₦airaland Forum

My wife followed me to my church even before marriage.

Men behaving like sissies

BlindAngel:
That's the church she was attending before we got married, so I don't want to stop her in order for it not to seems like I'm wicked and for her not to call me names.

Yesterday she reminded me that after our marriage my family forced her to do thanks giving at our church. She has been saying this for long, but stopped, until yesterday.

I told her that doing thanks giving at our church is now a bad thing or something that's forceful?

She cried a lot yesterday because of our argument of this naming.

Same tears she used in forcing me into getting married to her when I wasn't in anyway ready.

You guys are fighting over inconsequential things. If you were the man of the house before now, both your wife and your family will follow your direction without stress.

A snake that does not behave like one will be used by kids to tie firewood

BlindAngel:
Good afternoon Nairalanders, my wife gave birth last week which was Saturday July 13th, that day was also my birthday, she gave birth through CS, this is our first child, and it's a boy.


This week Saturday is our baby's naming ceremony but my wife is insisting that her pastor must be the one officiate the naming the child, we've been disagreeing over this for some couple of days now,

she has called me all sorts of names, insulted me that I'm a very wicked man that I have no conscience, that after she pain and tearing she went through and still going through, I can't make this as a sacrifice for her, that I choose my family over her. She said so because my family also insist too that the naming must be done by our pastor.

But she's keying on the fact that she won't agree for the naming to be done in my church that it must be done by her pastor, she has cried and insulted me regarding this. Yesterday when we were arguing about this same particular issue she starting crying endlessly and calling me a wicked man.

I have finally agreed for her to use her pastor to do the naming, although I don't know her pastor and haven't seen him before, but I only agreed because of the CS operation she did while giving birth, her endless crying might affect her, if not there's absolutely no way possible I'd have agreed.

I must say that she doesn't know the repercussions of what sha has done by challenging my authority and always wanting to have her way with tears all the time. But time sha tell, I'm in so much rage right now, and I'm trying my possible best to control myself and not to loose my anger over this.

I'm happy for Shaibu...I'm talking of the SHOA wasting their time

senatordave1:
How? All arrears will be paid

That didn't start with Tinubu either

leokid866:
but Lagos alone is the fifth largest economy in africa...that didnt start with the governors aftet him.....

Nigeria na wa

Water under the bridge

That 15k is wage award and not minimum wage.

LegendHero:
Tell that to Otti still paying 15k.

Probably that’s why people are now eating from the dustbin in some part of the state like we saw in that video.

If Federal can get 70k, at least they can afford some Congo of rice. Abia workers don’t have such luxury coz they can’t even afford one bag of garri.

The protest must go on!

One with God is majority!

Nigerians and anger that's misdirected.

Protest must go on!

You expect him to defend Iwu?
Small mindedness dey worry you.
The difference btw this man and Iwu is that he has confessed to a crime without investigation

CyrusVI:
And Maurice Iwu should be B*** on the stake for his too

On election matters, he's the most corrupt Nigerian ever

Tinubu achieved nothing in Lagos.
The governors after him performed more thsn him.

If Lagos was in the hands of a competent and corrupt free person, it would be among the four best states in Africa

leokid866:
regardless nothing stops your state from working on itself....when Tinubu was fighting Obj your governors were hiding under their beds, look at what Tinubu achieved in Lagos without been in the center.....but for una minds na only until you reach center your life go fit better......charity begins at home if you cannot do well at state level going to the center won't make you better......

There's what is called majority tyranny.

People use their numbers to elect confirmed criminals just to punish everybody

tsdarkside:
look long epistle....
vote who you want.... wetin be wahala....??

abusing people doesn't work.... even if you are right....

Gowon abolished the regions.
Ironsi was killed 40 days after unifying the civil service. Clearly he wasn't around to enforce it, that means Gowon enforced it. Gowon also broke the 4 regions to 12 states

CyrusVI:
And Ironsi abolished region system forever and ever

Sometimes, I wish we could just skip that his part of history and we all will be enjoying it all today

A very myopic leader

We did not copy it well hence the need for restructuring. The state needs to be autonomous with their own constitution, supreme court, resource control, electoral commission, tax system, state police.

With these, states would grow at their own pace and rapidly

Zooposki:
Yet you cannot develop on the basis of the so called US you are copying.

Restructuring will be on the basis of state autonomy like the US.

Gowon killed regionalism for good!

Zooposki:
Let’s have a Federal Government, Regional Government and Local Government only. The state governments are are just too useless, agents of massive looting and we don’t feel much of their impact.

Make una rest!!!

Una nor dey tire!

blamingthedevil:
Heartless Obidient Unknowingly Celebrates the Death of LP Lawmaker

My point is lets create a system thats fair to all.

kayperry:
Shutup jare ! remind people abi you are trying to derail the thread into tribalism ...

if what goes around comes around, how does that bypass you ... we are not all visiting the same filling station, buying from the same market, is your own economic different frm tinubu economic

How God take catch us wey you escape

Tinubu, the undisputed heavyweight champion of incompetence and corruption!

You have no point to counter this hard truth

NOETHNICITY:
Shut up

I knew where you were going but asking silly question

NOETHNICITY:
Air peace and all of una na victim mentality people una be

We know una

Sometimes its good to remind people that the rain does not fall on one man's roof alone. What goes around, comes around.

kayperry:
instead of sticking to issues and raise objections you lots prefer to just make meaningless conversation
at end what do you people gain derailing conversations that affect the lives of Nigerians .. maybe they are still feeding you i don't get

Are you new in Nigeria?

Use google jare

NOETHNICITY:
Air peace was complaining about what exactly? Oya tell us

Rubbish record

Gowon divided the regions to prevent Biafra from succeeding. Imagine doing everything to keep the people you hate!

Most Nigerian major policies have been about Igbos!

seanfer:
Can you tell us the events that led to Gowon creating the 12 states?
You're trying to hid the true issues that gave birth to creation of the states by Gowon.
Maybe you should tell us the while scenario and not 1 side story.

I remember when Air Peace boss was lamenting, agbados said if he cannot compete, he should shut up.

Now let's see what they'll say to the lamenting Dangote

Ironsi decree unified the civil service.

Ironsi was killed in July 1966 and Gowon took over. Gowon promulgated decree 14 and 15 which abolished the regions and divided the 4 regions to 12 states. This happened in 1967. Very wide appart.

Again, Ironsi was killed about 40 days after making his decree and could easily have been reverse if Nigeria never wanted it. Its because of Ironsi that Nigeria is still one today

seanfer:
This has nothing to do with the Ironsi's draconian decree. But to curb the excessive abuse of power by state governors.
Are you now accepting the fact that Ironsi truly abolished the regional system government with the introduction of unitary system?

Story for the gods. You guys always celebrate too early.

Thats how you guys were celebrating subsidy removal and floating of the naira....a twin policies that wrecked the economy and damaged Tinubu's illegitimate presidency for good

SmartPolician:
This is the kind of positive things we want happening in this country, irrespective of the brain behind it.

With the legislature proposing one tenure of six years for all executive leaders and federal INEC conducting LGA elections, Tinubu is obviously getting these reforms right.

The next big step should be a bill to restructure the country, make states control their resources and pay 10% taxes to the FG.

I love the speed at which this administration is moving. It shows that Tinubu came prepared.

Tinubu is responsible for 95% of the current hardship. This is a fact!

nairalanda1:
SO, saying that tinubu has not taken steps to make us an industrial nation is defending tinubu?

OL boy, your reasoning is somehow. Politely speaking.

There's a time for gbas gbos, there's a time for civility and decorum.

You don't know how to differentiate these. Now run along.

Paraman:
Firstly, you're a clown.

Chidish excuse upon excuse. Ebonyi is the poverty stricken capital of the south, followed by Enugu state... Your people should change the trajectory of the two states first.

Stop defending Tinubu like we weren't alive when these things happened.

If you're in a hurry to harvest the yam, you'll be the one to bend down to dig up the broken pieces.

Tinubu was in a hurry so did too many reforms at the same time. Non succeeded! By floating the naira in a dollarized economy, he ruined the naira for good

nairalanda1:
The devaluation of the naira arises from the fact that we do not earn enough forex.

The reason for our not earning enough forex is the decision, taken at independence and sustained since then, to make NIgeria a nation that exports raw materials whose prices we do not control, not a nation that exports products of ideas and technologies whose prices we control and can set.

Strong nations export products of technology and innovation. Weak nations export raw materials to the strong nations who turn them into products far more in value than the raw materials, and then sell them to the weak nations at a price that robs us of the forex we make from selling raw materials

Then we take loans at the end.

And the naira keeps falling.


Hence our predicament.