking about.

The leaders of Wales, Scotland are not going to the radio in UK to champion hate among English people. They're not forcing all English people into one religion (Jewish religion) like ur beloved supreme leader. Instead they formed a political party to present their case for disintegration.

I support Iran, Iran is an ancient civilization defending her territorial integrity against unprovoked external military aggression from the US. AND they have done a brilliant job so far. If you know the genocidal crime Israel is committing in Gaza, you should denounce them.
Politics › Re: Arabambi sues UNN over Peter Obi's academic records by DMerciful(m): 9:11am On Sep 14
You lack wisdom. Have you seen Obi filled a counter motion for UNN not to release his record lime Tinubu is doing with the FBI?
deji17:
The University that Tinubu attended is able to confirm that he is a product of their institution with evidence. Why can't UNN do the same? Pit Obi is a fraud
Politics › Re: INEC Publishes Final List Of Presidential Candidates For 2027 Election by DMerciful(m): 9:07am On Sep 14
Peter Obi will be on the ballot against all odds.

Peter Obi will be sworn in May 29, 2027 as president of the federal republic of Nigeria
seunmsg:
At this point, parties should no longer be allowed to change candidates or withdraw from the contest except in matter of death.
Politics › Re: Obidient Flag Boy Withdraws Support For Peter Obi, Burns NDC Flag by DMerciful(m): 10:21pm On Aug 29
If that is you understanding!
favor914:
You must be a prophet huh, for the foresight that Gringory Obi will reach Aso Rock gate, but will not enter the Villa.
Politics › Re: Obidient Flag Boy Withdraws Support For Peter Obi, Burns NDC Flag by DMerciful(m): 8:24pm On Aug 29
A lot will see the promise land without entering.

Peter Obi will win the 2027 presidential election
Politics › Re: Tinubu Joins Delay Bid As US Court Sets August 21 Showdown by DMerciful(m): 1:45pm On Aug 19
If this is the case, why are you afraid of his records being released?
HacheNoire:
His Excellency, President Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu (GCFR) NEVER committed a crime in the USA and records have that.

He was investigated and found of no wrong doing, and was NEVER convicted of a crime.

So when you say he committed a crime, which court of law convicted him?
Politics › Re: Tinubu Or Osun People: Who Made Adeleke Victorious In The Just Concluded Electio by DMerciful(m): 10:21pm On Aug 16
He is just thanking Tinubu because there's still election petition tribunal coming. After the tribunal, he will abandon Tinubu for sure
Hemanwel:
In his victory speech, Adeleke thanked the president and reiterated his commitment to supporting him in the coming 2027 general elections.

I was startled to hear this. Wait! Is Adeleke saying Tinubu supported him to win the governorship elections against his APC party candidate, 'Ambo'? Why was he thanking and committing himself to supporting somebody who wanted to see him go down few hours before?

What about the Accord party members who have been killed, injured, and whatnot, and who tried to defend the onslaught of the Tinubu-controlled APC during the build-up to the elections?

So, it was no longer the people of Osun who saved Adeleke but Tinubu, right? This is the height of ingratitude by governor Ademola Adeleke!
Romance › Re: Lady Raises Concern Over Why Abuja Men No Longer Toast Women by DMerciful(m): 4:08pm On Aug 15
Na small pikin dey worry you. If you like nor marry, nobody will convince you
Lalami3232:
grin grin
This gender is so funny ooooooo, today dem go say marriage no be achievement, tomorrow dem go dey cry online and offline for not getting married. That aside sha, my question be say "wetin a married man dey enjoy for marriage wey me no dey enjoy?". If you look am well eeh, na single guys enjoy pass sef because that your nonvirgin partner eeeh, dem chop am tire when she was fresher and super tight cheesy. Now you don marry the leftover wey the single guy chop finish. Now back to the main topic, give me 2 reasons why I should marry? I go spend millions to marry a nonvirgin and still spend millions to do DNA test on my children because a nonvirgin can't be trusted. I have to work harder so I can provide for my nonvirgin wife, else the society will laugh at me. Again i ask yet another question, what is your nonvirgin partner giving to you that she hasn't given to her ex before? Some will say "she's carrying my child and giving me children" grin. First do DNA test before you answer this queston and for the record, that your nonvirgin partner don carry children for her ex before, just that she no born those ones.
I ask again, WETIN YOUR NONVIRGIN PARTNER DEY GIVE YOU FOR MARRIAGE WEY SHE NO GIVE HER EX?

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men about DNA test nationwide.
Politics › Re: Abia APC Gives Kalu, Nkwonta 14 Days To Apologise by DMerciful(m): 3:29pm On Aug 12
Otti will win even if Tinubu campaign against him.

Tinubu has failed irreversibly
Pierocash:
Why is APC in Abia state pretending not to know that Tinubu and Orji Uzor Kalu are backing Otti? Why did Benjamin Kalu dropped his gubber ambition? He was already told by the presidency to step down. So APC in the state shouldn't pretend about that
Politics › Re: Why FCT Is Excluded From State Police – Senate by DMerciful(m): 10:23am On Aug 09
You're not well
stuffs2002:
Bla bla bla grin


You said worse than this before the 2023 general elections yet it turns out Obi was indirectly helping Tinubu to win the presidency and I don't think the stage is any diferent from last time except that the margin of win by Tinubu would be greater.


We told you people before that Obi is working for Tinubu una dey insult us upandan grin
Politics › Re: Why FCT Is Excluded From State Police – Senate by DMerciful(m): 5:49pm On Aug 08
The Supreme Court Fraud ridiculed itself to please a criminal drug baron, certificate forger, mandate thief Tilumbu and APC when they misinterpreted the constitution fraudulently.

They'll be held accountable soonest!
Politics › Re: 2027: Tinubu Omits Primary, Secondary School Qualification In INEC Documents by DMerciful(m): 8:04pm On Aug 01
Tinubu is a fraud
helinues:
The opposition can now go to court with that missing information without nagging.

All the best oo
Romance › Re: Lokoja Girl Caught Trying To Put Love Charm On Ex-boyfriend’s Food by DMerciful(m): 4:06pm On Jul 31
There is no breaking of the law here. She's should be left alone
Politics › Re: I Can Withdraw My Support For Obi If I Wish - Isaac Fayose Slams Obidients by DMerciful(m): 3:51pm On Jul 17
Appreciate you because we have one special benefit thats not available to you? Anything you do regarding Obi, you do for yourself
lexylaw09:
Obedients will never appreciate you no matter what you do to support them as long as you are Yoruba. They can use you though.
Politics › Re: If You Want A Debate, Become A Presidential Candidate First - Obi Replies Umahi by DMerciful(m): 4:08am On Jul 12
Take it or leave it, Obi will defeat Tinubu in 2027!
seunmsg:
You are just a presidential candidate and not a real contender. The contest in 2023 was between Tinubu and Atiku and the contest in 2027 will still be between Tinubu and Atiku. If you want a presidential debate so badly, go and debate Sowore of AAC and Gbenga Olawepo of Accord party candidate. Those are the presidential candidates in your cycle of presidential wannabes.
Health › Re: Public Taps In Emene, Enugu Flow For The First Time In 30 Years by DMerciful(m): 10:12am On Jul 07
Do you know the meaning of pipe borne water?
Richtaiwo:
I'm struggling to understand this. Are you saying pipe-borne water has only just become available in Enugu State after 3 decades? How, exactly, have people been getting by all these years? Surely, you're not suggesting that there are still communities relying on ponds for their daily water supply.
Politics › Re: ‘PFIPC Has No CBN Account’, AGF Contradicts Presidency by DMerciful(m): 5:33pm On Jul 06
Tinubu is running a cartel govt. This is what is called organized criminality!

Tinubu is the undisputed heavyweight champion of incompetence and corruption

Tinubu is a scam!
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Faces ₦50 Billion Defamation Suit by DMerciful(m): 6:04am On Jul 06
You're too funny. You expect a court to hear that frivolous case?
Ttalk:
Arabambi is a comedian but it serves Obi right with his cho cho cho everywhere.

Anyway he will use the money he realized from Kenneth Okonkwo to settle Arabambi.
Family › Re: Relationship Dilemma by DMerciful(m): 6:45pm On Jul 04
Personally, I don't think 31yrs is that old to be desperate. She can go for more ambitious and well to do men unless she loves thos guy. Thats why I asked how your sister feels about this man.

Secondly, if the guy were to be ambitious, your sister can set him up but I'll say your sister should search further, she's not 35 yet to be desperate
Gentlesoul2021:
Life and nature happens, some girls may have it quick, while others struggles with it. Her religious life took a large share of her social interaction. Just work, church and her craft...
Family › Re: Relationship Dilemma by DMerciful(m): 2:21pm On Jul 04
You never mentioned anything about how your sister feel about this man. Secondly, why is your sister struggling to get men, isnt she presentable?
Gentlesoul2021:
Good day N'Lander

I need genuine opinions on a relationship dilemma.

My younger sister is 31 years old. She's highly educated with a master's degree, works with an NGO as a Programme Coordinator and Mental Health Counselor, and is also a skilled fashion designer with equipment worth over ₦2 million. She's hardworking, focused, and has consistently supported our family. Her job has taken her across different states, exposing her to diverse experiences and opportunities. Above all, she's deeply committed to her Christian faith.

She recently met a fellow church brother who has expressed serious interest in marrying her. However, he left school after Primary Six and works as a traditional window louvre fabricator. While there's absolutely nothing wrong with learning a trade, he has had opportunities to upgrade his skills to modern aluminium fabrication but hasn't pursued them. Instead, he seems more interested in becoming a pastor or working in a church, though he currently has no clear or realistic path to achieving that.

Another concern is the family dynamic. My mother and the young man's mother serve in the same church unit. On several occasions, whenever he goes out for a job, his mother would call him back or redirect him for other errands, and she would even mention these things to my mother. This has given us the impression that she relies heavily on him, raising concerns about the level of responsibility he already carries within his family and how that might affect his future marriage.

My mother strongly opposes the relationship, believing the gap in education, career progression, ambition, life direction, and even family expectations is too significant. I understand her concerns and tend to agree, but it also raises an important question.

Can love alone sustain a marriage when there's such a wide difference in education, ambition, exposure, career growth, and family responsibilities? Or should long-term compatibility, shared vision, emotional maturity, and the ability to build a stable future together carry more weight than love?

I'd genuinely appreciate respectful and honest opinions from both married and unmarried people. Please keep the discussion civil and objective—this isn't about looking down on anyone because of their educational background or occupation, but about understanding what truly makes a marriage work in the long run.
Politics › Re: 2027: I’ll Win Lagos Without Obi, Obidient Movement – Rhodes-vivour by DMerciful(m): 9:43pm On Jul 02
This is not exactly what he said. Spin doctors doing their work
Politics › Re: FG Approved Recruitment Of 300 Staff For ‘Fake’ Presidential Council - TheCable by DMerciful(m): 9:39pm On Jul 02
Tilumbu is the undisputed heavyweight champion of incompetence and corruption!

Voice of Gbajabiamila but hand of Tilumbu. If you know, you know!
Politics › Re: Who Took NDC To Court For Deregistration? by DMerciful(m): 11:38am On Jun 29
They will submit candidates 100%
IgOga:
At the time Obi joined NDC, On INEC page all NDC officials were listed and at the end of each name it states "by court order"

A youtuber even made a video that he senses danger ahead because of the mentions of court order because it was not the supreme court which means all the positions are being contested in court.

If ordinary Nigerians could forsee legal mines why would Obi who wants to lead over 250 million people not see that there is problem ahead?

I think NDC will eventually win but they may not be allowed to submit their candidates as INEC will declare late submission. By current judgement they are an invalid political group and cannot legally submit their list of candidates to INEC.

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