₦airaland Forum

Every bank in Nigeria will give you credit facility based on that turn over. I'm surprised non has asked you yet. However and whatever you do, take your time and scrutinize every damn thing they tell you and every document they present to you. It is not collecting the loan that might be a problem. It is servicing it.

But if you have such volume of money passing through your account, why are you looking for a loan and why should nairaland be where you are posting this inquiry?

Jennyclay:
Biko, Someone should come and take me to U.k, honestly I won’t end the relationship/marriage

You? Jenny? You? 🤣🤣🤣😆😂🤯😆😆😂😂

Borehole come dey claim virgin again? Why are you allowing that girl run you format? Your woman has been dickmatized severally by different men. Once a woman has tasted the D she wants to keep tasting it. No allow anybody use you play. Chop your own then free her for the long line of dicks waiting.

You need to properly format what you just posted. It is not displaying properly

Exmilitant:
I wouldn't feel bad learning about my dad's other family.

i am not emotionally attached to anyone or anything.
i was born that way.

No wonder you were a militant

You are insane and you need mental treatment. Your delusions are pathetic.

Anyone that struggles with giving apologies when they are wrong will give you hell in marriage. You and your potential wife are Africans firstly and moreso, their is a peculiar dynamic that governs marriage that the Bible advises. I understand that you and her are still trying to get to know each other. But you must not on any ground compromise on her willingness to submit to you as her head.

I'm not sure your potential fiancee really wants to be married. She's comfortable in her space. If you have both sought the face of God like you say and then she is still putting up the behavior you narrated above then i don't see the reason why you should continue.

Alcohol! See as you just disgraced yourself.

We don't have enough light and yet we are giving other countries? Madness

Get the man first. Stop putting the cart before the horse.

You now understand why the serpent choose to meet Eve in the garden and not Adam.
The devil knows he and women are the same so he went and met his kind, the woman.

I have nothing else to say.

I am sorry for you. You married into a cursed family. I keep telling young men. The worst thing you can do is to marry into a family that is a coven of wickedness.

Any woman that you know was raised by a single mother or the father ran away from them or even worse, any woman who does not relate with her father's people or even know them, do not marry that woman. I repeat do not marry into that family. That woman will not build your home with you because she didn't grow up in a home and cannot understand the importance of one.

OP doesn't need to say it. I already know the kind of woman he married. Whatever you do OP, do not accept that woman back. Only a woman with the spirit of a wh(o)re can do what she did.

15 years of dating? Did i hear you right? That's to say in the time you spent dating, someone would have gone to medical school and graduated twice!

You and that lady are a waste of time and destiny. Who embarks on a journey with no destination? You waste 15 years of a womans life, countless abortions and whatnot. If that girl opens her mouth and curses you it will follow you.

You see the list above?
Let's engage our brains now. The countries with higher divorce rates, have longer life expectancies. Those with lower divorce rates have shorter life expectancies.

Nigeria really isn't on the list above probably because we keep nebulous records. But whatever official records exist, if tabulated will still put Nigeria among countries with low divorce rates.

Now guess what Nigeria's life expectancy is. We were at 56 years the last time I checked. That was before Buhari Tsunami.

Marriage can make a man live longer. But nothing cuts short a man's life like being married to the wrong woman.

May God help us with our choices in spouse. And for those of us already married but with troubled homes, if divorce is out of the picture, may we find the grace to keep working on our marriages. It is not easy I tell you.

IyaebeTheGreat:
God fearing men with money scarce ehn, as soon as a man has money he begins to misbehave.

Few men mistreat their wives who were there for them when things were not rosy. For a man to become successful and start mistreating his wife or cheating on her, that woman must have disrespected him or maltreated him when he had nothing.

They've shown us the buses. However, charging stations have not been built as at yet.

I celebrate the Lagos State government for this trail blazing move. But if you don't have charging stations yet in place, then what's the point? Except ofcourse Oando has given concrete assurances that they will have them in place soon.

From April 2 to 29, you've spent 130k on women. We Nigerian men are the problem. We conver our inadequacies with money. The women are blinded and they put on their best behavior because the see you can spend. You are also blinded because you can't understand the true motive of the woman.

After the wedding, eyes clear. Then both husband and wife, useless as they are, start bothering us with Lamentations.

Don't spend on no woman that you think is worth settling with. Money ain't everything. Any woman you have plans for the future should also be resourcefully engaged with legitimate income sources.

If it is a fling you want, then pick your spec and enjoy her to the fullest. Pay her off and rest from the baggages of women.

Our women struggle with having dates outside the country because they can't get over the mindset that both parties equally contribute to dates. They expect the man to pay for everything. Little wonder they lament in frustration.

Zonefree:
I support this post with two crates of Heineken beer.

I support with two crates of trophy.

I am the Lord DogAlmighty. Let me make a suggestion to you. Your wife is not around. She will not be for some months. You have an empty house. Should the house stay lonely?

Lo! Behold. Right in your locality are areas where you can access some daughters of Eve. Bring them home and provide them shelter for the night. They will also keep you company. Whatever happens between you people will be added benefit. A man takes advantage of every opportunity. Use this time wisely.

But y said you are not a man. That's your moniker. You wan use us catch cruise.

Another girl dey dis one back wey i no dey see? Because OP mention curves but...

This is the useless entity that couldn't even compete with a dog.

May God help our marraiges of this era. Op, I like the stand you are taking. Do not allow anyone guilt trip you into thinking otherwise. No well brought up woman from a decent family leaves her matrimonial home without the husbands permission and stays away extensively. Only a woman who lacks proper training.
Imagine that you as the husband, because of a disagreement in your home, went and lodged in a hotel for even 3 days. What will society call you? Irresponsible right?

Because of your son, do what you can for your home and your marriage. But if your wife no wan hear, look for another woman outside and start planning introduction with her. Your wife brain go reset. Except if that child you call yours is not yours and your wife has another man outside and her parents know.

Na heineken she dey take na. Dat one na beer?

Chelsea don go relegation be dat. The last 19 games Lampard has been in charge across two clubs, he won 1, Drew 2 and lost 16.
That's the worst record of any coach in England at the moment.

Lampard is a specialist in failure.

With those juggers you got there it will take the grace of God for any man to coordinate himself. Omo see bobi! Madam. Na you dey harass your oga.

How can Nigeria never get anything right? What is wrong with this country? Why are we too dumb? Abike Dabiri is very stupid! In saner climes she'd have been fired longest time. Why should everything in Nigeria be a scandal? Why?

Ordinary Uganda and even useless Somalia evacuated their citizens without a hitch. Nigeria cannot even manage that.

Evestar200:
I bought this one (both pepper) N150

Eh? Quickly locate yourself make thunder fire you sharp sharp. I hate lies

obembet:
Nobody is after your life dear, Chelsea is one of impatient club in the world, they don't understand that manager need time to build a team, but Chelsea fans always expect overnight success.

Give Lampard time, two or three season, let him build standard team and I believe Chelsea wil come back to Thier best.

Give Lampard time please

Why do you hate chelsea so much? We should give lampard time? So that he'll take us to championship? Are you okay?

Trump is not an unknown quality anymore. As past president, he has a record to defend. He knows he cant thats why he is using excuses to back off.

I actually read this. So let me understand. Your potential spouse, a single mother, has had relationships and sexual encounters with over 70 men since her marriage broke down. She is violent, disrespectful, unapologetic and is hell bent on carrying on communication with her supposed exes.
You still want to bring her and her baggage home. You want to cater for her child even when the father is still alive. Meanwhile, you also have your own child. That's two kids already. You may still have more when you marry her. In this economy?

Let me ask OP a question, if a woman has had 70 relationships after the break down of her marraige and none of those men thought her for enough to make a wife, why are you the one cursed to doing so?

Do you not love yourself? Is that how much you hate yourself? She has shown you why her first marriage failed! Yours with her will FAIL TOO!

Do not go ahead and marry this woman. You will regret it.

I hate reading carful concocted narratives. Why didn't she clearly address the issue that a boy she told her husband was her brother, was her son? Why did she sidestep that? No man will take such deception. That is the height of betrayal.