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Nicepoker:
We are waiting for that particular thread you will be seeking for advice. Pls don't fail to update us concerning the ordeals you are about to pass through from the hands of a Nigerian vagina creature.

onlinestaff2020:
Are you a Jew man or maga that wants to marry out of the blue because you see one small girl wey get small backyard?

I pity you seriously.

You are rushing this small girl because you are 36 and want to please yourself...Guy, that's so selfish...That girl will finish you in due time because she is way smarter than you and she has seen that you are so desperate.

In short, you are a simp and can never be an alpha.

Girl wey never enjoy life out of school, nai you wan colonize.

asuraking:
Wen u suppose to b ha best friend 1st,u go marry ha.lata,u go dey complain of marital issues.truely common sense is not common.

Ehmmah588:
From your write up,you said she's from a poor family Abi??...Oga high standard did it occur to you that she too would have wanted to enter the university but opted for third choice cos of funds??..You said yourself that she's hardworking..Have you asked her how she was able to finish her NCE degree of 4 yrs?? I'm sure if you do you'll discover she alone footed the bills with her teaching job by going for part time studies.....Guy forget that shit of "she's from a poor family" talk. You're an adult so if you're scared of her family demanding from you,clear her now that your cash is yours alone and you can give or choose not to give....

She even be virgin..guy no let me swear for you ooo....marry that girl or you'll share my kinda story of how I lost a good girl

Ebenman:
I meant a lady 3 months ago. After we talked, she began to show interest in me, but she wasn't my standard, so I wasn't feeling the same way.

My standards are:
1. At least she must be a graduate
2. She should be self-sufficient (earning something reasonable)
3. At most 5-6 age difference between us
4. Looking calm and understandable
5. She must be an average-height lady

This lady, in particular, is an NCE holder, working as a teacher, earning little because of her level of education. She is just in her early 20s, and I am almost 8 yrs older than her. She is from a poor background and has 2 other younger siblings. She is also not tall and looks like an average girl.

She is very decent (a virgin) and loyal to me. I have told her severally that she is not my standard and I wasn't interested in her, but she refused to listen and began to feel very insecure. Maybe because I earn well and she knows I will soon get married.

She now comes to my house almost every weekend because I am very accommodating. Recently she has been telling me to delete the pictures of other females friends, in which I asked her on what grounds I should do that.

Note: I don't want to invest in a lady that is not my wife, and I am afraid her family will see me as a rich guy from which her other siblings can benefit if I proceed with her.

Should I block every contact with her, or should I forget about standards and risk and look at the good side?

Please advice


Fes of all, how Old are you @OP. I want to check something.

BigBashiru:
Good luck to u. I hv 700 wives and 500 girlfriends

BigBashiru:
No woman can control my mating choices because i didnt control hers in her prime....no woman owns me....hence i will only marry a female who doesnt want to control my mating choices....

BigBashiru:
The so called "jealousy" is not out of agape love but to protect beta bucks (money)...this so called jealous wife did she not hv her fun b4 getting married?? No woman can prevent me from being with whoever I want to be with....

Henryfour:
Met dis gal at festac 4sundays ago.... roughly a month now, I liked her n told her dt, I would like to date her , I was happy cuz she agreed. she followed me to my house dt DSM day but, no sex n no kissing. After her third time of visiting me , she did not allow me to v sex but , we had romance.. sucking of breast and all dat . She said no sex till marriage, mean while she isn't a vergin . So, the fourth day, sex happened but I discovered dt, her pussy was too wide , I didn't enjoy it. Wen she got home , I called her n informed her dt, her pussy was too wide n she wasn't happy . She blocked me n stopped taking calls. After some days , she picked n I begged her cuz, she is a lovely person. But I dnt know if I can g t married to her. D day I met her, she informed me dt she dated her guy for 6years, I want to believe dt, d long years relationship would v contributed to d wide pussy so, it's not her fault .
Since den , we v not had sex again.
Pls dis gal is young and hard working but, I want advice. Shd I take her serious , since it's obvious dt, her 6years relationship might v led to d pussy been dt wide?
Is always threatening me wit taken my name to her church alter if I shd leave her.....she isn't demanding.....24years old lady

Gabless:
I am 28 years old, a graduate of one of the university in South West. I work as a contract staff in a bank.

I met this guy about a year ago through my best female friend, and the journey started. I took him to my parents and he also took me to his parents too, and the wedding preparation started.

We were suppose to do family introduction but my parents says there is no need considering some logistic reasons. Although my mum has her reservation concerning him. But since my father has no objection I think am good to go.

He has sent money for some preparation since he is not residing in Lagos. The problem started after I went to idumota with my aunt to buy our engagement clothes. It was my aunt that drove me to the market. When we returned, my fiance called me, we talked for some times, but he couldn't appreciate my aunt for her kind gesture. Although my aunt didn't say anything that day but she wasn't happy. My dad also complained that he has been rude to him. The same goes with my mum.

The last straw that broke the Carmels back was when he was arguing with my aunt over the phone. He did not know I was in my aunt's house that particular day. I wasn't happy at all, thinking that if he would not regard my parents how would he treat me after marriage.

So I confronted him the second day over the phone, telling him that I'm not happy about the way my parents where complaining about him, and that attitude of him is creating fear in me. Instead for him to be a little remoseful and even call those people and apologize, he was arguing with me, still in my aunt's house.

So I told him, maybe we should put the preparation on hold thinking he would at least try and apologize to them. He just said, is that what you want and ended the call.

Everyone was surprised. He didn't call back it was his mum that called my mum, she didn't even persuade them to stop me from taking such step, and the guy too didn't call me for like too weeks until when I called him and he said he wasn't interested in the marriage again.

Actually, I wasn't happy and I have been downcasted since then, but on the other hand, May l ask this question does this guy really loves me?. Is he really mature enough for marriage. Is it all my fault? Please don't insult or abuse me. I just want to know if it's all my fault.

RZArecta:
The court should order for a DNA test and be fair in it's judgement