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foolinlove:
It was once classified as a mental illness, but that was removed because there wasn't sufficient evidence to prove it is a mental illness.

Science works on the basis of proving a hypothesis. If the hypothesis is not proven, it does not mean the hypothesis has failed.

Example: scientists cannot prove definitively there is life in outer space. However, that doesn't mean there is no life in outer space. There have been several positive indications that life does exist in outer space, so people continue their research.

If you claim a hypothesis, you have the onus to prove it. All experiments done that hypothesise homosexuality is a mental illness have failed to prove the hypothesis. There has been no positive indication it *is* a mental illness. So research has stopped in all respected scientific communities.

There has been significant research that predominantly suggests homosexuality is a genetic trait. I can explain that more if you'd like.

I'm sure you already know the definition of mental illness. An illness of the mind that causes an inability to function normally.

Homosexuals function normally, their homosexuality does not inherently affect their human function. What does affect homosexuals is society - and those societal expectations can cause homosexual people to develop mental illnesses such as depression and anxiety.

It's really sad. My heart goes out to anyone suffering because of this. You are normal! Just different. Like everyone else.

foolinlove:
Much love to you @iamdurent

I hope you're able to escape the homophobia you live with daily. Its isn't right.

I am Christian, but I don't think homosexuality is wrong. What I think is so wrong is that the government punishes such a natural thing - it's akin to throwing all people with blue eyes in prison.

You seem like a kind soul, and I wish you all the love and luck in the world.

Greene66:
I was walking the street and something just came upon me. The fact that Nigerian men are not lovable. Infact, nigerian men are like 3 year old Japanese boys.

1. They are perverted:- All a nigerian man want from you is sex. Infact they marry for s3X that's why they cheat on their fat wives at home with sexy slim uni students. They can't get enough of that young puss.y

2. They are unromantic:- A nigerian man would rather fvck you on a weekend than take you shopping. Watch them call me a gold digger now. That's their favorite phrase "gold digger" because they are broke niggas. They don't know how to mAke a woman happy. All they know is to buy you something worth N1500 and expect some love in return like they did something big.

3. They don't satisfy women in bed:- They only care about themselves. Some of them would last only 2 mins some 3 mins some even 1 fvcking minute. And just get up and leave forgetting the woman that was below them . Nigerian men are very mean when fvcking. They only care about their satisfaction. It's only a Nigerian man that will tell you "Screaming means you like it" for real? It turns them on when you scream and cry.. who does that? all they care about is that their d!ck nothing else. They molest your breasts and other important areas without even considering if you are enjoying it or not.

4. Nigerian men are broke:- Yesss.. how much is their salary? In this present economy how many of them even have jobs? You see them on the street looking for the lady to fvck because they are jobless and as a result they are broke. Any lady who cannot keep up with their "brokeness" is a gold digger. I hear. But when they are rich they won't talk gold digger. Hypocrites.

5. They are hypocrites:- They complain and call any lady who express her feelings for them a wh0re and a cheap Slut but at the same time, they would still take advantage of that same lady. They would woo you and still go tell their friends how much of a Slut you are when you lay with them.

6. They are cheats:- Nigerian men cheat on their wives more.

7. They are misogynists:- It's only a Nigerian man that would tell his fvcking wife to resign from her place of work simply because they are married. Only a nigerian man would complain that his wife keeps late but nobody complain when he comes back 2am. It's only a nigerian man that would tell you fvcking your gf or wife by force is not rape.

So keep calm and love foreign men!

Disclaimer:- This is not my opinion, its a fvcking FACT! And im not responsible for this post. Yeah go fvck yourself.

RefilweRose:
lol these boys are really know how to irritate someone

AbbieGee1:
lol no be small,one even greets me morning,afternoon,night,happy sunday,HNM.

shaqhead:
A poll was carried out in 2013 in Nigeria on the prevalence of rape by NOI which clearly disagrees with your position

"Furthermore, in view of the debate that often arises about the cause(s) of rape in the society respondents were asked the following: What do you think is the prevalent cause of rape in the society?From the result, the majority ofrespondents (34%) were of theopinion that most prevalent cause of rape in the society is “Indecent dressing”; followed by 18% of respondents that cited “Unemployment”. Also, “Lack of moral values” and the “Inability to control sexual urge” were each cited by 9% ofthe respondents as the prevalent cause of rape. Other reasons mentioned by respondents include “Faulty upbringing” (7%), “Ungodliness”, “Illiteracy aboutwomen rights” and “Bad Company” (all with 5%)."

http://www.noi-polls.com/root/index.php?pid=152&parentid=14&ptid=1

foolinlove:
I'm not ignorant, I'm asking you to expand your thinking.

You assume that men are lunatics who uncontrollably think of only one thing - sex. That no man is capable of thinking anything further than sex when they have a woman in front of them.

I think men are more intelligent than you give credit for. A man grieving for the loss of his child will hardly think of sex all the time. A man who is talking with his mother won't be thinking about having sex with her (I hope).

Furthermore, you also purport that it is a woman's responsibility to control men's thoughts by dressing "modestly" - whatever that means. Do you really think it is possible to control anyone's thoughts?

How do you know that men confronted with a woman dressed in a niqab aren't thinking "I wonder what is under that niqab, if I will want to have sex with her".

Just because *you* think a certain way, doesn't mean everybody else thinks that way. You do not speak for everyone - and you certainly don't have the right to label or influence other people's actions based on your illogical emotive processes.

For my part, I hated all men. But I have come across a couple of lovely men on this forum. My views have changed.

I think maybe you should change your views on gender - that both males and females are human beings. That you can't judge any book by its cover. That women have the right to dress any way they should want without fear of retribution from you or anyone else.

And btw, I will dress any way I please. If it's warm weather, I reserve the right to wear small clothes for my personal comfort. If I'm going out, I reserve the right to dress sexy for my mate (if I ever get one). If I'm ill and staying at home, I reserve the right to wear sweats all day.

I'd be interested to hear what other people think, though...

Dauntless15, domislaz, evegran, withambition, breadmaker, halfricanadian, blackfire... anyone else?

foolinlove:
So if a farmer retires then they can no longer give advice on farming?

Sugarhugs:
And by the way, how do you even run a health blog when you look malnourished, unkept, black looking dirty? Smh, no one's gonna take you or what you say seriously on your goddamn blog if it ain't copy and paste.
I wonder who would ask directions from a mad man.

Fanyogoyogo:
No one gives a shit about the North.
If you think attacking unharmed Yoruba mothers, children and men is your best method of division, so be it.
The Fulanis terrorist committing murder in Enugu are no different from Biafran terrorists attacking the SW.

halfricanadian:
No body snatched a man or will ever once a guys mind is set to do something he goes for it.

Even if a girl is d hottest nd most beautiful girl ever if a guy doesnt like her he wont date her let alone wife her

By d way most wealthy guys are manipulative