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The ignorance of the black man is what kills him. Simians that are one of the largest reservoirs of some of the most deadly viruses in the world is what you are handling carelessly. Enjoy your meal but also prepare for your death.

Did anyone else read this?


The marketer also pointed out that there had been concerns around logistics, stressing that dealers in Apapa, Lagos, were being forced to pay N100,000 on each tanker to naval men manning checkpoints before being allowed to cross under the bridge at the Navy Dockyard Road to load petroleum products from the depots.

The source added, “Marketers are forced to pay this amount, whether they want to pick from Conoil, Aiteo, MRS, Oando, or whichever. There was a time the downstream regulator came to complain about this to the head of the security agency involved, but he defended his boys and nothing was done to stop it.

This is insanity. The navy setting up illegal check points and the naval chief is in full support.

PrinceOfLagos:
God bless his Excellency and next President of Nigeria Insha Allah, Mr Peter Gregory Obi

This is wrong and a very criminal offense. Why create trouble for yourself?

Your post says a lot but still says nothing. Are you married to this woman? Upon what circumstances did she leave? Do you have evidence this is your son?
If you don't have answers to these questions, forget about it. No court will grant you custody. Certainly not alone.

You say she is unfit. So long as it is not mental, the highest the court can do is grant you joint custody and also make you pay her money for child support.

Which kind rough play be dat?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UpZ26NkcJOs

What killed her?

Go ahead. Nothing to it.

She is far more stupid than i thought.

Shocking isn't it? Some people well beat themselves up thinking that others are succeeding and they are not. You don't know what some people are engaged in. Look at this young girl and how she has just messed herself up. There is no difference between her and any low class prostitute you find on the street. You know a man is married but in exchange for the high Life, you kept sleeping with him. And she's trying to appear as the victim here. Rubbish.

Why won't we? Nigerian women get married and start adding weight like the fat cows of bashan mentioned in the Bible. They'll be tying wrapper from morning till evening. They just simply let themselves go.
Nigerian women are generally lazy when it comes to maintaining their attractiveness. They settle early, stop taking care of themselves and can nag you to death. Our women need to try harder.

You know. ... Maybe you shouldn't have changed your weed supplier. The last weed you smoked clearly messed up your thinking and you are imagining things.

Omahleigh:
May God send a helper your way. In a country where people are suffering and biting their fingers in agony, it's a pity that there are still those people who plan on returning APC to power to continue impoverishing people. Smh...

This person is a scammer. Since June last year, it has been one tale or the other. All fabricated. Save yourself the trouble

Nothing can be done at this point. What you know you can't tolerate in future, never even permit in the present. Outside divorce, the husband needs to manage his home like that.

Lucrativress:
I don't blame you OP
If she had resources of her own from time, you'll respect her and not scare her with those "pack out of my out rants"

Her messages sounds like that of a woman who has bottled up hurts for years, the tone of her text seems like that of a woman you've made to cry.

Don't you trust your wife?
Don't you know if she is capable of cheating on you or not?
Have you ever caught her cheating?

Do you know the meaning of benefits of doubts at all?
When she explained why she didn't pick your calls, why not give her the benefit of doubt?

You are now seeing money, next thing is shouting at flimsy stuffs for her to leave your House

I pity you
You don't like peace of mind, a woman that stayed since 2013, built up and persevered with you, I'm sure there were other men asking her out as at then but she decided to stick with you.

If you follow those saying dump her and stuffs, truth is, you'll never come across someone who loves you internally on a crude emotional level.

That her texts shows you've hurt her, better cry and kneel and beg her to come back, win her back and work on your silly trust issues.

Stop taking out your financial anger on her, learn to be a gentleman..

I think you need to apply for thunder to fire you.

OP. Relax yourself. They always come crawling back. Ignore the initial gra gra she and her family are doing. Bet me, if your wife senses that you are planning to move on, she will rush back and get pregnant.
You ma get skushes for head sha. Anyways, just be calm, don't fret. Your wife thinks there's joy in the streets. She go soon know say nothing dey there.
In the meantime, enjoy your new found freedom. F(u)ck plenty plenty. Reward yourself.

Curious345:
Great

I was close to the airport 3 days ago for about 8 hours.
I witnessed more than 200 incoming flights to the Lagos airport.

195 out of the 200 incoming flights were all AIR PEACE airline.

I HAVE A QUESTION TO ASK IS IT ONLY AIR PEACE OPERATING IN NIGERIA?

Lie small small oga.

Liar! Late senator Mantu was the man OBJ used to push that plot. We all saw the huge ghana must go bags of money that they distributed in the Senate. That plot failed because Atiku and some governors like George Akume of Benue state foiled it. Obj should keep quiet. Enough of the lies.

It is too early in 2023 to be a fool! If you were my son, I'll kill you myself. What rubbish!
I hate weakness!!

Tell her you will have her and anyone who does that abortion for her arrested. But on the other hand, let her abort the baby. Such women are not good to be mothers. You need to cut her off permanently! You are a disgrace to the mother who gave birth to you.

Madam. Are you okay? The master bedroom belongs to both of you. If your husband demands it what is the issue? Why the hell are you guys even sleeping apart in the first place?

What's with this noise nigerian ladies make when they start earning more than their spouses? Total rubbish! That you earn more than your man doesn't change the fact that you still answer to him! You are making small change and now the world should not hear word? Are you Ngozi Okonjo Iweala? With all her success, she still places a premium on her husband.
Where are we getting this kind poorly trained women from? Your husband is not sleeping at home and you are here disturbing us. Madam is your money more than the value of your home? Is it worth more to you than your husband? Is a bedroom worth breaking your home over?
If your man had the money he will do far more for you. That you have the money now doesn't mean you should Lord it over your husband. Frankly, you are pathetic.

You started mounting your wife at 5 weeks? I think you should be stoned. Ewu! Let that woman rest jor.

Hanty is like your network is not connecting. You say your husband is not cheating on you but he is caring and playful with other ladies while ignoring you. And now you want to cheat.
Let me ask you. What is it you lack that your husband is looking for outside? Are you rude, disrespectful, dirty and unkempt? Are you an aggressive woman in your home? So you trouble your husband? Do you attend to his needs? Emotional, cullinary, sexual needs?

oakson:
does it really cost a fortune to mind your business and get busier if need be?

This attitude may be one of the underlying causes of the divorce. You put a post on a public forum and yet you tell people to mind their business?

Just when you thought you've heard it all. Another one happens that shocks your boxers off.

judedwriter:
True true.

Giving only makes you richer. It's a universal law that works for everyone, Christian, moslem or even atheist.

Even several years ago on campus, there was a girl I had a crush on and I kept giving her money though we were just friends.

As I kept giving her, I kept receiving!

Receiving kpekus abi? Thats not how the law of giving and recieving works. Ode!

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

You will just be sharing vawulence in this room. And e be like say you live for nairaland. Every thread you dey there.

Hmmm.

She is broke and yet she won't allow nairalanders hear word.

Me? I have left the venue longest time. I go even dash the pastor my suit.

iLoveYouToo:
Please who else is experiencing issues receiving transfers to their Zenith account, I’m beyond livid

Zenith is the worst bank in Africa. Imagine me recieving alert for money that was paid into my account over 6 days ago today. It almost caused issue between me and my client. I initially felt like client was trying to fool me.
Zenith Bank is worse than useless.

When people are looking forward to cross over without carryover, you have found yourself in a very deep mess.
You lost your job, you got a side chick pregnant and you have a fiancee. O boy, your village people sabi work.
Consider your marraige plans to your fiancee over! Irresponsibility has consequences.

Marraige is a conscious day to day decision. It is not magic, it is not luck. It is a daily choice to choose to remain married. It is not the easiest of things to do. As a matter of fact, marrying and staying married is one of the hardest undertakings in life.
May God help us all!